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What Parents Need to Know About Secondary School Curriculum

curiosg · January 22, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"In 2024, as Secondary 1 students undergo transformative changes with Full Subject-Based Banding, parents play a crucial role in understanding and guiding their child through the new educational landscape."

Secondary 1 students will see a major transformation to their academic landscape starting in 2024. Full Subject-Based Banding (Full SBB) is replacing the traditional Normal (Technical), Normal (Academic), and Express streams. Students will be classified into Posting Groups 1, 2, or 3 based on their academic progress. The improved approach empowers students by offering them additional subject selection options. This article aims to provide valuable insights into the secondary school curriculum for parents who may not yet understand the new education system for Secondary 1 in Singapore.

1. Subjects With a Higher Level of Difficulty

Students in Secondary 1 (Sec 1) begin with subjects based on their overall PSLE score or if they perform well in individual PSLE subjects, they can opt to study them at a more demanding level. Students may also be offered the option to pursue specific subjects at a less difficult level in Sec 1.

At the beginning of Sec 1, eligible students can choose to take English Language, Mother Tongue Languages, Mathematics, and Science at a more challenging level, determined by their PSLE Achievement Level (AL) in each subject. As students proceed beyond the first stage of Sec 1, they may continue to take these subjects at a more demanding level based on their achievement in secondary school. Starting from Secondary 2 (Sec 2), students also have the opportunity to take Humanities subjects (Geography, History, and Literature in English) at a more challenging level. The decision to undertake Humanities at a higher difficulty level will depend on students’ aptitude and interest in these subjects, as determined in Sec 1.

2. Subjects with a Lower Level of Difficulty

Students who previously opted for Foundation level in English, Mathematics, and/or Science during their PSLE but are otherwise eligible for G3 in most subjects when transitioning to secondary school have the option to take these subjects at a less challenging level (i.e., G2) at the start of Secondary 1 (Sec 1).

For students who are find their Mother Tongue Languages (MTL), to be challenging, the option of G1 or G2 MTL is provided. During the first phase of Sec 1, students can choose a less rigorous MTL level depending on specific criteria.

As students proceed beyond the first phases of Sec 1, they have the opportunity to offer subjects at a less demanding level, taking into account their performance and the schools’ complete assessment to balance their academic workload. Students choosing subjects at a less demanding level can subsequently opt for a more challenging level as they enhance their competence and confidence in those subjects. This additional flexibility enables students to adapt their learning experience to their particular abilities and passions.

3. Subjects at Lower Secondary

a. Common Curriculum Subjects

Students in mixed-form classes are going to devote approximately one-third of their curriculum time to a set of six common curriculum subjects. These subjects aim to improve students’ collaborative learning experiences by allowing them to connect and learn with classmates who have a wide range of abilities and interests.

Teachers will employ a variety of teaching techniques to properly cater to the student’s particular needs while acknowledging the different learning demands and paces within the same form of class.

b. Subjects Offered at G1, G2 and G3

English Language, Mother Tongue Languages, Mathematics, Science, and Humanities subjects will be available at G1, G2, and G3 levels. Students will be organized into different classes based on their subject level for each of these subjects.

Starting from the 2024 Secondary 1 (S1) cohort, additional curriculum policy changes will also be introduced to further enhance the learning experience for students:

4. Subjects at Upper Secondary

a. Compulsory Subjects

The subjects that are mandatory in upper secondary include:

English Language
Mother Tongue Languages (MTL)
- Eligible students may offer HMTL instead of MTL
Humanities
- G1 Humanities will comprise Social Studies and one Humanities Exposure Module (HEM) in Geography, History or Literature in English.
- G2/3 Humanities will comprise Social Studies and choice of one elective in Geography, History or Literature in English or Literature in Mother Tongue Languages (offered at G3 only).
Mathematics
Science
- Students offering mainly G1 subjects at upper secondary must offer at least one of the following subjects – Computing or Science.

b. Elective Subjects

Students get to choose subjects that interest them, such as Additional Mathematics, Art, and Design & Technology. Schools will assist them in determining the appropriate level for each subject based on their interests and strengths, taking into account their academic performance and areas for improvement.

c. Other Programmes – Applied Learning Modules (ApLM)

ApLMs are optional courses in practical subjects offered by Polytechnics, ITE, and private organisations. From 2023 onwards, students from Secondary 2 to Secondary 5 can join these modules, and each student can participate in up to 3 ApLM throughout their secondary education.

A Parent’s Guide: Raising Kids During a Pandemic

Nadya Sharfina · January 17, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"The rollercoaster of parenthood takes an unexpected turn with COVID-19, introducing a unique blend of challenges in managing academics and safeguarding our children's health."

The journey of parenthood has always been a dynamic one, but the challenges presented by the COVID-19 pandemic have added a unique layer of complexity to the task of raising children. Parents now find themselves not only navigating the intricacies of academics but also ensuring their children’s health. This article provides tips for parents, including encouraging self-responsibility, managing new routines and transitions, and making healthy choices during lunch at school.

Encouraging Self-Sufficiency

Start by teaching them basic hygiene habits, emphasising the correct technique for thorough handwashing and the importance of using hand sanitiser, especially in busy areas. Read for proper handwashing tips: ‘6 Tips for Your Kids to Have a Healthy School Year’. Underscore the importance of keeping their mask on throughout the day as a precaution against potential infections.

By staying healthy, they reduce the likelihood of falling ill and thereby minimise the need for unnecessary visits to the doctor, ensuring uninterrupted focus on their studies. This awareness becomes particularly crucial during examination periods, where missing out on school could prove detrimental to their academic progress.

Shaping New Routines and Transitions

Transitioning from the pre-COVID-19 environment to the current one can be a significant adjustment for children, given that the virus is still present. COVID-19 continues to have intermittent surges, so it’s important to be aware that certain habits may not be as easily maintained as they were before the pandemic.

To make the shift easier, focus on meticulously managing new routines and transitions. Promote healthy habits that go beyond the classroom. A well-balanced diet, regular exercise, and plenty of sleep improve their health and provide them with the energy and focus they need to face the challenges of a new school setting.

After school, establish a post-school cleanliness routine. Emphasise the significance of taking a shower upon returning home, not only for personal hygiene but also to reduce the risk of carrying germs into the house.

Navigating Lunchtime Choices

Promote hygienic habits by encouraging your child to use their own utensils. Consider providing a lunchbox from home with a well-balanced meal, so that you can minimise the need to purchase food at school. This provides a healthy meal and gives them autonomy over their food choices.

Take the opportunity to educate your child about the importance of nutrition. Discuss the various food groups, their roles in maintaining good health, and the benefits of a balanced diet. Teach them to read food labels, emphasising the significance of making informed choices. Check out ‘Smart Food Choices for Kids’ During Exams.’

Finding Creative Outlets

Creative outlets can help children express themselves emotionally and relieve stress. Encourage your child to explore and participate in creative activities, which help build a sense of control and accomplishment. Here’s how you can incorporate creative activities into your child’s routine:

Artistic Expression: Encourage your child’s emotional expression through art. Give them art supplies such as sketchbooks, paint, or clay. Visual representations of their sentiments allow people to externalise and process complex emotions tangibly and constructively.
Journaling: Writing down ideas and experiences can be a therapeutic activity. Your child can keep a daily notebook where they describe their feelings, experiences, and even dreams. This not only aids in emotional release but also functions as a personal reflection tool.
Music and Dance: Music and movement are excellent channels for emotional expression. Allow your child to experiment with different music genres and encourage them to make playlists that reflect their mood. Dancing relieves tension and can be a fun method to improve their mood
DIY Projects: Collaborate on do-it-yourself (DIY) projects together. Whether it’s crafting, building, or experimenting with science projects, these are all hobbies that not only provide a creative outlet but also offer a sense of accomplishment and pride in the finished product.

Amid the fluctuations in COVID-19 numbers, unpredictable weather patterns, and concerns about pollution, maintaining good health emerges as a privileged asset that must be safeguarded. Keeping your children hearty and healthy will keep them happy too!

How to Minimise Distractions for Kids During Study Time

Nadya Sharfina · January 13, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"Guide your kids to stay focused in their studies by keeping them away from distractions like social media, TV, and online games."

Social media, television, and online games are some of the most popular distractions for kids – and adults too! – these days. How can you help your children to stay focused during study sessions? The irresistible allure of these digital distractions can easily divert young minds from the less appealing realm of study. This article seeks to provide parents with five practical tips to help them navigate this modern difficulty, including the incorporation of effective and engaging learning games to make studying less boring.

Sit With Your Kids

To avoid distractions, join your children as they work on their homework whenever time permits. Take the opportunity to delve into the specifics of their lessons, providing clarity on the objectives they are meant to achieve. Teach your children how to overcome difficulties when doing schoolwork or answering questions they don’t understand.

By taking the time to ensure that your children understand the complexities of their tasks, you help to create a good learning atmosphere. This proactive approach enables you to detect any possible issues they may encounter, providing an opportunity for timely intervention and guidance.

Set Up for the Next Task

Before they complete their most immediate task, it’s a good idea to brief your kids on what comes next, giving them a clear picture of upcoming work that also needs attention.. It can be beneficial to prioritise homework with approaching deadlines, completing those assignments first before moving on to activities with longer timelines or starting with easier subjects before progressing to more difficult ones, as addressing tough subjects right away can be time-consuming.

Another effective strategy is to break down work by separating bigger tasks into smaller, more manageable sections. This method helps children comprehend each step required and allows for a more concentrated and methodical approach to finishing the assignment. The ultimate goal is to help your children focus on the task at hand. Distractions and confusion can be reduced by being open about what’s coming up and breaking assignments down into smaller components, allowing them to concentrate more efficiently.

Prioritise Sleep

Prioritising enough sleep is critical for youngsters before they engage in cognitive tasks such as studying. Taking a break improves concentration and focus by acknowledging the physiologic effects of sleep on brain function. Memory consolidation and neural healing are two processes that occur during sleep.

A power nap after school can provide kids with an immediate increase in energy and alertness, resulting in a more effective study session. A well-regulated sleep schedule works wonders on children’s focus, learning, and academic achievements.

Bring in the Fun with Memory Games

Introducing memory games into a child’s routine can provide entertainment while also improving their ability to focus and eliminating distractions during study sessions. These games are enjoyable to play, and they promote cognitive development and memory skills. By introducing playfulness into the learning process, children are more likely to pay attention and absorb knowledge successfully. Memory games not only make studying pleasant, but they also help to establish a good link with learning. As a result, incorporating these games not only helps to strengthen memory but also produces a more focused and productive learning environment for children.

Here are a few examples of memory games that can be incorporated into learning activities:

Matching Cards: Create a set of flashcards with pairs of related concepts, vocabulary words, or images. Shuffle the cards and place them face down. Encourage the child to flip two cards at a time, attempting to match the pairs. This game improves memory by linking similar elements.
Story Sequencing: Break down a lesson or a story into key points. Have the child arrange these points in the correct sequence, recalling the details. This activity helps improve both memory and understanding of chronological order.
Colour-Coded Concepts: Assign different colours to distinct themes or categories in the study materials. Use colourful markers, highlighters, or stickers. This visual association improves memory retention and categorization.

Understand Your Child

Understanding your child’s unique interests and learning style is critical for encouraging focused and productive studying. Every child is unique and understanding these variances can have a big impact on their ability to concentrate. Some children excel in study groups and find inspiration and focus in collaborative environments, whereas others prefer to study alone. Similarly, some children may succeed under the supervision of a private tutor, while others find that their concentration improves during school classes.

Moreover, the environment also matters. Some children can concentrate better in a quiet room free of distractions, whereas others may require background music to help them focus. By taking the time to understand your child’s preferred study settings, you can personalise the learning experience to their specific needs, ultimately improving their attention and academic achievement.

How to Get Kids Back into School Mode After the Holidays

Nadya Sharfina · January 11, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"Transitioning from carefree vacations to the structured school routine is made easier with parental support, understanding, and a focus on addressing children's emotional needs."

After a nice lull full of relaxed mornings and fun-filled afternoons, returning to school may prove difficult for some kids. Older kids are usually dealing with a variety of emotions, whilst the younger ones may find the physical aspect more challenging. While teachers do help, It is ultimately up to the parents to help their kids navigate this transition well. Parents could help with making the move from relaxed vacation vibes to the regulated school routine more comfortable by understanding and addressing their kid’s specific emotional needs. In this article, we will look at several ways to successfully help your kids transition from vacation mentality to school mode.

Why It Matters

The transition from a relaxed vacation to a school routine can have a substantial influence on a kid’s health and academic performance. Parents must realise the potential difficulties that their kids may endure throughout this transition. Emotions ranging from excitement to stress and worry are common reactions during this transition. Recognising these emotions and offering the necessary support might help with the adjustment process and help to set your kids up for a great academic year.

Make Sure They Have Everything They Need

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The practical parts of returning to school such as making sure your kid has all of the necessary materials can have a huge impact on their confidence and comfort. Take the opportunity to check if their uniform still fits and help them organise their school supplies, such as ensuring they have all necessary stationery including working calculators and sufficient foolscap paper.

This not only prepares kids for the upcoming semester but also instils a sense of preparation and control. Get your kids to do an inventory of all the items they have, categorising things by stuff they can reuse, purchase or fix. By incorporating your kid in this process, you give them the ability to take control of their readiness, laying the groundwork for a positive attitude when they return to school.

Have a Friendly Conversation

Recognise and resolve any potential stress or worry your kid may feel when returning to school. Start an open and courteous discourse about their issues. Reassure them that their feelings are completely normal and offer tales from your own life to show that everyone feels comparable emotions at times of change. By actively listening and empathising, you foster a supportive environment in which your kid can openly express their emotions and worries.

Encourage a positive outlook by emphasising the exciting elements of returning to school, such as reconnecting with friends, participating in extracurricular activities and learning new things. Express real interest in their academic lives. Enquire about their subjects and offer homework assistance. This engagement not only strengthens your bond but also instils a sense of enthusiasm for the upcoming school term. Read on further to find out more about how to conduct after-school chats here: ‘Connecting with Your Kids: After-School Chats’

Establish a Routine Early

Getting your child back into school mode can be a smooth transition if you start adjusting their schedule a few days before school begins. One of the most important things you can do is shift their bedtime and wake-up time gradually. If your child has been staying up late over the holidays, try moving their bedtime earlier by 15-30 minutes each night. This way, they’ll get used to waking up earlier, making the first day of school feel a lot more manageable.

Along with adjusting sleep, it’s also a good idea to begin shifting mealtimes. If their meals have been happening later than usual, start bringing them back to the times they’ll have during the school week. This helps regulate their internal clock and prevents hunger pangs during school hours.

Don’t forget about screen time! Over the holidays, it’s easy to let screens be part of the evening routine, but now is the time to get back to school-friendly hours. Setting limits on screen time and encouraging activities like reading or quiet play in the evening will help create a calming pre-bed routine and make the transition to school much smoother.

Set Up a Countdown

The transition from the relaxed days of vacation to the rigid routine of school can be difficult for kids. To ease the adjustment, consider establishing a visual back-to-school countdown. This can be a fun and interactive way for kids to visualise their upcoming return to the classroom.

A colourful calendar with daily countdown stickers can help younger kids stay engaged in the process. Older kids may opt to enter the date on their calendars, which allows them to actively track the time until school resumes. This visible depiction of time assists kids in mentally preparing for the transition, making the return to school less abrupt and more tolerable.

Make Their First Few Weeks Back Memorable

To help kids cope with the potential disappointment of moving from the carefree vacation atmosphere, try creating a special celebration to honour the end of their first school month. This provides recognition for their hard work in adjusting to the school schedule. This celebration can include a game night with family, a fun outing with friends, a delicious dinner at their favourite restaurant, a movie night, or even a trip to a nearby mini-golf course.

Incorporating a positive and entertaining activity not only gives your kid something to anticipate but also transforms the return to school into a more thrilling and less overwhelming experience. This optimistic approach nurtures the belief that school can be both informative and enjoyable.

The Parenting Diary: 8 Habits to Start in 2024 to become Unstoppable!

Rebecca Samuel · January 8, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"Kickstart 2024 by incorporating habits into your routine, striking a balance between work, parenting, and personal growth—ensuring you shine in every aspect of your life."

It’s the start of 2024, the start of another working year and also the start of yet another school year. Between juggling new projects at work and your child’s priorities, it will be easy to lose a sense of yourself and your personal goals. Time may be tight, but good habits that are woven into your daily routine will set you up to be both a star parent and a well adjusted individual. Read on to find out more about 8 habits that you can start incorporating into your life in 2024!

1. The morning routine – stretch & strategise

Establish a routine in the morning which involves taking time for yourself. Start with a quick stretch. This can be as simple as neck rolls, toe touches and a few sun salutations. Then take a few minutes to pen down your plans for the day. I personally prefer to use a checklist which I can tick off throughout the day, giving me that desired sense of accomplishment, but you can use any method that works for you. This is a list of major things that you absolutely need to get done – and not every single minor task. Alternatively, you can also make this list the night before, and then take a few minutes to glance through it in the morning to get your game face on.

2. Write down your thoughts before bed

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Writing your thoughts down before bed will improve your quality of sleep. You can look at it as a brain dump of everything that has happened in your life for the day, or you could go a little further and reflect on everything that has happened. If writing takes up time, try using voice typing to get your thoughts down a little faster. Here are some ideas for musings that you can pen down:

Your goals for tomorrow
What you’re grateful for
Negative thoughts and the reasons for them
Reflections on the kids or your partner
Feelings about your job

3. Exercise for at least 30 minutes a day

Some of us have a gym membership and lift weights regularly while also making time to attend a Pilates, Kickboxing or Zumba class on a regular basis. Some of us struggle to just make it through the work day and be back in time to have dinner and conversation with the kids. Try to incorporate exercise into your daily routine by walking or taking the stairs whenever possible. Carve out time to take a walk after dinner or gift yourself a walking pad that can be used while you work. Try your best to get some workouts done throughout the week, be it swimming, jogging or playing badminton with the family. Your older self will thank you for keeping active!

4. Sit in Silence for 10 minutes every day

Our minds are racing with thousands of thoughts all the time, and as parents, we are often multitasking in ways we didn’t know was possible. Sitting quietly for 10 minutes a day and emptying your mind will do wonders for your brain. It will give your racing thoughts a break and teach you how to be present in the moment. If you struggle to do this by yourself, try downloading a meditation app such as Headspace or Calm.

5. Establish a solid sleep schedule

Sleep is essential for reducing stress, your mental health, improving your mood and increasing your efficiency. If you stay up at night worrying or scrolling through your phone, you are not giving yourself the chance to have the best quality of life that you deserve. For deep and good quality sleep, remember to:

Turn off all screens at least 1 hour before bedtime
Do not eat at least 3 hours before bedtime
Ensure that your bedroom is cool and at a conducive temperature for sleep
Use blackout curtains to ensure that light pollution will not disturb your sleep
Do deep breathing and count backwards from 100 to 0. Or count sheep, anything goes!

6. Take a 30 minute walk in nature

If you live in Singapore, chances are that a park connector is fairly nearby. Even if it isn’t, a small park or a quiet tree-lined street will go a long way towards improving your mood. It has been proven that Nature can help get rid of anxiety, increase happiness and infuse calm. Moreover, it might be a great way to get your kids away from their screens and to have that after-school chat. [Read: Connecting with Your Kids: After-School Chats]

7. Read 10 pages a day

Can you barely remember the last time you picked up a book, or were able to concentrate on getting through it? Life gets in the way, and with a busy work schedule and kids, it becomes hard to find time to read entire books. Reading is what helps us develop as individuals and it is also what provides us with knowledge to improve our lives. Instead of attempting to read a book or two a month, try starting out with a mere 10 pages a day. This may eventually lead to more pages and even if it doesn’t, you will definitely get through the entire book at a certain point. Reading will help you increase your focus, knowledge and self-confidence. It will also give you bragging rights when trying to get the kids to read!

8. Drink water with every meal

This may go without saying, but plenty of adults do not drink sufficient water. This interferes with both your physical and mental health, causing greater irritability, impatience and exhaustion. Drink 300 to 500ml of water at every meal and make it a point to finish it before leaving the table. If you find it difficult to remember, try purchasing a water bottle with the exact measurement that you need, and drink from it throughout the day. Again, your older self will thank you for the hydration!

6 Tips for Your Kids to Have a Healthy School Year

Nadya Sharfina · January 5, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"As COVID-19 persists in Singapore, safeguarding our kids' health becomes paramount; take proactive steps with these six tips for a secure and healthy school year."

As COVID-19 continues to spread in Singapore, it’s important to make sure our kids stay healthy. To tackle the problems caused by the pandemic as well as other viral diseases, we’ve got to take action. It’s important to look at key strategies that can help kids stay healthy as they start a new school year in the middle of an ongoing health crisis. Take a look at these six tips to make sure kids stay healthy and safe during the school year.

Teaching Proper Hand Washing

It is critical to teach children how to properly wash their hands. Washing hands with soap for at least 20 seconds is significant because it helps prevent the spread of illness, not only in the classroom but throughout the entire school. Bacteria can quickly spread from one person to another. Teach kids to wash their hands after blowing their nose, going to the bathroom, and before eating. This helps lower the chance of getting sick and passing it on to others.

Make sure your kids always have hand sanitiser on hand, such as at their desks or in their bags. When kids are unable to wash their hands, they should use hand sanitizer before snacks or lunch and after touching shared items such as laptops or pencils. Provide your kids with a box of tissues to keep in their desks or bags. Tell them to sneeze into a tissue if they need to. Washing hands, combined with using hand sanitiser and wearing masks, is our best defence against many illnesses.

Keep the Immune System Strong

While there isn’t a proven way to ‘boost’ the immune system, maintaining good health is key to ensuring that kids’ immune systems work well. Having enough sleep, a balanced diet, stress management, regular exercise, and a focus on handwashing all play a role in reducing the likelihood of children catching colds, flu, or other illnesses.

Vaccination continues to be the most effective method of disease prevention. However, supplements such as elderberry, vitamin C and garlic are often used to aid with immunity support. Of course, you should always consult a doctor before giving your child supplements.

Check on Your Child’s Mental Health

Many kids and teenagers have faced challenges with their mental health, especially in the context of the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic. It is crucial to establish an environment where kids feel at ease discussing their emotions, emphasising that it is perfectly acceptable to express concerns about sensitive issues. Kids often shy away from such discussions due to the fear of judgement, lectures, or punishment. Therefore, assuring them that they can share their thoughts with their parents without the fear of being judged becomes even more vital during these uncertain times.

Monitoring for any behavioural changes indicative of anxiety, depression, or distress is essential, especially given the added stressors associated with the pandemic. Keep an eye out for:

Shifts in their mood, such as increased irritability, sadness, or frequent mood swings.
Changes in sleep patterns or hunger,
An abrupt drop in academic performance
Withdrawal from social activities or isolation from friends and family.
Physical symptoms, such as headaches or stomachaches, that have no obvious medical explanation may be indicators of emotional distress.
A sudden loss of interest in previously enjoyed hobbies may indicate underlying emotional issues.

If there is uncertainty regarding a child’s need for assistance or how to initiate a conversation, seeking guidance from a paediatrician or exploring school-based mental health programs is highly recommended.

Get Good Sleep Habits Going

Ensuring that kids get enough sleep is critical to their health. Lack of sleep has been linked to a variety of problems in kids, including trouble concentrating, obesity, sad thoughts,, and an increased vulnerability to injuries.

Sleep has an impact on academic achievement in addition to physical and emotional well-being. Incorporating stability into their schedules and providing reassurance during times of stress or uncertainty will help them sleep better.

Power Up with a Good Breakfast

A good breakfast is key for boosting kids’ brainpower. Having a nutritious breakfast with sufficient protein, fats and carbs is super important for making kids’ brains work better and keeping theirenergy levels steady throughout the day. Eating breakfast every day has loads of benefits. Kids who make it a habit get more of the good stuff their bodies need and eat less fat and cholesterol. They also get higher amounts of iron, B vitamins, and vitamin D, which are all very important. Check out ‘Smart Food Choices for Kids’ During Exams.’

You can also give nutritious snacks to kids. Choosing options like fruits, vegetables, or whole-grain snacks can provide the energy they need without compromising on nutritional value. Snacking healthily between meals not only keeps hunger at bay but also contributes to maintaining a well-balanced diet.

Stay Home When Sick

Choosing to keep your kids at home when they are sick is a responsible and considerate decision that not only prioritises their health but also safeguards the well-being of others. When you notice the onset of symptoms in your kids, such as a fever, cough, or general malaise, keeping them at home helps prevent the transmission of illness to other students, teachers, and the broader community.

Protecting kids’ health and well-being during the continuing COVID-19 pandemic demands a multifaceted approach. These six tips point out the significance of taking proactive actions to ensure that kids are safe and healthy. Combining these practices with a collaborative commitment to staying informed and following established guidelines will be our best protection against the further spread of COVID-19 in schools and communities.

Preparing for PSLE Throughout the School Year

Nadya Sharfina · January 3, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"Embrace the PSLE journey with strategic planning and best practices; watch your child thrive in their final year of primary school."

Is it PSLE year already? Where has the time gone, you wonder as your child leaves the house in their primary school uniform for their final year. As we approach the PSLE (Primary School Leaving Examination) year, you might want to begin strategic planning for this critical academic challenge. Read on for some best practices and practical ideas that may significantly impact and improve your child’s PSLE preparation.

Get a Head Start

Begin your PSLE preparations early. Start practising with past year papers to see where your child stands, and in order to find out which areas of improvement to concentrate on. Early preparation not only helps your child to do well academically, but it also teaches them discipline and a routine that will come in handy during the exam period.

Adopt general study skills early in the year, in addition to subject-specific preparation. Teach your child how to manage their time effectively, take useful notes, and stay organised. Teach them not to be afraid to ask for help, and to treat learning as an ongoing process rather than a last-minute sprint. Developing these habits early on allows kids to approach education with a well-rounded attitude that lasts throughout the year and extends beyond exams.

Make a Solid Study Plan

A well-organised study plan will serve as a guide while students prepare for the PSLE. It aids in maintaining attention and accountability. Prioritise subjects where your child may need extra assistance while still allowing enough time to revise each subject. Avoid last-minute cramming in favour of a well-balanced method of regular reviewing, consistent practice, and occasional revision. This not only improves memory but also reduces tension, resulting in a more positive attitude toward learning.

Learn how to develop effective goals. To make large study goals more manageable, divide them into smaller activities. Keep track of your child’s progress and recognise little accomplishments along the road. Feeling accomplished encourages kids to continue working on their preparations. Also, ensure that your child participates in the creation of the study plan, tailoring it to their learning style and preferences. This collaborative method empowers your child to cultivate a lifetime passion for learning.

Use Breaks Wisely

Take breaks to do extensive revision across multiple courses. However, it is not only about academics; make time for relaxation and family time as well. A relaxed mind absorbs and retains material more effectively, allowing you to face the PSLE with confidence.

The Pomodoro Technique

Consider incorporating the Pomodoro technique into your child’s study routine. The Pomodoro approach divides your child’s study time into small, focused chunks of 25 minutes each, followed by a 5-minute rest. This systematic technique can improve focus and productivity while reducing burnout and enhancing their study experience. Experiment with various durations to see what works best for your child, and remember to use the breaks to stretch or refresh their mind.

Eat That Frog

The ‘Eat That Frog’ technique can be effective as well, especially when it comes to prioritising and conquering challenging tasks early in the day. This method encourages tackling the most challenging and important tasks first thing. By addressing their most difficult subjects or assignments first, it will set a positive tone for the remainder of the day and help kids to avoid procrastinating.

Embrace Visual Aids

When studying for the PSLE, visual aids are your best friend. Work with your child to create mind maps, graphs, and charts for each subject to help retain complicated knowledge. Making visual representations actively engages the mind in the learning process, allowing students to gain a better comprehension of the content. You can also employ technology, such as apps, to generate interactive visualisations to spice up your child’s study routine. Check out ‘5 Ways to Take Better Notes in Class’. Variety keeps kids engaged and aids in the retention of information. Practice Exam Conditions

Practising test settings is critical for PSLE preparation. To imitate the actual exam setting, schedule timed practice sessions for each subject. This allows kids to become acquainted with the pressure and time limits, boosting their confidence in their talents. During these practice runs, kids will learn to manage their time wisely and devise a strategy for each component of the exam. After each practice, get your child to reflect by considering their performance, finding areas for development, and recognizing their talents. Each practice session becomes a useful learning experience as a result of this reflecting process, sharpening their techniques and increasing their readiness for the actual exam day.

Think Positive

Be aware of the psychological part of PSLE preparation. Spend some time practising positive visualisation. Remind your child of their triumphs on mock exams—what tactics worked well, and how can they apply these skills in the real exams? You can raise their confidence and lessen exam anxiety by getting them to recall their earlier accomplishments. Extend this activity to include picturing the full exam day. Envision a calm and concentrated mindset, good problem-solving, and the joy of confidently completing each segment. Positive imagery cultivates resilience and a proactive approach to adversity.

Balance is Key

While scoring well on tests is vital, maintaining a healthy lifestyle is also essential. Remember to get your child to participate in physical activities and hobbies outside of class. A five-hour study session may appear productive, but a balanced lifestyle will keep them rejuvenated, energised, and better able to concentrate when they hit the books.. Get your kids to collaborate in the creation of their schedules, giving them the ability to control their time and activities. Balancing academics and recreational activities improves study efficiency and mental health. Remember that a healthy mind in a healthy body is the cornerstone for long-term success.

Effective preparation for the PSLE demands a proactive and well-rounded approach. By integrating these elements into the PSLE preparation journey, you can navigate the challenges with confidence and optimise your performance.

How to Set Goals and Achieve Them in the New School Year

Nadya Sharfina · December 28, 2023 · Leave a Comment

“A new school year is a voyage; goals act as our compass, offering direction and purpose, guiding us through challenges, nurturing focus beyond grades, and building resilience for life’s unexpected turns.”

Starting a new school year feels like embarking on a major trip. Creating goals is the way to chart out a milestone map. Goals provide us with a feeling of direction and purpose, ensuring that we are not simply wandering through the school year. Whether it’s studying for exams, developing as a person, or participating in extracurricular activities, goals keep us focused and motivated. It’s not just about obtaining good grades; it’s about developing the ability to deal with whatever life throws at us.

Understanding Goals

Have you wondered what goals mean? People frequently use the word “goal” synonymously with phrases like “dreams” and “expectations.” Dreams can become goals, but they are not the same thing. Dreams, which usually come from our deepest wishes, live in the world of imagination.

Goals and expectations are also not the same thing. Assume you want to achieve at least 3 A1s or more this semester. There are expectations, such as attending all classes, scheduling particular study hours, seeking assistance when needed, and submitting assignments on time. However, let’s face it, expectations don’t always match up with reality.

A goal can be defined as a set result that is envisioned and planned for with a commitment made to achieving it. It is useful to give yourself a deadline in order to ensure that the goal is reached within a finite time period. Goals serve as a guide, guiding us through the difficult areas of life, school, and personal development.

Steps to Help You Set Effective Goals

Setting effective goals demands an organised approach. Here are some thoughtful measures to assist you with this task:

Step 1: Make a Plan

Once you’ve determined your goal, the first step is to develop a precise plan. This plan should detail the things you need to complete and when you need to complete them. For example, if you want to increase your academic performance, it’s important to create a schedule for studying and doing homework.

Step 2: Break Down the Goal

Instead of hurrying, divide your big goal into smaller, more achievable chunks. This not only makes it easier to achieve, but it also keeps you motivated by breaking down your path into manageable steps.

Step 3: Create a Resource List

Achieving goals frequently necessitates the use of tools and resources. Planners, websites, YouTube videos, books, or even movies can all be extremely beneficial.

Here are some excellent motivational books and films to get you started:

The Magic of Thinking Big, by David J. Schwartz: This book emphasises the importance of cultivating a positive mindset, setting ambitious goals, and taking action to turn those goals into reality. It encourages readers to believe in their abilities, overcome fear and procrastination, and develop habits that contribute to success.
How to Calm Your Mind, by Chris Bailey: This book assists readers in being more productive during stressful situations. Author Chris Bailey, who personally experienced stress, burnout, and fatigue, discusses how finding calm and reducing mental load may lead to a more fulfilling existence. His book can help people become more involved and focused.
The Blind Side (2009): The film emphasizes the theme of nurturing and support in helping someone achieve their goals. It showcases the transformative journey of Michael Oher, who goes from being homeless and struggling to finding success as a skilled football player.
The Swimmers (2022): It’s a biographical drama movie about two young sisters who fled their home country of Syria in 2015 when their house was destroyed during the civil war. Their goal was to compete in two swimming events at the Rio Olympics as part of the Refugee Olympic team. This story will inspire you to set goals and to see them through despite the setbacks that you face.

Step 4: Make Some Ground Rules

Setting some ground rules for yourself is necessary for staying focused. These principles serve as guidelines, ensuring that you stay on course and avoid distractions. Creating and sticking to personal guidelines is critical to achieving your goal.

Consider creating a Time Management Rule to ensure productivity by allocating certain time slots for study sessions and minimising breaks. Another important rule is the Technology Distraction Rule, which advises you to keep electronic gadgets on mute and to set up specific times to check messages to avoid continual interruptions. A Task Prioritization Rule, which entails creating daily or weekly to-do lists that highlight critical tasks and priorities, can also be effective. By following these ground rules, you can enhance your ability to focus and increase your chances of achieving your goals.

Step 5: Stay Motivated

It is critical to maintain motivation during the challenging process of reaching a goal. Achieving success on a specific test, for example, can be one of these small victories in an academic context. Don’t be quick to give up if you receive a low score on exams or assignments. You can feel sad or engage in activities to heal yourself but don’t linger too long. Time passes quickly, and you have many things to do if you want to achieve your goals.

Step 6: Set Up a Deadline

When you set a specific endpoint for achieving your objective, it helps you stay organised and feel a sense of urgency. Knowing that there is a visible finish line inspires you to keep working hard and keeps you inspired throughout the road. A deadline can help you put your objective into a more planned and attainable strategy, making the path to accomplishment clearer and more doable.

Step 7: Track Progress

Checking your progress regularly is critical in the goal-setting process. This entails establishing milestones, or points at which you can see how far you’ve progressed. Setting a goal for a specific grade on an upcoming test, for example, can be a way to measure your progress if you want to improve academically.

Why Setting Goals is Important for You

Reason 1: Goals Maintain Your Progress

Having goals is similar to having a road map for our dreams. They assist us in determining where we are headed and why. It’s like a small push that keeps us motivated and focused so we can always make progress, whether in school or in other areas of our lives.

Reason 2: Goals Conquer Big Challenges.

We all have big dreams, don’t we? They can appear difficult at times, like ascending a massive mountain. However, goals are like breaking down a large mountain into smaller slopes. It makes things less frightening and allows us to enjoy each stride we take. It’s not about doing everything all at once; it’s about conquering little by little.

Reason 3: Goals Promote Accountability

Goals hold us accountable for our actions. We are more likely to stay on track when we set goals with concrete plans. It’s similar to assuring ourselves that we’ll get things done. This teaches us excellent habits and how to manage our time and decisions.

Goals motivate you to strive for excellence.

Reason 4: Goals Challenge You

They’re like a friendly competition with ourselves. We are inspired to accomplish better when we aim high. It’s not only about grades; it’s about becoming a better person, stretching our limits, and feeling satisfied with what we can do.

Reason 5: Goals Prepare You for Adulthood

Setting goals is a valuable ability to have as you grow older. It is for life, not only for school. When we learn how to develop and achieve goals, we are preparing for adulthood. It prepares us to face obstacles, make wise decisions, and succeed in whatever we choose to do next. It’s like our future secret weapon.

In conclusion, setting goals is a smart and strategic process. By planning carefully, breaking goals into doable steps, using resources wisely, setting personal rules, staying motivated, adding deadlines, and regularly checking progress, we can work towards success. Whether it’s improving grades or pursuing a different goal, these phases provide us with a road map to follow. As we use these ideas, we not only increase our chances of success but also develop talents that will benefit us in many aspects of our lives. Remember that while obtaining a goal is essential, so is the journey, and understanding how to create objectives is a skill that will serve us well throughout our lives.

Things to Remember for the First Day of School

Nadya Sharfina · December 26, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"Coming back to school after a relaxed holiday is more than a return to routine—it's a shift from vacation mode to academic focus."

As a returning student, starting a new school year entails more than just moving up a grade. It is a journey of confronting new obstacles and growing. Transitioning from a peaceful holiday vacation to an organised school routine requires preparation. This article will provide you and your kid with guidelines for an outstanding school year.

1. Catch Up on Assignments

As the holiday season comes to an end, help your kid catch up on any missed assignments. Create a plan for completing these tasks so that they can enter the new school year with confidence and having fulfilled all academic responsibilities.

Set up an isolated study room or nook at home for your kid to concentrate on their homework. Create a schedule that incorporates breaks and rewards to make the task a bit easier and more productive. By turning catching up on assignments into an excellent and collaborative activity, you set the tone for a proactive attitude towards learning.

2. Open Communication About Feelings

Begin an open and supportive discussion about your kid’s feelings regarding the upcoming school year. Discuss their hopes, interests, and potential concerns. Dive further into their feelings by asking specific questions about areas of school life that may be generating concern. Address any worries kids may have, such as the potential of bullying, difficult subjects, or teachers who may not understand them. Assure them that if circumstances like these happen, they can always talk to you, emphasising your availability as a supporting ally.

Tailor your comfort and counsel to their requirements, building a sense of stability that will accompany them as they navigate the social and academic obstacles of the new grade.

3. Establish a Morning Routine

Help your kid develop a morning routine that goes beyond the basics. Encourage self-care activities like mindful moments or short exercises, and emphasise the importance of consuming a nutritious breakfast. If you’re looking for the best ideas for healthy food that your kids will love, check out ‘Smart Food Choices for Kids During Exams.’ Get them to organise their uniform and school supplies the night before to ensure a smooth start every day.

Discuss the value of having a morning routine in creating a happy mentality and being prepared for the day ahead. Instil the importance of consistency, self-discipline, and life skills that extend beyond the classroom.

4. Back-to-School Shopping

Explore the world of back-to-school shopping with your kid. Turn the seemingly boring task of purchasing school supplies into a pleasurable ritual. Allow your kid to express their style and preferences when selecting school supplies; cute notebooks and stationery can add a boost to note-taking during learning. Additionally, consider buying them new shoes, a backpack, or a lunch box. This annual tradition can be exciting because it marks the start of a new school adventure.

5. Plan for Transportation

Discuss your kid’s transportation options, whether it’s getting a bus pass or arranging drop-off plans. Make the trip to the bus station or drop-off location a known and comfortable part of their routine. Communicate security protocols and guidelines with them to ensure they are confident and prepared for their daily travel.

Remind them to text you whenever they have a study group or just hang out with friends after school so that they may come home late. This will teach them responsible communication, trust, and transparency.

6. Encourage a Passion Project

Enhance your kid’s school experience by encouraging them to work on a passion project throughout the year. Whether it’s their hobbies, something they enjoy doing creatively, an extracurricular activity, or a personal goal, devoting time to their interests outside of the classroom aids with a well-rounded and happy educational journey.

Work with your kid to find their interest and develop a plan to pursue it. This ongoing effort serves as a source of inspiration, instilling a sense of purpose and accomplishment that transcends school accomplishments.

7. Set Goals for Your Kid

Encourage your kid to develop reasonable and attainable goals as the school year begins. Collaborate with them to write these goals down in a special journal or planner.

Take it a step further by making an achievement goal board together. This can be a visual representation of what they want to achieve and this board can act as a continual reminder and motivation. Encourage your kid to set goals related to character development, time management, or extracurricular activities. This holistic approach guarantees that your kid focuses on their whole growth and well-being, producing a balanced and enriching experience.

In conclusion, as you work through these steps with your kid, you are not only preparing for the first day of school, but also building the framework for a year full of development, discovery, and memorable moments. Approach this voyage with curiosity, enthusiasm, and the assurance that comes from thoughtful preparation.

Christmas Gift Ideas 2023 Edition

Nadya Sharfina · December 19, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"The beauty Christmas gift is not just in the box but in the sentimental it unlocks."

Christmas vibes are everywhere, making this period of time feel magical. While we’re busy with holiday preparation, finding just the right gifts for our favourite people can be a little challenging at times. This article spells out some easy to find Christmas gift ideas that work for everyone. Let’s check out some thoughtful presents, making this holiday season full of warmth, love, and joy.

Gifts for Men

Portable Espresso Machine

Portable espresso machines are made for on-the-go use and can be used anywhere, like at work, while camping, or on road trips. They’re great for guys who are always moving around and want a good espresso wherever they are. These machines are small and simple to use, providing a handy way to have a fresh espresso without needing electricity. Men who like things easy and efficient will like how simple it is to use a portable espresso machine. Even though they’re small, many of these machines are designed to make high-quality coffee with a rich flavour and a good crema. This can be attractive to men who enjoy a good cup of coffee and want a fancy experience even when they’re not at home.

Check out the WACACO portable espresso machine. It’s really easy – just add water and coffee grounds, press the button, and there you go, your coffee is ready!

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Screen Amplifier

If he’s into football and movies, consider getting him a Screen Amplifier – it’s a great pick. The bigger screen helps reduce eye strain and tiredness from squinting or staring at small screens for a long time. This is helpful for guys who use their smartphones a lot for work or entertainment. Screen amplifiers are also perfect for sharing stuff with others, so they’re awesome for social situations or when watching videos with friends and family.

You can check out the Smartphone Screen Amplifier – it makes their phone screen four times bigger! Just unfold the lightweight screen amplifier, put the phone behind it, and hit play. It comes in different sizes, from 12 inches to 18 inches.

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Apple AirPods Max

AirPods are a go-to choice for guys who love listening to music or podcasts. With their cord-free design, these wireless wonders make physical activities a breeze, giving a more comfy and hassle-free experience.

Whether he’s working, chilling, or on the move, AirPods can do it all. They’re great for taking calls, joining virtual meetings, enjoying music, and more – a versatile and practical gift.

Consider gifting him the Apple AirPods Max for a stylish audio experience. Available in five colours. Loaded with features like Active Noise Cancellation, ultra-low distortion, and booming bass, the listening experience is top-notch.

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Gifts for Women

Cute Ceramics & Tableware

Adorable ceramics often sport delightful and visually appealing designs. The charming look of these items can level up the dining experience, adding a dash of style and beauty to the table. There’s a whole range of cute ceramics out there, including mugs, plates, bowls, and more. This variety lets you put together a collection that works for different occasions, from laid-back breakfasts to fancy dinners. The pleasure of using tableware that’s easy on the eyes can make the dining experience more enjoyable.

You can take a look at Bowerbird Ceramics for some stunning vases and other home goodies. They’ve got hand-painted pieces that are just right for Christmas gifts.

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Polaroid Camera

A Polaroid camera brings a unique perk with its ability to generate instant prints. These Polaroid prints aren’t just quick memories; they’re versatile for creative and decorative uses. Whether displayed on walls, tucked into scrapbooks, or integrated into personalised art projects, they add a personalised touch to living spaces.

Check out this Polaroid camera. It comes with five lens filters to capture various vibes, and the coolest part is, it can connect to an app on your phone.

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Sephora Beauty Gift Sets/Cards

Makeup gift sets are a fabulous choice, typically including a range of products like lipstick, eyeshadow, blush, and more. This diverse selection lets women play around with various looks, offering options for everyday wear as well as special occasions. Some sets are curated to create a complete makeup look, with products that complement each other, making it easier for women to achieve a coordinated and polished appearance.

The holiday Sephora gift sets are tempting for women, not just because of their beautiful packaging (perfect for gifting) but also for the incredible value they offer. Some sets even feature full-sized products at a fraction of the regular price.

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Gifts for Kids of All Ages

Bike or Balance Bike

Riding a bike is a super fun and effective way for kids to get moving and stay active. It helps them develop important physical skills. Balance bikes take the spotlight in helping children learn balance skills. Riding a bike involves using a bunch of motor skills, like pedalling, steering, and braking. All of these actions help kids develop motor skills.

If your little one is aged 4 and above, consider a balance bike, like one from Little Shop. It’s a fantastic way to get them started on the joy of biking!

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Card and Board Games

Card and board games offer more than just entertainment; they’re a fantastic way for kids to boost their thinking skills: strategic thinking, problem-solving, critical thinking, memory, and concentration all come into play when kids engage in these games.

These games become a source of enjoyable, low-stakes family bonding. Gathering around a table, sharing laughs, and creating lasting memories through the shared experience of playing games is a delightful way for families to connect.

If you’re looking for a small yet exciting stocking stuffer for kids aged 6 and above, consider games like Monopoly, Do You Really Know Your Family, Ticket to Ride, Tetris and Scrabble. They’re the perfect size to slip into that Christmas stocking for some festive fun.

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Nintendo Switch

Parents of kids aged 8 and above, the Nintendo Switch is likely to be on their Christmas wish list. The Nintendo Switch allows for multiplayer gaming, providing enjoyable family time.

If you’re considering game additions, some top picks include A Boy and His Blob, Animal Crossing, Crash Bandicoot 4, New Pokemon Snap, Mario Party Superstars, Mario Kart, Luigi’s Mansion 3, and Summer in Mara – these games are sure to be a hit with the gaming crowd!

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Gifts for Helper

Flights Home

Gifting a flight ticket home to a helper is both meaningful and practical, offering a range of benefits that contribute to their well-being and happiness. For many helpers working abroad, being away from their families poses emotional challenges.

These positive experiences can have a significant impact on their overall mental and emotional well-being. Living in a foreign country often triggers homesickness, and a flight home provides helpers with the chance to return to familiar surroundings, offering a much-needed break and helping alleviate homesickness. This thoughtful gift goes beyond the material, addressing the emotional needs of the helper and enhancing their quality of life.

Cash Bonus

Helpers may have various financial responsibilities, such as supporting their families, paying bills, or managing personal expenses. A cash bonus can provide much-needed financial relief. A cash bonus is a tangible way to recognize and appreciate the hard work and dedication of a helper. It serves as a direct acknowledgement of their contributions to the household or workplace. Your helper will surely appreciate some extra cash, especially if they can send it to their family back home in case they can’t visit them. Giving cash along with a thoughtful card and maybe some flowers or a box of chocolates is always a nice gesture.

3. Skin & Body Care Sets

A skin and body care set is a thoughtful gift, usually containing items like lotions and body wash. This collection encourages the helper to carve out time for themselves, fostering a sense of well-being and stress relief.

A notable brand like Bath & Body Works is an excellent choice due to its vibrant, festive packaging and delightful-smelling bath products.

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All about Co-Curricular Activities: How to Choose the Right CCA for Your Kids

Nadya Sharfina · December 14, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"CCAs empower students to explore their passions, build character, and foster inclusive communities that transcend academic boundaries, shaping resilient individuals equipped for future challenges."

Co-Curricular Activities (CCAs) go beyond mere extracurricular pursuits; they are essential elements in moulding individuals into well-rounded and socially adept beings. This page seeks to serve as an informative guide for parents navigating the realm of CCAs for their kids entering Secondary School.

In this article, we will delve into the significance of CCAs, guide you in selecting the most suitable activity for your children, and offer advice for situations where they may not have a clear preference yet.

1. Understanding CCAs

CCAs are activities that encourage students to discover their passions and talents. Aside from that, CCAs provide a conducive setting for character development, teaching values, cultivating social-emotional competencies, and providing students with critical skills that will be invaluable in handling challenges in the future.

CCAs are inclusive spaces that bring students from various backgrounds together and are a prominent venue for developing solidarity among students from all origins and academic abilities. It becomes a place where they can form friendships, play, and learn from one another, providing vital possibilities for socialising, and also deepening students’ sense of belonging to both the school and the larger community.

Students in most secondary schools are presented with a choice of four distinct CCA groups, namely:

Clubs and Societies
Physical Sports
Uniformed Groups
Visual and Performing Arts

On occasion with the permission of the school, students can also establish activities that allow them to explore hobbies or concepts that are not currently represented in existing CCAs. These projects also broaden the range of activities offered at their school, resulting in a more diversified and engaging co-curricular experience.

2. Why CCAs Matter and When to Start

The Ministry of Education (MOE) emphasises the importance of Co-Curricular Activities (CCA) as an essential component of a student’s educational experience. At times, parents may become overly focused on academia and exams. Students frequently discover their interests and abilities while participating in CCAs. This engagement not only reveals hidden potential but also fosters critical skills and competencies.

CCA involvement in primary schools is often initiated in Primary 3. This early introduction establishes the groundwork for overall development.

Moving on to secondary schools, CCA participation becomes mandatory beginning in Secondary 1. Students are expected to participate in at least one CCA, with many choosing to participate in a second CCA. This not only broadens their skill set but also improves their overall educational experience.

3. Choosing the Right CCA in Secondary School

Choosing a CCA in secondary school is a fun time for children to explore their interests, whether it’s sports, clubs, groups, or arts. CCAs can teach them things they won’t learn in class. How can you help your children pick the right one? Here are some tips:

Reflect on interests and goals: Identify your child’s passions and align them with suitable CCAs.
Manage time and commitments: Consider the time demands of CCAs and align them with your child’s schedule and other commitments.
Research options: Explore various CCAs either through resources online or from the school to make informed choices.
Encourage trying new things: Embrace the opportunity to step out of your child’s comfort zone, and potentially discover new interests.
Promote Personal Growth: Focus on CCAs that will contribute to your child’s personal development.
Flexibility in Choices: If the chosen CCA doesn’t align with your child’s expectations, encourage exploration of other meaningful activities.

4. What to Do When You Can’t Decide

If your child hasn’t identified a particular ability or passion, and you as a parent haven’t indicated an interest, it’s a good idea to do some preliminary research.

Open House events or co-curricular activity (CCA) showcases and fairs are common at most secondary schools. Students, joined by their parents and siblings, acquire insights into the dynamics of each CCA group at these events. They can participate in a variety of events, and both senior CCA members and faculty advisors are on hand to answer any questions.

It is also important to note that these events are critical opportunities for CCA organisations to actively find and cultivate talent. As a result, if your child’s school extends an invitation to one of these meetings, you should make time in your calendar to attend.

In summary, CCAs are crucial for shaping well-rounded individuals by fostering passion and life skills. This guide helps parents navigate CCAs for Secondary School, emphasizing inclusivity, social development, and a sense of belonging. The article covers understanding CCAs, their importance, and tips for choosing the right activity. It highlights diverse options and advises on early initiation. For indecisive parents and students, attending school events like Open Houses is key to exploring possibilities. In actively participating, parents contribute to their child’s holistic development, ensuring a fulfilling secondary school experience.

Experience the Magic of Christmas Wonderland in 2023

Nadya Sharfina · November 30, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"Experience the magic of Christmas Wonderland at Gardens by the Bay—lights, rides, and festive fun await!"

Prepare to have the best Christmas ever at Gardens by the Bay! Christmas Wonderland, sponsored by Trip.com, will return from December 1 to January 1, 2024. Picture this: a massive fairground, carnival rides, a Christmas Train, a plethora of lights, and even ‘snowfall’! Christmas Wonderland will cover 27,000 square metres this year, with three cool zones: Supertree Grove, Frosty’s Fairground at The Meadow, and Gingerbread Grove. You will see 13 incredible light displays, ride new carnival attractions, play carnival games, visit Santa, enjoy delicious holiday food, watch local artists perform live, and much more. From December 1, 2023, to January 1, 2024, this enchanting event will take place at Gardens by the Bay, located at 18 Marina Gardens Drive, Singapore 018953. Don’t miss out on this spectacular event!

Exploring Enchanting Lights and Insta-Worthy Spots

The Spalliera steals the show at Christmas Wonderland, towering 20 metres high, equivalent to the height of five double-decker buses! A team of seven have worked for a month to put together this shining star of Christmas Wonderland, complete with a breathtaking display of 103,000 twinkling bulbs. Kids can also explore the enchanting world of the Gingerbread House, a sugar-themed zone filled with sparkling lights. It is set in a field of shimmering candy canes, creating an enchanting setting. It’s a perfect spot for those delightful Instagram snaps!

Don’t miss this year’s Walk of Lights, which is a stunning 65-metre stretch of walkway lit by an incredible 75,000 bulbs, making it the largest display ever seen at Christmas Wonderland. It’s a visual feast with Instagram-worthy LED lights in every colour imaginable, so bring your cameras!

As if that weren’t enough, the Garden Rhapsody light and sound extravaganza takes place against the stunning Spalliera backdrop. The renowned Supertrees will ‘dance’ to beloved Christmas tunes, and there will even be simulated ‘snowfall’ during Blizzard Time to add a touch of winter magic. However, we have to be realistic: it will probably not snow! Don’t miss these magical daily performances at 7.45 p.m., 8.45 p.m., and 9.35 p.m. Get ready for a show that’s nothing short of spectacular!

Game Time Bliss and Santa’s Playhouse

Christmas Wonderland is bursting with carnival fun! Swing by Frosty’s Fairground at The Meadow for an exhilarating time on five thrilling rides, including Bumper Cars, a Flying Dumbo, a Hot Air Balloon, a Carousel, and a stunning Christmas Train. The rides start at $8. There’s more fun to be had at Supertree Grove and Frosty’s Fairground with games like Ring Toss, Fishy Fishy, and Blockbuster. Dive in and who knows, you might just win a spectacular prize! Game rates begin at $6.

Calling all kids eager to spot Santa Claus – Rudolph himself, the guy in red will be making a special visit at Christmas Wonderland 2023! Head to St. Nick’s Square, where Father Christmas will pose for photos with the children before leaving on his globe gift-giving expedition.

Culinary Delights and Shopping Thrills

After all the excitement, you’re bound to work up an appetite, but no worries, there’s a feast of festive dining options waiting for you! Satisfy your appetite at Burger & Lobster, Kebabs Faktory, and Sofnade. Don’t miss out on the 18 food and beverage outlets scattered around the Supertree Grove and Frosty’s Fairground, ensuring you won’t go hungry.

Last but not least Immerse yourself in a European-style Christmas Market at Christmas Wonderland to contribute to the holiday atmosphere. Stroll through Mistletoe Alley Market, where you’ll find a charming selection of festive huts and official Christmas Wonderland items, making it the ideal place to pick up some seasonal souvenirs. It’s not just a feast for your taste buds, but also a delight for your shopping cravings!

The New PSLE Sorting Hat: Posting Groups vs Academic Streams

Nadya Sharfina · November 22, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"Breaking new ground in 2024, MOE implements a forward-thinking strategy, classifying Primary 6 students into three groups based on PSLE scores."

Are you a parent or student in Singapore confused about the changes in the education system? The Ministry of Education (MOE) has implemented a new classification system for Primary 6 students. How will the new posting system shape your secondary school experience? Let’s look at how this transition may affect your educational journey and options.

What are Posting Groups?

Starting from the 2024 Secondary 1 batch, MOE will categorise Primary 6 pupils into three groups (1, 2, and 3) based on their Primary School Leaving Examination (PSLE) scores. These groups correspond to the Normal (Technical), Normal (Academic), and Express courses.

For instance, Posting Group 3 students, such as those with PSLE scores ranging from four to twenty, will be able to enrol in most Secondary 1 subjects at the G3 level, similar to the existing Express course.

While these posting groups may appear to be new words replacing well-known streams, it will not change students’ secondary school experiences or trajectories. The main goal is to set up students for admission that corresponds with their learning abilities in Secondary 1.

What is the benefit of using posting groups instead of Express, NA and NT?

Students will not be separated into classes based on their posting groups after they arrive at school. Instead, they will be able to choose subjects at various levels based on their performance.

Moreover, instead of categorising students purely based on academic streams, schools will organise heterogeneous form classes. Students in these mixed-ability classrooms will participate in common subjects such as art, music, and physical education, fostering collaboration among those with diverse interests and backgrounds.

The posting groups preserve school accessibility by ensuring a broad mix of students in the classroom with different learning profiles. This strategy prevents schools from establishing the rigid hierarchy of the past.

Students from various posting groups within the same school can now take subjects at the same level as a result of the implementation of comprehensive subject-based banding. This adaptability allows students to pursue their interests without being restricted to specific academic streams.

How to Select a Secondary School: Sec 1 Posting

Rebecca Samuel · November 21, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"Selecting the right Secondary School is not just a choice; it's a pivotal decision shaping the path for the next four to five years of a student's journey."

Going to Secondary 1 is an important milestone in a student’s educational journey. Choosing an appropriate Secondary School truly makes a difference as it determines the course of the next four to five years of their lives. The Secondary One Posting Process may seem complex, but not to worry, we have broken it down for you step by step.

Starting from the the 2023 Primary 6 cohort, students will be posted through Posting Groups 1, 2 and 3 under the Full Subject-Based Banding (Full SBB). This allows them greater flexibility to offer subjects at appropriate subject levels. (To understand more about SBB, check out our article here: No More Boredom! Thanks to Subject Based Banding)

After receiving PSLE results, you and your child will have to shortlist the secondary schools and submit the school choices to MOE within 7 calendar days. The Secondary One posting process will then take place. Download the booklet below for a step by step process on how to pick your school of choice!

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The Cost of Tuition in Singapore: 2024 Edition

Nadya Sharfina · November 2, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"In Singapore, tuition classes are essential for many students, providing extra help and boosting confidence for academic success."

Tuition classes have a substantial role in Singapore’s educational scene. Singapore’s school system is highly competitive, and parents want their children to succeed academically, therefore tuition has become an important component of many students’ academic journey.

Tuition provides students with personalised attention, allowing them to grasp complex concepts, clarify doubts, and improve their understanding of school subjects. With tailored lessons and dedicated time, students can strengthen their foundation and perform better in exams.

Students establish a positive learning attitude through tuition. This increased confidence can translate into better participation in school. In this article, we will delve into the importance of tuition in Singapore and how it contributes to academic success.

Exploring Tuition Options in Singapore

Before diving into the costs, let’s first explore the different kinds of tuition options available in Singapore. Singapore offers a wide range of tuition options to cater to the diverse needs of students. Parents and students have numerous options for enhancing their learning based on what works best for them.

Private Tutors: This refers to a private tutor who provides one-on-one academic assistance to students. These tutors typically conduct sessions at the student’s home or a mutually agreed upon location. Private tutors offer flexible scheduling, allowing students to arrange sessions at convenient times.
Face to face Classes: Tuition centres serve as organised institutions where students can attend group learning sessions for a variety of subjects. Group learning fosters a collaborative environment, allowing students to learn from each other and engage in discussions.
Fully Online Classes: In the past few years, online learning has grown in popularity. Students can learn from home by attending live classes, watching videos, and taking quizzes and exercises. It’s convenient for students since they can find teachers from all around the world andlearn whenever they want from the comfort of home.

Tuition Costs in Singapore

Private tutors can be an excellent resource for students seeking personalised assistance with their studies. The cost of hiring a private tutor can vary based on factors such as the tutor’s qualifications, experience, and the subject matter being covered. Students can expect to pay between SGD $300 to $800 per month. This fee typically includes a set number of hours per week or month and may be adjusted based on the level of expertise required for the subject matter. A university undergraduate typically charges anything between $25 to $35 per hour, while qualified full time tutors charge around $40 to $60. Ex-MOE and NIE certified teachers charge between $70 to $110 per hour.

Alternatively, students may opt for group classes at tuition centres, which offer a structured learning environment. These sessions are often led by experienced educators and provide a comprehensive learning experience. The cost for group classes at tuition centres typically ranges from SGD $400 to $700 per month. This price includes all necessary materials and resources, as well as access to additional resources such as online learning platforms and instructor support.

In conclusion, the cost of tuition varies based on the level of education, the type of tuition option, and the subject matter. Parents and students should consider their budget, preferences, and academic goals when selecting a tuition provider. By making informed decisions, students can maximise their learning experience and achieve academic success.

Connecting with Your Kids: After-School Chats

Nadya Sharfina · October 31, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"The foundation of effective parenting lies in after-school interactions."

After-school conversations between parents and children play a pivotal role in a child’s overall development and well-being. These interactions are more than just a part of the routine; they are the foundation of effective parenting. Here are some of the reasons why after-school chats are necessary:

Creating the Right Environment

After a long day at school, children frequently require a relaxing environment in which they can be themselves and talk. Ensure that your children feel at ease at home. Make sure your child has a comfortable place to sit, and consider providing food or refreshments if they are hungry. Being comfy helps them feel relaxed. When your child returns home, show that you care about how their day went by giving them your full attention. Put away distractions like phones, laptops, or household chores. Make eye contact, smile, and offer a warm greeting to let your child know you’re focused on them.

It helps that you choose the best moment to speak with your child after school. Each child is unique; some may want to communicate right away, while others may require some time to unwind. Pay attention to what your child prefers. Start talking with them when you pick them up from school or around snack time. Having healthy food together and sitting down might make discussion more comfortable and relaxed.

The Power of Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions serve as a valuable communication tool, enabling deeper and more significant dialogues. Unlike closed-ended questions, which can be easily answered with a simple “yes” or “no,” open-ended questions encourage your child to share their thoughts, feelings, and experiences in a thorough and detailed manner. These questions create a welcoming space for conversation and motivate your child to express themselves openly. By using open-ended questions, you demonstrate your active listening skills and a genuine interest in your child’s perspective. This practice can enhance the parent-child connection and foster the development of trust.

Here are a few examples of open-ended questions that you can utilize to initiate meaningful discussions with your child after their school day:

What was the most interesting thing you learned today?
What’s something new you discovered today that you didn’t know before?
Is there anything that happened today that you’d like to talk about or share with me?
What challenges or problems did you encounter today, and how did you handle them?
If you could change one thing about your day today, what would it be?
What are your thoughts on a current event, a book they’re reading, or a subject they’re studying]?
Who did you spend time with during lunch or recess today? What did you talk about?
If one of your friends could be the teacher for the day, who would you want it to be?
What’s your teacher’s most important rule, and did anyone break it today?
What was your least favourite part of the day?

The Role of Routine

Consistency in your after-school interactions with your child plays a crucial role in their development and well-being. This consistency often stems from establishing routines that create a sense of stability and predictability in your child’s life. Routines act like a comforting framework for children. Because children can rely on a regular pattern for stability, knowing what to expect after school helps reduce their anxiety and provides them a sense of emotional security.

When you keep up with routines, like having planned chats with your child after school, it naturally creates chances for talking and bonding. Your child knows that there’s a set time every day for sharing and getting closer. These routines ensure that you schedule special quality time to engage with your child on a regular basis. This consistency enhances your bond and highlights how important they are in your life. Consistency isn’t just about sticking to a daily routine; it’s also about staying connected with your children as they grow and face new challenges.

Your child’s needs and interests will change as they grow older. It’s crucial to adjust your routines and how you communicate to match their different stages of development and changing preferences. Encourage open-ended conversations about their goals, dreams, and ambitions. Be a source of guidance and encouragement as they progress through adolescence. Always listen to your child with empathy and understanding, being someone they can trust and confide in when they experience both happiness and difficulties.

Smart Food Choices for Kids’ During Exams

Nadya Sharfina · September 19, 2023 · Leave a Comment

“Healthy eating is a way of life, so it’s important to establish routines that are simple, realistically, and ultimately livable.” – Horace

During exams, what students eat can impact how well they do, how focused they are, and how they feel overall. From the moment they wake up until they go to bed, every meal or snack is an opportunity to improve cognitive abilities and maintain proper energy levels.

This article delves into making smart food choices. It examines healthy options for breakfast, lunch, dinner, and various snack times. If parents include these healthy eating ideas in their children’s daily routine, they can help their kids get ready for exams and do well in school.

Breakfast: Starting the Day Right for Better Focus

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The well-known saying, “Breakfast is the most important meal of the day,” rings true and holds significant value, particularly when getting ready for exams. As children prepare for long study hours and difficult tests, starting their day with a healthy breakfast gives them the groundwork for improved focus and brain performance.

Breakfast plays a critical function in refuelling the body’s energy stores after a night of fasting. Without a proper breakfast, children may begin their day with low energy levels, making it difficult to focus on and absorb knowledge.

Breakfast ideas:

Oatmeal: A bowl of oatmeal topped with berries, nuts, and a little drizzle of honey: your children are getting a mix of good stuff like fibre, antioxidants, vitamins and minerals.
Eggs and Whole-Grain Toast: Combining scrambled or boiled eggs with whole-grain toast will provide your children with high-quality protein and energy that will last.
Fruit Smoothies: Blending bananas, berries, and even spinach with yoghurt or milk is a nutritious drink that’s easy on the stomach.
Peanut Butter and Banana Sandwich: For an easy, tasty, and quick meal, all you need to do is slather peanut butter onto whole-grain bread and layer on slices of banana. Both bananas and peanut butter contain nutrients that support bone health.

Avoiding breakfast mistakes:

Sugary Cereals: Sugary cereals that are highly processed might produce energy dumps and affect focus. Choose whole-grain products with lower sugar content.
Overloading on Caffeine: Relying only on coffee without enough healthy food might result in headaches and energy crashes.
Skipping Breakfast: Skipping breakfast may result in poor concentration, irritation, and overeating later in the day which may lead to energy slumps.

Lunch: Brain-Fueling Midday Meals to Enhance Exam Performance

During the intense focus of exam preparation, nourishing your body with the right lunch can make a significant difference in your cognitive performance. When it comes to lunch during exam periods, prioritise whole, nutrient-dense foods that provide sustained energy and support cognitive function.

Lunch ideas:

Salmon and Quinoa Salad: A composition of grilled salmon, quinoa, mixed greens, cherry tomatoes, cucumbers, and slices of avocado, drizzled with olive oil and lemon juice. This meal contains a variety of nutrients such as omega-3 fatty acids, protein, complex carbs and healthy fats.
BBQ Chicken Sweet Potato Bowl: This dish brings together both protein and dietary fibre. It combines the roasted sweetness of potatoes with the savoury flavours of BBQ chicken, black beans, corn, and a light sprinkle of cheese.
Veggie and Tofu Stir-Fry: A tasty stir-fry made with tofu or tempeh and a variety of veggies such as bok choy, snow peas, carrots, and mushrooms. This combination is frequently served over brown rice.

Avoiding lunch mistakes:

Heavy, Greasy Foods: It is best to avoid foods high in saturated fats or those that have been deep-fried. Consuming such foods may cause symptoms of sluggishness and a decrease in cognitive function.
Overeating: While portion sizes are important, preventing the habit of overeating is equally important. Consuming too much can cause feelings of tiredness and reduce the ability to focus.

Snack: Nourishing the Mind Between Study Sessions

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Strategic snacking plays a role in boosting brain efficiency during exam preparation. You can choose snacks with healthy ingredients for your kids.

Snack ideas:

Fresh Fruit: Apples, bananas, and berries are packed with natural sugars and vitamins for an instant energy boost.
Vegetable Sticks with Hummus: Crunchy veggies paired with hummus supply fibre, vitamins, and a touch of protein.
Dark Chocolate with Nuts: A small serving of dark chocolate alongside nuts offers a dose of antioxidants and healthy fats.

Avoiding snack mistakes:

Salty Snacks: Be cautious with packaged snacks which are high in salt. Too much of these can lead to feeling bloated and may not be the best for your health.
Mindless Munching: Snacking while distracted can lead to overeating. Take breaks and focus on enjoying your snack mindfully.

Dinner: Evening Meals and Getting Rest for Better Brain Performance

Choosing a well-rounded dinner that corresponds to children’s exam plans can make a difference. It helps to set the tone for productive and focused study time in the evenings. It’s best to choose foods that are high in nutrients and provide a consistent flow of energy without making them feel bloated. When children make suitable dinner choices, they are creating the opportunity for highly effective study sessions, and as a result, they will wake up feeling refreshed and prepared to tackle their exams.

Dinner ideas:

Quinoa Stuffed Bell Peppers: Take bell peppers, scoop out the insides, and stuff them with cooked quinoa, lean ground beef or turkey, black beans, corn, and a sprinkle of cheese. The mixture is then cooked to a warm golden. This dish contains protein, fibre, and nutrients.
Chicken and Avocado Salad Wrap: Grilled chicken, avocado slices, mixed greens, shredded carrots, and a light vinaigrette wrapped in a whole-grain wrap. This meal is rich in protein, healthy fats, and vitamins.
Tuna and Whole-Grain Pasta: Mix whole-grain pasta with canned tuna, cherry tomatoes, cucumbers, olives, and a simple olive oil and lemon dressing. This taste combination offers protein, complex carbs, and healthy fats.

Avoiding dinner mistakes:

High-Sugar Desserts: Sugary treats should be avoided because they might induce energy spikes and crashes, impairing the ability to focus or get a good night’s sleep.
Spicy Foods: While some people tolerate spicy foods, others may experience discomfort or stomach issues on the morning of an exam.
Caffeine: Avoid consuming caffeinated drinks close to bedtime because they can disrupt sleep.

Healthy eating habits are important for children since they affect not only their school activities but also the things they do outside. It’s also important to remember to stay hydrated. The link between hydration and brain function is complex and substantial, showing how optimal hydration influences cognitive performance and memory abilities. Dehydration, on the other hand, can cause difficulty with focus, lower cognitive processing speed, and weakened short-term memory.

Why Pets Make Perfect Playmates for Kids

Nadya Sharfina · August 28, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"Bringing a furry friend to your family isn't just about having a cute companion – it's embarking on a joyful journey that enriches your kids' lives in unforgettable ways."

Bringing a furry friend into your household is more than just having a lovely sidekick at home. It’s a wonderful journey with lots of fun for your kids. Pets have benefits that extend far beyond cuddling and wagging tails. In this article, we’ll look at all of the wonderful ways that having a pet can help your kids grow, providing them with experiences they’ll never forget.

1. Companionship and Emotional Support

Companionship means having a friend with whom to hang out with and share experiences. For kids, having a pet as a friend is like always having someone around who will not judge them, is loyal, and never leaves. This friendship is especially precious if children feel they don’t have many friends or deep interactions with others their age or adults.

Pets such as dogs, cats, rabbits, birds, and other creatures are excellent at sticking around. Kids and their pets become close friends, sharing both happy and sorrowful times. Simply having a pet around can make your kid feel protected, reassured, and as though they’re not alone.

Pets also provide emotional support to kids in a variety of ways. They can sense how kids are feeling and frequently express affection and care when they are upset, worried, or not feeling well. This has a positive effect on emotions, such as reducing stress, alleviating anxiety, and improving mood.

2. Responsibility and Routine

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Think about having a little companion who relies on you for everything. That means you’re in charge of their meals, making sure they’re comfortable, and showering them with affection. It’s not all fun and games; it’s a lesson in being someone on whom others can rely. When you’re in control of something, you have to show up and do your job without fail. Having a pet teaches kids that skipping meals or leaving a mess may quickly lead to difficulties. It’s like getting a glimpse of what it’s like to be responsible for themselves and others.

Now think about the daily routine: kids get up, wash their teeth, eat breakfast, go to school, do homework, eat dinner, and so on. It’s like returning to a well-worn path. Now add a pet to the mix. Suddenly, they have a furry companion who relies on them to follow a regimen. Feeding pets, bringing them for walks, and playing with them all become part of the daily routine. This process teaches kids to manage time, plan the day, and be consistent. Furthermore, it prepares them for success since they understand that certain things must occur regularly in order for them to be effective.

3. Empathy and Compassion

Empathy is similar to having an emotion detector built in. It’s when you can tell if someone is happy, sad, or angry even if they don’t say anything. It’s more than just nodding and trying to comprehend. It’s about genuinely experiencing those feelings alongside them. Empathy extends beyond the surface and allows you to connect with others on a deeper level, especially when they are going through a difficult period.

When your kids have a pet, they’ll learn to detect its emotions and needs. Since pets cannot communicate verbally, kids have to become emotion detectives, figuring out what they’re experiencing through their actions, expressions, and body language. Understanding nonverbal cues is similar to practising empathy. They’ll learn to comfort their pets when angry or nervous, just like they would comfort a friend who is feeling down. This helps kids develop a skill for perceiving and sharing emotions over time, which is what empathy is all about.

4. Sense of Security

Pets can become kids’ best friends as they navigate the unpredictable journey of growing up. They’re like these wonderful invisible shields that envelop kids in a safe, loving embrace. It’s amazing how pets have this incredible ability to be steadfast pals who stand by you through thick and thin.

When your kids are in unknown areas or situations that make their heart race, their pet’s persistent presence has the amazing capacity to instil unexpected courage. It’s as if they’re the trusted sidekick, ready to join forces and confront any obstacle. They are the four-legged version of having a loyal partner, with a fluffy exterior.

5. Educational Opportunities

Pets provide kids with a hands-on opportunity to learn about interesting topics such as life cycles, growth, and how creatures adapt. Having a pet is almost like having a backstage pass to a highly intriguing biology class where kids investigate different types of animals, their physiology, and how they all fit into the grand picture of life on Earth.

When your kid knows and meets the specific feeding needs of their pet, they are learning about nutrition in a very practical way. Kids may learn about how different diets affect health by reading labels, conducting research, and determining what’s best for their pets. What’s more, this lesson isn’t only applicable to pets; it also helps them make better eating choices for themselves.

Having a pet teaches your kid responsibility and healthcare simultaneously. Dealing with minor health issues demonstrates the need to take proactive actions to keep healthy. Taking care of a pet is almost like a mini lesson in health care, reminding people to be concerned about the well-being of all living things.

The presence of a pet often sparks a burning curiosity in kids. It’s as if their curiosity has been awakened, prompting them to seek information through reading and research. To offer the best treatment for their pet, kids often delve into books, articles, and websites, refining their research abilities and cultivating a love of learning.

In conclusion, the article highlights the numerous ways in which pets serve as ideal companions for kids. Beyond being adorable and playful sidekicks, pets offer invaluable benefits that contribute to a kid’s growth and development. Pet companionship provides constant devotion and non-judgmental friendship, which is particularly beneficial for kids who may feel isolated. They foster empathy, offer security, and create educational opportunities.

How to Handle Your Child’s Bad Reports

Nadya Sharfina · August 9, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"Handle your child's weak reports by listening, learning, and collaborating."

Receiving bad reports from your child’s school about their grades can be disappointing and cause concern for any parent. However, maintaining a proactive mindset and actively seeking practical solutions is important to support your child’s academic progress. In this article, we will provide five valuable tips on what to do if you receive negative reports about your child’s grades.

1. Be Prepared Before Receiving the Report

As parents, it is important to actively stay engaged and have open discussions about your child’s academic progress each year. By regularly talking about their performance before their reports are given out, you can gain valuable insights into any subjects or areas where your child may be facing difficulties.

Taking this proactive strategy allows you to intervene early and provide the required assistance to keep their grades from falling towards the end of the year. By staying informed and actively participating in these discussions, you create a nurturing environment that encourages your child to openly express their concerns, which leads to collaboration, problem-solving, and academic improvement.

2. Offer Support, Not Anger

It’s totally normal to feel frustrated when your child’s grades aren’t up to par. But it’s also important not to let your anger take control. Getting angry can create a bad vibe and make your child hesitant to talk about their academic struggles. It’s all about approaching the situation with a calm and supportive attitude.

If you find it hard to respond positively and supportively in the heat of the moment, it’s better to step back. Just let your child know that you’ve noticed their grades and that you’ll talk about it later. This approach allows you and your child to cool down and gather your thoughts before engaging in a constructive conversation.

3. Foster Open Communication

When you receive a less-than-ideal grade or report card, try to delve into the reasons behind it. Take the time to investigate and discover what might be causing the issue. “Is there anything going on at school or at home that is having an effect on your performance? Have you given yourself enough time to study? Do you find some subjects difficult, and if so, why?”

Consider whether any other variables may be affecting your child’s grades. For example, you can ask them whether they have ever failed to complete their homework or projects, forgotten to get a necessary signature on an assignment or if they have been overly focused on socializing with friends rather than studying. Being mindful of these factors when analyzing their overall grades plays a crucial role.

Remember to avoid dominating your position during the conversation. By attentively listening, you establish a safe space in which you can openly identify the variables that are contributing to your child’s problem. Together, you can work as a team to brainstorm solutions and create a plan of action to address the issues you are encountering.

4. Reach Out to the Teacher

When your child appears hesitant to share their poor grades, take the initiative to understand and address the situation. Poor grades could be an indication of deeper concerns. It could be issues with classmates, difficulty sleeping, or even undiscovered hearing or visual problems. It is important to explore these possibilities and offer appropriate support.

You can acquire more information by talking to the teacher. The teacher’s observations and feedback can provide insight into the underlying issues affecting your child’s grades. You and the teacher can collaborate to provide the necessary assistance and advice.

5. Boosting Your Child’s Confidence

Remind your child that their worth is more than their grades. Recognize that suffering in one subject does not imply a lack of intelligence. Take time to encourage them by recognizing their other skills and talents. Tell your child about their many abilities and qualities. Demonstrate to them that poor grades are not the end of the world. Share kind words, emphasizing their great sense of humour, musical talents, sports accomplishments, or role as a supportive sibling. Make it clear to them that a single low grade does not constitute failure. Show them that everyone has different strengths and flaws which is what makes them unique. By highlighting their positive qualities and abilities, you can help them develop resilience and confidence.

Reinforce the idea that bad days happen to everyone and are a normal part of life, but they won’t continue if they take action to address the problems. Teach them that challenges are opportunities for personal growth and learning, and encourage them to always give their best effort, seek help when needed, and explore different strategies to improve. Assure them that your love and support are unwavering, regardless of their grades.

The 12 Best Inspiring Parent Bloggers to Follow

Nadya Sharfina · July 19, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"Raising kids is like riding a rollercoaster, but with the insights from Singapore's parent bloggers, the journey becomes more manageable and fulfilling."

Parenting can be a rollercoaster ride, full of highs and lows, confusion, and at the end of the day, pure joy. In this age of technology, seeking advice and encouragement from other parents can be a lifesaver. Singapore has fantastic parent bloggers who generously share their stories, tips, and ideas online. These passionate people provide a treasured wealth of knowledge and support for parents in Singapore and abroad. They’re like your virtual best friends, sharing their real-life parenting experiences and practical advice.

1. Diana Gale – thedomesticgoddesswannabe.com

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The Domestic Goddess Wannabe is a popular blog among foodies. Diana Gale, the brain behind it, genuinely enjoys cooking, baking, and sharing tasty recipes with her readers. As a parent herself, Diana understands the challenges of preparing meals for the family and strives to provide helpful tips and culinary inspiration.

Diana’s blog serves as a virtual gathering place for parents who share a common love for cooking, filled with a range of sweet and savoury recipes. Not only does Diana provide helpful culinary ideas, baking techniques, and guidance, but she also complements her recipes with stunning pictures, making her blog visually captivating and irresistibly tempting to food enthusiasts.

2. Angeline Yeh – strawberrycoatedkisses.com

The blog called strawberrycoatedkisses.com is a must-visit for all those seeking interesting content. It is managed by Angeline Yeh, a mother of two children. The blog is organized into five different categories. In the “Motherhood” section, readers can delve into Angeline’s personal journey as a mother, including her valuable reviews on various products and toys. For fashion enthusiasts, the “Fashion” category is the perfect spot to discover Angeline’s chic looks and trendy outfit ideas. The “Beauty” section provides comprehensive reviews on skincare products, haircare, and even beauty surgery. The “Lifestyle” section offers a glimpse into Angeline’s daily life, sharing stories about home decor, attending events, and her children’s art classes. Lastly, the “Travel” section takes readers on exciting adventures to enchanting destinations like Prague, Amsterdam, Bangkok, Bali, and more.

3. Neetu Mirchandani – supermommy.com.sg

Managed by Neetu Mirchandani, a Californian who has called Singapore her home for over 15 years, this blog offers a personal touch to its readers, as evident from its tagline, “From one supermom to another.” Neetu generously shares her valuable experiences, insights, and helpful tips on motherhood and family life, creating a relatable and informative platform for fellow parents.

Alongside parenting topics, supermommy.com.sg covers a wide range of interests such as health, wellness, travel, cooking recipes, and general lifestyle topics. One noteworthy feature of the blog is its shopping segment, where Neetu provides recommendations on places to visit and items to purchase for kids and moms alike. This includes everything from top brunch spots to helpful tips for purchasing jewellery. This comprehensive and engaging blog serves as a valuable resource for parents seeking inspiration, helpful information, and enjoyable content.

4. Jennifer Lim – dinomama.com

dinomama.com is an awesome parenting and lifestyle blog started by Jennifer Lim. This blog covers a whole bunch of interesting topics that parents can relate to, like cool parenting experiences, reminiscences about school days, arts and crafts, fascinating books, and even photography skills. You can also find posts about product reviews and DIY projects. Plus, there are giveaways that readers can participate in.

5. Elizabeth Wu – motherkao.com

Elizabeth Wu, also known as “Motherkao,” is a mother of three children named Ben, Becks, and Nat. She enjoys sharing her experiences as a mom and the progress of her kids, such as their milestones at different months and when they say “mama” for the first time. Her blog is heartwarming and relatable, appealing to mothers everywhere. Additionally, Elizabeth Wu provides her personal insights and reviews on skincare products, furniture, and food.

6. Zoe Liu – bakeforhappykids.com

Bake for Happy Kids is a food blog that you also don’t want to miss! Zoe, a passionate home baker, a Singaporean who has been living in Melbourne, Australia for the past decade, brings you the best of both food cultures. From delectable cakes and cookies to scrumptious bread and pastries, the blog has a wide array of mouthwatering recipes to satisfy your cravings. Zoe’s recipes are carefully tested and come with super detailed step-by-step instructions. You can even watch her bake on her YouTube channel, which makes recreating these amazing treats at home so much easier.

7. Andy and Mengchoo – sengkangbabies.com

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This blog is run by Andy and Mengchoo, a couple who love sharing their family adventures and experiences. Their lovely family includes four kids named Wen Wei, Wen Kang, Wen Yi, and Wen Xin.

sengkangbabies.com delves into various fascinating themes such as travel destinations and lifestyle-related content. You’ll discover captivating insights into their exciting travel escapades and uncover some useful tips along the way. They also provide reviews of incredible events happening right in Singapore and have their own YouTube channel where you can watch their videos and join in on their adventures firsthand.

8. Meiling Wong – universalscribbles.com

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Universal Scribbles is created by Meiling Wong, who knows a thing or two about parenthood, work, education, and so much more. What sets universalscribbles.com apart from other blogs is its comprehensive work section. It contains useful tips and strategies for moms who are making a comeback to work. You’ll find helpful advice on crafting a killer resume to score those job interviews, as well as strategies for busy working mothers who are juggling it all. It’s very relatable and perfect for moms who are rocking their careers while raising a family.

9. Dianaruth – mumcraft.com

This is a heartwarming blog created by Dianaruth, a Singapore-based mom who is passionate about motherhood, art, crafting, and DIY projects. It’s a fantastic resource for parents seeking creative ideas and inspiration to keep their children engaged in fun and educational activities. On mumcraft.com, Diana shares her own experiences in crafting and DIY projects, offering step-by-step guides and practical tips for families to enjoy together.

10. Kelvin Ang – cheekiemonkie.net

Kelvin Ang, the creator of Cheekiemonkie.net, shares his own personal experiences, insights, and recommendations to provide valuable information and inspiration to other parents and readers. It features recommendations for new family-friendly travel destinations as well as indoor and outdoor activities for kids. There are reviews of various attractions and events, product suggestions and discussions on general lifestyle topics. In addition, Kelvin Ang has authored a book titled ‘Got Kids, Go Where?‘ which contains 500 activities for parents to engage in with their children specifically in Singapore.

11. Adeline Tan – growingwiththetans.com

Adeline Tan, the author of this blog, used to work as a teacher. She eventually started chronicling her family’s adventures on her blog. Adeline takes pleasure in writing reviews about different products, services, and places related to children. Her main aim is to assist other parents in feeling more supported and knowledgeable. Additionally, her blog occasionally features exciting giveaways for readers to participate in.

12. Edmund Tay – edunloaded.com

Edmund Tay / Ed is a Daddy Blogger from Singapore who enjoys writing about his experiences as a parent. Surprisingly, Ed was never adept at handling children, so the idea of launching a blog about his own kids was the furthest thing from his mind. Besides writing about parenting, Ed is also an advocate for families. This blog was awarded Best Parenting Blog in the Singapore Parenting Category at Influence Asia 2016.