Resources for Parents & Educators

Post-Holiday Blues: Helping Your Child Ease Back into Routine

Nadya Sharfina · June 23, 2025 · Leave a Comment

"However you spent the break, there’s a moment we all know, that gentle drift from freedom back to routine."

June holidays are coming to an end, can you believe it? After weeks of late mornings, relaxed routines, and quality time together, it’s almost time to get back to school runs and weekday schedules. How did your family spend the break? Maybe it was road trips, beach days, movie marathons, or simply slowing down at home. However you spent it, there’s often a shared feeling when it all winds down: that quiet pause between “holiday mode” and “back to reality.”

What Are Post-Holiday Blues?

After the holidays wind down and life returns to its usual pace, it’s not uncommon for adults or kids to feel a bit off. Post-holiday blues are those feelings of sadness, low energy, or lack of motivation that can show up once the celebrations are over. You’ve just spent weeks, maybe even months, looking forward to the break, the excitement, the family time… and then suddenly, it’s done. No more late mornings, festive treats, or cosy movie nights. That shift can feel a little like emotional whiplash.

Post-holiday blues can also overlap with other mood-related issues. The symptoms can be quite similar to seasonal affective disorder (SAD) and even some forms of depression, especially during the darker, colder months. While post-holiday blues are typically short-lived, it’s still important for parents to recognise the signs and respond with patience, empathy, and support.

Who Gets Post-Holiday Blues?

Post-holiday blues can affect just about anyone, parents, caregivers, and even those who spent the holidays on their own. But did you know that kids and teens can experience them too?

They’re often just as affected, sometimes even more so. Children tend to ride the emotional highs and lows of the holiday season in a very real way. Many spend weeks eagerly counting down to the break, imagining gifts, special outings, and all the joyful moments that come with it.

So why the emotional dip afterwards? The holidays bring a whirlwind of stimulation, twinkling lights, sweet treats, family visits, fun activities, and a break from the usual rules. Bedtimes shift, routines soften, and there’s often more attention and togetherness than usual. Then, almost overnight, it all comes to an end. The return to school, structured days, and early mornings can feel like a hard reset for kids and teens alike.

As they prepare to start a new term, many young people may quietly dread the long stretch ahead, months of school without another major break in sight. That feeling of facing routine without relief can make the return feel even heavier.

Signs Your Child May Have the Post-Holiday Blues

Post-holiday letdown effect is quite common and usually doesn’t last long, often just a week or two. Once your child begins to settle back into familiar routines, their mood tends to lift naturally. Still, knowing what to look out for can help you offer support during this in-between time.

Emotionally, your child may seem more sensitive than usual. You might notice they’re more irritable, clingy, or prone to mood swings. Some kids describe feeling “bored,” even when there are things to do, or seem harder to please than usual. Others might appear suddenly sad or just a little “off,” even if they can’t explain exactly why.

Changes in behaviour can also be a clue. Your child may have trouble focusing on schoolwork, resist going to bed or waking up on time, or struggle to follow routines they used to manage with ease. Younger children might have more tantrums or whining, while older kids may ask for extra screen time or zone out more than usual.

Most of the time, these signs pass as your child re-adjusts. If you notice that the low mood, irritability, or trouble with daily tasks continues for more than two weeks, it may be worth checking in more closely and speaking with a professional for guidance.

How to Prevent and Support Your Child Through Post-Holiday Blues

Ease back into the routine: Instead of going full speed from the first day back, try taking things step by step. Reintroduce parts of your regular schedule gradually. Things like consistent bedtimes, meal routines, and quiet homework time. Focus on what needs to get done first, and try not to cram too much into the first week.

Keep moving and get outside: Fresh air and movement do wonders for the mind and body. Even light physical activity, like a walk around the block or a casual game of basketball, tennis, or football. Encourage movement that feels fun. Something that gets them off screens and out of the house, even for a short while. Game nights, art projects, or weekend bike rides are great ways to keep their brain engaged, too.

Unplug from the scroll: For teens, especially, social media can add fuel to that post-holiday slump. Seeing everyone else’s “perfect” vacations, gifts, or parties can leave them feeling like their own break didn’t quite measure up. Gently encourage some screen-free time. A break from scrolling can help your child refocus on real-life connections and find contentment in the present.

Choose nourishing foods: Holiday meals often include a lot of sugar and starchy comfort foods, but easing back into more balanced meals can help your child’s mood stabilise. Try adding more fruits, vegetables, and fresh meals to their plate.

Watch the sugar: After the holiday treats, cravings can linger. Try to gently return to your habits around sweets, offering them in moderation rather than letting the holiday-level snacking stretch too far into the school term.

Stay social (in a low-key way): Your child doesn’t need a packed social calendar, but making time to be around people they enjoy can help. Maybe that’s a cosy visit with grandparents, a playdate with a close friend, or a casual afternoon at the park. These moments of connection can be just the lift they need.

Plan something to look forward to: One of the hardest parts of the post-holiday period is looking ahead at what can feel like a long, uneventful stretch. You don’t need a major vacation to break things up. Something simple, like a family outing, trying a new hobby, or setting a mini goal together, can go a long way.

Looking Ahead Together

With July around the corner, it’s time to help your child shift back into school mode for Term 3. A good way to start is by talking about the things they enjoy at school. Friends, fun activities, or favourite subjects to help them feel more positive about going back.

Spending some quality time together can also go a long way in preparing your child emotionally. Something as simple as going shopping for school supplies can turn into a meaningful moment. Invite your child to pick out their notebooks, backpack, or stationery. Having items they genuinely like can boost their enthusiasm and help them feel more ready and comfortable as they return to class.

The holiday season may be over, but with the right support and shared moments, your child can enter this next chapter feeling more settled, more prepared, and even a little excited about what lies ahead.

Check out more articles: How to Get Kids Back into School Mode After the Holidays and Smart Packing Tips for Traveling with Kids

Mistakes You Don’t Realise You’re Making as a Parent

Nadya Sharfina · June 19, 2025 · Leave a Comment

"It's not just the big moments in parenting that matter—it's how we handle the little ones, again and again."

Parenting is full of moments where we’re just trying to do our best with the time, energy, and knowledge we have. Some days go smoothly, while others feel like a constant balancing act. Most parents genuinely want to support their children, guide them well, and raise them with care. However, even with the best intentions, it’s easy to fall into habits that might not be as helpful as we think.

Many parenting missteps aren’t loud or obvious. They often appear in small, everyday moments: how we respond to a tantrum, how we discuss school, or how we manage arguments between siblings. These patterns can have more impact than we realise over time.

Failing to Listen Truly

One of the most common parenting slip-ups is not really listening to our kids. It’s easy to jump into “fix-it” mode when they come to us with a problem, offering advice or corrections before they’ve even finished talking. When we rush to solve or dismiss what they’re saying however, we unintentionally send the message that their feelings or thoughts aren’t important. Over time, this can create emotional distance, making kids less likely to open up in the future.

Instead, try slowing down and practising active listening. This means giving your child your full attention, making eye contact, and showing real interest in what they’re saying, without immediately jumping in with advice. Even a few minutes of focused listening can go a long way. When children feel truly heard and understood, it strengthens their self-esteem and builds a deeper, more trusting connection between them and yourself. It’s not about having all the answers, it’s about being present.

Comparing Siblings or Other Children

It’s easy to fall into the habit of comparing your child to a sibling, a cousin, or even a classmate,sometimes without even realising it. Comments like “Why can’t you be more like your brother?” or “Your friend finished that faster” might seem harmless in the moment, but they can leave a lasting impression. When kids feel like they’re being measured against someone else, they may start to believe they’re not good enough just as they are. This can create tension between siblings and put distance between you and your child, even when that’s not your intention.

Comparisons can also set up a kind of invisible competition at home. Instead of working together or feeling proud of each other, kids might start to feel like they’re always trying to prove themselves, or worse, that they’ll never measure up. Every child has their own pace, interests, and strengths. Noticing and appreciating those differences without stacking them against each other helps everyone feel more seen and accepted for who they are.

Shaming Instead of Teaching

When kids act out or break the rules, it can be frustrating, especially after a long day. In those moments, it’s tempting to say things like “What’s wrong with you?” or “You never think before you act.” These kinds of comments don’t teach children how to behave differently. Instead, they make them feel like there’s something wrong about who they are, not just what they did. For example, if a child spills something after being told to be careful, saying “You’re so careless” doesn’t help them understand the mistake, it just leaves them feeling judged.

Discipline should guide, not shame. Kids need to know what behaviour is unacceptable, and why, without being made to feel like they’re the problem. A more helpful approach would be, “I asked you to put the juice away, spilling it makes a mess that we both have to clean up now.” It keeps the focus on the action, not the child. When consequences are fair, clear, and tied to what actually happened, children are more likely to learn and adjust. They also feel respected and that makes them more open to listening the next time around. Check out: Disciplining Kids: Punishment or Consequences?

Too Much Praise, Too Much Protection

Many parents naturally want to give their kids the best start in life, and that often means stepping in to help or offering constant encouragement.Sometimes, without realising it, this can go too far. When children are praised for everything they do, no matter how small or routine, it can make them dependent on approval instead of learning to value the effort itself. They might start doing things just to hear “good job,” instead of finding their motivation.

In a similar way, always jumping in to protect kids from frustration or discomfort can keep them from learning how to deal with everyday challenges. It might feel like you’re helping, but it can actually hold them back. Letting kids make small mistakes, solve their problems, and feel a little uncomfortable now and then helps them grow. They need space to try, stumble, and figure things out on their own, with you there to support, not shield every step.

Dismissing Their Feelings

When a child is upset, it can be tempting to calm them down quickly with phrases like “You’re fine” or “It’s not a big deal.” While the intention might be to soothe, these responses can make kids feel like their emotions don’t matter. Over time, brushing off their feelings, especially the difficult ones, can make it harder for them to understand and handle what they’re going through. Instead of learning how to manage strong emotions, they may start to ignore or hide them, thinking they’re not allowed to feel that way.

Children don’t always have the words to explain what they’re feeling, which makes it even more helpful when parents take the time to name emotions with them “It sounds like you’re feeling frustrated”, or “That must have been disappointing.” This kind of support gives kids a better understanding of what’s happening inside and shows them that emotions aren’t something to be afraid of or ashamed of. When we acknowledge their feelings and guide them toward calming tools, like taking deep breaths or stepping away for a moment, they begin to build healthy ways of coping that will stay with them for years.

Putting Too Much Pressure on Performance

Many parents care deeply about their child’s education and want to see them do well in school. That’s completely understandable. But when all the attention is placed on grades, test scores, or awards, kids can start to feel like their worth depends only on how they perform. This kind of pressure can take the joy out of learning and make them more anxious about making mistakes. Instead of exploring, asking questions, or enjoying the process, they may begin to chase only the outcome and fear falling short.

Children thrive when effort, curiosity, and growth are noticed and appreciated. Saying things like “I’m proud of how hard you worked on that project” or “You stuck with it even when it got tricky” can go a long way. These moments help kids feel seen for who they are, not just for what they achieve. When parents make room for both academic growth and emotional well-being, children are more likely to stay engaged and develop a healthy relationship with learning that lasts far beyond any report card.

Not Noticing When They Do Well

It’s easy to get caught up in correcting things that go wrong, missed chores, talking back, and unfinished homework. When kids are doing well, following through, or making an effort, those moments deserve just as much attention. If a child cleans their room without being reminded, turns in homework on time, or stays focused on a task, noticing it helps reinforce those choices. A simple “I noticed you stuck with that even when it got tricky” or “Thanks for putting your things away without being asked” goes a long way.

These kinds of comments let children know that their efforts matter and that you’re paying attention, even when things are going smoothly. When kids hear that their positive behaviour is being seen, they feel encouraged to keep it up. It doesn’t have to be over-the-top praise, just honest, specific recognition. Over time, this kind of feedback helps create a home environment where good habits feel natural and appreciated.

Not Saying Sorry When You Should

Parents aren’t perfect, and children don’t expect them to be. Like anyone else, parents can lose their temper, misjudge a situation, or say something they regret. When those moments happen and no apology follows, it can quietly strain the relationship over time. Some parents, especially those raised in older generations, may have grown up with the idea that authority should never be questioned or softened. In that mindset, apologising might feel like losing ground, even though it’s really about building trust.

Apologising to your child doesn’t mean giving up your role. It means showing that everyone is still learning, even grown-ups. A good apology is clear and honest: “I’m sorry I raised my voice earlier. I was frustrated, but that wasn’t fair to you.” That kind of message shows your child you understand how your actions affected them. It also shows that you’re willing to reflect, make things right, and do better next time. Children notice that. When they see a parent take responsibility with calmness and sincerity, they learn how to do the same.

Check out more great articles on parenting here: Are You a Tiger Parent or an Elephant Parent? and Are You a Helicopter Parent or a Free-Range Parent?

Disciplining Kids: Punishment or Consequences?

Nadya Sharfina · June 17, 2025 · Leave a Comment

"Punishment seeks control; consequence seeks to teach. The difference shapes how children grow."

When your child misbehaves, it’s normal to feel frustrated. You want them to listen, follow through, and behave in ways that make daily life smoother. In those moments, it’s easy to reach for discipline that feels immediate and firm.

That’s where the terms “punishment” and “consequence” often get mixed up. They’re commonly used as if they mean the same thing, but they don’t. One aims to teach, the other to control. How we respond can shape how our children learn to handle their own behavior.

What Are Consequences?

When we talk about consequences, we’re just talking about what happens as a result of something else. It’s the natural outcome that follows a specific action or behaviour. Think of it like this: if you touch a hot stove, your finger gets burned. If you stay up too late, you’re tired the next morning. If you forget your homework, you might get a zero. These are all examples of how actions naturally lead to outcomes. No one has to make it happen, it just does.

Natural consequences are often the best teachers. When kids experience the results of their choices on their own, they begin to understand how the world works. For example, if a child refuses to wear a jacket on a chilly day, they’ll feel cold. No lecture needed. Just a real-world lesson that sticks much better than a scolding.

That said, sometimes parents do need to step in. Not every situation allows for natural consequences to unfold safely or clearly. In those moments, consequences can be something a parent sets, like turning off the tablet after repeated warnings or having a child clean up a mess they made on purpose. The goal isn’t to punish or shame, but to guide. A well-thought-out consequence helps a child understand that their actions have outcomes and encourages them to think ahead next time.

Consequences work best when they’re connected, calm, and meant to teach, not just to get a child to do what you want in the moment. When used thoughtfully, they help build a child’s ability to make better choices, one experience at a time.

What Is Punishment?

Punishment is usually what comes to mind when we think about someone “getting in trouble.” It’s the idea that if a child does something wrong, they’ll face something unpleasant in return. Something that hurts, embarrasses, or scares them into not doing it again. The thinking behind it is: “If this feels bad enough, maybe they won’t do it next time.”

Punishment tends to focus on making a child suffer in some way, either physically, emotionally, or both. For example, a parent might yell at a child and send them to their room for hours after breaking something, or take away a favourite toy for a week without explaining why. These actions don’t really help the child understand their behaviour. Instead, they’re designed to bring discomfort or guilt, hoping that pain will bring change.

Punishment is often fueled by frustration or a need to regain control in the moment. When tempers are high, it’s easy to fall into the trap of reacting harshly, especially if a child has pushed boundaries repeatedly. However, when the focus is on making a child feel bad instead of helping them grow, it rarely leads to real learning. It just creates fear or resentment.

The Problem with Punishment

At first glance, punishment might seem effective. You might hear people say, “Timeout always shuts it down,” or “Yelling gets their attention, so it must be working.” Sure, those things might stop a behaviour in the moment. But that’s usually where the progress ends.

Punishment often comes across as payback, an emotional reaction to something a child did that upset or frustrated a parent. In some homes, it’s used when tensions are already high, which can create more stress and distance in the parent-child relationship. When kids are already feeling misunderstood or overwhelmed, adding punishment to the mix can push them even further away emotionally.

Some parents fall into a “my way or the highway” mindset. This strict, authoritarian approach may control behaviour in the short term, but it doesn’t help children grow. It doesn’t show them how to make better choices next time. Instead, they may feel ashamed or even confused, not just about what they did, but about who they are. Over time, this can chip away at a child’s sense of self-worth, which often leads to more misbehaviour, not less.

Another problem with punishment is that it doesn’t teach. It might stop a child because they’re afraid, not because they’ve learned a better way to handle the situation. They may avoid getting caught next time, rather than avoiding the behaviour itself. Children who are punished frequently may even learn to respond in kind by punishing others through yelling, blaming, or shutting down.

The goal shouldn’t just be about stopping a behaviour in the moment. It should be about helping kids understand their choices, take responsibility, and find better ways to manage their actions.

Why Consequences Work Better

Unlike punishment, consequences tend to be more effective because they focus on teaching rather than controlling. They help children see how their actions lead to real outcomes, which encourages responsibility and more thoughtful choices.

Natural consequences—things that happen on their own—can be especially helpful. When safe and appropriate, allowing these to happen helps children understand cause and effect in a way that feels fair and logical.

Consequences aren’t just about correcting negative behavior. They can be positive too. Giving rewards or positive outcomes reinforces good behavior. For example, if a child helps clean up without being asked, they might earn extra playtime or a special activity with you. This shows them that positive actions are noticed and appreciated.

While punishment often comes from frustration, consequences are meant to guide. They help children learn what went wrong, what they can do instead, and how to make better choices moving forward. Both positive and negative consequences should give children the chance to learn and try again.

What Are You Really Teaching?

Before reacting to your child’s behaviour, take a moment to pause and reflect. Ask yourself: Am I doing this to teach them something useful? Or am I doing it because I’m angry, frustrated, or overwhelmed? That split second of self-awareness can make a world of difference in how you respond and how your child experiences it.

It’s also worth thinking about what message your reaction is sending. Does your response help your child understand what went wrong and what they can do differently next time? Or are they being held to a standard they couldn’t realistically meet in the first place? Kids are still learning, and part of our job as parents is to guide them in a way that’s fair and clear, not crushing.

Your tone, body language, and choice of words all carry weight. A sharp voice, an eye roll, or a cold stare can quietly deliver messages like, “You’re a disappointment,” or “You’re not good enough.” That may not be your intention, but kids often absorb far more than the words being said.

Another question to consider: Will this teach them to avoid mistakes out of fear or help them grow into someone who learns from their actions? Responses based on fear or shame can create emotional distance. Over time, that can lead to damage that’s hard to undo both to their self-image and your relationship with them.

Lastly, think about what they’re really learning in the moment. Are they seeing a natural outcome of their choice? Or are they just learning to avoid upsetting you? Discipline should help a child understand how their actions affect the world around them, not just how to dodge punishment.

Taking a step back before reacting isn’t always easy, but it helps us respond with purpose, not just emotion, and that’s what helps kids grow in a way that feels safe, respectful, and lasting.

Check out more articles: My Teenager Hates Me and Nurturing Emotional Maturity as a Teenager

What Can You Do If Your Child Has No Friends?

Nadya Sharfina · June 13, 2025 · Leave a Comment

"Friendship is a skill that grows with time. Not a sign that something’s wrong, but a gentle reminder that every child connects at their own pace, often just waiting for the right moment or the right person."

It can be difficult to watch a child come home without someone to talk about or feel left out on the playground. A question that might quietly sit in the back of your mind is, Why doesn’t my child have friends? It’s not always an easy question to face, and even harder when you’re not sure what to do next.

Friendship is a skill. Something kids pick up and build over time. Some children seem to ease into it early on, while others need a little more practice or the right environment to get started. In many cases, it’s not about something being “wrong.” It may simply be that they haven’t met someone they connect with yet.

Friendship Begins at Home

Before kids have classmates or playground buddies, you’re their main companion. You’re the first person they laugh with, play with, and turn to for comfort. That early connection matters more than you might think. It shapes how they see relationships and teaches them how to interact with others.

At home, you can offer a space where your child feels safe to speak freely about their worries, their wild ideas, or what made them feel left out at recess. They should know they won’t be brushed off or judged. That kind of openness gives them room to explore who they are and learn how to share themselves with others.

Spending time together, talking, playing, even being silly, teaches a lot. Taking turns during a game or listening to each other’s ideas builds the kind of social habits they’ll use with friends later on. If your child is struggling to connect with peers, being that steady, kind presence helps them feel less alone. You’re not just helping them fill the quiet, you’re gently showing them what friendship can look like.

Understanding What’s Holding Them Back

When a child is having a hard time making friends, it helps to pause and gently ask: what might be getting in the way? Every child is different, so there’s no one-size-fits-all reason. Some kids are naturally shy and need more time to warm up to new people. Others might feel unsure about how to start a conversation or join in during play. Some children feel anxious in social settings, especially when there’s a lot going on or when they don’t know what to expect.

It could also be that your child has interests that don’t quite match with the kids around them. That doesn’t mean something is wrong. It just means they haven’t found their people yet. In that case, look for spaces where kids with similar interests gather. Clubs, classes, or online communities (with supervision) can be a great way to help them meet others who enjoy the same things.

Once you get a sense of what’s going on, you can offer support that fits. For a shy child, gentle encouragement to practice small interactions, like saying hi to a classmate or asking a question can go a long way. If nerves tend to take over, role-playing different situations at home can help them feel more prepared. And if your child just hasn’t found the right connections yet, helping them explore new activities or settings can open new doors.

Ask Who They Like Being Around

Asian little girl has problems when stand alone at home, She sat hugging her knee and crying

Sometimes, the best place to start is with a simple conversation. You might ask, “Who do you like at school?” or “Are there any kids you enjoy being around?” This opens the door without putting pressure on your child. You’re not grilling them, you’re just showing interest in their world.

You can also ask how they decide who they want to be friends with. Some children look for shared hobbies, others might be drawn to someone who’s kind or funny. Their answers can give you insight into what they’re looking for in a friendship and what might be missing right now. Maybe they haven’t found someone who feels like a good fit, or maybe they’re unsure how to take the next step.

A gentle way to guide the conversation is to ask, “Do any of your friends make you feel big in life or small?” It helps your child reflect on how others make them feel. Friends should help us feel seen, valued, and included, not less than or left out.

These kinds of chats help you understand what friendship means to your child. Once you know what they value or what’s making things tricky, it’s easier to support them in small, thoughtful ways. Sometimes, just having the chance to talk about it with someone who listens can make them feel less alone in figuring it out.

Teach Friendship Skills Early On

Social skills don’t always come naturally, they’re something kids can learn over time, just like tying shoes or riding a bike. That’s why it helps to start early. Even during toddlerhood, children begin picking up on how to interact with others through play, sharing, and simple back-and-forth conversations. These early moments are a great opportunity to guide them gently and show them how to connect with people.

You can begin by focusing on a few simple, everyday skills. Teach your child how to greet someone new, ask questions to show interest, and manage strong feelings when things don’t go their way. These may sound like small things, but they lay the groundwork for making and keeping friends later on.

Practice together through play, pretend scenarios, or even during storytime. If a character in a book has a hard time with a friend, ask your child what they might do in that situation. These casual moments help them think about how others feel and how their actions affect people around them.

Social engagement doesn’t need to be formal. It can happen at the playground, in group activities, or even during family gatherings. The more chances your child has to practice, the more comfortable they’ll become in different settings.

Break Skills into Small Steps

Young woman using and looking at smartphone with feeling happy

When it comes to helping your child build friendships, small steps can go a long way. Rather than expecting your child to suddenly become outgoing or jump into a group of kids with ease, try focusing on one simple goal at a time.

Start with something manageable, like saying “Hi” to one classmate during recess. It may not seem like much, but for a child who’s feeling unsure or withdrawn, that one greeting can feel like a mountain climbed. Then maybe later in the week, they can try asking someone to play, just once or twice. Keep the goals short and specific so they feel doable.

These small actions help your child build up comfort in social situations gradually. Every time they try, even if it feels awkward or doesn’t go as planned, it’s a chance to learn. You can encourage them by noticing their efforts and being curious with them about how it went: “How did it feel to say hi today?” or “What happened when you asked to play?”

By breaking things down, you give your child room to grow at their own pace without pressure or overwhelm. Over time, those little steps can build into more natural and meaningful social connections.

Their Childhood Isn’t Your Childhood

When you’re raising a child, it’s natural to think back on your own experiences growing up. You might remember what made you feel included or left out, who your friends were, or how you handled tough moments. A lot of us lean on those memories to try to make sense of what our kids are going through.

However, as helpful as those memories can be, it’s worth remembering that your child is growing up in a different world. The social landscape, the way kids connect, even the pace of life, it’s not the same as it was when you were their age. What felt hard or easy for you might not line up with what they’re feeling now.

Your own past can give you perspective and empathy, which is valuable. But it’s also helpful to stay curious about their world. Try not to assume their feelings match yours. Instead, ask questions and listen without jumping in with your own story right away. It’s okay to share later, but make space first for their version of the experience.

Give Them Space to Find Their People

Little girl with friend lying comfortably on the grass and smiling

Friendships shape the way we see ourselves. Through spending time with others, we start to learn what we enjoy, how we want to be treated, and where we feel we fit. For kids, friendships aren’t just about fun, they’re part of figuring out who they are. Early connections give them a chance to explore what kind of people they feel drawn to and what kind of friend they want to be.

As a parent, it’s easy to want to guide those choices. You might find yourself encouraging certain friendships or feeling unsure about others. And sometimes, stepping in is the right thing to do, especially if a friend’s behavior seems concerningbut whenever possible, try to give your child space to figure things out. Learning who they click with and why is part of growing up.

That doesn’t mean stepping back completely. Stay involved by noticing how your child seems to feel around certain friends. If you’re sensing something’s off, open up a conversation. Ask questions like, “How do you feel after hanging out with them?” or “Do you feel like yourself when you’re with that friend?” Questions like these help your child think things through, without feeling judged or pushed.

Letting them make their own friendship choices with a little gentle guidance when needed helps them trust their own instincts. That trust will serve them well as their social world keeps growing.

Check out more articles: Steps to Take If Your Child Is the Bully and What to Do If You Don’t Like Your Child’s Friends

What If You Don’t Get Your Teen’s Music, Slang, or Fashion?

Nadya Sharfina · June 12, 2025 · Leave a Comment

"You don’t have to understand your teen’s music, slang, or style to stay connected. Sometimes the gap is where the best conversations begin."

Have you ever walked past your teen’s room and heard music blasting that you’ve never heard before, something with a beat or lyrics that make you pause and think, Is this what they’re into now? Or maybe you’ve seen them heading out in an outfit that leaves you wondering if there was a fashion trend memo you missed. And then there’s the moment you overhear them chatting with their friends, only to realise you barely understand a word they’re saying.

It’s easy to feel a little disconnected when your teen’s interests seem so far from your own. Is it okay not to fully understand their music, slang, or style? The short answer is yes. Navigating that gap can be an opportunity, not a roadblock.

Acknowledge the Gap

It’s completely normal to feel disconnected from your teen’s evolving interests. One day they’re singing nursery rhymes in the backseat, and the next they’re blasting a song that sounds more like chaos than music. It can be jarring and feel like their world is starting to spin without you at the centre of it.,but every generation confuses the one before it.

Maybe your teen is into music that feels loud, strange, or emotional in a way that you just don’t relate to. But rewind a few decades, and the same thing was happening. When rock and roll exploded in the 1950s, many adults were horrified. They thought Elvis was inappropriate and that electric guitars were corrupting the youth. The same thing happened in the ’70s and ’80s with punk rock, which was dismissed as rebellious noise. Now, those same genres are considered classics.

The same goes for fashion. Think back to when ripped jeans, oversized shirts, or neon windbreakers were all the rage. Styles that were once called outrageous or “sloppy” by adults of that era. Today’s teens are no different. Cropped tops, baggy pants, or gender-fluid clothing might be their way of expressing identity, fitting in, or pushing back on norms. Just like your generation did in its way.

You likely did the same thing to your parents. Played music they didn’t understand, wore something they didn’t approve of, or spoke in slang that made them sigh. And now, you’re on the other side of the equation. It’s a full-circle moment that can feel strange, but it’s also a reminder that this is part of growing up for both of you.

Respect Before Understanding

You don’t have to fully understand everything your teen is interested in, and that’s completely okay. You’re not expected to know every song, slang word, or fashion trend. What really counts is respecting their choices and what those interests mean to them.

For many teens, music, style, and language are ways to express themselves and find a sense of belonging. These interests often go beyond just what’s popular, they help teens explore who they are and connect with others who feel the same way.

Instead of worrying about whether you approve or relate, try approaching these differences with genuine curiosity. Ask questions like, “What do you like about this song?” or “Where did that phrase come from?” Being open to understanding, even if you don’t completely get it, shows that you value their world.

Respecting their interests doesn’t mean you have to agree with everything. It means making room for their growth, even when it looks different from your own experiences. When teens feel accepted rather than judged, they’re more likely to open up and trust you.

Gentle Ways to Stay Involved

When your teen’s music, slang, or fashion feels unfamiliar or even a little uncomfortable, approaching the situation with gentle curiosity rather than frustration can help keep communication open.

You might ask your teen to explain a lyric you don’t understand or teach you a slang word. Saying something like, “I keep hearing this phrase, can you tell me what it means?” or “That song sounds interesting; what’s it about?” shows you’re interested in their world and encourages them to share.

With fashion, try focusing on the confidence behind their choices. Even if their style isn’t exactly what you’d pick, compliment how they wear it. For example, “I like how confident you look in that outfit.”

If you have concerns, like a dress that feels too short, offering gentle suggestions can work better than strict rules. You might say, “I like that dress on you, but I think the green one might suit you even better,” This gives your teen options and helps them make choices without feeling shut down.

By engaging with kindness and offering alternatives instead of criticism, you create space for your teen to feel supported while still making thoughtful decisions.

Bonding Over Interests and Memories

Building a connection with your teen can be as simple as sharing your own world with them. Introducing them to some of your favourite music or movies from when you were their age is a great way to start a conversation and show that you’re open to sharing experiences.

Showing your teenage photos and talking about what you wore or what was popular back then can be a fun way to bond. It helps your teen see that every generation has its own style and challenges fitting in.

Small gestures also make a difference. Learning the words to one of their favourite songs and singing along can make them feel happy and understood, like you’re stepping into their world, even just for a moment. It’s the effort that counts, not perfection.

When your teen shows interest in your favourites, let that moment bring you joy. Sharing interests isn’t just about music or fashion. It’s about creating positive moments and strengthening your relationship.

Check out more articles: An Easy Guide to Understanding Gen Z Slang, Gen Alpha Slang: How Much Do You Know?, and Should Parents Be Concerned About Teen Dating?

10 Best Restaurants in Singapore to Celebrate Father’s Day

Nadya Sharfina · June 7, 2025 · Leave a Comment

“He’s spent a lifetime giving his all—now it’s our turn to give back with a moment that truly matters.”

Father’s Day is just around the corner, and it’s the perfect excuse to show Dad a little extra love. He’s always been working hard, putting in long hours, and doing what he can to give the family a better life, so why not take this chance to give something back with a meaningful, memory-filled meal?

Many restaurants across Singapore are pulling out all the stops with special menus, fun perks, and warm hospitality just for the occasion. If you’re looking for ideas, we’ve rounded up 10 of the best places to celebrate and make his day a little more special.

1. RISE

If you’re planning a Father’s Day celebration with a side of luxury, RISE at Marina Bay Sands is a solid choice. This buffet restaurant brings an impressive spread of classic European and American fare to the table, with standout dishes like Beef Wellington and Kagoshima Pork Rack. The selection is generous and thoughtfully curated, with a premium cheese and charcuterie section, and artisan breads that round out the experience.

The atmosphere at RISE adds something extra to your celebration. Located at Marina Bay Sands, you’ll have the chance to enjoy sweeping views from the SkyPark Observation Deck.

2. Edge

Located at Pan Pacific Singapore, Edge is pulling out all the stops for a hearty Father’s Day feast on 14 and 15 June 2025. Their buffet lineup includes favourites like snow crab legs, Boston lobster, tiger prawns, and smoky baby pork ribs. Don’t miss the garlic butter tiger prawns, they’re rich, juicy, and satisfying.

After you’ve made your rounds at the savoury stations, save room for dessert. There’s a wide variety of sweet treats to end the meal on a high note. Lunch on 14 June is priced at $128++ per adult and $64++ per child (6 and up), while brunch on 15 June goes for $158++ per adult and $79++ per child.

3. 21 on Rajah

Mediterr-Asian Buffet at 21 on Rajah in Aloft Singapore Novena offers a vibrant selection of Thai-inspired dishes that invite you to explore a range of flavours. The relaxed setting is ideal for sharing a meal with family in a comfortable environment.

You’ll find fresh spring rolls with prawn, marinated shrimp wrapped in egg net, and a whole seabass topped with tangy tom yum paste. You’ll also find comforting options like warm lotus and corn chicken soup.

4. RACINES

Racines offers a generous spread of local favourites and fresh seafood. Highlights include Boston lobsters, freshly shucked oysters, and poached prawns to start things off. Live stations bring energy to the meal, serving prawn noodles and satay bee hoon on the spot, along with hearty dishes like pork chop, beef rendang, and crispy fried mantou.

Sweet treats include local favourites like Milo Dinosaur cake, pandan crème brûlée, and traditional potong ice cream. You’ll find Racines at 9 Wallich Street, Level 5. Just a short walk from Tanjong Pagar MRT.

5. Lawry’s The Prime Rib Singapore

Photo by Lawry’s The Prime Rib Singapore

On 14 and 15 June 2025, Lawry’s The Prime Rib Singapore is offering a special 5-course set menu designed for a memorable family meal. Famous for its signature roasts and elegant atmosphere, the experience also includes some nice extras to make the day even better.

Start with the Smoky Harmony, a flavorful starter featuring grilled halloumi cheese, smoked duck, marinated tomatoes, and pea tendrils. The main course offers a choice of the 150g Signature Roasted USDA Prime Rib of Beef or the Heirloom Braised Short Ribs made with Angus beef. Guests who book early get 10% off by 9 June, or 15% off with an American Express Premium Card by 11 June. Every table also receives a $50 return dining voucher and a complimentary digital photo emailed to you. Service begins at 11 am, and the restaurant is located in Mandarin Gallery.

6. Mensho Tokyo Singapore

Now let’s take you to Japanese cuisine with a visit to Mensho Tokyo Singapore, located at Raffles City. If Dad enjoys a bit of spice, the Spicy Toripaitan Ramen is a great pick. For something rich and satisfying, try the dry-style A5 Wagyu Abura Soba.

The Classic Toripaitan is a must-try; it’s inspired by Yatai street carts and features a rich, comforting chicken soup topped with smoky pork chashu, king oyster mushrooms, green onions, and house-made wavy whole wheat noodles. Be sure to order the Enoki Chips too, crispy fried enoki mushrooms served with a lemon wedge and a hint of shichimi for extra crunch and flavour. Wrap up the meal with their hojicha tiramisu, a smooth and earthy dessert that finishes things off nicely. From 6 to 15 June 2025, you can enjoy a complimentary side dish to share when you order any two mains.

7. Bedrock Origin

Bedrock Origin brings a bold, refined take on the classic steakhouse experience, an ideal choice for celebrating Father’s Day with the whole family. The menu features an impressive range of prime beef cuts sourced from the US, Japan, Argentina, and Australia, including selections from small-scale farms.

Highlights include the tomahawk steak, shio koji Australian wagyu, and the Bedrock pepper steak made with Japanese wagyu. For dessert, treat Dad to a decadent Bombe Alaska, classic crème brûlée, or cinnamon churros. You’ll find Bedrock Origin tucked away in Oasia Resort Sentosa.

8. KWEE ZEEN

Photo by Sofitel Singapore Sentosa Resort & Spa

Kwee Zeen at Sofitel Singapore Sentosa Resort & Spa is hosting their SeafoodFest Weekend Buffet Father’s Day Special on 13 and 14 June 2025, available from 6 pm to 10 pm. The buffet features a satisfying mix of Asian and Western favourites like Singapore Laksa with Slipper Lobster, Butter Chicken, wok-fried black mussels, and Spaghetti Aglio Olio with seafood.

End the evening with desserts like their rich Signature Chocolate Royaltine Hazelnut and classic Tiramisu Cake. Prices are $140++ for two adults or $88++ per adult. Kids aged 7 to 12 dine at half price, and those aged 6 and under eat for free.

9. Min Jiang

Tucked inside Goodwood Park Hotel, this Chinese restaurant pairs elegant design with classic Cantonese and Sichuan cooking. The warm lighting, chinoiserie details, and polished service make it a lovely setting for a special meal.

Dishes like Roasted Silver Hill Irish Duck, Double-Boiled Abalone Soup with dried scallops and cordyceps flower, and Crispy Noodles with King Prawn deliver both comfort and craft. Don’t miss the complimentary Mini Black Charcoal Salted Egg Custard Bun.

10. Food Capital

Shucked oysters, snow crab legs, seafood stew, and Josper-grilled Wagyu beef ribeye. Food Capital is rolling out a buffet that covers both fresh seafood and hearty meats. It’s a lineup built for anyone who enjoys variety and generous servings, with plenty to explore across the spread.

The special lunch happens on 15 June 2025, from 12 pm to 3 pm, at Grand Copthorne Waterfront Hotel, 322 Havelock Road. At $128++ per adult and $64++ per child aged 6 and up, it’s a satisfying way to spend a weekend afternoon with the family and good food.

There you go, a round-up of 10 great spots in Singapore to treat Dad to a memorable meal this June. Whether you’re planning a cosy lunch, a lively buffet, or something a little more indulgent, there’s something here to suit every kind of appetite. Just don’t forget to book your seat in advance, these places can fill up fast. Most of all, enjoy the time with family, good food, and great company!

Check out more articles: Best Restaurants with Play Areas in Singapore and 10 Public Libraries and Book Cafes in Singapore

Clearing Up Common Misconceptions About Online Tutoring

Nadya Sharfina · May 30, 2025 · Leave a Comment

"Modern learning may look unfamiliar, but online tutoring is designed to support today’s students in ways that truly work."

Online tutoring has become more common in recent years, but there are still a lot of misconceptions about how it works. Some parents may feel unsure about it—maybe because it’s done through a screen, or because it looks different from what they remember growing up. These doubts are completely normal, especially with so many choices out there. Still, online tutoring can offer meaningful support for children at all learning levels.

In this article, we’ll explore some of the most common misconceptions about online tutoring and explain why they don’t always match up with reality.

Not Just for Homework

Many people assume tutoring is just about getting through tonight’s homework, but that’s only a small part of what it can offer. Good tutoring goes deeper—it helps students build the skills they need to really understand what they’re learning. Things like critical thinking, problem-solving, and staying organised don’t always come naturally, and that’s where a tutor can really make a difference. Over time, students start to approach tough concepts with more ease and less frustration.

Tutoring also encourages better habits that stick with kids well beyond a single assignment. They learn how to manage their time, study more effectively, and feel more prepared when it’s time for standardised tests. Instead of just reacting to challenges as they come, students start to develop strategies that help them stay ahead. So, while homework help is part of the package, the real benefit is in building a stronger foundation for learning overall.

Connected, Not Isolated

A common myth about online learning is that it leaves students feeling isolated, but that’s far from the reality of how most programs work today. Many online platforms offer group classes where class sizes are carefully planned, so students still get that sense of being part of a learning community. They can join virtual study sessions, share ideas, ask questions, and collaborate just like they would in a traditional classroom, just in a different format.

For students who need more personal attention, one-on-one video calls with tutors or teachers are often part of the experience. In fact, online tutoring can sometimes be more interactive than in-person classes, simply because the tutor is focused on fewer students and can give more attention to each one. Instead of feeling alone, many students actually feel more seen and heard in an online setting.

Learning Doesn’t Stop When the Session Ends

It might seem like learning stops when a tutoring session ends, but that’s not quite how it works. While tutoring can give your child an extra boost by explaining tricky topics and guiding their understanding, it isn’t meant to replace independent study. Just like in school, what students do outside of the lesson matters just as much. Logging off a session doesn’t mean putting the books away for the rest of the day.

To really make progress, students need to revisit what they’ve learned, practise applying it, and give themselves time to absorb the material. This helps the concepts stick and leads to stronger results in the long run. Tutoring sets the foundation, but regular review and self-study help build something lasting. A little effort outside the sessions can go a long way in helping your child get the most out of their learning.

No Need to Be Tech-Savvy

Photo by Antoni Shkraba Studio on Pexels

Many parents worry that online tutoring won’t be as effective as in-person sessions, especially if their child isn’t very tech-savvy. It’s true that learning through a screen isn’t exactly the same as sitting in a classroom, and that can feel a little intimidating at first. However, most online tutoring platforms are built to be simple and easy to use, with familiar apps like Google Meet and Zoom making it straightforward to connect. Tutors usually take time to guide students and parents through the setup, so you don’t need to be an expert with technology to get the hang of it.

With the right tutor, interactive tools, and video calls, online tutoring can be just as effective as traditional methods and often more flexible. These sessions allow for personalised attention and make it easier for students to ask questions and get instant feedback. The convenience of learning from home, combined with user-friendly technology, helps make online tutoring a practical option for many families.

Discipline Still Counts

Online learning often gets a reputation for being too relaxed, but that doesn’t mean discipline goes out the window. Just because students and teachers aren’t in the same physical space doesn’t mean expectations disappear. Students are still expected to show up on time, stay focused, and follow a routine. This kind of setup gives children the chance to take more ownership of how they manage their time and stay on task.

It may look easy at first, but online learning actually helps students build consistent habits. This is a great chance for your child to build discipline on their terms. It’s also a good opportunity for your child to develop time management skills. They need to meet deadlines, organise their work, and find a balance between screen time and study time. These are all useful habits that can support steady progress and help students stay more prepared day to day.

Tutors Do More Than Just Give Answers

Some people think tutors are just there to hand out answers, but that really misses the point of what good tutoring is all about. A big part of tutoring is helping students understand how to get to the answer on their own. Tutors give students the tools to break down problems, think critically, and figure things out step by step. When kids know the process behind a solution, they’re much better prepared for the next challenge that comes their way.

Tutors often act like a personal guide, showing students smart ways to approach their studies and prepare for exams. They might share strategies or tips that aren’t always covered in the classroom, kind of like giving your child a cheat code, but for learning. This helps students build real skills that stick with them long after the session is over. Instead of just memorising answers, they’re learning how to tackle all kinds of questions with more clarity and independence.

At Curio, our tutors are thoughtful and intentional in how they teach. They understand that every child learns differently, so they adjust their approach to match each student’s needs. Our tutors are former RGS educators who know what it takes to prepare for exams and how to teach smart, effective ways to tackle questions. If your child needs extra support in English, Curio’s online tuition program offers engaging, personalised learning that keeps students motivated. With expert guidance and tailored lessons, your child will pick up useful strategies and practical skills that make studying feel more manageable. Sign up today and see how Curio can make English learning a better experience for your child.

Check out more articles on online learning here: How Online Learning is Reshaping Education, The Joys of Learning Online, The Role of Parents in Online Learning Success, and The Rise of Online Education: What Parents Need to Know.

Get Crafty! 12 Artisanal Workshops in Singapore Worth Trying

Nadya Sharfina · May 29, 2025 · Leave a Comment

“When stress builds up and life feels repetitive, slowing down to make something with your hands can be the most creative kind of therapy.”

Feeling a little stressed or stuck in the usual routine? Sometimes the best way to recharge is by picking up something with your hands and letting your mind wander creatively. Artisanal workshops are a hands-on way to explore new interests or dive deeper into hobbies you’ve always wanted to try. With so many options around Singapore, there’s plenty to discover.

This list of 12 artisanal workshops highlights experiences where you can learn a skill, craft something with your own hands, and enjoy the process along the way. Many of these sessions are open to adults, and some also welcome kids, so it can be a solo adventure or a fun activity to share.

1. Taoz Ceramics Studio

Tucked inside Orchard Gateway, Taoz Ceramics Studio is a lovely spot for families who want to try their hand at ceramics. With a range of pottery classes for all skill levels, everyone gets a chance to shape and paint something that’s truly their own.

The studio also has pottery painting sessions and trial lessons, so you can easily drop in and see what it’s all about. They even run team bonding activities, which are a great way for families or groups to connect through something creative. The space feels warm and welcoming, making it easy to settle in and enjoy the experience at your own pace.

2. Studio MU / YU

Studio MU / YU invites you into the calming and creative world of woodworking. In this three-hour workshop, you’ll get to work with traditional hand tools, learning through clear and engaging demonstrations that make the process approachable, even if it’s your first time.

During the session, you’ll design and cut your jewellery template, turning your ideas into something you can hold and take home. You’ll find the studio on Level 3 at 91B Lavender Street.

3. Crafune

If you’ve ever wanted to make your own leather accessories like a bag, coin pouch, keychain, wallet, card sleeve, or cardholder, Crafune in New Bahru is a great place to start. Their leather accessories workshop teaches you the basics of leather crafting.

You’ll get to pick from a variety of leather colours and add a personal touch with hot stamping. The workshop encourages creativity and gives you the chance to design something you can use every day or share as a thoughtful gift.

4. Perfumeplay

Located at 23 Bali Lane, Perfumeplay offers a delightful experience in the art of scent-making. The workshop introduces participants to the fascinating history of perfumery and the natural ingredients that create different fragrances. With a wide selection of essential oils and scents, everyone has the chance to explore and experiment, crafting a fragrance that feels personal.

Each participant gets their interactive workstation, complete with everything needed to blend a custom perfume or candle. It’s a lovely way to spend time being creative, and you’ll leave with a beautifully crafted keepsake or a thoughtful gift to pass along.

5. Anna Craft

Anna Craft’s Tufting Workshop is a fantastic spot for anyone interested in creating unique textile pieces. You can customise your tufting projects into rugs, mirrors, pillows, or a variety of bags, letting your creativity run free with over 60 yarn colours to choose from.

The studio at Pioneer Junction is cosy yet roomy, designed to comfortably fit up to 45 people. It’s a relaxed, welcoming place to spend a few hours getting creative. They’re open daily from 12:00 to 20:00, so it’s easy to find a time that works for you.

6. The Plant Story

Tucked away in the peaceful surroundings of Seletar Aerospace Park, this nature-based workshop space invites you to slow down and reconnect with the natural world. Through Nature Therapy sessions, you’ll take part in activities that engage the body, mind, and soul. All in a private, green setting that feels far removed from the usual pace of city life.

Participants can create their eco-sanctuary by building a miniature garden. There are several styles to choose from, including the Rainforest Garden (also known as a terrarium), Desert Garden, Air Garden, and Water Garden.

7. Tombalek

This spot is one of Singapore’s most unique and exciting creative spaces. Known as the Singapore Open Workshop, it’s where you can dive into hands-on crafts like woodworking, metalworking, and even glassblowing. If you’re curious about making a knife or designing a cheeseboard, there’s always something interesting to try here.

They also run furniture-making classes where you can build things like short stools, dining chairs, mini benches, or shoe benches. Tombalek workshop is located in the Monde Collection.

8. The Cozy Cabin

Get creative with glass decal art by decorating your own wine glass, cereal cup, or juice cup with playful and stylish designs. It’s a fun and relaxed way to explore colours, shapes, and patterns while making something uniquely yours.

Located at 35 Kallang Pudding Road, Tower A, #08-07 in the Tong Lee Building, this studio welcomes anyone aged 8 and up. Kids between 8 and 12 will need to be accompanied by a paying adult, making it a great chance for some creative family time.

9. Wildflower Studio

Cat lovers, this one’s definitely worth checking out. Wildflower Studio brings together creativity and calm with their unique Art Jamming with Cats experience, set in the cosy Enabling Village. The studio works closely with rescue cats through a fostering program that focuses on rehabilitation and finding them new homes.

You can pick a 2.5-hour semi-guided session or a 1-hour unguided one, depending on how you want to spend your time. You might spend the time painting at your own pace or simply chilling with the cats. It’s a relaxed way to enjoy some quality time with furry friends in a space that values kindness and respect between humans and animals.

10. The Sundowner

Now, let’s step into nature. Nestled near Siglap Centre at Pay2Home MTM – 7-Eleven East Coast Road, The Sundowner is a nature experience centre packed with fun activities for families. You’ll get up close with bees, ants, and earthworms during their Farm Encounters.

There’s plenty to get creative with, too, like paper marbling, terrarium building, beeswax candle making, and crafting a Mini Zen Garden or Mini Treehouse. Feeling hungry? You can brew your own coffee, mix a cocktail, or get hands-on with a handmade pasta lunch or pizza dinner, all using fresh herbs grown right on-site. With so much to explore, The Sundowner is a refreshing mix of nature, food, and craft.

11. Yixing Xuan Teahouse

Located at 78 Tanjong Pagar Road, Yixing Xuan Teahouse welcomes you to experience the calming tradition of Chinese tea making. In this one-hour workshop, you’ll dive into the rich heritage of tea culture. Learning to identify different types like White, Green, Flower, and Oolong teas, discovering classic brewing techniques, and hearing stories that link tea to Chinese art, health, and everyday life.

The session is designed for small groups, with a minimum of 2 and a maximum of 25 participants. If you’re unable to visit in person, they also have a virtual workshop option, where all the materials are delivered right to your doorstep.

12. Soap Ministry

At Soap Ministry, crafting your own skincare products is both fun and informative. The workshops focus on natural, eco-friendly ingredients like plant-based oils, ideal for anyone curious about what goes into their soap or bath bomb. Classes include Melt & Pour Soap-Making, bath bomb creation, and skincare basics, and they’re suitable for all ages.

Everything you create smells great and is gentle on the skin. Over time, using organic soap with nourishing ingredients can really improve how your skin feels. You’ll find Soap Ministry at 277 Orchard Road, Gateway, #03-04 Orchard.

Here’s the full list of 20 artisanal workshops that invite you to tap into your creative side. Regardless of age or experience, there’s always something new to explore. These sessions are a great way to slow down, try something different, and walk away with something you’ve made yourself. So go ahead, sign up for a class, bring your family and friends, and enjoy the process of creating together.

Check out more in our article on creative activities with kids: 5 Exciting DIY Projects for Children to Create at Home.

How to Help Your Child Get Ready for the PSLE

Nadya Sharfina · May 28, 2025 · Leave a Comment

"The PSLE marks not just the end of primary school, but the beginning of new possibilities—preparation is the bridge between where your child is and where they can go."

The PSLE, or Primary School Leaving Examination, is a major step for all Primary 6 students in Singapore. It marks the end of their primary education and helps determine their next school placement. The exam covers four main subjects: English, Mother Tongue, Mathematics, and Science. Each subject has its own format and areas of focus, so preparing for the exam means understanding what each one requires.

In this article, we’ll offer practical tips to help your child improve their PSLE results and approach the exam with greater ease.

Time Management Strategies

Time can pass quickly during an exam, especially if your child gets stuck on a difficult question. Without a clear plan, they might spend too long on one problem and end up rushing through the rest.

Start by encouraging your child to read through the entire paper before answering. This helps them understand the questions and spot the ones they feel more comfortable tackling. A good tip is to go for the easier questions first; this helps them secure those marks early on and builds a steady rhythm for the rest of the paper.

It’s also helpful to set rough time limits for each section. For example, in English Paper 2, they might allocate about 20 minutes to the grammar and vocabulary sections, then use the remaining time for comprehension and synthesis. The goal is to manage time wisely, so no section is rushed or overlooked.

Learn Note-Taking Methods

Taking good notes can greatly help your child when reviewing what they’ve learned. It organises information in a way that makes it easier to understand and remember. Your child can experiment with different note-taking methods to find one that matches their learning style.

One common technique is the outline method, where ideas are arranged in a clear, hierarchical format. This works well for subjects with lots of facts or steps, like Science or Social Studies. Another useful approach is the boxing method, which groups related information into separate boxes on the page. This method helps break down concepts or examples clearly.

The sentence method is more straightforward, with your child writing important points as full sentences. This can be especially helpful for summarising explanations or stories in English. It encourages them to process the information in their own words, which can deepen understanding. Writing in full sentences also mirrors the way they might need to explain ideas in written assessments, making this method a practical tool for subjects that involve more descriptive answers. Over time, this technique can help build a stronger habit of thinking clearly and expressing ideas more effectively on paper.

Visual Aids for Better Understanding

Using mind maps, diagrams, and flow charts can be a great way to help your child organise their thoughts and see how different topics connect. In subjects like Science and Math, students often need to link ideas together, and visual aids make these connections much clearer. Check out: 5 Ways to Take Better Notes in Class.

A simple way to create a mind map is to write the main topic in the centre of a page, then draw branches out to related ideas. Adding colours, symbols, and images can make the map more memorable. Feel free to use whatever helps your child remember the information easily.

Mind maps work well for topics such as life cycles or ecosystems in Science, and concepts like geometry or problem-solving methods in Math. These tools help your child break down complex information into manageable parts, making study sessions more effective and engaging.

Review Past Papers

To prepare steadily for the PSLE, many students benefit from practising with past exam papers. These resources give your child a clearer sense of what to expect, how questions are phrased, which topics come up often, and the level of detail typically required in answers.

A good place to begin is with older papers. These help build a solid foundation and allow your child to become familiar with the structure of each subject. Once they’re more comfortable, move on to more recent papers to stay in tune with current question formats and trends.

However, don’t stop at just completing the papers. Go through the answers together and take time to review any mistakes. This step is just as valuable as the practice itself. Understanding why an answer didn’t work, or how a different method might be more effective, helps your child avoid making the same errors again.

With regular practice, the exam format will begin to feel more natural and less overwhelming. This gradual approach allows your child to prepare thoroughly without the pressure of cramming everything at once.

Developing Strong Writing Skills

Writing plays a big role in the PSLE, especially in the English paper, and developing strong skills requires time and regular practice.

Begin by encouraging your child to read a wide range of books, articles, or short stories. The more they read, the more they’ll pick up different sentence structures, vocabulary, and writing styles. Over time, this helps shape their writing and allows them to share ideas more clearly and creatively. Check out: 10 Essential Books for Teens: Boosting English Skills & Building Character.

Consistent essay practice also has a strong impact. Set aside time each week for your child to write on various topics, both personal and imaginative. When working on narrative essays, encourage them to use vivid descriptions and natural dialogue to make their stories come alive.

How Different Resources Help with PSLE Study

There are many educational resources available today to support your child’s PSLE preparation. From textbooks and assessment books to online platforms and tutoring services, each offers its own benefits. Exploring these options can help you find what suits your child’s learning style and needs best.

In addition to self-study materials, interactive and engaging classes can help keep your child motivated. Sometimes, a fresh explanation or a new way of looking at a topic makes it easier to understand.

Our online tuition programme is designed with this approach in mind. With structured lessons, experienced tutors, and a supportive learning environment, we help your child develop strong writing skills.. The lessons are content-rich and encourage active participation, making learning enjoyable and effective.

Ready to support your child’s learning journey? Sign up for our creative writing programme today!.

How to Know if Your Child Needs a Tutor

Nadya Sharfina · May 22, 2025 · Leave a Comment

"Your child may be trying their best, but quiet struggles often go unnoticed. Maybe it’s time to consider a tutor who can offer the support they need."

Sometimes, it’s hard to tell if your child is managing well in school or quietly facing challenges. Even students who work hard and study dedicatedly can reach a point where the material becomes overwhelming or their interest begins to wane.

At times like these, extra support can really help. A tutor provides personalised guidance, helping your child review difficult topics, clear up confusion, and gain a deeper understanding of the material. This focused support helps them build a stronger foundation and approach new challenges with greater ease.

In this article, we’ll explore some common signs that suggest your child could benefit from a tutor.

Your Child Has Difficulty Starting Schoolwork

When something feels difficult or unpleasant, what do we usually do? We procrastinate. Children are no different. If your child is regularly delaying their homework or coming up with reasons to avoid it, it could be more than just a temporary slump. This kind of procrastination often signals that they’re finding the work too challenging or overwhelming.

You might notice them skipping parts of their assignments, struggling to get started, or even trying to hide their homework altogether. If they used to finish their schoolwork in an hour or two but now spend several hours with little progress, it’s a clear sign that something’s not working.

When Effort Doesn’t Match Results

One of the most frustrating experiences for any student is putting in a lot of effort but not seeing the results they expect. If your child has been diligently completing homework and studying for every test, yet their grades on tests and assignments are slipping, it can be tough for both of you.

This situation often leaves them feeling confused and discouraged. They might begin to doubt their abilities, even though the issue usually isn’t a lack of effort. More often, it comes down to their approach. They may be missing key concepts, using study methods that don’t match their learning style, or simply needing more focused guidance to turn their hard work into better results.

Grades Going Down

One of the most common signs that your child may benefit from extra academic support is a noticeable drop in their grades. When a child fails a test or brings home a disappointing report card, it can feel disheartening. While every student can face challenges now and then, ongoing struggles in their academic performance usually signal that they need some help.

The key is to find out what’s causing the decline. Maybe they’re having trouble keeping up in class, or perhaps they didn’t fully grasp earlier topics and are now feeling lost. Whatever the reason, getting to the root of the issue early can prevent further setbacks.

Anxiety Around Exams

It’s completely normal for children to feel a little nervous before a big test. However, if your child always gets anxious around exam time, it might be a sign that they need more support. Some kids feel overwhelmed simply because they don’t know how to prepare. They may stare at their notes, unsure of where to start, or feel like no matter how much they study, it’s never enough.

This kind of anxiety often comes from a lack of confidence and structure. If they don’t feel prepared, it’s hard for them to walk into an exam room with a clear mind. When that stress builds up over time, it can start to affect their overall attitude towards school and learning.

Your Child Has Low Self-Esteem

Sometimes, children begin to believe they’re just “not good” at a certain subject. You might hear them say things like, “I’m terrible at English,” or “I’ll never get this.” These kinds of comments often reflect low self-esteem and doubt in their own abilities.

When kids lack confidence, they may hesitate to speak up in class. They might avoid asking questions when they’re confused or shy away from answering, even if they know the right response. This reluctance usually shows that they’re feeling unsure or uncomfortable in that learning environment.

With the right support, children can not only understand the material better but also start to feel more capable and encouraged. As their confidence grows, they become more willing to participate in class and develop a more positive attitude toward learning.

Dislike of a Specific Subject

Not every child struggles in every subject. Sometimes their overall grades look fine, but one subject consistently presents a challenge. Maybe they’re often receiving lower marks in one subject, or they simply seem to dislike the subject. When a child avoids or resists a particular area of study, it usually means they find it confusing, frustrating, or too difficult to handle on their own.

Even if their overall performance hasn’t dropped, ongoing difficulties in one subject shouldn’t be overlooked. Struggles in important areas like English, where skills in reading, writing, and comprehension form the foundation for many other subjects, can affect their progress over time.

That’s where we can help. Curio is an online tuition platform specializing exclusively in English. Our tutors are experienced ex-RGS teachers who know how to explain complex ideas clearly and provide supportive, personalised guidance. With expert help and tailored learning plans, your child can improve their English skills and regain confidence.

At Curio, your child is in safe hands. We offer a variety of classes and programmes designed to fit your child’s individual needs and learning style. Join us today and give your child the focused support they need to grow and thrive.

Mid Year Check in for Sec 1 Parents: On Your Child’s Academic Journey

Rebecca Samuel · May 15, 2025 · Leave a Comment

"Half a year gone in a blink, but it’s not too late to pause, check in, and steer your child’s journey with clarity and care."

It is almost June and where did the time go? Your kids seemed to have grown up quite suddenly, gone on to secondary school and are now halfway through their first year. They have made friends, navigated new and unfamiliar terrain, and have busier schedules. On the academic front, the additional subjects and complexity that some of them come with must have posed a challenge. How can you help them better navigate through their academic journey in secondary school?

This check-in is a chance to breathe, take stock, and gently steer the course for the rest of the year. Whether your child is thriving, struggling, or somewhere in between, you are not alone. Let’s walk through some key areas of their journey so far.

Tackling Tough Subjects

One of the biggest changes in Secondary 1 is the introduction of new subjects and a more rigorous pace. For many students, subjects like Math, Literature, or Mother Tongue can suddenly feel more complex than before.

If your child is facing difficulties, it doesn’t mean they are falling behind for good. It often takes time to adjust to new styles of teaching, unfamiliar terminology, and higher expectations. Be patient. Offer support without pressuring them to “just get it.”

Here are some signs your child may be struggling academically:

Avoiding certain subjects or homework
Feeling discouraged or frustrated easily
Sudden drops in test scores or class participation
Saying things like “I’m just not good at this”

What You Can Do:

Check in regularly without sounding like an interrogation. A simple “How did Math go today?” can open doors.
Celebrate small wins, like a better quiz score or understanding a tough topic.
Reach out to teachers if you’re unsure how your child is performing. Teachers appreciate proactive communication and can offer insights or suggestions.
Consider extra help—whether that’s online resources, group tuition, or a friend who’s good at explaining things. Not all help has to be expensive or formal.

Most importantly, reassure your child that progress matters more than perfection. Every learner has strengths and areas to improve—this is part of growing up.

Handling Emotions and Growth Spurts

It’s no secret: Secondary 1 students are going through a lot emotionally and physically. Hormones are surging, friendships are shifting, and identity is forming. One day they’re laughing with you at breakfast, the next they’re giving you one-word answers and closing their room door.

This emotional rollercoaster is normal.

Your child is learning to balance independence with the need for guidance. They may not say it, but they still need you—just in new ways.

Some emotional shifts you might notice:

Mood swings or increased irritability
Being more private about school or friendships
Feeling self-conscious about appearance or abilities
Wanting to “fit in” more than before

Ways to Support Emotional Growth:

Offer a safe space to talk—without judgment or trying to “fix” everything.
Validate their feelings. Even if something seems small to you, it may feel huge to them.
Model emotional regulation. How you handle stress and disappointment teaches them a lot.
Encourage good habits—like sleep, balanced meals, and screen breaks. These directly impact mood and energy.

Growth spurts can also leave your child feeling physically tired, clumsy, or awkward. If they suddenly outgrow uniforms or complain about joint aches or fatigue, it’s not uncommon. Make sure they’re eating well and getting enough rest. Teens need more sleep than we often realise—about 8 to 10 hours a night.

Building Good Study Habits

Secondary 1 is the perfect time to build sustainable study habits that will carry your child through the next few years. But remember, habits don’t form overnight. This is a good point in the year to help your child reflect:

What study methods are working?
Which subjects need more attention?
Are distractions (like social media or gaming) becoming a problem?

Tips for Better Study Routines:

Use a planner or digital calendar to track homework and test dates.
Break big tasks into smaller parts.
Encourage regular revision—not just before exams.
Create a dedicated, tidy study space at home, even if it’s just a corner of a table.

Help your child find their own rhythm. Some kids study better in short bursts, others need longer quiet stretches. The goal is not just hard work—it’s smart, consistent effort.

Navigating New Friendships and Social Pressures

Friendships can be a major source of joy—or stress—in Secondary 1. With students from different primary schools mixing together, new social groups are constantly forming and shifting.

It’s normal for your child to be figuring out where they belong. They might feel left out one week and included the next. You may also notice them talking about new people they admire—or ones they dislike.

While you can’t choose their friends, you can help them learn to recognise healthy friendships: those built on kindness, respect, and shared values. Encourage them to be open-minded and inclusive, but also to stand firm on their boundaries.

What if my child is being bullied or left out?

Listen calmly and avoid jumping to conclusions or actions right away.
Ask open-ended questions like “How did that make you feel?” or “What do you want to do about it?”
If needed, talk to the school discreetly. Most schools take peer relationships seriously and can provide support.

Managing the Pressure to Perform

In Singapore’s competitive academic culture, it’s easy to feel that every grade, every test, and every subject matters too much. But remember, Secondary 1 is a foundation year. It sets the tone for later academic years, but it doesn’t define your child’s future.

If you sense your child is putting too much pressure on themselves (or feels that you are), try to shift the focus:

From marks to learning
From comparison to self-improvement
From perfection to progress

Praise effort, not just results. Recognise the courage it takes to ask for help, the dedication behind revision, or the resilience in bouncing back from a bad grade.

Looking Ahead: What’s Next for the Year?

Now is a good time to sit down with your child and set realistic, encouraging goals for the second half of the year.

Try these questions to guide the conversation:

What’s one subject you want to improve in?
What’s something you’re proud of so far?
What’s one new thing you’d like to try before the year ends?

This helps your child reflect meaningfully and take ownership of their journey. You don’t have to plan everything—but a gentle sense of direction can be motivating.

Final Thoughts: You’re Doing Better Than You Think

Parenting a Secondary 1 child can feel like a balancing act. You’re giving them more freedom but also worrying if they’re ready. You’re cheering them on, but also wondering when to step in.

Take comfort in knowing that this phase—however bumpy—is one of growth, learning, and transformation. Your child doesn’t need you to be perfect. They just need you to be present, to listen, and to believe in them—even when they doubt themselves.

Celebrate how far they’ve come. And if things aren’t going as smoothly as hoped, remember: it’s never too late to reset, reach out, and move forward.

You’ve got this, and your child does too. One step at a time.

Visit our English Language and English Literature programme at Curio to help your child build confidence, improve their writing, and develop a deeper understanding of what they read. We’re here to support them as they grow and thrive.

When School Becomes Too Much: Spotting Burnout Early

Nadya Sharfina · May 13, 2025 · Leave a Comment

“Behind the silence or the sigh, there may be burnout—your child might need more than just rest.”

Most parents have seen it, the heavy sigh after school, the homework left untouched, or the once-enthusiastic kid who now seems distant and drained. While it’s normal for kids to have off days, ongoing stress and pressure from school can sometimes build into something more serious: academic burnout.

Students are juggling a lot. Between packed schedules, academic expectations, and social demands, it’s easy for them to become overwhelmed, often before they even realise it themselves. That’s why it’s so important for parents to recognise the early signs and know how to step in with support.

This article is here to help you understand what school burnout looks like, what causes it, and most importantly, how you can prevent it from taking hold in the first place.

What Is Academic Burnout?

Academic burnout can look like everyday tiredness, but it runs much deeper. It’s a negative emotional, physical, and mental reaction to ongoing school stress and constant studying. When your kids experience burnout, they may feel emotionally drained, easily frustrated, lose motivation, and struggle to keep up with schoolwork, even when they’re still putting in the effort.

This kind of burnout doesn’t appear overnight. It often develops over weeks or even months of steady academic pressure, especially when your kid is working through similar material year after year. With the ongoing cycle of tests, assignments, and long hours of study, school can start to feel exhausting and repetitive.

What Causes School Burnout?

Burnout often develops when several pressures build up over time. Recognising what’s behind this stress can help you support your kid before things reach a breaking point.

Academic pressure is one of the biggest factors. Many kids want to do well and meet expectations, but that effort can wear them down. For kids who struggle with attention, simply staying focused can be exhausting. They might spend a lot of time and energy on schoolwork, only to feel like they’re falling behind or not making much progress. That can be frustrating and discouraging, even when they’re trying their best.

Emotional challenges also contribute. Kids face setbacks, criticism, and situations where they feel different from their peers. These moments can affect how they see themselves and make tough tasks feel even more difficult. If they’ve experienced failure before, they may start to worry constantly about doing poorly again. That kind of anxiety can weigh heavily on them over time.

Social dynamics play a part as well. Many kids want to live up to the expectations of supportive adults in their lives, like parents and teachers. At the same time, they may not have friends who truly understand what they’re going through. This disconnect can leave them feeling isolated or alone. For some, there’s also the fear of being bullied, which adds to their anxiety and can make school feel like a stressful place rather than a supportive one.

Signs of Burnout in School

Burnout in kids and teens can be difficult to spot at first, as many of the signs resemble normal stress or developmental changes. However, when these behaviours become more frequent or intense, it may be a sign that your kid is feeling overwhelmed and struggling to manage.

One of the first indicators is ongoing fatigue. Even after a full night’s sleep, your kid might still seem tired, sluggish, or low on energy. A noticeable drop in motivation can also signal burnout, not just for schoolwork, but for activities they used to enjoy, like sports, hobbies, or socialising. Social withdrawal is another key sign that your kid may begin avoiding friends or family, preferring to isolate themselves.

Changes in focus or concentration can also be a red flag. Burnout can make it harder for your kid to focus on school tasks, remember assignments, or make simple decisions. You might notice a decline in grades, missed deadlines, or an overall lack of engagement in school. This is especially concerning if your kid is typically motivated and suddenly seems disconnected.

Emotional shifts are just as important to watch for. Increased irritability, mood swings, or emotional withdrawal can indicate that your kid is struggling. A once open and expressive kid may become quieter or more distant. Physical symptoms like headaches, stomachaches, fatigue, or disrupted sleep are common signs of underlying stress.

How to Prevent School Burnout

Preventing burnout starts with being present. Not just physically, but emotionally too. One of the best things you can do is stay aware of your kid’s stress levels. Kids often don’t know how to express when they’re feeling overwhelmed, so it helps to be proactive. Watch for signs of stress, like mood changes or withdrawal, and open up conversations that invite them to share how they’re feeling.

If you don’t usually ask how their day went or how they’re managing school, it’s never too late to start. Regular check-ins can help build trust and give your kid space to talk. You can also reach out to teachers, tutors, or school counsellors to get a fuller picture of how things are going. Sometimes kids may not open up at home, but others around them might notice when something’s off.

Helping your kid manage their time can also go a long way in preventing burnout. Work together to create a realistic schedule that includes study time, breaks, meals, and fun activities. When kids have time to relax and recharge, they’re better equipped to handle schoolwork. Encourage them to prioritise tasks and avoid leaving things until the last minute, as procrastination can quickly lead to stress. Check out: The Best Exam Study Timetable Your Children Need Right Now

Large projects or assignments can feel overwhelming, so help your kid break them down into smaller, more manageable steps. Tackling one piece at a time not only reduces stress but also builds confidence as they make steady progress.

Remind your kid that the goal isn’t perfection, it’s growth. Everyone makes mistakes, and that’s part of learning. Celebrate effort and improvement, no matter how small. When kids feel supported for who they are, not just what they achieve, they’re more likely to stay motivated and emotionally balanced.

Want to learn more? Check out our other articles on how to support your child through school challenges: How to Motivate the Unmotivated Kid, Improving Grades: 6 Strategies for Bouncing Back, How to Set Goals and Achieve Them in the New School Year

The Rise of Online Education: What Parents Need to Know

Vanessa Chang · April 30, 2025 · Leave a Comment

"Online education is no longer the future—it’s the new normal, and it’s reshaping how our children learn."

In recent years, Singapore has witnessed a remarkable transformation in its educational landscape. Online education, once considered a supplementary learning method, has evolved into a mainstream approach that’s reshaping how our children learn. At Curio, we’ve observed this shift firsthand through our virtual tuition programs.

The global pandemic acted as a powerful catalyst, accelerating what was already a growing trend toward digital learning solutions. Now, as we navigate this new educational frontier, parents across Singapore are asking important questions: Is online education effective for my child? How can I ensure they receive quality instruction? What long-term impacts might this have on their development?

This comprehensive guide explores the multifaceted world of online education from a parent’s perspective, offering research-backed insights and practical strategies to help your child thrive in virtual learning environments.

The Evolution of Online Education in Singapore

Singapore’s education system has long been recognized globally for its excellence and innovation. Our transition to incorporating more digital learning options reflects this forward-thinking approach. What began as emergency remote learning during circuit breaker periods has evolved into sophisticated virtual classrooms that offer engaging, interactive learning experiences.

According to recent Ministry of Education data, over 90% of Singapore students now engage with some form of online education, whether through school-based blended learning programs, supplementary tuition platforms like on Curio.sg, or self-directed learning resources. This widespread adoption represents more than just a temporary shift—it signals a fundamental transformation in how education is delivered and consumed.

The integration of technology into education aligns perfectly with Singapore’s Smart Nation initiatives, preparing students for a future where digital literacy is as essential as traditional academic knowledge. Parents who understand this evolution can better position their children for success in both their academic journeys and future careers.

Benefits of Online Education for Singapore Students

Individualized Attention and Customized Learning

One of the most compelling advantages of quality online education is the individualized attention students receive. At Curio, our virtual tuition programs feature smaller class sizes that allow our tutors to focus directly on each student’s specific needs and challenges.

For students who might feel hesitant to ask questions in traditional classroom settings, the online environment often provides a more comfortable space to seek clarification. Our tutors can identify knowledge gaps quickly and address them immediately, ensuring no student falls behind due to unresolved confusion.

The customized nature of online tuition also allows us to tailor teaching approaches to match your child’s academic goals, whether they’re aiming for exam excellence, conceptual mastery, or addressing specific subject challenges. This focused attention is particularly valuable in Singapore’s competitive educational landscape, where personalized support can make a significant difference in academic outcomes.

Access to Expert Educators

Singapore’s geographical limitations once restricted access to certain educators and specialised programs. Online education has eliminated these barriers. Through virtual learning platforms, your child can now learn from expert tutors regardless of their physical location.

At Curio , we leverage this advantage by connecting students with specialised subject experts who might otherwise be inaccessible. Whether your child needs advanced guidance or targeted help with specific examination techniques, online education provides access to tutors with precisely the right expertise.

This democratization of educational resources ensures that all students, regardless of which neighborhood or school district they live in, can access Singapore’s top educational talent.

Enhanced Time Efficiency

For many Singapore families balancing packed schedules of academic and extracurricular activities, online education offers valuable time efficiency. The elimination of commuting time—a significant consideration in our busy urban environment—allows students to redirect those hours toward actual learning or essential downtime.

Parents appreciate that online tuition eliminates the logistical complications of shuttling children between multiple locations after school. This efficiency is particularly beneficial for families with multiple children or working parents with demanding schedules. The time saved can be invested in family activities, recreational pursuits, or additional academic support in areas of need.

Engaging, Interactive Learning Experiences

At Curio, we understand that effective online education must be engaging and interactive—not simply a digital version of traditional lessons. Our tutors employ a wide range of teaching strategies that promote active participation and deep understanding.

Through carefully designed discussion questions, real-world problem-solving exercises, and collaborative learning activities, we create dynamic virtual classrooms where students actively engage with the material rather than passively absorbing information.

Our tutors are trained to use effective questioning techniques that stimulate critical thinking and promote deeper exploration of concepts. By incorporating real-time feedback and guided practice, we ensure students remain engaged and motivated throughout each session.

This approach transforms online learning from a potentially isolating experience into an interactive journey that develops both academic knowledge and critical thinking skills.

Challenges of Online Education: A Parent’s Perspective

The Digital Divide Concern

Despite Singapore’s technological advancement, the digital divide remains a relevant concern. Not all families have equal access to high-speed internet connections, dedicated learning devices, or suitable home environments for online learning.

This inequality creates an additional dimension to educational disparities that parents must navigate. While various support programs exist to address these gaps, it’s important for parents to realistically assess whether their home environment is equipped for successful online learning.

For families facing these challenges, blended approaches that combine some online elements with traditional resources may be more appropriate. Community resources like libraries and community centers can also provide access to necessary technology for families without adequate home setups.

Managing Screen Time and Physical Health

The substantial increase in screen time associated with online learning raises legitimate health concerns for many Singapore parents. Extended hours focusing on digital screens can potentially impact vision, posture, and physical activity levels.

Healthcare professionals recommend implementing the 20-20-20 rule (looking at something 20 feet away for 20 seconds every 20 minutes) to reduce eye strain. Ergonomic considerations, including proper seating, screen positioning, and lighting, also play crucial roles in maintaining physical health during online learning.

Social Development and Interpersonal Skills

Traditional schooling environments provide natural opportunities for social interaction, collaboration, and relationship building. While quality online education platforms incorporate interactive elements, they cannot fully replicate the organic social development that occurs in physical classrooms.

Traditional classrooms naturally foster social interaction, but today’s innovative online learning platforms are revolutionizing how students develop interpersonal skills in digital environments. Curio’s groundbreaking Sapience Method specifically tackles this challenge with remarkable effectiveness.

What truly sets Curio apart is its comprehensive approach to social intelligence education. Beyond academic content, the Sapience Method explicitly teaches communication techniques, active listening, conflict resolution, emotional intelligence, and cultural sensitivity. These skills aren’t left to chance encounters in hallways or playgrounds but are systematically developed through expert guidance and deliberate practice.

The innovative use of role-playing exercises, scenario-based learning, and guided social simulations allows students to practice interpersonal skills in safe environments before applying them in real-world settings. This methodical approach accelerates social development even with fewer spontaneous interactions, giving students confidence in diverse social contexts.

Central to the Sapience Method is the robust parent-teacher-student partnership. This collaborative approach ensures children develop both digital and interpersonal communication skills in a balanced, intentional way that meets their individual needs.

Many parents report that their children actually develop stronger social awareness through Curio ‘s metacognitive social reflection practices. By regularly analyzing their interactions and identifying areas for growth, students become more socially adept than peers who experience frequent but unexamined social interactions in traditional settings.

In today’s increasingly digital world, the Sapience Method prepares students for success in both virtual and physical social environments. By addressing social development with the same careful attention given to academic achievement, Curio ensures students graduate with the complete skill set needed for future success. Experience how intentional online education can enhance rather than limit your child’s social development journey.

How to Ensure Quality in Online Education

Evaluating Online Learning Platforms

Not all online education providers deliver equal quality. When selecting virtual learning opportunities for your child, consider these critical factors:

Qualified Educators: Verify the credentials and experience of the instructors. Quality platforms like Curio employ educators with strong academic backgrounds and classroom experience.
Interactive Learning Design: Effective online education goes beyond video lectures. Look for platforms offering interactive elements, discussion opportunities, and application exercises.
Structured Curriculum Alignment: Ensure the program aligns with Singapore’s curriculum requirements, particularly for examination-focused subjects.
Appropriate Technology: The platform should be reliable, user-friendly, and secure, with proper protocols for student data protection.
Assessment and Feedback Mechanisms: Regular progress tracking and constructive feedback are essential components of effective learning.

By carefully evaluating these factors, parents can distinguish between high-quality online education programs and those offering limited educational value.

How Curio Supports Online Learning Excellence

As a leading virtual tuition centre in Singapore, Curio has developed comprehensive approaches to maximise the benefits of online education while addressing its challenges:

Personalised Learning Paths: Our diagnostic assessments identify each student’s strengths and growth areas, allowing us to customise instruction accordingly.
Expert Singapore Educators: Our tutors bring extensive experience with Singapore’s curriculum and examination requirements, ensuring relevant, targeted instruction.
Interactive Learning Design: Our virtual classrooms incorporate discussion, application, and collaboration—moving well beyond passive video instruction.
Balanced Screen Protocols: We structure sessions to include appropriate breaks and offline components, protecting student wellbeing.
Parental Partnership: We actively involve parents through regular updates, progress reports, and strategy sessions to support home learning.

This comprehensive approach ensures that students receive not just academic instruction but develop the self-direction, digital literacy, and learning strategies essential for success in both online and traditional educational environments.

Conclusion: Making Informed Decisions

Online education has secured its place in Singapore’s educational landscape, offering unprecedented flexibility and accessibility. However, its effectiveness depends on thoughtful implementation, appropriate support, and individualized application.

As parents, understanding both the benefits and limitations of online learning allows you to make informed choices that align with your child’s unique needs, learning style, and educational goals. By actively shaping your child’s digital learning experience rather than passively accepting standardized approaches, you can leverage the strengths of online education while mitigating its potential drawbacks.

The future of education is neither entirely digital nor exclusively traditional—it’s an intelligent integration of both approaches, customized to each learner. At Curio, we’re committed to guiding Singapore families through this educational evolution, providing the expertise, resources, and support needed to thrive in our changing educational landscape.

By embracing the opportunities of online education while thoughtfully addressing its challenges, we can prepare our children not just for academic success but for productive participation in Singapore’s increasingly digital society.

Ready to explore how quality online English tuition can benefit your child? Contact Curio today to learn more about our best tuition programmes!

Why Curio Might Be the Best Thing for Your Kid (And We’re Only Slightly Biased)

Rebecca Samuel · April 23, 2025 · Leave a Comment

"Tuition in Singapore is a national sport—but Curio is the champion you’ve been searching for."

Let’s be real, parents. In Singapore, tuition is practically a national sport. We have tuition centres around every other corner, WhatsApp chats dedicated to finding the right tutor, and more comparison spreadsheets than an accountant. Here’s the thing though: not all tuition is created equal.

So, if you’ve stumbled upon Curio, congratulations—you’ve found a gem. Not just any shiny little rock, but a rare, precision-cut diamond in the vast quarry of cookie-cutter tuition centres. This article is going to tell you why Curio is different, why it works, and why your child needs to be part of it.

1. We’re the Cool Nerds—And Proud of It

Let’s get this out of the way: Curio is unapologetically nerdy. But the fun kind of nerdy. The kind that makes Shakespeare interesting, essays exciting, and GP questions… well, less terrifying.

Our classes aren’t just about drilling answers and regurgitating model essays. We’re here to ignite curiosity (hence the name Curio!). Our tutors don’t just teach—they inspire. They’ve spent over 15 years mastering their craft, and now, they’re on a mission to help your child master theirs in just 90-minute chunks.

2. Online Learning, But Make It Magical

Raise your hand if your kid has ever been in an online class that was more like a digital snooze fest.

Yup. We’ve all been there.

At Curio, we use Zoom and Google Classroom to elevate the learning experience, not flatten it. Here’s what a typical lesson might look like:

Students log into Zoom, greeted by a tutor who knows them by name (and what essay they’re currently stuck on).
We dive into a warm-up discussion—maybe a trending news story, a poem, or a GP quote.
Students sometimes collaborate and share ideas, and sometimes delve into individual work: all under expert guidance.
Assignments and notes are posted in Google Classroom, along with a goldmine of resources: model essays, video explainers, mind maps, and curated articles.
Got a burning question at 10pm on a Wednesday? Just pop into the class comments or message your coach. We’ve got you.

3. The Sapience Method: A Fancy Name, A Fantastic Result

Let’s talk about our secret sauce. It’s called the Sapience Method, and no, it’s not just a buzzword.

It’s our way of helping students become smart thinkers, not just smart test-takers. It blends critical thinking, literary sensitivity, and self-directed learning into every lesson. Your child won’t just learn what to write—they’ll understand why it works, how to structure it, and when to break the rules for effect.

We want students who can slay essay questions and hold their own in thoughtful conversations. (Great for school, but also handy at future job interviews and awkward family dinners.)

4. Our Coaches Are More Like Mentors (And Slightly Cool Aunts/Uncles)

Our teachers aren’t just delivering content—they’re building relationships.

They remember your kid’s favourite book, their last essay topic, and how stressed they were before the last exam. They give feedback that’s kind but constructive. They push students to do better because they believe they can.

This isn’t robotic marking or red-pen rage. It’s mentorship, coaching, and genuine care.

And oh—did we mention unlimited marking? That’s right. Students can submit as many essays as they want, and we’ll return them with detailed, thoughtful feedback. Because practice doesn’t make perfect—feedback does.

5. We Fit Into Your Life (Instead of Taking Over It)

Gone are the days of racing through peak-hour traffic just to get to a tuition centre before 7pm. With Curio’s fully online system, students can learn from the comfort of home, the school library, or even grandma’s house (as long as there’s WiFi).

We also offer different plans for different kinds of learners:

Live Classes for students who want the full interactive experience.
Independent Plans for motivated learners who prefer self-paced study—with the same access to feedback and resources.

Busy CCA schedule? No problem. Weekends packed with family commitments? We get it. Curio is flexible enough to fit around your life, not the other way around.

6. Results That Speak for Themselves (And So Do Our Students)

We could go on and on about our approach, but the truth is—it works. Our students have improved by leaps and bounds, not just in grades, but in confidence.

We’ve seen the C5 Literature student who thought they “just didn’t get poetry” become the top scorer in class. We’ve seen GP students go from “I hate writing” to “Can I send in another essay this week?” (Yes. Yes, you can.)

Parents have told us their kids are reading again. Thinking harder. Writing more freely. And most importantly, enjoying English.

7. Community, Not Competition

Singapore’s education system is competitive enough. We’re not here to pit students against each other—we’re here to build them up.

In our classes, we encourage collaboration. Students learn from each other. They comment on each other’s writing, give peer feedback, and even (gasp) laugh in lessons.

Curio is a safe space for making mistakes, asking questions, and growing together. It’s the kind of learning environment we wish we had as teens. So we built it.

8. Parents, We’ve Got Your Back Too

We know how stressful it is to support your child through national exams. You want to help—but sometimes you’re not sure how.

At Curio, we keep parents in the loop. You’ll get updates, honest feedback, and the peace of mind that your child is learning from teachers who care.

And because it’s online, you can occasionally eavesdrop from the hallway and think: “Wow… I wish I had this kind of class back in my day.”

9. No Gimmicks. Just Good Teaching.

We’re not here to promise overnight miracles or guarantee A1s with magical formulas. (Though we do have some fabulous essay frameworks.)

What we do promise is this: your child will become a better thinker, reader, and writer. And that growth? It sticks.

Curio is about more than scoring well. It’s about developing the kind of curious, articulate, and confident young people who can thrive in school and beyond it.

10. TL;DR? Here’s Why You Should Sign Up Today:

We make English, Literature, and GP actually enjoyable (shocking, we know).
Our online classes via Zoom and Google Classroom are dynamic, engaging, and effective.
The Sapience Method trains students to be thoughtful, independent learners.
Our teachers are experienced, kind, and a little bit magical.
Unlimited marking, constant feedback, and flexible plans to suit every family.
Students actually improve, and they feel good doing it.

Still thinking about it? Here’s your sign.

If you’re a parent who wants more than just “get the marks and go,” Curio is the best tuition centre in Singapore for you. We’ll guide your child not only toward exam success but toward becoming the kind of person who can think clearly, express themselves powerfully, and take on the world with confidence.

All it takes is 90 minutes to feel the difference.

✨ Sign up for a trial class today.
Let curiosity lead the way.

Emotional Intelligence: The Subject Missing from School

Vanessa Chang · April 21, 2025 · Leave a Comment

"Academic success is important, but without emotional intelligence, students are unprepared for life beyond the classroom."

In Singapore’s competitive academic landscape, students face immense pressure to excel in mathematics, sciences, and languages. While these traditional subjects form the backbone of our education system, there’s a critical component often overlooked in school curricula: emotional intelligence (EQ). At Curio SG, we believe this oversight creates a significant gap in preparing students for future success—both academically and in life beyond the classroom.

Why Emotional Intelligence Matters in Education

Emotional intelligence encompasses the ability to recognize, understand, and manage our own emotions while simultaneously perceiving and influencing the emotions of others. Research consistently demonstrates that students with higher emotional intelligence perform better academically, navigate social relationships more effectively, and demonstrate greater resilience when facing challenges.

According to a landmark study published in the Journal of Educational Psychology, students with well-developed emotional intelligence skills score an average of 11% higher on standardized tests compared to peers with lower EQ levels. This correlation exists independently of IQ, suggesting emotional intelligence provides unique advantages in academic settings.

For Singaporean students facing the pressures of PSLE, O-Levels, A-Levels, and beyond, emotional intelligence serves as the hidden foundation that supports traditional academic achievement. Yet most schools simply don’t have the resources or curriculum space to address this crucial area of development.

Signs That Your Child Might Need Support With Emotional Intelligence

Parents often wonder whether their academically successful children need additional support with emotional intelligence. Consider these common indicators that suggest EQ development deserves attention:

Your child experiences disproportionate anxiety before tests despite adequate preparation
They struggle to bounce back from academic disappointments
You notice difficulties in group projects or collaborative settings
Your child avoids challenges for fear of failure
They express excessive perfectionism that impedes progress
Emotional reactions frequently interfere with homework completion
Your child has trouble articulating feelings beyond basic emotions

If these patterns sound familiar, your child may benefit from the integrated EQ approach we’ve pioneered at Curio.

The Curio Approach: Embedding EQ in Academic Excellence

At Curio, we’ve developed a unique methodology that weaves emotional intelligence training seamlessly into our academic curriculum. Rather than treating EQ as a separate subject, our tutors incorporate these vital skills into every lesson, creating a comprehensive learning experience that addresses both cognitive and emotional development.

Self-Awareness: The Foundation of Learning

Self-awareness—the ability to recognize one’s emotions, strengths, weaknesses, and their impact on performance—forms the cornerstone of our teaching philosophy.

We incorporate regular reflection questions throughout our lessons:

“What part of today’s material felt most challenging, and what emotions came up for you?”
“How did your energy level affect your understanding of this concept?”
“When you made that mistake, what thought passed through your mind first?”

By cultivating this awareness, students develop the ability to recognize emotional triggers before they derail learning. One parent reported that her Secondary 3 son, previously prone to shutting down when frustrated, now routinely says, “I notice I’m getting overwhelmed. Can we break this problem into smaller steps?”

Self-Regulation: Maintaining Balance Under Pressure

Singapore’s high-stakes testing environment creates intense pressure that can trigger counterproductive emotional responses. Our tutors explicitly teach self-regulation techniques that students can deploy when emotions threaten to overwhelm their cognitive resources.

Importantly, our tutors model healthy emotional regulation in their teaching. When a student asks a challenging question, rather than providing an immediate answer, the tutor might say, “That’s an excellent question that requires some thought. Let us take a moment to consider it carefully.” This demonstrates that taking time to process complex information represents strength, not weakness.

Motivation: Cultivating Intrinsic Drive

Sustainable academic success requires internal motivation that persists even when external rewards diminish. At Curio, we deliberately foster intrinsic motivation by connecting academic material to students’ personal interests and values.

Our tutors work to understand each student’s unique motivational profile. For some, curiosity drives learning; for others, mastery or purpose provides motivation. By identifying these individual drivers, tutors customize lessons to engage students at a deeper level.

In literature and language classes, students select reading materials that align with their personal interests while still meeting curriculum requirements. We also help students develop what psychologists call a “growth mindset”—the understanding that abilities develop through dedication and hard work. Rather than praising intelligence (“You’re so smart!”), our tutors emphasize process and effort (“Your persistent practice with these essaytypes really paid off”).

Empathy: Strengthening Social Understanding Through Academics

Empathy—the ability to understand others’ perspectives and emotions—might seem disconnected from academic subjects, but our tutors find countless opportunities to develop this crucial skill during lessons.

In literature classes, character analysis becomes an exercise in emotional perspective-taking. Rather than simply identifying a character’s actions, students explore motivations, conflicts, and emotional journeys. These discussions develop a nuanced understanding of human behavior that transfers to real-world social interactions.

Social Skills: Collaborative Learning for Future Success

The modern workplace increasingly values collaboration, communication, and leadership—skills directly tied to emotional intelligence. Our tutors create structured opportunities for developing these capabilities..

For students in group sessions, we incorporate carefully designed collaborative exercises that require emotional intelligence to navigate successfully. These might include group problem-solving with assigned roles, peer teaching rotations, or structured academic debates.

Real-World Applications Beyond the Classroom

The emotional intelligence skills developed through our integrated approach extend far beyond immediate academic benefits. Students apply these capabilities in numerous contexts:

Leadership positions in co-curricular activities
Conflict resolution with peers and siblings
More effective communication with teachers
Greater resilience when facing setbacks
Improved decision-making regarding academic paths

One parent shared how her Secondary 2 daughter, after six months at Curio, successfully mediated a complex group conflict during a school project—a situation that previously would have overwhelmed her. The student later explained she had applied the perspective-taking techniques practiced during literature discussions with her tutor.

How Parents Can Support EQ Development at Home

For maximum effectiveness, emotional intelligence development should continue beyond tutoring sessions. We partner with parents by providing specific strategies for reinforcing EQ skills at home:

Practice “emotion labeling” during homework sessions
Create a designated “reset space” for when emotions interfere with studying
Use reflection questions that connect academic content to personal experiences
Model healthy emotional responses to challenges
Celebrate effort and strategy use rather than focusing exclusively on results

Start Your Child’s Emotional Intelligence Journey

At Curio, we’ve witnessed countless students transform their academic experience through integrated emotional intelligence development. By addressing this critical missing subject, we provide students with both immediate academic advantages and lifelong skills for success.

Unlike programmes that focus exclusively on content knowledge, our approach equips students with the emotional tools needed to apply that knowledge effectively—even under pressure. This comprehensive development prepares students not just for exams, but for the complex challenges of university education and future careers.

If you’ve noticed your child struggling with the emotional aspects of learning or simply want to provide them with the full spectrum of skills needed for long-term success, we invite you to experience our unique approach during our English tuition classes.

Contact Curio today to arrange a consultation and discover how emotional intelligence integration can enhance your child’s learning journey. Together, we can fill the gap left by traditional education and develop truly well-rounded students prepared for whatever challenges tomorrow brings.

The PSLE English Paper 2025: Important Changes Your Child Can’t Miss

curiosg · April 15, 2025 · Leave a Comment

"Changes to the PSLE English Paper in 2025 mean parents need to stay informed to support their child effectively."

The PSLE English Paper is going through some changes in 2025, and as a parent, being aware of what’s ahead can really help you support your child. The exam will feature a new format, along with adjustments to how marks are distributed across different components.

In this article, we’ll walk you through what’s changing, why it matters, and how it could impact your child’s performance. Let’s take a closer look at what to expect and how to best support your child during this transition.

Breaking Down the Changes in PSLE English Paper 2025

A key change to the PSLE English exam in 2025 is how marks will be distributed across the different sections. Let’s go through the changes and what they mean for your child’s preparation.

In English Paper 1 – Situational & Continuous Writing, the weight has been slightly reduced from 27.5% to 25%. Students will be assessed on their ability to write strong narrative pieces, with a focus on creativity, coherence, grammar, and vocabulary. Your child will need to develop their ideas clearly and thoughtfully, not just focus on technical accuracy.

In English Paper 2 – Language Use & Comprehension, the weight has been reduced from 47.5% to 45%, and there are some important changes to the format. In Booklet A, the visual text comprehension section will now have two texts instead of one, with one of the texts including visuals. The number of multiple-choice questions (MCQs) has been reduced to 5, and one of those will ask students to make connections between the two texts. In Booklet B, the Editing for Spelling and Grammar section is now worth 10 marks (down from 12.5). This section will now include 5 grammar questions and 5 spelling questions, so your child will need to be strong in both areas.

For English Paper 3 – Listening Comprehension, there are no changes, so students will continue to demonstrate their ability to listen carefully and respond to spoken texts.

Lastly, in English Paper 4 – Reading Aloud & Stimulus-Based Conversation, the weight has increased from 15% to 20%. This reflects a growing focus on verbal communication and active listening. The oral exam will now include a visual stimulus, like an actual photograph of people in real-life situations. This means that students who are good at speaking and listening will have an advantage. Those who may struggle with oral communication should focus more on practicing speaking clearly and listening carefully to catch important details.

Overall, these changes reflect a move towards a more well-rounded assessment, with added focus on verbal and listening skills. Helping your child strengthen these areas will go a long way in preparing them for the updated format.

The Impact of PSLE 2025 Changes on Student Performance

The changes to the PSLE English exam in 2025 are designed to help students build a wider range of skills, going beyond just memorising facts. While students will still need to show creativity and clarity in their writing, these changes mean they will need to take a more balanced approach to their preparation. It’s not just about perfecting written expression anymore; they’ll also need to focus on developing their oral communication and listening skills. This means practicing speaking confidently and listening carefully to what’s being said.

One major change is the reduced focus on Reading Comprehension and Language Use. This shift encourages students to think more critically about what they read. Students will need to improve their critical thinking skills, like interpreting texts, drawing conclusions, and making connections between ideas. They will be asked to think deeper about what they read, which will help them in both their exams and beyond.

These changes encourage students to engage more deeply with the materials they read. Instead of just answering basic questions, they’ll need to apply higher-level thinking, like connecting ideas and considering different viewpoints. This shift will help them build stronger comprehension skills and better problem-solving abilities—skills that will serve them well not just for the PSLE but in their future learning too.

Preparing for PSLE with Curio

At Curio, we understand that every student has unique learning needs—especially when it comes to navigating changes like those in the PSLE English Paper. That’s why we offer specialised programmes designed to support your child in building strong, confident language skills.

Our Creative Writing Programme for Primary 5 and 6 students has a focused 2-year curriculum that nurtures students into confident writers. Lessons are fun and colourful, full of good phrases that are taught in context and not just rote memorisation. Our specialised curriculum helps students express themselves clearly, confidently, and effectively.

What sets Curio apart is our team of NIE/MOE-trained teachers, our small-group classes that allow for personalised attention, and our commitment to offering affordable and flexible lesson timings that work for busy families. If you’re looking for a learning environment where your child can grow, gain confidence, and prepare effectively for their English exams, we’d love to help.

To learn more, visit us at curio.sg or feel free to call or WhatsApp us at 8892 2948. We’re here to support your child’s journey every step of the way.

FAQ: How to Pick the Ideal Tuition Centre for Your Child

Rebecca Samuel · April 8, 2025 · Leave a Comment

"Choosing the best tuition centre for your child is an investment in their future, providing them with the tools and support they need to succeed and reach their full potential."

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

1. Why is tuition so popular in Singapore?

Singapore’s education system is highly competitive, with national exams like the Primary School Leaving Examination (PSLE), O-Levels, and A-Levels determining a child’s academic future. Many parents turn to tuition to give their children an academic edge, reinforce school learning, and boost confidence.

2. What types of tuition options are available in Singapore?

There are several types of tuition services to cater to different learning needs:

Online Tuition: Conducted over Zoom or other platforms, offering flexibility and convenience, with structured lesson plans aligned with MOE syllabus.
Private Home Tuition: One-on-one sessions conducted at home, tailored to the student’s pace.
Tuition Centres: Group-based classes with structured lesson plans, often aligned with MOE syllabi.
Enrichment Classes: Focused on specific skills such as creative writing, critical thinking, or advanced mathematics.

3. What should I look for in a good tuition centre?

A good tuition centre should have the following characteristics:

Qualified and experienced teachers: Check if tutors have NIE certificates, MOE teaching experience and strong academic backgrounds.
Proven track record: Look for testimonials, reviews, or success rates in improving students’ grades.
Structured curriculum: Lessons should align with the MOE syllabus and provide clear learning objectives.
Small class sizes: This ensures personalized attention and better interaction between tutor and student.
Effective teaching methods: Engaging lessons, interactive discussions, and regular assessments are crucial.
Convenience and accessibility: Location, class timings, and flexibility should fit your schedule.

4. How do I know if my child needs tuition?

While tuition is common, it may not be necessary for every child. Consider tuition if:

Your child consistently struggles with a subject despite putting in effort.
There is a lack of confidence or motivation in learning.
The teacher’s pace at school is too fast for your child to keep up.
Your child has upcoming major exams and needs extra support.
You notice gaps in understanding that self-study cannot address.

5. Should I choose group tuition or private tuition?

This depends on your child’s learning style and needs:

Group Tuition: Suitable for students who benefit from peer learning and structured lessons. It is also more affordable than private tuition.
Private Tuition: Ideal for students who need personalized attention, flexible lesson planning, and targeted improvements.

6. How much does tuition cost in Singapore?

These are the typical fees charged in Singapore. Tuition fees vary based on the tutor’s qualifications, subject complexity, and lesson format:

Private Home Tuition:
- Primary: $25–$70/hr
- Secondary: $35–$100/hr
- JC: $60–$150/hr
Tuition Centres:
- Primary: $100–$300/month
- Secondary: $150–$400/month
- JC: $250–$800/month
Online Tuition: Lower than face-to-face classes, typically 10–20% cheaper with lessons being just as effective.

7. What are the red flags of a bad tuition centre?

Be cautious of tuition centres that:

Make unrealistic guarantees like “Guaranteed A* in PSLE.”
Have unqualified, non MOE tutors with no proven experience.
Lack structured lesson plans or materials.
Have overly large class sizes, reducing individual attention.
Focus too much on rote memorization instead of conceptual understanding.

8. How can I tell if tuition is effective for my child?

Signs of effective tuition include:

Improved test scores and overall academic performance.
Increased confidence and motivation in the subject.
Greater participation in school lessons.
Better time management and independent study habits.

If tuition does not show any improvement after three to six months, reconsider the tutor or method of learning.

9. What are some of the best tuition centres in Singapore?

Some well-known tuition centres with proven success include:

The Learning Lab – Known for its premium curriculum and highly qualified teachers.
Mind Stretcher – Offers structured lessons and enrichment programs.
Mavis Tutorial Centre – Affordable and accessible.
Aspire Hub – Focuses on small-group learning.
Curio.sg – Offers affordable small group specialised classes in English, GP and Literature.

However, the best tuition centre for your child depends on teaching style, budget, and location.

10. How often should my child attend tuition classes?

This depends on the subject and the child’s needs:

1x per week – Suitable for students who need slight reinforcement.
2x per week – Ideal for struggling students or major exam preparation.
More than 2x per week – Only recommended if the child is significantly behind.
Crash Course – Ideal for students who just need a quick boost before a major exam.

Remember that it’s important to balance tuition with self-study and leisure to prevent burnout.

11. What alternatives are there to tuition?

If tuition is not the right fit, consider:

Self-study using assessment books and online resources (Khan Academy, YouTube tutorials, etc.).
MOE school consultations – Teachers often provide free remedial classes.
Study groups with peers – Collaborative learning can be effective.
Online learning platforms – Coursera, Udemy, and other e-learning platforms offer structured courses.

12. Is online tuition as effective as in-person tuition?

Online tuition can be effective if:

The child is disciplined and able to focus without physical supervision.
The tutor uses engaging methods, such as interactive tools and digital whiteboards.
The platform allows real-time interaction and personalized feedback.

However, younger students or those needing hands-on guidance may find in-person tuition more beneficial.

13. Should I get tuition for multiple subjects?

Prioritize subjects based on your child’s weaknesses and upcoming exams. For example:

If your child struggles only with Math, focus on Math tuition rather than multiple subjects.
For PSLE/O-Levels/A-Levels, students often take tuition for core subjects like English, Math, and Science.

14. How do I choose the best tuition option for my child?

To make the best decision:

Identify your child’s strengths and weaknesses.
Decide on the learning format (group, private, or online tuition).
Research and compare tuition centres and tutors.
Look at testimonials, reviews, and trial classes.
Monitor progress and adjust if necessary.

Conclusion

Finding the right tuition centre in Singapore requires careful consideration of your child’s learning needs, budget, and the quality of teaching. By asking the right questions and doing thorough research, parents can make informed decisions that set their children up for academic success.

The Benefits of Small Group Tuition Over One-on-One Tuition

Nadya Sharfina · February 25, 2025 · Leave a Comment

"Small group tutoring offers the best of both worlds—personalized attention and collaborative learning."

When it comes to helping a child succeed academically, parents often have to choose between two main types of tutoring support: small group sessions or one-on-one lessons. While both have their advantages, finding the right fit depends on your child’s learning style and needs.

One-on-one tutoring is popular, but there’s no doubt that smaller class sizes generally lead to better student outcomes. As the tutoring market continues to grow and evolve with new technological advancements, more variations of traditional tutoring models are emerging. Small group tuition is becoming a balanced option, offering both personalised attention and collaborative learning.

So, what makes small group tuition a great option? In this article, we’ll explore its key benefits and why it might be the right choice for your child.

Lower cost

Small group tuition offers a budget-friendly way to give your child extra academic support without the high cost of one-on-one tutoring. While private lessons can be valuable, they often come with a hefty price tag that may not be feasible for every family. Small group sessions, on the other hand, spread the cost among multiple students, making them a much more affordable option. This means parents can provide their children with the help they need without overstretching their budget. Check out: How to Save Money on Tuition in 2025.

For families mindful of expenses, small group tuition is a practical and cost-effective solution. The lower price means parents can enroll their child in more sessions or continue tutoring for a longer period without worrying about excessive costs. Instead of paying a premium for individual lessons, families can maximise their investment and ensure their child receives consistent academic support.

Choosing small group tuition doesn’t mean compromising on quality. Students still benefit from expert instruction in a structured learning environment but at a fraction of the cost of private tutoring. The shared cost makes it a financially sustainable choice, allowing parents to prioritise their child’s education while staying within budget.

Learn from other students

In a small group tuition setting, children gain knowledge not just from the tutor but also from their peers. Engaging with different perspectives, observing how others tackle problems, and sharing ideas can make learning more dynamic and interactive.

If your child is struggling with a particular question, they’re likely not alone. Another student in the group may have the same challenge and could be the one to ask for clarification, making it easier for everyone to grasp the concept. Hearing an explanation from a peer—perhaps in a way that resonates better—can often provide the clarity needed to understand a tricky topic.

This collaborative learning environment encourages curiosity, boosts confidence, and deepens understanding. By discussing ideas and learning from each other, students become more engaged and gain new insights that they might not have discovered on their own.

Healthy competition

One of the great benefits of small group tuition is the natural motivation it creates. When children learn alongside their peers, they are encouraged to stay focused, keep up with the lesson, and put in their best effort. This gentle yet effective competition pushes them to stay engaged and strive for better results.

In a group setting, children are also “nudged” out of laziness. If everyone else is participating, asking questions, and making progress, your child won’t want to fall behind. There’s an unspoken pressure to keep up—not because they’re forced to, but because they don’t want to be the only ones struggling. Seeing their peers working hard encourages them to put in the effort, knowing that slacking off could lead to falling behind and getting poorer results.

Unlike the pressure that can come with one-on-one tutoring, small-group learning fosters a supportive yet competitive atmosphere. Children start to recognise each other’s strengths—one might be great at problem-solving, while another excels in creative thinking. This mutual awareness builds confidence and encourages them to learn from each other.

At the same time, being part of a small group helps children develop a sense of responsibility and teamwork. They celebrate each other’s progress, offer support when someone is struggling, and naturally push themselves to improve. It’s a safe and encouraging way to inspire personal growth while also teaching valuable life skills like perseverance and collaboration.

Less intense and more relaxed

Small group tuition creates a more relaxed and comfortable learning environment compared to one-on-one lessons. In a private session, all the attention is on one child. They’re expected to answer every question, stay engaged the entire time, and keep up the momentum, which can be mentally exhausting—especially in longer sessions.

In a small group, that pressure is shared. Children have moments to step back, observe, and absorb information without feeling like they’re constantly in the spotlight. This makes learning feel less like a test and more like a natural process, allowing them to stay focused for longer without feeling drained.

Keeping students engaged and accountable

Accountability is a key factor in academic success, and small group tuition strikes the perfect balance between support and responsibility. In a group setting, students are encouraged to stay engaged, complete their work, and keep up with the lesson, knowing that both their tutor and peers are counting on them to participate.

For example, when working on a math problem, students in a group setting know their peers are solving it too. If they don’t keep up, they may struggle to join the discussion or fall behind in the next exercise. Similarly, in reading or writing sessions, students are expected to share their thoughts and contribute to discussions. If they haven’t done the work, it becomes evident, reinforcing the need for personal accountability.

Small group tuition also prevents students from getting stuck in a learning rut. In a one-on-one session, it’s easy to disengage when a topic feels too challenging. In a group, however, structured activities, peer discussions, and the tutor’s guidance create a dynamic learning environment that keeps students on track. Regular assessments and feedback help them understand their strengths and areas for improvement, ensuring they stay motivated and continue making progress.

At Curio, our small group English Language and English Literature tuition is designed to foster this essential accountability. We specialise in helping students prepare for ‘O’ levels, ‘A’ levels, and IP exams, providing expert instruction from experienced teachers. Our tutors hold Bachelor’s Degrees from NUS, Master’s Degrees from NTU, and Postgraduate Diplomas in Education from NIE, ensuring a high standard of teaching in every session.

Ready to give your child the support they need? Sign up here to get started, or if you have any questions, feel free to call or WhatsApp us at 88922948—we’d love to chat and help you find the right fit for your child!

Check out more: Curio’s ‘Independent’ Tuition Programme: How It Can Benefit You and The Best O Level English Tutors in Singapore

Romeo & Juliet: What Shakespeare Tried to Tell Us About Teenage Romance

Nadya Sharfina · February 13, 2025 · Leave a Comment

"Teen love may feel new, but Romeo and Juliet remind us it’s been the same for centuries—passionate, heartbreaking, and unforgettable."

If you’re the parent of a teenager, you’ve likely witnessed the intensity of young love firsthand. Whether it’s a first crush or a budding relationship, it can be both exciting and overwhelming to watch. While teen romance might seem like a modern experience, Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet reminds us that the highs and lows of young love—passion, heartbreak, and everything in between—have remained unchanged for centuries. Today’s teens still relate to the themes of love, loss, and the emotional whirlwind that comes with it, just as Romeo and Juliet did long ago.

Impulsiveness in Romance

Romeo meets Juliet at a grand ball, and the moment their eyes meet, nothing else seems to matter. Within minutes, they’re swept up in a whirlwind of emotions, declaring their love, and just a few days later, they’re secretly married. It’s passionate, dramatic, and entirely impulsive. Shakespeare gives us one of the most iconic love stories of all time, but let’s be honest—could something like this really happen in real life?

While most teens may not be running off to secretly marry someone they just met, they often experience love with the same intensity and urgency. Impulsiveness is a natural part of growing up, and while it can lead to exciting experiences, it can also bring challenges. That’s why it’s important for parents to recognise these strong emotions and help guide teens to slow down and make thoughtful decisions.

In today’s world, impulsive young love plays out in different ways. A teen might meet someone online, feel an instant connection, and want to meet in person without fully considering the risks. Or they might get caught up in the thrill of a relationship and make big commitments—like making drastic life choices based on emotions in the moment. Social media also intensifies this, with public declarations of love, dramatic breakups, and instant rebounds playing out for everyone to see.

When emotions take the lead without pausing to think things through, things can go awry. Rushing into a relationship, making promises too quickly, or acting without considering the consequences are common pitfalls. It’s not that teens shouldn’t experience love fully, but they often need gentle reminders to take a step back and reflect before making big choices. Love can be exhilarating, but helping teens balance passion with reason can prevent regrets down the line.

Parental Influence

Juliet’s parents, especially her father, Lord Capulet, seem more focused on controlling her future rather than supporting her personal passions or interests. Instead of considering what she truly wants, they make decisions for her, pushing her toward marriage with Paris without regard for her feelings. This lack of understanding only drives Juliet further away, leading to desperate choices.

As parents, it’s crucial to build a strong, open relationship with your teen. When you’re connected, they’re more likely to turn to you for guidance. Without that connection, they may make decisions without considering your input. Teens naturally crave independence, but they also need to feel supported and understood. If they sense that their thoughts and emotions don’t matter, they may rebel or seek validation elsewhere—sometimes in ways that aren’t safe or healthy. Check out: Should Parents Be Concerned About Teen Dating?

A teen who feels unheard at home might keep secrets about their relationships, avoid sharing their struggles, or even make impulsive decisions just to assert their independence. But when parents foster open communication, teens are more likely to seek advice and make thoughtful choices. Instead of just giving advice, truly listening to them can help prevent misunderstandings and offer the support they need to handle tough emotions.

One of the biggest lessons Romeo and Juliet teaches us is that rigid control and lack of communication can push teens toward risky decisions. Allowing them to express themselves and showing that you respect their feelings creates a foundation of trust, empowering them to make better choices. After all, every teen wants to be heard—sometimes, they just need a little space and encouragement to open up.

Heartbreak and Infatuation

At the start of Romeo and Juliet, Romeo is completely heartbroken—not over Juliet, but over another girl, Rosaline. He believes she’s the love of his life and that he’ll never recover from his sorrow. But the moment he meets Juliet, all thoughts of Rosaline vanish. Suddenly, he’s in love again, swept up by the excitement of new emotions. His quick shift from despair to devotion shows just how intense—and fleeting—teenage love can be.

This highlights how young love, while powerful and all-consuming in the moment, often lacks the stability and depth of more mature relationships. Teens experience emotions in extremes, swinging between heartbreak and euphoria in a way that feels overwhelming and entirely real to them. While adults may recognize these feelings as temporary, it’s important to acknowledge that, to a teen, they are deeply significant.

Heartbreak can be especially tough at this stage. A teen experiencing their first breakup may feel like their world is crumbling, much like Romeo does when Rosaline rejects him. Parents can help by validating their emotions. Simply reminding them that heartbreak is painful but temporary can go a long way in helping them process their feelings in a healthy way.

At the same time, it’s important to help teens recognize the difference between short-lived infatuation and deeper, lasting love. They may fall hard and fast, just like Romeo and Juliet, but love isn’t just about intensity—it’s about trust, understanding, and patience.

What Was Shakespeare Trying to Say?

Was Shakespeare celebrating young love, or was he warning us about its dangers? The answer is probably both. Romeo and Juliet’s passion is undeniable, and their devotion to each other is deeply moving. Shakespeare captures the magic of young romance—the excitement, the urgency, and the belief that nothing else in the world matters.

At the same time, he doesn’t ignore the risks. In just a few days, their whirlwind romance leads to secrecy, conflict, and ultimately, tragedy. Their love burns bright, but without patience, guidance, or the space to grow, it becomes destructive. Shakespeare reminds us that while young love is real and powerful, it can also be impulsive and short-sighted, leading to choices made in the heat of the moment rather than with long-term understanding.

This is an important takeaway for parents. Teens experience love with intensity and urgency, but they also need time and perspective to make thoughtful choices. Rather than dismissing their emotions as “just a phase,” offering guidance and support can help them navigate relationships in a healthy and balanced way. Open conversations about love, respect, and emotional maturity can make a huge difference in how teens approach romance.

Ultimately, Romeo and Juliet isn’t just a tragic love story—it’s a lesson in the power and pitfalls of young emotions. Shakespeare doesn’t tell us to fear teenage love, but he does show us why it needs wisdom and patience to truly flourish.

Dig Deeper into Romeo and Juliet

Want to help your teen truly connect with Romeo and Juliet and master English Literature? Our Romeo & Juliet Study Guide: Passage-Based Exam Practice Papers is designed to make Shakespeare’s timeless tragedy more accessible and meaningful. Instead of just memorizing quotes, this workbook encourages deeper thinking, helping teens uncover the emotions, conflicts, and literary brilliance behind the play.

Each practice paper is carefully crafted to guide students through Shakespeare’s language, literary devices, and dramatic techniques. By working through key passages, your teen will sharpen their analytical skills, build confidence, and develop a stronger appreciation for the play’s themes and characters. Plus, with detailed explanations and answers, they’ll gain valuable insights that make studying easier and more effective.

If your teen is preparing for exams or looking to deepen their knowledge of classic literature, this guide will help them develop the skills needed to excel in English Literature.

Order now on Amazon to help them unlock a deeper understanding of one of the greatest love stories ever written. You can also check out our Free Resources for additional study materials on Romeo and Juliet!

For even more guidance, Curio offers online tuition in English Language, English Literature and General Paper. We cover O-Level, A-Level, and the upcoming Singapore-Cambridge Secondary Education Certificate (SEC) in 2027, as well as English, Literature or Language Arts subjects in the Integrated Programme (IP).

Getting It Done: Parenting with a Full-Time Job

Nadya Sharfina · January 31, 2025 · Leave a Comment

"Balancing a full-time job and parenting is never easy, but the key is learning to prioritize what truly matters—giving your best at work while still being present for your family."

Balancing work and life is a challenge for many parents, especially when you’re juggling a full-time job and full-time parenting. The responsibilities can feel endless, and each day brings its own set of demands.

With both a career and a family to care for, your responsibilities are much bigger than before. Your schedule is no longer just about work anymore. The trick is learning how to balance it all without losing sight of what matters most to you, both at work and at home. So, how do you manage to give your best at work and still be the parent you want to be?

Finding the Right Balance

Balancing parenting with a full-time job often feels like walking a tightrope. The first step is identifying what needs immediate attention and what can wait. Some days, your child might need extra support with homework, while on others, a major work deadline takes centre stage. It’s all about knowing where your focus is needed most and being okay with letting less urgent tasks slide temporarily.

Planning and structuring your workdays is another lifesaver. A clear plan can help set boundaries and expectations. But no matter how organized you are, flexibility is essential. Life rarely goes as planned, so learning to adapt on a day-to-day basis helps you show up as the best parent, co-worker, and partner you can be.

Some situations demand tough decisions, like a work trip to another country. You might have to ask: can your spouse handle things at home while you’re away? Would it work for your child to stay with their grandparents for a few days? Or maybe, after weighing the options, you decide the trip isn’t feasible because your child needs you. These moments require sacrifices, but knowing your priorities helps you make the right call for your family and career.

Flexibility means being ready to adapt your plans when life throws a curveball. It’s okay to shift gears, rearrange schedules, or even say “no” when necessary.

Set Up a Family Calendar

Life gets hectic—work deadlines, school events, doctor’s appointments, and countless errands in between. With so much happening, it’s easy to miss important tasks or accidentally double-book. That’s where a family calendar can make all the difference. It keeps everything organised and ensures nothing falls through the cracks.

By adding events like school plays or work deadlines as soon as you hear about them, you save yourself the mental stress of trying to remember it all. Consider creating a shared digital calendar, like Google Calendar or using apps like Cozi, Motion or Fantastical, that everyone in the family can access from their phones. This way, you and your partner can stay updated on each other’s commitments and adjust plans as needed. If digital isn’t your style, a physical calendar works just as well. Hang it in a central spot, like the kitchen or the fridge, where everyone can easily check it.

Talk to Your Employer About Family Commitments

Photo by Photo By: Kaboompics.com on Pexels

Be open and honest with your employer about your new responsibilities as a parent. Let them know that, along with your professional duties, you now have caregiving responsibilities at home. When your employer understands this, it paves the way for flexibility and support during times when your family needs you the most.

Take the initiative to ask about your company’s policies regarding illness, especially in cases of caring for sick children. It’s important to know whether you can work from home if your child is unwell or if there’s an option for a flexible schedule. Many employers are willing to accommodate these situations, so don’t hesitate to enquire about what’s available to you. Check out: How to Balance Working from Home and Being a Parent.

Maintaining a healthy environment at work is just as important as creating one at home. When your employer understands your needs as a parent, and you have clear policies in place, you’re more likely to thrive in both roles.

Designate Special Time with Your Child

It’s easy to feel a pang of guilt about not spending as much time with your children as you’d like as a working parent. However, it’s not about how many hours you’re together—it’s about making those moments meaningful. Kids thrive on the connection they feel with you, even in small doses.

Take an hour in the evening, for example. Play a game that gets everyone laughing, snuggle up with a book, or simply chat about their day. Ask questions about school, friends, or what made them happy that day.

If your child loves being involved, consider letting them help with everyday tasks. Cooking dinner together can become a fun activity rather than a chore, with them stirring, measuring, or taste-testing. Check out: Smart Food Choices for Kids’ During Exams.

On weekends, try a DIY project like building a birdhouse, painting, or making a scrapbook. These activities are fun, creative, and a great way to bond while making memories. Check out: 5 Exciting DIY Projects for Children to Create at Home.

Save Some Time for Yourself

Life as a working parent can feel incredibly full and busy, but carving out time for yourself isn’t selfish; it’s essential. Taking care of your own well-being helps you stay mentally, physically, and emotionally healthy, which makes you a better parent and person overall.

Having time for hobbies or relaxation is a great way to avoid burnout and reduce stress. Simple activities like reading a book in the bath, going for a walk, or treating yourself to a spa day can bring balance to your life and help you recharge. These moments of self-care keep you grounded and allow you to be more present and patient with your kids.

You don’t need to plan anything extravagant like a solo trip (unless you want to!). Start small—pick an activity that makes you happy and fits into your schedule. And don’t hesitate to lean on others for support. Family members or friends can step in to watch your kids while you take time for yourself.

Laughing Through the Mess

Despite your best efforts to stay organised and on top of everything, there will be days when nothing goes according to plan. The alarm doesn’t go off, breakfast gets burned, someone forgets their homework, and you feel like you’re barely holding it together. These moments can be overwhelming, but they’re also a natural part of balancing work and parenting.

Instead of striving for perfection, try to embrace the chaos. It’s okay to have bad days—it doesn’t make you a bad parent or mean you’re not doing enough. You’re doing the best you can, and that’s what matters most.

Balancing a full-time job and parenting, especially as a single parent, is no small feat. It’s one of the toughest challenges out there, but it’s also one filled with love, resilience, and growth. On the hard days, remind yourself that it’s okay to laugh at the little disasters and let go of what’s out of your control.