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The Parenting Diary: 8 Habits to Start in 2024 to become Unstoppable!

Rebecca Samuel · January 8, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"Kickstart 2024 by incorporating habits into your routine, striking a balance between work, parenting, and personal growth—ensuring you shine in every aspect of your life."

It’s the start of 2024, the start of another working year and also the start of yet another school year. Between juggling new projects at work and your child’s priorities, it will be easy to lose a sense of yourself and your personal goals. Time may be tight, but good habits that are woven into your daily routine will set you up to be both a star parent and a well adjusted individual. Read on to find out more about 8 habits that you can start incorporating into your life in 2024!

1. The morning routine – stretch & strategise

Establish a routine in the morning which involves taking time for yourself. Start with a quick stretch. This can be as simple as neck rolls, toe touches and a few sun salutations. Then take a few minutes to pen down your plans for the day. I personally prefer to use a checklist which I can tick off throughout the day, giving me that desired sense of accomplishment, but you can use any method that works for you. This is a list of major things that you absolutely need to get done – and not every single minor task. Alternatively, you can also make this list the night before, and then take a few minutes to glance through it in the morning to get your game face on.

2. Write down your thoughts before bed

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Writing your thoughts down before bed will improve your quality of sleep. You can look at it as a brain dump of everything that has happened in your life for the day, or you could go a little further and reflect on everything that has happened. If writing takes up time, try using voice typing to get your thoughts down a little faster. Here are some ideas for musings that you can pen down:

Your goals for tomorrow
What you’re grateful for
Negative thoughts and the reasons for them
Reflections on the kids or your partner
Feelings about your job

3. Exercise for at least 30 minutes a day

Some of us have a gym membership and lift weights regularly while also making time to attend a Pilates, Kickboxing or Zumba class on a regular basis. Some of us struggle to just make it through the work day and be back in time to have dinner and conversation with the kids. Try to incorporate exercise into your daily routine by walking or taking the stairs whenever possible. Carve out time to take a walk after dinner or gift yourself a walking pad that can be used while you work. Try your best to get some workouts done throughout the week, be it swimming, jogging or playing badminton with the family. Your older self will thank you for keeping active!

4. Sit in Silence for 10 minutes every day

Our minds are racing with thousands of thoughts all the time, and as parents, we are often multitasking in ways we didn’t know was possible. Sitting quietly for 10 minutes a day and emptying your mind will do wonders for your brain. It will give your racing thoughts a break and teach you how to be present in the moment. If you struggle to do this by yourself, try downloading a meditation app such as Headspace or Calm.

5. Establish a solid sleep schedule

Sleep is essential for reducing stress, your mental health, improving your mood and increasing your efficiency. If you stay up at night worrying or scrolling through your phone, you are not giving yourself the chance to have the best quality of life that you deserve. For deep and good quality sleep, remember to:

Turn off all screens at least 1 hour before bedtime
Do not eat at least 3 hours before bedtime
Ensure that your bedroom is cool and at a conducive temperature for sleep
Use blackout curtains to ensure that light pollution will not disturb your sleep
Do deep breathing and count backwards from 100 to 0. Or count sheep, anything goes!

6. Take a 30 minute walk in nature

If you live in Singapore, chances are that a park connector is fairly nearby. Even if it isn’t, a small park or a quiet tree-lined street will go a long way towards improving your mood. It has been proven that Nature can help get rid of anxiety, increase happiness and infuse calm. Moreover, it might be a great way to get your kids away from their screens and to have that after-school chat. [Read: Connecting with Your Kids: After-School Chats]

7. Read 10 pages a day

Can you barely remember the last time you picked up a book, or were able to concentrate on getting through it? Life gets in the way, and with a busy work schedule and kids, it becomes hard to find time to read entire books. Reading is what helps us develop as individuals and it is also what provides us with knowledge to improve our lives. Instead of attempting to read a book or two a month, try starting out with a mere 10 pages a day. This may eventually lead to more pages and even if it doesn’t, you will definitely get through the entire book at a certain point. Reading will help you increase your focus, knowledge and self-confidence. It will also give you bragging rights when trying to get the kids to read!

8. Drink water with every meal

This may go without saying, but plenty of adults do not drink sufficient water. This interferes with both your physical and mental health, causing greater irritability, impatience and exhaustion. Drink 300 to 500ml of water at every meal and make it a point to finish it before leaving the table. If you find it difficult to remember, try purchasing a water bottle with the exact measurement that you need, and drink from it throughout the day. Again, your older self will thank you for the hydration!

6 Tips for Your Kids to Have a Healthy School Year

Nadya Sharfina · January 5, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"As COVID-19 persists in Singapore, safeguarding our kids' health becomes paramount; take proactive steps with these six tips for a secure and healthy school year."

As COVID-19 continues to spread in Singapore, it’s important to make sure our kids stay healthy. To tackle the problems caused by the pandemic as well as other viral diseases, we’ve got to take action. It’s important to look at key strategies that can help kids stay healthy as they start a new school year in the middle of an ongoing health crisis. Take a look at these six tips to make sure kids stay healthy and safe during the school year.

Teaching Proper Hand Washing

It is critical to teach children how to properly wash their hands. Washing hands with soap for at least 20 seconds is significant because it helps prevent the spread of illness, not only in the classroom but throughout the entire school. Bacteria can quickly spread from one person to another. Teach kids to wash their hands after blowing their nose, going to the bathroom, and before eating. This helps lower the chance of getting sick and passing it on to others.

Make sure your kids always have hand sanitiser on hand, such as at their desks or in their bags. When kids are unable to wash their hands, they should use hand sanitizer before snacks or lunch and after touching shared items such as laptops or pencils. Provide your kids with a box of tissues to keep in their desks or bags. Tell them to sneeze into a tissue if they need to. Washing hands, combined with using hand sanitiser and wearing masks, is our best defence against many illnesses.

Keep the Immune System Strong

While there isn’t a proven way to ‘boost’ the immune system, maintaining good health is key to ensuring that kids’ immune systems work well. Having enough sleep, a balanced diet, stress management, regular exercise, and a focus on handwashing all play a role in reducing the likelihood of children catching colds, flu, or other illnesses.

Vaccination continues to be the most effective method of disease prevention. However, supplements such as elderberry, vitamin C and garlic are often used to aid with immunity support. Of course, you should always consult a doctor before giving your child supplements.

Check on Your Child’s Mental Health

Many kids and teenagers have faced challenges with their mental health, especially in the context of the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic. It is crucial to establish an environment where kids feel at ease discussing their emotions, emphasising that it is perfectly acceptable to express concerns about sensitive issues. Kids often shy away from such discussions due to the fear of judgement, lectures, or punishment. Therefore, assuring them that they can share their thoughts with their parents without the fear of being judged becomes even more vital during these uncertain times.

Monitoring for any behavioural changes indicative of anxiety, depression, or distress is essential, especially given the added stressors associated with the pandemic. Keep an eye out for:

Shifts in their mood, such as increased irritability, sadness, or frequent mood swings.
Changes in sleep patterns or hunger,
An abrupt drop in academic performance
Withdrawal from social activities or isolation from friends and family.
Physical symptoms, such as headaches or stomachaches, that have no obvious medical explanation may be indicators of emotional distress.
A sudden loss of interest in previously enjoyed hobbies may indicate underlying emotional issues.

If there is uncertainty regarding a child’s need for assistance or how to initiate a conversation, seeking guidance from a paediatrician or exploring school-based mental health programs is highly recommended.

Get Good Sleep Habits Going

Ensuring that kids get enough sleep is critical to their health. Lack of sleep has been linked to a variety of problems in kids, including trouble concentrating, obesity, sad thoughts,, and an increased vulnerability to injuries.

Sleep has an impact on academic achievement in addition to physical and emotional well-being. Incorporating stability into their schedules and providing reassurance during times of stress or uncertainty will help them sleep better.

Power Up with a Good Breakfast

A good breakfast is key for boosting kids’ brainpower. Having a nutritious breakfast with sufficient protein, fats and carbs is super important for making kids’ brains work better and keeping theirenergy levels steady throughout the day. Eating breakfast every day has loads of benefits. Kids who make it a habit get more of the good stuff their bodies need and eat less fat and cholesterol. They also get higher amounts of iron, B vitamins, and vitamin D, which are all very important. Check out ‘Smart Food Choices for Kids’ During Exams.’

You can also give nutritious snacks to kids. Choosing options like fruits, vegetables, or whole-grain snacks can provide the energy they need without compromising on nutritional value. Snacking healthily between meals not only keeps hunger at bay but also contributes to maintaining a well-balanced diet.

Stay Home When Sick

Choosing to keep your kids at home when they are sick is a responsible and considerate decision that not only prioritises their health but also safeguards the well-being of others. When you notice the onset of symptoms in your kids, such as a fever, cough, or general malaise, keeping them at home helps prevent the transmission of illness to other students, teachers, and the broader community.

Protecting kids’ health and well-being during the continuing COVID-19 pandemic demands a multifaceted approach. These six tips point out the significance of taking proactive actions to ensure that kids are safe and healthy. Combining these practices with a collaborative commitment to staying informed and following established guidelines will be our best protection against the further spread of COVID-19 in schools and communities.

Preparing for PSLE Throughout the School Year

Nadya Sharfina · January 3, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"Embrace the PSLE journey with strategic planning and best practices; watch your child thrive in their final year of primary school."

Is it PSLE year already? Where has the time gone, you wonder as your child leaves the house in their primary school uniform for their final year. As we approach the PSLE (Primary School Leaving Examination) year, you might want to begin strategic planning for this critical academic challenge. Read on for some best practices and practical ideas that may significantly impact and improve your child’s PSLE preparation.

Get a Head Start

Begin your PSLE preparations early. Start practising with past year papers to see where your child stands, and in order to find out which areas of improvement to concentrate on. Early preparation not only helps your child to do well academically, but it also teaches them discipline and a routine that will come in handy during the exam period.

Adopt general study skills early in the year, in addition to subject-specific preparation. Teach your child how to manage their time effectively, take useful notes, and stay organised. Teach them not to be afraid to ask for help, and to treat learning as an ongoing process rather than a last-minute sprint. Developing these habits early on allows kids to approach education with a well-rounded attitude that lasts throughout the year and extends beyond exams.

Make a Solid Study Plan

A well-organised study plan will serve as a guide while students prepare for the PSLE. It aids in maintaining attention and accountability. Prioritise subjects where your child may need extra assistance while still allowing enough time to revise each subject. Avoid last-minute cramming in favour of a well-balanced method of regular reviewing, consistent practice, and occasional revision. This not only improves memory but also reduces tension, resulting in a more positive attitude toward learning.

Learn how to develop effective goals. To make large study goals more manageable, divide them into smaller activities. Keep track of your child’s progress and recognise little accomplishments along the road. Feeling accomplished encourages kids to continue working on their preparations. Also, ensure that your child participates in the creation of the study plan, tailoring it to their learning style and preferences. This collaborative method empowers your child to cultivate a lifetime passion for learning.

Use Breaks Wisely

Take breaks to do extensive revision across multiple courses. However, it is not only about academics; make time for relaxation and family time as well. A relaxed mind absorbs and retains material more effectively, allowing you to face the PSLE with confidence.

The Pomodoro Technique

Consider incorporating the Pomodoro technique into your child’s study routine. The Pomodoro approach divides your child’s study time into small, focused chunks of 25 minutes each, followed by a 5-minute rest. This systematic technique can improve focus and productivity while reducing burnout and enhancing their study experience. Experiment with various durations to see what works best for your child, and remember to use the breaks to stretch or refresh their mind.

Eat That Frog

The ‘Eat That Frog’ technique can be effective as well, especially when it comes to prioritising and conquering challenging tasks early in the day. This method encourages tackling the most challenging and important tasks first thing. By addressing their most difficult subjects or assignments first, it will set a positive tone for the remainder of the day and help kids to avoid procrastinating.

Embrace Visual Aids

When studying for the PSLE, visual aids are your best friend. Work with your child to create mind maps, graphs, and charts for each subject to help retain complicated knowledge. Making visual representations actively engages the mind in the learning process, allowing students to gain a better comprehension of the content. You can also employ technology, such as apps, to generate interactive visualisations to spice up your child’s study routine. Check out ‘5 Ways to Take Better Notes in Class’. Variety keeps kids engaged and aids in the retention of information. Practice Exam Conditions

Practising test settings is critical for PSLE preparation. To imitate the actual exam setting, schedule timed practice sessions for each subject. This allows kids to become acquainted with the pressure and time limits, boosting their confidence in their talents. During these practice runs, kids will learn to manage their time wisely and devise a strategy for each component of the exam. After each practice, get your child to reflect by considering their performance, finding areas for development, and recognizing their talents. Each practice session becomes a useful learning experience as a result of this reflecting process, sharpening their techniques and increasing their readiness for the actual exam day.

Think Positive

Be aware of the psychological part of PSLE preparation. Spend some time practising positive visualisation. Remind your child of their triumphs on mock exams—what tactics worked well, and how can they apply these skills in the real exams? You can raise their confidence and lessen exam anxiety by getting them to recall their earlier accomplishments. Extend this activity to include picturing the full exam day. Envision a calm and concentrated mindset, good problem-solving, and the joy of confidently completing each segment. Positive imagery cultivates resilience and a proactive approach to adversity.

Balance is Key

While scoring well on tests is vital, maintaining a healthy lifestyle is also essential. Remember to get your child to participate in physical activities and hobbies outside of class. A five-hour study session may appear productive, but a balanced lifestyle will keep them rejuvenated, energised, and better able to concentrate when they hit the books.. Get your kids to collaborate in the creation of their schedules, giving them the ability to control their time and activities. Balancing academics and recreational activities improves study efficiency and mental health. Remember that a healthy mind in a healthy body is the cornerstone for long-term success.

Effective preparation for the PSLE demands a proactive and well-rounded approach. By integrating these elements into the PSLE preparation journey, you can navigate the challenges with confidence and optimise your performance.

How to Set Goals and Achieve Them in the New School Year

Nadya Sharfina · December 28, 2023 · Leave a Comment

“A new school year is a voyage; goals act as our compass, offering direction and purpose, guiding us through challenges, nurturing focus beyond grades, and building resilience for life’s unexpected turns.”

Starting a new school year feels like embarking on a major trip. Creating goals is the way to chart out a milestone map. Goals provide us with a feeling of direction and purpose, ensuring that we are not simply wandering through the school year. Whether it’s studying for exams, developing as a person, or participating in extracurricular activities, goals keep us focused and motivated. It’s not just about obtaining good grades; it’s about developing the ability to deal with whatever life throws at us.

Understanding Goals

Have you wondered what goals mean? People frequently use the word “goal” synonymously with phrases like “dreams” and “expectations.” Dreams can become goals, but they are not the same thing. Dreams, which usually come from our deepest wishes, live in the world of imagination.

Goals and expectations are also not the same thing. Assume you want to achieve at least 3 A1s or more this semester. There are expectations, such as attending all classes, scheduling particular study hours, seeking assistance when needed, and submitting assignments on time. However, let’s face it, expectations don’t always match up with reality.

A goal can be defined as a set result that is envisioned and planned for with a commitment made to achieving it. It is useful to give yourself a deadline in order to ensure that the goal is reached within a finite time period. Goals serve as a guide, guiding us through the difficult areas of life, school, and personal development.

Steps to Help You Set Effective Goals

Setting effective goals demands an organised approach. Here are some thoughtful measures to assist you with this task:

Step 1: Make a Plan

Once you’ve determined your goal, the first step is to develop a precise plan. This plan should detail the things you need to complete and when you need to complete them. For example, if you want to increase your academic performance, it’s important to create a schedule for studying and doing homework.

Step 2: Break Down the Goal

Instead of hurrying, divide your big goal into smaller, more achievable chunks. This not only makes it easier to achieve, but it also keeps you motivated by breaking down your path into manageable steps.

Step 3: Create a Resource List

Achieving goals frequently necessitates the use of tools and resources. Planners, websites, YouTube videos, books, or even movies can all be extremely beneficial.

Here are some excellent motivational books and films to get you started:

The Magic of Thinking Big, by David J. Schwartz: This book emphasises the importance of cultivating a positive mindset, setting ambitious goals, and taking action to turn those goals into reality. It encourages readers to believe in their abilities, overcome fear and procrastination, and develop habits that contribute to success.
How to Calm Your Mind, by Chris Bailey: This book assists readers in being more productive during stressful situations. Author Chris Bailey, who personally experienced stress, burnout, and fatigue, discusses how finding calm and reducing mental load may lead to a more fulfilling existence. His book can help people become more involved and focused.
The Blind Side (2009): The film emphasizes the theme of nurturing and support in helping someone achieve their goals. It showcases the transformative journey of Michael Oher, who goes from being homeless and struggling to finding success as a skilled football player.
The Swimmers (2022): It’s a biographical drama movie about two young sisters who fled their home country of Syria in 2015 when their house was destroyed during the civil war. Their goal was to compete in two swimming events at the Rio Olympics as part of the Refugee Olympic team. This story will inspire you to set goals and to see them through despite the setbacks that you face.

Step 4: Make Some Ground Rules

Setting some ground rules for yourself is necessary for staying focused. These principles serve as guidelines, ensuring that you stay on course and avoid distractions. Creating and sticking to personal guidelines is critical to achieving your goal.

Consider creating a Time Management Rule to ensure productivity by allocating certain time slots for study sessions and minimising breaks. Another important rule is the Technology Distraction Rule, which advises you to keep electronic gadgets on mute and to set up specific times to check messages to avoid continual interruptions. A Task Prioritization Rule, which entails creating daily or weekly to-do lists that highlight critical tasks and priorities, can also be effective. By following these ground rules, you can enhance your ability to focus and increase your chances of achieving your goals.

Step 5: Stay Motivated

It is critical to maintain motivation during the challenging process of reaching a goal. Achieving success on a specific test, for example, can be one of these small victories in an academic context. Don’t be quick to give up if you receive a low score on exams or assignments. You can feel sad or engage in activities to heal yourself but don’t linger too long. Time passes quickly, and you have many things to do if you want to achieve your goals.

Step 6: Set Up a Deadline

When you set a specific endpoint for achieving your objective, it helps you stay organised and feel a sense of urgency. Knowing that there is a visible finish line inspires you to keep working hard and keeps you inspired throughout the road. A deadline can help you put your objective into a more planned and attainable strategy, making the path to accomplishment clearer and more doable.

Step 7: Track Progress

Checking your progress regularly is critical in the goal-setting process. This entails establishing milestones, or points at which you can see how far you’ve progressed. Setting a goal for a specific grade on an upcoming test, for example, can be a way to measure your progress if you want to improve academically.

Why Setting Goals is Important for You

Reason 1: Goals Maintain Your Progress

Having goals is similar to having a road map for our dreams. They assist us in determining where we are headed and why. It’s like a small push that keeps us motivated and focused so we can always make progress, whether in school or in other areas of our lives.

Reason 2: Goals Conquer Big Challenges.

We all have big dreams, don’t we? They can appear difficult at times, like ascending a massive mountain. However, goals are like breaking down a large mountain into smaller slopes. It makes things less frightening and allows us to enjoy each stride we take. It’s not about doing everything all at once; it’s about conquering little by little.

Reason 3: Goals Promote Accountability

Goals hold us accountable for our actions. We are more likely to stay on track when we set goals with concrete plans. It’s similar to assuring ourselves that we’ll get things done. This teaches us excellent habits and how to manage our time and decisions.

Goals motivate you to strive for excellence.

Reason 4: Goals Challenge You

They’re like a friendly competition with ourselves. We are inspired to accomplish better when we aim high. It’s not only about grades; it’s about becoming a better person, stretching our limits, and feeling satisfied with what we can do.

Reason 5: Goals Prepare You for Adulthood

Setting goals is a valuable ability to have as you grow older. It is for life, not only for school. When we learn how to develop and achieve goals, we are preparing for adulthood. It prepares us to face obstacles, make wise decisions, and succeed in whatever we choose to do next. It’s like our future secret weapon.

In conclusion, setting goals is a smart and strategic process. By planning carefully, breaking goals into doable steps, using resources wisely, setting personal rules, staying motivated, adding deadlines, and regularly checking progress, we can work towards success. Whether it’s improving grades or pursuing a different goal, these phases provide us with a road map to follow. As we use these ideas, we not only increase our chances of success but also develop talents that will benefit us in many aspects of our lives. Remember that while obtaining a goal is essential, so is the journey, and understanding how to create objectives is a skill that will serve us well throughout our lives.

Things to Remember for the First Day of School

Nadya Sharfina · December 26, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"Coming back to school after a relaxed holiday is more than a return to routine—it's a shift from vacation mode to academic focus."

As a returning student, starting a new school year entails more than just moving up a grade. It is a journey of confronting new obstacles and growing. Transitioning from a peaceful holiday vacation to an organised school routine requires preparation. This article will provide you and your kid with guidelines for an outstanding school year.

1. Catch Up on Assignments

As the holiday season comes to an end, help your kid catch up on any missed assignments. Create a plan for completing these tasks so that they can enter the new school year with confidence and having fulfilled all academic responsibilities.

Set up an isolated study room or nook at home for your kid to concentrate on their homework. Create a schedule that incorporates breaks and rewards to make the task a bit easier and more productive. By turning catching up on assignments into an excellent and collaborative activity, you set the tone for a proactive attitude towards learning.

2. Open Communication About Feelings

Begin an open and supportive discussion about your kid’s feelings regarding the upcoming school year. Discuss their hopes, interests, and potential concerns. Dive further into their feelings by asking specific questions about areas of school life that may be generating concern. Address any worries kids may have, such as the potential of bullying, difficult subjects, or teachers who may not understand them. Assure them that if circumstances like these happen, they can always talk to you, emphasising your availability as a supporting ally.

Tailor your comfort and counsel to their requirements, building a sense of stability that will accompany them as they navigate the social and academic obstacles of the new grade.

3. Establish a Morning Routine

Help your kid develop a morning routine that goes beyond the basics. Encourage self-care activities like mindful moments or short exercises, and emphasise the importance of consuming a nutritious breakfast. If you’re looking for the best ideas for healthy food that your kids will love, check out ‘Smart Food Choices for Kids During Exams.’ Get them to organise their uniform and school supplies the night before to ensure a smooth start every day.

Discuss the value of having a morning routine in creating a happy mentality and being prepared for the day ahead. Instil the importance of consistency, self-discipline, and life skills that extend beyond the classroom.

4. Back-to-School Shopping

Explore the world of back-to-school shopping with your kid. Turn the seemingly boring task of purchasing school supplies into a pleasurable ritual. Allow your kid to express their style and preferences when selecting school supplies; cute notebooks and stationery can add a boost to note-taking during learning. Additionally, consider buying them new shoes, a backpack, or a lunch box. This annual tradition can be exciting because it marks the start of a new school adventure.

5. Plan for Transportation

Discuss your kid’s transportation options, whether it’s getting a bus pass or arranging drop-off plans. Make the trip to the bus station or drop-off location a known and comfortable part of their routine. Communicate security protocols and guidelines with them to ensure they are confident and prepared for their daily travel.

Remind them to text you whenever they have a study group or just hang out with friends after school so that they may come home late. This will teach them responsible communication, trust, and transparency.

6. Encourage a Passion Project

Enhance your kid’s school experience by encouraging them to work on a passion project throughout the year. Whether it’s their hobbies, something they enjoy doing creatively, an extracurricular activity, or a personal goal, devoting time to their interests outside of the classroom aids with a well-rounded and happy educational journey.

Work with your kid to find their interest and develop a plan to pursue it. This ongoing effort serves as a source of inspiration, instilling a sense of purpose and accomplishment that transcends school accomplishments.

7. Set Goals for Your Kid

Encourage your kid to develop reasonable and attainable goals as the school year begins. Collaborate with them to write these goals down in a special journal or planner.

Take it a step further by making an achievement goal board together. This can be a visual representation of what they want to achieve and this board can act as a continual reminder and motivation. Encourage your kid to set goals related to character development, time management, or extracurricular activities. This holistic approach guarantees that your kid focuses on their whole growth and well-being, producing a balanced and enriching experience.

In conclusion, as you work through these steps with your kid, you are not only preparing for the first day of school, but also building the framework for a year full of development, discovery, and memorable moments. Approach this voyage with curiosity, enthusiasm, and the assurance that comes from thoughtful preparation.

Christmas Gift Ideas 2023 Edition

Nadya Sharfina · December 19, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"The beauty Christmas gift is not just in the box but in the sentimental it unlocks."

Christmas vibes are everywhere, making this period of time feel magical. While we’re busy with holiday preparation, finding just the right gifts for our favourite people can be a little challenging at times. This article spells out some easy to find Christmas gift ideas that work for everyone. Let’s check out some thoughtful presents, making this holiday season full of warmth, love, and joy.

Gifts for Men

Portable Espresso Machine

Portable espresso machines are made for on-the-go use and can be used anywhere, like at work, while camping, or on road trips. They’re great for guys who are always moving around and want a good espresso wherever they are. These machines are small and simple to use, providing a handy way to have a fresh espresso without needing electricity. Men who like things easy and efficient will like how simple it is to use a portable espresso machine. Even though they’re small, many of these machines are designed to make high-quality coffee with a rich flavour and a good crema. This can be attractive to men who enjoy a good cup of coffee and want a fancy experience even when they’re not at home.

Check out the WACACO portable espresso machine. It’s really easy – just add water and coffee grounds, press the button, and there you go, your coffee is ready!

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Screen Amplifier

If he’s into football and movies, consider getting him a Screen Amplifier – it’s a great pick. The bigger screen helps reduce eye strain and tiredness from squinting or staring at small screens for a long time. This is helpful for guys who use their smartphones a lot for work or entertainment. Screen amplifiers are also perfect for sharing stuff with others, so they’re awesome for social situations or when watching videos with friends and family.

You can check out the Smartphone Screen Amplifier – it makes their phone screen four times bigger! Just unfold the lightweight screen amplifier, put the phone behind it, and hit play. It comes in different sizes, from 12 inches to 18 inches.

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Apple AirPods Max

AirPods are a go-to choice for guys who love listening to music or podcasts. With their cord-free design, these wireless wonders make physical activities a breeze, giving a more comfy and hassle-free experience.

Whether he’s working, chilling, or on the move, AirPods can do it all. They’re great for taking calls, joining virtual meetings, enjoying music, and more – a versatile and practical gift.

Consider gifting him the Apple AirPods Max for a stylish audio experience. Available in five colours. Loaded with features like Active Noise Cancellation, ultra-low distortion, and booming bass, the listening experience is top-notch.

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Gifts for Women

Cute Ceramics & Tableware

Adorable ceramics often sport delightful and visually appealing designs. The charming look of these items can level up the dining experience, adding a dash of style and beauty to the table. There’s a whole range of cute ceramics out there, including mugs, plates, bowls, and more. This variety lets you put together a collection that works for different occasions, from laid-back breakfasts to fancy dinners. The pleasure of using tableware that’s easy on the eyes can make the dining experience more enjoyable.

You can take a look at Bowerbird Ceramics for some stunning vases and other home goodies. They’ve got hand-painted pieces that are just right for Christmas gifts.

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Polaroid Camera

A Polaroid camera brings a unique perk with its ability to generate instant prints. These Polaroid prints aren’t just quick memories; they’re versatile for creative and decorative uses. Whether displayed on walls, tucked into scrapbooks, or integrated into personalised art projects, they add a personalised touch to living spaces.

Check out this Polaroid camera. It comes with five lens filters to capture various vibes, and the coolest part is, it can connect to an app on your phone.

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Sephora Beauty Gift Sets/Cards

Makeup gift sets are a fabulous choice, typically including a range of products like lipstick, eyeshadow, blush, and more. This diverse selection lets women play around with various looks, offering options for everyday wear as well as special occasions. Some sets are curated to create a complete makeup look, with products that complement each other, making it easier for women to achieve a coordinated and polished appearance.

The holiday Sephora gift sets are tempting for women, not just because of their beautiful packaging (perfect for gifting) but also for the incredible value they offer. Some sets even feature full-sized products at a fraction of the regular price.

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Gifts for Kids of All Ages

Bike or Balance Bike

Riding a bike is a super fun and effective way for kids to get moving and stay active. It helps them develop important physical skills. Balance bikes take the spotlight in helping children learn balance skills. Riding a bike involves using a bunch of motor skills, like pedalling, steering, and braking. All of these actions help kids develop motor skills.

If your little one is aged 4 and above, consider a balance bike, like one from Little Shop. It’s a fantastic way to get them started on the joy of biking!

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Card and Board Games

Card and board games offer more than just entertainment; they’re a fantastic way for kids to boost their thinking skills: strategic thinking, problem-solving, critical thinking, memory, and concentration all come into play when kids engage in these games.

These games become a source of enjoyable, low-stakes family bonding. Gathering around a table, sharing laughs, and creating lasting memories through the shared experience of playing games is a delightful way for families to connect.

If you’re looking for a small yet exciting stocking stuffer for kids aged 6 and above, consider games like Monopoly, Do You Really Know Your Family, Ticket to Ride, Tetris and Scrabble. They’re the perfect size to slip into that Christmas stocking for some festive fun.

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Nintendo Switch

Parents of kids aged 8 and above, the Nintendo Switch is likely to be on their Christmas wish list. The Nintendo Switch allows for multiplayer gaming, providing enjoyable family time.

If you’re considering game additions, some top picks include A Boy and His Blob, Animal Crossing, Crash Bandicoot 4, New Pokemon Snap, Mario Party Superstars, Mario Kart, Luigi’s Mansion 3, and Summer in Mara – these games are sure to be a hit with the gaming crowd!

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Gifts for Helper

Flights Home

Gifting a flight ticket home to a helper is both meaningful and practical, offering a range of benefits that contribute to their well-being and happiness. For many helpers working abroad, being away from their families poses emotional challenges.

These positive experiences can have a significant impact on their overall mental and emotional well-being. Living in a foreign country often triggers homesickness, and a flight home provides helpers with the chance to return to familiar surroundings, offering a much-needed break and helping alleviate homesickness. This thoughtful gift goes beyond the material, addressing the emotional needs of the helper and enhancing their quality of life.

Cash Bonus

Helpers may have various financial responsibilities, such as supporting their families, paying bills, or managing personal expenses. A cash bonus can provide much-needed financial relief. A cash bonus is a tangible way to recognize and appreciate the hard work and dedication of a helper. It serves as a direct acknowledgement of their contributions to the household or workplace. Your helper will surely appreciate some extra cash, especially if they can send it to their family back home in case they can’t visit them. Giving cash along with a thoughtful card and maybe some flowers or a box of chocolates is always a nice gesture.

3. Skin & Body Care Sets

A skin and body care set is a thoughtful gift, usually containing items like lotions and body wash. This collection encourages the helper to carve out time for themselves, fostering a sense of well-being and stress relief.

A notable brand like Bath & Body Works is an excellent choice due to its vibrant, festive packaging and delightful-smelling bath products.

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All about Co-Curricular Activities: How to Choose the Right CCA for Your Kids

Nadya Sharfina · December 14, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"CCAs empower students to explore their passions, build character, and foster inclusive communities that transcend academic boundaries, shaping resilient individuals equipped for future challenges."

Co-Curricular Activities (CCAs) go beyond mere extracurricular pursuits; they are essential elements in moulding individuals into well-rounded and socially adept beings. This page seeks to serve as an informative guide for parents navigating the realm of CCAs for their kids entering Secondary School.

In this article, we will delve into the significance of CCAs, guide you in selecting the most suitable activity for your children, and offer advice for situations where they may not have a clear preference yet.

1. Understanding CCAs

CCAs are activities that encourage students to discover their passions and talents. Aside from that, CCAs provide a conducive setting for character development, teaching values, cultivating social-emotional competencies, and providing students with critical skills that will be invaluable in handling challenges in the future.

CCAs are inclusive spaces that bring students from various backgrounds together and are a prominent venue for developing solidarity among students from all origins and academic abilities. It becomes a place where they can form friendships, play, and learn from one another, providing vital possibilities for socialising, and also deepening students’ sense of belonging to both the school and the larger community.

Students in most secondary schools are presented with a choice of four distinct CCA groups, namely:

Clubs and Societies
Physical Sports
Uniformed Groups
Visual and Performing Arts

On occasion with the permission of the school, students can also establish activities that allow them to explore hobbies or concepts that are not currently represented in existing CCAs. These projects also broaden the range of activities offered at their school, resulting in a more diversified and engaging co-curricular experience.

2. Why CCAs Matter and When to Start

The Ministry of Education (MOE) emphasises the importance of Co-Curricular Activities (CCA) as an essential component of a student’s educational experience. At times, parents may become overly focused on academia and exams. Students frequently discover their interests and abilities while participating in CCAs. This engagement not only reveals hidden potential but also fosters critical skills and competencies.

CCA involvement in primary schools is often initiated in Primary 3. This early introduction establishes the groundwork for overall development.

Moving on to secondary schools, CCA participation becomes mandatory beginning in Secondary 1. Students are expected to participate in at least one CCA, with many choosing to participate in a second CCA. This not only broadens their skill set but also improves their overall educational experience.

3. Choosing the Right CCA in Secondary School

Choosing a CCA in secondary school is a fun time for children to explore their interests, whether it’s sports, clubs, groups, or arts. CCAs can teach them things they won’t learn in class. How can you help your children pick the right one? Here are some tips:

Reflect on interests and goals: Identify your child’s passions and align them with suitable CCAs.
Manage time and commitments: Consider the time demands of CCAs and align them with your child’s schedule and other commitments.
Research options: Explore various CCAs either through resources online or from the school to make informed choices.
Encourage trying new things: Embrace the opportunity to step out of your child’s comfort zone, and potentially discover new interests.
Promote Personal Growth: Focus on CCAs that will contribute to your child’s personal development.
Flexibility in Choices: If the chosen CCA doesn’t align with your child’s expectations, encourage exploration of other meaningful activities.

4. What to Do When You Can’t Decide

If your child hasn’t identified a particular ability or passion, and you as a parent haven’t indicated an interest, it’s a good idea to do some preliminary research.

Open House events or co-curricular activity (CCA) showcases and fairs are common at most secondary schools. Students, joined by their parents and siblings, acquire insights into the dynamics of each CCA group at these events. They can participate in a variety of events, and both senior CCA members and faculty advisors are on hand to answer any questions.

It is also important to note that these events are critical opportunities for CCA organisations to actively find and cultivate talent. As a result, if your child’s school extends an invitation to one of these meetings, you should make time in your calendar to attend.

In summary, CCAs are crucial for shaping well-rounded individuals by fostering passion and life skills. This guide helps parents navigate CCAs for Secondary School, emphasizing inclusivity, social development, and a sense of belonging. The article covers understanding CCAs, their importance, and tips for choosing the right activity. It highlights diverse options and advises on early initiation. For indecisive parents and students, attending school events like Open Houses is key to exploring possibilities. In actively participating, parents contribute to their child’s holistic development, ensuring a fulfilling secondary school experience.

How to Select a Secondary School: Sec 1 Posting

Rebecca Samuel · November 21, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"Selecting the right Secondary School is not just a choice; it's a pivotal decision shaping the path for the next four to five years of a student's journey."

Going to Secondary 1 is an important milestone in a student’s educational journey. Choosing an appropriate Secondary School truly makes a difference as it determines the course of the next four to five years of their lives. The Secondary One Posting Process may seem complex, but not to worry, we have broken it down for you step by step.

Starting from the the 2023 Primary 6 cohort, students will be posted through Posting Groups 1, 2 and 3 under the Full Subject-Based Banding (Full SBB). This allows them greater flexibility to offer subjects at appropriate subject levels. (To understand more about SBB, check out our article here: No More Boredom! Thanks to Subject Based Banding)

After receiving PSLE results, you and your child will have to shortlist the secondary schools and submit the school choices to MOE within 7 calendar days. The Secondary One posting process will then take place. Download the booklet below for a step by step process on how to pick your school of choice!

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Connecting with Your Kids: After-School Chats

Nadya Sharfina · October 31, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"The foundation of effective parenting lies in after-school interactions."

After-school conversations between parents and children play a pivotal role in a child’s overall development and well-being. These interactions are more than just a part of the routine; they are the foundation of effective parenting. Here are some of the reasons why after-school chats are necessary:

Creating the Right Environment

After a long day at school, children frequently require a relaxing environment in which they can be themselves and talk. Ensure that your children feel at ease at home. Make sure your child has a comfortable place to sit, and consider providing food or refreshments if they are hungry. Being comfy helps them feel relaxed. When your child returns home, show that you care about how their day went by giving them your full attention. Put away distractions like phones, laptops, or household chores. Make eye contact, smile, and offer a warm greeting to let your child know you’re focused on them.

It helps that you choose the best moment to speak with your child after school. Each child is unique; some may want to communicate right away, while others may require some time to unwind. Pay attention to what your child prefers. Start talking with them when you pick them up from school or around snack time. Having healthy food together and sitting down might make discussion more comfortable and relaxed.

The Power of Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions serve as a valuable communication tool, enabling deeper and more significant dialogues. Unlike closed-ended questions, which can be easily answered with a simple “yes” or “no,” open-ended questions encourage your child to share their thoughts, feelings, and experiences in a thorough and detailed manner. These questions create a welcoming space for conversation and motivate your child to express themselves openly. By using open-ended questions, you demonstrate your active listening skills and a genuine interest in your child’s perspective. This practice can enhance the parent-child connection and foster the development of trust.

Here are a few examples of open-ended questions that you can utilize to initiate meaningful discussions with your child after their school day:

What was the most interesting thing you learned today?
What’s something new you discovered today that you didn’t know before?
Is there anything that happened today that you’d like to talk about or share with me?
What challenges or problems did you encounter today, and how did you handle them?
If you could change one thing about your day today, what would it be?
What are your thoughts on a current event, a book they’re reading, or a subject they’re studying]?
Who did you spend time with during lunch or recess today? What did you talk about?
If one of your friends could be the teacher for the day, who would you want it to be?
What’s your teacher’s most important rule, and did anyone break it today?
What was your least favourite part of the day?

The Role of Routine

Consistency in your after-school interactions with your child plays a crucial role in their development and well-being. This consistency often stems from establishing routines that create a sense of stability and predictability in your child’s life. Routines act like a comforting framework for children. Because children can rely on a regular pattern for stability, knowing what to expect after school helps reduce their anxiety and provides them a sense of emotional security.

When you keep up with routines, like having planned chats with your child after school, it naturally creates chances for talking and bonding. Your child knows that there’s a set time every day for sharing and getting closer. These routines ensure that you schedule special quality time to engage with your child on a regular basis. This consistency enhances your bond and highlights how important they are in your life. Consistency isn’t just about sticking to a daily routine; it’s also about staying connected with your children as they grow and face new challenges.

Your child’s needs and interests will change as they grow older. It’s crucial to adjust your routines and how you communicate to match their different stages of development and changing preferences. Encourage open-ended conversations about their goals, dreams, and ambitions. Be a source of guidance and encouragement as they progress through adolescence. Always listen to your child with empathy and understanding, being someone they can trust and confide in when they experience both happiness and difficulties.

Smart Food Choices for Kids’ During Exams

Nadya Sharfina · September 19, 2023 · Leave a Comment

“Healthy eating is a way of life, so it’s important to establish routines that are simple, realistically, and ultimately livable.” – Horace

During exams, what students eat can impact how well they do, how focused they are, and how they feel overall. From the moment they wake up until they go to bed, every meal or snack is an opportunity to improve cognitive abilities and maintain proper energy levels.

This article delves into making smart food choices. It examines healthy options for breakfast, lunch, dinner, and various snack times. If parents include these healthy eating ideas in their children’s daily routine, they can help their kids get ready for exams and do well in school.

Breakfast: Starting the Day Right for Better Focus

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The well-known saying, “Breakfast is the most important meal of the day,” rings true and holds significant value, particularly when getting ready for exams. As children prepare for long study hours and difficult tests, starting their day with a healthy breakfast gives them the groundwork for improved focus and brain performance.

Breakfast plays a critical function in refuelling the body’s energy stores after a night of fasting. Without a proper breakfast, children may begin their day with low energy levels, making it difficult to focus on and absorb knowledge.

Breakfast ideas:

Oatmeal: A bowl of oatmeal topped with berries, nuts, and a little drizzle of honey: your children are getting a mix of good stuff like fibre, antioxidants, vitamins and minerals.
Eggs and Whole-Grain Toast: Combining scrambled or boiled eggs with whole-grain toast will provide your children with high-quality protein and energy that will last.
Fruit Smoothies: Blending bananas, berries, and even spinach with yoghurt or milk is a nutritious drink that’s easy on the stomach.
Peanut Butter and Banana Sandwich: For an easy, tasty, and quick meal, all you need to do is slather peanut butter onto whole-grain bread and layer on slices of banana. Both bananas and peanut butter contain nutrients that support bone health.

Avoiding breakfast mistakes:

Sugary Cereals: Sugary cereals that are highly processed might produce energy dumps and affect focus. Choose whole-grain products with lower sugar content.
Overloading on Caffeine: Relying only on coffee without enough healthy food might result in headaches and energy crashes.
Skipping Breakfast: Skipping breakfast may result in poor concentration, irritation, and overeating later in the day which may lead to energy slumps.

Lunch: Brain-Fueling Midday Meals to Enhance Exam Performance

During the intense focus of exam preparation, nourishing your body with the right lunch can make a significant difference in your cognitive performance. When it comes to lunch during exam periods, prioritise whole, nutrient-dense foods that provide sustained energy and support cognitive function.

Lunch ideas:

Salmon and Quinoa Salad: A composition of grilled salmon, quinoa, mixed greens, cherry tomatoes, cucumbers, and slices of avocado, drizzled with olive oil and lemon juice. This meal contains a variety of nutrients such as omega-3 fatty acids, protein, complex carbs and healthy fats.
BBQ Chicken Sweet Potato Bowl: This dish brings together both protein and dietary fibre. It combines the roasted sweetness of potatoes with the savoury flavours of BBQ chicken, black beans, corn, and a light sprinkle of cheese.
Veggie and Tofu Stir-Fry: A tasty stir-fry made with tofu or tempeh and a variety of veggies such as bok choy, snow peas, carrots, and mushrooms. This combination is frequently served over brown rice.

Avoiding lunch mistakes:

Heavy, Greasy Foods: It is best to avoid foods high in saturated fats or those that have been deep-fried. Consuming such foods may cause symptoms of sluggishness and a decrease in cognitive function.
Overeating: While portion sizes are important, preventing the habit of overeating is equally important. Consuming too much can cause feelings of tiredness and reduce the ability to focus.

Snack: Nourishing the Mind Between Study Sessions

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Strategic snacking plays a role in boosting brain efficiency during exam preparation. You can choose snacks with healthy ingredients for your kids.

Snack ideas:

Fresh Fruit: Apples, bananas, and berries are packed with natural sugars and vitamins for an instant energy boost.
Vegetable Sticks with Hummus: Crunchy veggies paired with hummus supply fibre, vitamins, and a touch of protein.
Dark Chocolate with Nuts: A small serving of dark chocolate alongside nuts offers a dose of antioxidants and healthy fats.

Avoiding snack mistakes:

Salty Snacks: Be cautious with packaged snacks which are high in salt. Too much of these can lead to feeling bloated and may not be the best for your health.
Mindless Munching: Snacking while distracted can lead to overeating. Take breaks and focus on enjoying your snack mindfully.

Dinner: Evening Meals and Getting Rest for Better Brain Performance

Choosing a well-rounded dinner that corresponds to children’s exam plans can make a difference. It helps to set the tone for productive and focused study time in the evenings. It’s best to choose foods that are high in nutrients and provide a consistent flow of energy without making them feel bloated. When children make suitable dinner choices, they are creating the opportunity for highly effective study sessions, and as a result, they will wake up feeling refreshed and prepared to tackle their exams.

Dinner ideas:

Quinoa Stuffed Bell Peppers: Take bell peppers, scoop out the insides, and stuff them with cooked quinoa, lean ground beef or turkey, black beans, corn, and a sprinkle of cheese. The mixture is then cooked to a warm golden. This dish contains protein, fibre, and nutrients.
Chicken and Avocado Salad Wrap: Grilled chicken, avocado slices, mixed greens, shredded carrots, and a light vinaigrette wrapped in a whole-grain wrap. This meal is rich in protein, healthy fats, and vitamins.
Tuna and Whole-Grain Pasta: Mix whole-grain pasta with canned tuna, cherry tomatoes, cucumbers, olives, and a simple olive oil and lemon dressing. This taste combination offers protein, complex carbs, and healthy fats.

Avoiding dinner mistakes:

High-Sugar Desserts: Sugary treats should be avoided because they might induce energy spikes and crashes, impairing the ability to focus or get a good night’s sleep.
Spicy Foods: While some people tolerate spicy foods, others may experience discomfort or stomach issues on the morning of an exam.
Caffeine: Avoid consuming caffeinated drinks close to bedtime because they can disrupt sleep.

Healthy eating habits are important for children since they affect not only their school activities but also the things they do outside. It’s also important to remember to stay hydrated. The link between hydration and brain function is complex and substantial, showing how optimal hydration influences cognitive performance and memory abilities. Dehydration, on the other hand, can cause difficulty with focus, lower cognitive processing speed, and weakened short-term memory.

How to Handle Your Child’s Bad Reports

Nadya Sharfina · August 9, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"Handle your child's weak reports by listening, learning, and collaborating."

Receiving bad reports from your child’s school about their grades can be disappointing and cause concern for any parent. However, maintaining a proactive mindset and actively seeking practical solutions is important to support your child’s academic progress. In this article, we will provide five valuable tips on what to do if you receive negative reports about your child’s grades.

1. Be Prepared Before Receiving the Report

As parents, it is important to actively stay engaged and have open discussions about your child’s academic progress each year. By regularly talking about their performance before their reports are given out, you can gain valuable insights into any subjects or areas where your child may be facing difficulties.

Taking this proactive strategy allows you to intervene early and provide the required assistance to keep their grades from falling towards the end of the year. By staying informed and actively participating in these discussions, you create a nurturing environment that encourages your child to openly express their concerns, which leads to collaboration, problem-solving, and academic improvement.

2. Offer Support, Not Anger

It’s totally normal to feel frustrated when your child’s grades aren’t up to par. But it’s also important not to let your anger take control. Getting angry can create a bad vibe and make your child hesitant to talk about their academic struggles. It’s all about approaching the situation with a calm and supportive attitude.

If you find it hard to respond positively and supportively in the heat of the moment, it’s better to step back. Just let your child know that you’ve noticed their grades and that you’ll talk about it later. This approach allows you and your child to cool down and gather your thoughts before engaging in a constructive conversation.

3. Foster Open Communication

When you receive a less-than-ideal grade or report card, try to delve into the reasons behind it. Take the time to investigate and discover what might be causing the issue. “Is there anything going on at school or at home that is having an effect on your performance? Have you given yourself enough time to study? Do you find some subjects difficult, and if so, why?”

Consider whether any other variables may be affecting your child’s grades. For example, you can ask them whether they have ever failed to complete their homework or projects, forgotten to get a necessary signature on an assignment or if they have been overly focused on socializing with friends rather than studying. Being mindful of these factors when analyzing their overall grades plays a crucial role.

Remember to avoid dominating your position during the conversation. By attentively listening, you establish a safe space in which you can openly identify the variables that are contributing to your child’s problem. Together, you can work as a team to brainstorm solutions and create a plan of action to address the issues you are encountering.

4. Reach Out to the Teacher

When your child appears hesitant to share their poor grades, take the initiative to understand and address the situation. Poor grades could be an indication of deeper concerns. It could be issues with classmates, difficulty sleeping, or even undiscovered hearing or visual problems. It is important to explore these possibilities and offer appropriate support.

You can acquire more information by talking to the teacher. The teacher’s observations and feedback can provide insight into the underlying issues affecting your child’s grades. You and the teacher can collaborate to provide the necessary assistance and advice.

5. Boosting Your Child’s Confidence

Remind your child that their worth is more than their grades. Recognize that suffering in one subject does not imply a lack of intelligence. Take time to encourage them by recognizing their other skills and talents. Tell your child about their many abilities and qualities. Demonstrate to them that poor grades are not the end of the world. Share kind words, emphasizing their great sense of humour, musical talents, sports accomplishments, or role as a supportive sibling. Make it clear to them that a single low grade does not constitute failure. Show them that everyone has different strengths and flaws which is what makes them unique. By highlighting their positive qualities and abilities, you can help them develop resilience and confidence.

Reinforce the idea that bad days happen to everyone and are a normal part of life, but they won’t continue if they take action to address the problems. Teach them that challenges are opportunities for personal growth and learning, and encourage them to always give their best effort, seek help when needed, and explore different strategies to improve. Assure them that your love and support are unwavering, regardless of their grades.

The 12 Best Inspiring Parent Bloggers to Follow

Nadya Sharfina · July 19, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"Raising kids is like riding a rollercoaster, but with the insights from Singapore's parent bloggers, the journey becomes more manageable and fulfilling."

Parenting can be a rollercoaster ride, full of highs and lows, confusion, and at the end of the day, pure joy. In this age of technology, seeking advice and encouragement from other parents can be a lifesaver. Singapore has fantastic parent bloggers who generously share their stories, tips, and ideas online. These passionate people provide a treasured wealth of knowledge and support for parents in Singapore and abroad. They’re like your virtual best friends, sharing their real-life parenting experiences and practical advice.

1. Diana Gale – thedomesticgoddesswannabe.com

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The Domestic Goddess Wannabe is a popular blog among foodies. Diana Gale, the brain behind it, genuinely enjoys cooking, baking, and sharing tasty recipes with her readers. As a parent herself, Diana understands the challenges of preparing meals for the family and strives to provide helpful tips and culinary inspiration.

Diana’s blog serves as a virtual gathering place for parents who share a common love for cooking, filled with a range of sweet and savoury recipes. Not only does Diana provide helpful culinary ideas, baking techniques, and guidance, but she also complements her recipes with stunning pictures, making her blog visually captivating and irresistibly tempting to food enthusiasts.

2. Angeline Yeh – strawberrycoatedkisses.com

The blog called strawberrycoatedkisses.com is a must-visit for all those seeking interesting content. It is managed by Angeline Yeh, a mother of two children. The blog is organized into five different categories. In the “Motherhood” section, readers can delve into Angeline’s personal journey as a mother, including her valuable reviews on various products and toys. For fashion enthusiasts, the “Fashion” category is the perfect spot to discover Angeline’s chic looks and trendy outfit ideas. The “Beauty” section provides comprehensive reviews on skincare products, haircare, and even beauty surgery. The “Lifestyle” section offers a glimpse into Angeline’s daily life, sharing stories about home decor, attending events, and her children’s art classes. Lastly, the “Travel” section takes readers on exciting adventures to enchanting destinations like Prague, Amsterdam, Bangkok, Bali, and more.

3. Neetu Mirchandani – supermommy.com.sg

Managed by Neetu Mirchandani, a Californian who has called Singapore her home for over 15 years, this blog offers a personal touch to its readers, as evident from its tagline, “From one supermom to another.” Neetu generously shares her valuable experiences, insights, and helpful tips on motherhood and family life, creating a relatable and informative platform for fellow parents.

Alongside parenting topics, supermommy.com.sg covers a wide range of interests such as health, wellness, travel, cooking recipes, and general lifestyle topics. One noteworthy feature of the blog is its shopping segment, where Neetu provides recommendations on places to visit and items to purchase for kids and moms alike. This includes everything from top brunch spots to helpful tips for purchasing jewellery. This comprehensive and engaging blog serves as a valuable resource for parents seeking inspiration, helpful information, and enjoyable content.

4. Jennifer Lim – dinomama.com

dinomama.com is an awesome parenting and lifestyle blog started by Jennifer Lim. This blog covers a whole bunch of interesting topics that parents can relate to, like cool parenting experiences, reminiscences about school days, arts and crafts, fascinating books, and even photography skills. You can also find posts about product reviews and DIY projects. Plus, there are giveaways that readers can participate in.

5. Elizabeth Wu – motherkao.com

Elizabeth Wu, also known as “Motherkao,” is a mother of three children named Ben, Becks, and Nat. She enjoys sharing her experiences as a mom and the progress of her kids, such as their milestones at different months and when they say “mama” for the first time. Her blog is heartwarming and relatable, appealing to mothers everywhere. Additionally, Elizabeth Wu provides her personal insights and reviews on skincare products, furniture, and food.

6. Zoe Liu – bakeforhappykids.com

Bake for Happy Kids is a food blog that you also don’t want to miss! Zoe, a passionate home baker, a Singaporean who has been living in Melbourne, Australia for the past decade, brings you the best of both food cultures. From delectable cakes and cookies to scrumptious bread and pastries, the blog has a wide array of mouthwatering recipes to satisfy your cravings. Zoe’s recipes are carefully tested and come with super detailed step-by-step instructions. You can even watch her bake on her YouTube channel, which makes recreating these amazing treats at home so much easier.

7. Andy and Mengchoo – sengkangbabies.com

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This blog is run by Andy and Mengchoo, a couple who love sharing their family adventures and experiences. Their lovely family includes four kids named Wen Wei, Wen Kang, Wen Yi, and Wen Xin.

sengkangbabies.com delves into various fascinating themes such as travel destinations and lifestyle-related content. You’ll discover captivating insights into their exciting travel escapades and uncover some useful tips along the way. They also provide reviews of incredible events happening right in Singapore and have their own YouTube channel where you can watch their videos and join in on their adventures firsthand.

8. Meiling Wong – universalscribbles.com

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Universal Scribbles is created by Meiling Wong, who knows a thing or two about parenthood, work, education, and so much more. What sets universalscribbles.com apart from other blogs is its comprehensive work section. It contains useful tips and strategies for moms who are making a comeback to work. You’ll find helpful advice on crafting a killer resume to score those job interviews, as well as strategies for busy working mothers who are juggling it all. It’s very relatable and perfect for moms who are rocking their careers while raising a family.

9. Dianaruth – mumcraft.com

This is a heartwarming blog created by Dianaruth, a Singapore-based mom who is passionate about motherhood, art, crafting, and DIY projects. It’s a fantastic resource for parents seeking creative ideas and inspiration to keep their children engaged in fun and educational activities. On mumcraft.com, Diana shares her own experiences in crafting and DIY projects, offering step-by-step guides and practical tips for families to enjoy together.

10. Kelvin Ang – cheekiemonkie.net

Kelvin Ang, the creator of Cheekiemonkie.net, shares his own personal experiences, insights, and recommendations to provide valuable information and inspiration to other parents and readers. It features recommendations for new family-friendly travel destinations as well as indoor and outdoor activities for kids. There are reviews of various attractions and events, product suggestions and discussions on general lifestyle topics. In addition, Kelvin Ang has authored a book titled ‘Got Kids, Go Where?‘ which contains 500 activities for parents to engage in with their children specifically in Singapore.

11. Adeline Tan – growingwiththetans.com

Adeline Tan, the author of this blog, used to work as a teacher. She eventually started chronicling her family’s adventures on her blog. Adeline takes pleasure in writing reviews about different products, services, and places related to children. Her main aim is to assist other parents in feeling more supported and knowledgeable. Additionally, her blog occasionally features exciting giveaways for readers to participate in.

12. Edmund Tay – edunloaded.com

Edmund Tay / Ed is a Daddy Blogger from Singapore who enjoys writing about his experiences as a parent. Surprisingly, Ed was never adept at handling children, so the idea of launching a blog about his own kids was the furthest thing from his mind. Besides writing about parenting, Ed is also an advocate for families. This blog was awarded Best Parenting Blog in the Singapore Parenting Category at Influence Asia 2016.

PSLE: 7 Game-Changing Techniques for Parents

Nadya Sharfina · June 28, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"The PSLE serves as a turning point, prompting parents to proactively empower their children towards academic triumph and a bright educational future."

As the Primary School Leaving Examination (PSLE) approaches, parents across Singapore are gearing up for the crossroads in their child’s academic path. The PSLE is significant not just because it marks an important milestone, but also because it plays a significant part in defining a student’s educational future.

This is the time for parents to take the initiative in guiding their children to success. It can be tough to know how to successfully aid and prepare your child for this demanding exam. In this article, we will look at some study recommendations that will equip you with the tools you need to confidently navigate the PSLE journey.

1. Time Management Technique

Time management is a superpower when it comes to conquering the PSLE. Create a study schedule that includes specific time slots for each subject or topic. This way, kids can stay organised and cover everything they need to without feeling overwhelmed. Demonstrate how to prioritise projects according to their priority and difficulty level.

Encourage them to break their study time into reasonable portions and create precise goals for each session. Try using the Pomodoro technique which involves 25 minutes of focused work followed by 5 minutes of rest, This technique allows kids to deal with the most challenging problems when feeling fresh and focused and then taking a break in order to relax and maintain concentration.

2. Practising Past Year Exam Paper

These prior tests are like buried treasures, full of useful information about the exam’s format, question types, and difficulty levels. By working on these problems regularly, your child will become familiar with how the exam is constructed and gain the confidence to face similar difficulties. Reviewing previous exam questions allows students to see patterns, recognize repeating concepts, and improve their answers and strategies.

Make sure your child dedicates study time to answering these questions, understanding why certain answers are correct, and learning from any mistakes. By incorporating this practice into their study routine regularly, your child will lay a solid foundation and strengthen their problem-solving skills, improving their chances of PSLE success.

3. Making Bedtime Notes with Reflection

Before you call it a day, encourage your child to take a few minutes to reflect on what they studied for the day. They can do this by verbally telling you what they did, or by journalling. The brain continues to process information during sleep, boosting memory retention and consolidation. Your youngster can use the power of sleep to reinforce their learning of critical topics by repeating relevant content before bedtime.

4. Tuition

Level up the PSLE game by encouraging your child to enrol in extra lessons. These extra learning sessions provide a focused setting in which they can go further into subjects that are challenging for them. Extra classes are designed to help build on what children learn in school by providing particular instruction and expert guidance.

Kids can improve their problem-solving abilities by taking subject-specific or exam-focused classes. It’s an opportunity to participate in active discussions, receive feedback, and obtain additional study materials—all of which are necessary for success in the PSLE. Check out Singapore’s top 5 tuition centres here.

5. Roleplay Technique

Roleplaying as both a student and a teacher is a unique and efficient technique to improve PSLE preparation. Encourage your child to take on the role of a teacher while you roleplay as a student during study sessions.

Stepping into the shoes of a teacher, allows them to develop a better understanding of the subject matter by explaining it to someone else. This role reversal develops critical thinking skills, improves communication skills, and reinforces general knowledge. They may gain a deeper understanding of the difficulties they might encounter throughout the PSLE and develop effective solutions to overcome them.

6. Tackle the Weakest Subject First

When it comes to PSLE mastery, one effective method is to focus on the subject where your child feels the most vulnerable. Assist them in identifying their areas of difficulty and encouraging them to focus on those subjects early in the study session when their minds are still fresh. Whether it’s Maths, English, Science or Mother Tongue, focusing on their weak points will result in certain progress. Provide them with additional resources, such as practice materials or online courses, and consider hiring a tutor if necessary.

7. Build a Healthy Environment

Encourage open communication and create a supportive environment in which your child feels comfortable addressing their academic concerns and goals. Participate actively in their education by demonstrating an interest in their progress, providing support, and applauding their accomplishments.

Moreover, put their mental health first by promoting a healthy mix of study and relaxation. Offer breaks, workouts, and hobbies to relieve stress and keep a positive. mindset. By creating a supportive and positive home environment, your child will feel motivated and supported.

How to Write Great Essays: ‘O’ Level Model Essays

Rebecca Samuel · June 27, 2023 · Leave a Comment

“Overcome the daunting task of essay writing and unleash your potential for success. Step-by-step guidance awaits you to ensure remarkable essays and excellent grades.”

Do you always find yourself stuck when writing an essay? Does the assignment appear to be too daunting to overcome? Fear not! You possess the ability to tackle this challenge head-on. Read on for step-by-step advice to assist you. Write amazing essays with good grades, always.

Brainstorming

First, let’s start by brainstorming. Generate a plethora of ideas by jotting down your thoughts on the subject. Afterwards, carefully review your brainstormed material. Continue from here and identify the most compelling idea. Ask yourself which ideas captivate you the most and which ideas you can write about naturally. Which ideas allow you to insert a personal touch? In addition, keep in mind the essay’s objective. Do your points you have brainstormed align with the answer to the question posed? If so, you’re ready to proceed.

Thesis Statement

Next, compose a powerful thesis statement. This sentence serves as the core concept of your essay. It expresses your thoughts on the subject matter. Once again, consider the essay’s objective. In addition, regard the thesis statement as part of your engaging introduction. This statement informs your reader about the essay’s content.

Topic Sentences

Now it’s time to outline the ideas that you will be using in your body paragraphs. With solid topic sentences in hand, you must reinforce your main idea with in-depth information, facts, thoughts, and examples. In addition, these supporting points address the question: “Why?” This stage may involve research and further brainstorming. Finally, arrange these points in a logical sequence, according to their significance. Congratulations! You now possess an outline for your essay.

Organisation

On your mark, get set, write! Follow your outline diligently, dedicating each paragraph to a supporting point. Utilise vivid and descriptive words to effectively convey your ideas to the reader. In addition, delve into the details, employing specific information to narrate your story or emphasise your viewpoint. Further, ensure that every element you include remains closely tied to the essay’s main idea, thereby maintaining focus. Finally, seamlessly connect your ideas using appropriate transition words to enhance the flow of your writing.

Conclusion

As you approach the conclusion, wrap it up with finesse. Summarise your entire essay and restate your main idea in a concise and impactful manner.

Proofread

The journey is not complete without proofreading and revising. Scrutinise your work for spelling, capitalisation, punctuation, and grammar errors. Further to this, seek opportunities to enhance clarity, comprehension, and engagement in your writing. Whenever possible, incorporate descriptive verbs, adjectives, or adverbs. Additionally, it is beneficial to have a fresh set of eyes review your work to catch any overlooked mistakes. Make the necessary corrections and modifications in a second draft. Repeat this revision process once more to ensure your final draft is of the highest quality possible.

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Download these model essays and think about how you can cultivate your own voice and style in order to produce unique and original pieces. Remember to enjoy the process! If you need feedback on your essays, try out our Independent Marking & Feedback Plan here: https://curio.sg/programmes/english-language-o-level-programme/

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How to Manage Toddler Meltdowns: A Guide for Parents

Rebecca Samuel · June 21, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"Parents often encounter various tantrum experiences with their kids, from mealtime meltdowns to all-day episodes. How can parents better cope with this draining phase of parenthood?"

Parents report varying experiences with their kids’ tantrums. Many of them recount how these escalate mostly during mealtimes, while others deal with consistent meltdowns occurring all day from sock wearing in the morning to bedtime. A brief cry of frustration can quickly turn into intense, roll-on-the-floor-screaming freakouts. How can parents deal better with this inevitable, draining period of parenthood?

The Science Behind a Meltdown: Understanding the Brain’s Response

Neuroscience explains that meltdowns involve two parts of the brain: the amygdala and the hypothalamus. The amygdala processes emotions like fear and anger, while the hypothalamus controls functions like heart rate and temperature regulation. During a meltdown, the amygdala detects a threat, triggering a response from the hypothalamus with hormones like adrenaline and cortisol. The prefrontal cortex is the part of the brain that helps humans with restraint and controlling one’s urges, among other functions, but it does not fully develop until adulthood.

The Impact of a Meltdown on Your Child

A child experiencing a meltdown undergoes physical symptoms such as increased heart rate, sweaty palms, and tensed muscles. Their limited capacity for self-control, associated with the prefrontal cortex, is further diminished during the stress response. Unlike adults who can use logical self-reflection to curb their reactions, children lack a fully developed prefrontal cortex which in turn renders reasoning with them ineffective.

Managing Meltdowns: Start with Your Own Emotions

To effectively handle an upset child, it is important to manage and control your own stress response first. Take a moment to breathe deeply or talk to your partner to dampen your anger and frustration. This allows you to use your calm state to soothe your child, potentially through activating a mirrored response. If your child sees you acting calm despite the chaos, they might be encouraged to monkey see, monkey do.

Managing Meltdowns: Communicate Safety

In managing your child’s reaction, employ calmness together with nonverbal cues that communicate love and understanding. By focusing on your nonverbal communication—body posture, vocal tone, and facial expressions—you can help your child regulate their emotions. Bend down and go to your child’s level, which might help them feel less overwhelmed in a world full of people and things much bigger than they are. Make eye contact, showing them that you see them and acknowledge their fears and frustrations. Show them your willingness to listen to what is upsetting them.

Managing Meltdowns: Encourage Self-Soothing

While physical touch may comfort some children, others might find it overwhelming to deal with. Instead, offer an alternative stress reliever such as play dough or a crayon and paper for them to vent out their emotions with drawing. Try to get them to practise deep breathing which can also help manage the intensity of their emotions. Discuss these self-soothing skills before a tantrum occurs, potentially enabling your child to handle future tantrums independently.

Managing Meltdowns: Affirm Your Child’s Feelings

During a meltdown, attempts to explain and correct behaviour are rarely effective. Once your child has calmed down, get them to form a narrative about the meltdown that just occurred. Give credence to their experience and recap what occurred, emphasising that both of you are okay and can remain close. This process helps the child process their emotions and regain a sense of security.

There is Light at the end of the Tunnel

Meltdowns aren’t all bad. The shared tears and hugs will allow both parent and child to form a deeper bond. The triggers that your toddler experiences and how you react to their tantrums will give you a better understanding of how you both work. You might even become better equipped to handle the next time your child has a meltdown over a pair of socks that are blue instead of yellow.

The GP Essay: How to Craft Excellent Body Paragraphs

Rebecca Samuel · June 8, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"A truly remarkable body paragraph captivates the reader."

An excellent body paragraph is engaging. It should support the central idea or argument of an essay by providing clear, concise information with well backed up evidence and explanations.

A suggested structure is as follows:

POINT – EXPLANATION – EXAMPLE – LINK – EVALUATION

1. Point

Capture the main idea of what the entire body paragraph will consist of: possible to show some form of evaluation

E.g. In today’s society, which is consumer-driven and materialistic, it is indeed of concern that people are becoming increasingly phoney.

E.g. On the other hand, many young people in my society are concerned about the environment, and possibly contributing to saving our world instead of destroying it.

2. Explanation

Explain the point that you have raised and provide an explanation which directly answers the question. This element should take up the BULK of your body paragraph.

E.g. Singaporeans prioritise and take pride in the education system, which churns out prestigious scholarship winners and international science and maths awardees. With the consistent increase in income levels, most people can afford tuition and enrichment classes that give students a leg up in their educational pursuits. However, the path to academic success is not without its pitfalls. Students are often depressed, overworked and highly stressed individuals. In a survey done in 2021…

3. Example

Substantiation of your point and explanation thus far.

Examples of examples that you can use!

Information gleaned from reliable articles e.g. The Straits Times, The Economist, National Geographic etc
Examples of known facts e.g. In Singapore, a lockdown titled ‘Circuit Breaker’ was imposed during the height of the Covid-19 pandemic
Data, Statistics

4. Link

Connect your explanation to your evaluation, use it as a transition

E.g. Therefore it is quite clear that the local arts scene in Singapore is of incredible relevance to the fabric of the nation’s culture, as it has contributed significantly to the Singaporean identity. Keeping that in mind…

5. Evaluation

Consideration of all key factors that have contributed to the JUSTIFICATION of your argument. Point out a challenge to your point, followed by a justification for why it cannot hold. (as compared to your stand of course!)

Tip: Is there a long or short term consequence that may arise due to any assumption you have raised?

Tip: Are there entities who may (or may not) be affected by the points you have raised?

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The GP Essay: How to Craft an Excellent Introduction

Rebecca Samuel · June 8, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"Your GP essay intro is like a first impression - impress, contextualize and broaden the reader's understanding of the issue."

Think of an introduction to your GP essay as similar to meeting someone for the first time. The way you are dressed, your demeanour, manners and what you say as well as HOW you say what you say, will give someone an impression. This impression will either impress them, repulse them or make them feel neutral, and perhaps dismissive. In a GP essay introduction, you definitely want to impress, but also provide context and give the reader a broader sense of the issue that you will be arguing.

Suggested Techniques

Quotes

Some famous people you can quote from include Martin Luther King, Gandhi, LKY, Nelson Mandela, Albert Einstein, Nietzsche, Shakespeare, Steve Job, Muhammad Ali, John Lennon, Alfred Lord Tennyson, Winston Churchill, Mark Twain, Oscar Wilde, Babe Ruth, Voltaire, Mother Teresa, Anne Frank… and the list goes on.

You can even quote from mythology, books or films!

Statistics

Descriptive statistics is a way to organise, represent and describe a collection of data. For example, it can refer to the collection of people in a city using the internet or using television.

Inferential Statistics allows us to use information collected from a sample to make decisions, predictions or inferences from a population.

Any type you choose to use is fine, so long as it remains relevant to the discussion at hand.

Definition

You can define words or elements of the question to set the tone and context for the essay. It is important not to be pedantic here, and to focus on reasonable, common sense definitions that most people would not disagree with.

Example: To what extent is success important in your society?

You will first need to define success. Does it refer to wealth, academic achievements, a high quality of life, health, happiness, all of the above? How can we phrase the definition precisely without sounding overly detailed?

Anecdote

One of the easiest ways to start an essay, can be with a short amusing, interesting story which involves yourself, a situation or someone else you know of or have read of. This method will lead the reader into your essay by getting them to IDENTIFY with the topic and begin to relate to it.

Historical or Current Event/Situation

Referring to how the main aspect of your topic has been viewed or handled in the past, or how it is considered in modern times will set the context for your essay, while demonstrating your understanding of how the issue developed to what it is today.

Writing Thesis Statements

The thesis statement should be written at the very end of the introduction and should state your stand clearly. You must take ownership of this stand, and ensure that your entire essay leads back to proving it.

Some suggestions for your stand (although you can try to be creative here as well!)

(a) I believe that…

(b) It is my view that…

(d) It is my conviction that…

(e) It is my considered opinion that…

(f) I hold firmly to the view that…

Suggested Approach to a GP Essay

Hook

Elaborate on hook

Definitions (where necessary)

Set the scope by explaining the points you will be raising to support your stand, including an anti-thesis.

State your thesis statement

Read the sample of an introduction to a GP essay below and critique it!

Consumerism is not always bad. Do you agree?

Last weekend, I sat and contemplated all three of my yoga mats, wondering what had prompted me to purchase that many. Reluctantly still, I posted two of them for sale on my estore on ‘Carousell’, my way of not contributing to more waste in Singapore. The world today is rife with consumerism as people become more preoccupied with the acquisition of consumer goods they do not need, or sometimes even want. Consumerism can be defined as the preoccupation of a society with products and possessions. Some may argue that the economic competition that has arisen thanks to consumerism has made the world a better place. Most people however, are usually constantly buying items that are frivolous or worse, impractical, contributing to environmental damage and socio-economic problems as well as the dangers arising from individual overconsumption. Hence it is my view that most of the time, consumerism is harmful and ought to be avoided.

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5 Proven Strategies to Teach Kids Money Skills

Nadya Sharfina · April 14, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"Do not save what is left after spending but spend what is left after saving." 

- Warren Buffet

Are you looking for ways to teach your children financial literacy? Saving money is an important part of preparing children for their future. They will become financially independent adults if they learn how to save and manage money. There are a variety of strategies that parents can employ to ensure that their children understand the importance of saving money. These five tried-and-true strategies will help you teach financial literacy to your children in a fun and engaging way.

Developing Smart Saving Habits Early

Sit down with your children and create a savings plan. Begin by explaining the difference between saving, spending, and investing money, and why saving should be a top priority when it comes to financial management.

Saving

Saving is the process of putting money aside for future needs such as emergencies or retirement. It is essential to save money for unexpected expenses, life events, and long-term goals.

Spending

To spend money is to use it to purchase goods and services, such as food, clothing, and entertainment. This can be done responsibly by creating a budget and sticking to it. Spending should only be done on necessary items or things that bring joy – splurging on unnecessary items can put one into debt quickly.

Investing

Investing money is the process of building wealth over time by using investment vehicles such as stocks, bonds, and mutual funds. If done correctly, investments carry higher risks but also higher rewards than savings.

Understanding these distinctions is critical when deciding how to best manage one’s financial resources so that one can comfortably reach their savings and investment goals without sacrificing too much of their current lifestyle. Teach kids that early savings habits will help to build wealth over time.

Make Saving Fun

Once you’ve talked to your children about saving money and taught them the basics, make saving fun by organising games or activities. This will help keep their attention and encourage them to save as a habit.

Start by teaching them the importance of saving money rather than spending it all at once. Show them how much they will need to save each month to reach their goal and how long it will take them to get there. For example, saving up for toys or family vacations can be a great motivator. You can also talk with your children about how saving can help them achieve future dreams and goals, such as buying a car, going to university, or owning a home.

Consider implementing a reward system as well. Rewards do not have to be costly or extravagant; they should simply reinforce the habit of regularly saving money. Matching contributions when children put money into their savings account, giving them a set amount of allowance each month if they meet their saving goals, or offering small treats like ice cream on special occasions when they reach specific milestones in their saving efforts are some examples of rewards.

Another option is playing games. Games are an excellent way to introduce concepts of financial literacy. Here are five fun board games for kids to play:

Games can be a great way to teach children about saving money. By simulating real-life economic situations, such as buying property or trading stocks, children can develop saving strategies that will help them manage their finances in the long term.

Playing these types of games with family members provides an opportunity for parents to talk openly about saving and budgeting habits in a safe environment where mistakes are encouraged as part of the learning process. With this strategy, you can turn saving money into an enjoyable activity that will benefit your children throughout their lives.

Shop Together & Talk Values

Shopping together creates an interactive learning environment where children can observe and mimic you as you make cost-effective decisions. Take your children to the store and discuss money saving techniques with them. Show them how to compare prices, look for deals and discounts, and find more cost-effective alternatives. Help your children spend money on what they want rather than on things they don’t need.

Instil in your children the value of giving back. When children understand how their actions can benefit others, they become more aware of their surroundings and realise that saving money isn’t just for them. Talking openly with your children about charities or helping those in need can make teaching them about giving back fun and engaging. It allows children to see firsthand how saving money can make a difference in the lives of others. Encouraging them to regularly contribute to charities or volunteer their time will help them develop strong values of saving and spending responsibly while also positively impacting those around them.

There are numerous charity organizations available online and offline in Singapore. Here are a few examples:

Orphanages:

Nursing Homes:

Food Charities:

Give Them Real Life Examples

Aside from saving and budgeting, teach your children how to spend money wisely and identify potential scams. Discuss the importance of not taking out unnecessary loans or using credit cards. Show them real-life examples of people affected by this issue.

Debt is an important financial concept for children to understand because it can have long-term consequences if not managed correctly. Debt should be addressed to help children understand the dangers of poor money management. Parents can use real-life examples to demonstrate the importance of saving and borrowing responsibly to make debt education fun and informative.

For example, explain what happens with an unpaid credit card bill or tell them about people who took out large loans and were unable to repay them. Demonstrate to children what happens when someone does not have enough money set aside for an emergency. Explain how taking out student loans can affect your finances later in life and how saving money now can help you avoid getting into too much debt later in life. Discuss the benefits and drawbacks of various loan types, such as home loans, car loans, and student loans, so that children understand when it is appropriate to borrow money and when it is not.

Singapore’s Best Savings Accounts for Children

Opening up a bank account for children can help them understand the importance of saving and managing their finances more concretely. By allowing children to have bank accounts, they can experience firsthand how saving money can help them achieve financial goals.

In Singapore, several banks offer savings accounts specifically designed for children. These accounts typically have lower minimum deposits, higher interest rates, and fewer restrictions than adult savings accounts do. On that note, here are five of Singapore’s best savings accounts for children:

CIMB Junior Saver Account: One of their best features is that there are no fees for keeping your child’s account active. In about 10 minutes, you can create an account online. It truly is that simple. All you need to do is to ensure that the account has a minimum balance of $1000.

POSB My Account: Benefits include no initial deposit, no minimum balance requirement, linking parent’s account to child’s savings using the POSB Smart Buddy app, the ability to exchange and save up to 13 different currencies, a free POPULAR 1-year student membership, and many more.

Citibank Junior Savings Account: They make it easy to track funds by issuing separate monthly statements and earning interest while your child’s savings grow. There is no minimum initial deposit and your child will receive a free ATM card when he/she reaches the age of 15.

Maybank Youngstarz Account: It can be opened for as little as S$10. Other benefits available to you and your child include popular bookstore vouchers, exclusive birthday privileges, hospitalisation and outpatient insurance (for hand, foot, mouth disease), and eligibility for Personal Accident (PA) Insurance.

OCBC Mighty Savers Kids Account: Kids under 16 can sign up for this account. Benefits include priority queue service on Sundays at any ‘Sunday at OCBC’ branch, no initial deposit, and no minimum balance requirement. They have shorter lines, a decent 0.20% interest rate, and minimal account maintenance with no troublesome fees.

Parents can teach their children how to manage their finances responsibly by opening a savings bank account specifically designed for children. With proper guidance and support from adults, as well as access to educational tools provided by many banks these days, saving money will become not only an enjoyable experience but also a hugely beneficial one in the long run.

Using these five strategies, parents can help their children to become financially independent adults capable of saving and managing their money responsibly.

Anyone Can Learn How to Learn Better

Rebecca Samuel · April 11, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"Surely the smarter someone is, the better they learn? Not true!"

Most people think – mistakenly – that being able to concentrate, focus and learn things is linked to intelligence. Surely the smarter someone is, the better they learn? Not true! Anyone can learn how to learn better. It takes effort and consistency, rather than a high IQ. Try these suggestions if you are struggling with learning:

Think About Thinking

The official term for this is metacognition. It involves figuring out how you know what you know, rather than merely sticking to the idea that you somehow know it, or you went to school and therefore you know your ABCs, for example. You need to think about how you arrived at your conclusions, and not just be satisfied with the fact that you arrived. Some good questions to get you started on metacognition would be – What is my ultimate goal today? Is there foundational knowledge that I am missing out on? If I had to explain this concept to someone else right now, will I be able to? Why or why not?

Reflection

Write down – if you’re not the writing sort make voice recordings – what you think you have learnt for the day. Work yourself through the process of what you accomplished, or failed to accomplish, ask yourself how you did well or how you need to improve. Jot down ideas about what you might need to do next in order to progress, or people you need to speak with in order to gain some insight. Most people put reflection off as a waste of time, or stew in their frustrations. This step is crucial however, to fine-tuning your brain into figuring out how to help itself.

Organise, Organise and then Reorganise

If you fail to plan, you plan to fail. Planning however is not a one time thing, you need to fine tune it as you go along, adjust for changes in your outlook or expertise, and work with your setbacks. Set achievable goals for each aspect of your life or work that you need to sort, look at your strategies and steps required to get there, and then set a deadline. Then, write it all down as explicitly as possible, and use a calendar daily. Some goals, such as getting better at trigonometry, can have daily practice steps written down such as ‘Do one trigonometry sum every single day’. Other goals, such as getting into your dream school, can involve steps such as ‘Research scholarships’ or ‘Talk to teacher/knowledgable adult about school admissions processes’.

These are just a few suggestions on how one can learn to learn better. There are of course extensive studies that have been done on the human brain, and the truth is that one size certainly does not fit all. We can all strive to optimise our lives however, and the daily effort we put into the little things in order to learn better will definitely pay off.

The A-Levels: How to Ace it!

Rebecca Samuel · April 10, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"Achieving excellent results in the A-Levels is the key to getting into top universities both locally and abroad."

The A-Levels are a crucial milestone for students in Singapore who want to pursue tertiary education. Achieving excellent results in the A-Levels is the key to getting into top universities both locally and abroad. However, with so much pressure on students to excel, it can be difficult to know where to start when it comes to revision. Don’t worry! We are here to help. In this article, we will share some tips on how best to prepare for A-Level exams. So read on and ace your A-Levels!

1. Follow a Schedule and Make To-Do Lists to Stay on Track

Formulating a study schedule is essential to cover all the topics and stay on track with your A-Level preparation. This will help you organize your days and structure revision plans efficiently so that you have enough time to go back to your notes or understand complex concepts. Avoid cramming information as it can lead to stress. Dividing tasks up into small chunks also helps reduce anxiety and prevent burnout at the end of the A-Level period. Plus, this technique helps with anything that needs memorizing more effectively since less content is being processed at once.

2. Focus On One Task at a Time

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When studying for A-Levels, it is important to stay focused on the task at hand. With so much information to digest and remember, it can be difficult not to get overwhelmed by all the topics you need to cover. It might seem counterintuitive but focusing on doing one thing well will save you more time than juggling multiple tasks simultaneously.

In other words, choose one subject or topic that you want to work on and stick with it until you finish the task. A single-minded focus allows you to retain more information and concentrate on each concept in greater detail.

3. Use Past Exam Papers to Your Advantage

Past A-Level papers are your best friend when it comes to A-Level revision. Familiarizing yourself with the types of questions and answers that come up during exams can help you anticipate what kind of topics or questions might appear in real A-Level exams. This way, you can save time and effort since you already have an idea of what to expect on the day itself.

Moreover, revising past A-Level papers allow for better time management during the actual A-Level assessment. Going through previous A-Level papers trains your brain to think accurately under pressure and not be flustered by tricky questions or unfamiliar topics.

4. Break Down Your Notes into Manageable Chunks

Breaking down A-Level notes into smaller chunks makes it easier to digest what you are reading. This way, you can focus on the main points and not get overwhelmed by too much information at once.

There are several ways to break down your A-Level notes. Divide each topic according to its relevance or complexity and then use symbols, colors, or headings to separate one from the other. You can also highlight important keywords that might come in handy when exam time rolls around. All these techniques will help you organize A-Level material efficiently and make revision a simpler process overall.

5. Take Breaks and Have Fun While You Are Revising

While studying for the A-Levels are important, it is also essential to give your mind a break and enjoy yourself. Having fun while revising will help you stay motivated and energized throughout the A-Level period. A few simple activities can be incorporated into revision time like listening to music, watching an episode of your favorite show, playing video games, or even enjoying a snack after studying for a certain amount of time.

Taking breaks allows for better concentration when it comes to A-Level content so that you can handle all the information at once. Plus, having fun helps relieve any stress associated with A-Levels.

6. Get Help if You Need It! Tutors or Classmates Can Be a Great Resource

It is perfectly normal to feel intimidated by A-Levels and need a bit of extra help and support. Most A-Level students can benefit from the assistance of tutors or peers. A tutor can provide additional guidance on topics you may struggle with, while classmates can offer peer support when it comes to revision techniques.

No matter who you turn to for your A-Level journey, do not be afraid to ask for help when needed. A little bit of extra assistance could make all the difference in helping you ace your A-Level exams! Try Curio’s General Paper Programme.

So there you have it – our top tips on how best to prepare for the A-Level exams.