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What Can You Do If Your Child Has No Friends?

Nadya Sharfina · June 13, 2025 · Leave a Comment

"Friendship is a skill that grows with time. Not a sign that something’s wrong, but a gentle reminder that every child connects at their own pace, often just waiting for the right moment or the right person."


It can be difficult to watch a child come home without someone to talk about or feel left out on the playground. A question that might quietly sit in the back of your mind is, Why doesn’t my child have friends? It’s not always an easy question to face, and even harder when you’re not sure what to do next.

Friendship is a skill. Something kids pick up and build over time. Some children seem to ease into it early on, while others need a little more practice or the right environment to get started. In many cases, it’s not about something being “wrong.” It may simply be that they haven’t met someone they connect with yet.

Friendship Begins at Home

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Before kids have classmates or playground buddies, you’re their main companion. You’re the first person they laugh with, play with, and turn to for comfort. That early connection matters more than you might think. It shapes how they see relationships and teaches them how to interact with others.

At home, you can offer a space where your child feels safe to speak freely about their worries, their wild ideas, or what made them feel left out at recess. They should know they won’t be brushed off or judged. That kind of openness gives them room to explore who they are and learn how to share themselves with others.

Spending time together, talking, playing, even being silly, teaches a lot. Taking turns during a game or listening to each other’s ideas builds the kind of social habits they’ll use with friends later on. If your child is struggling to connect with peers, being that steady, kind presence helps them feel less alone. You’re not just helping them fill the quiet, you’re gently showing them what friendship can look like.

Understanding What’s Holding Them Back

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When a child is having a hard time making friends, it helps to pause and gently ask: what might be getting in the way? Every child is different, so there’s no one-size-fits-all reason. Some kids are naturally shy and need more time to warm up to new people. Others might feel unsure about how to start a conversation or join in during play. Some children feel anxious in social settings, especially when there’s a lot going on or when they don’t know what to expect.

It could also be that your child has interests that don’t quite match with the kids around them. That doesn’t mean something is wrong. It just means they haven’t found their people yet. In that case, look for spaces where kids with similar interests gather. Clubs, classes, or online communities (with supervision) can be a great way to help them meet others who enjoy the same things.

Once you get a sense of what’s going on, you can offer support that fits. For a shy child, gentle encouragement to practice small interactions, like saying hi to a classmate or asking a question can go a long way. If nerves tend to take over, role-playing different situations at home can help them feel more prepared. And if your child just hasn’t found the right connections yet, helping them explore new activities or settings can open new doors.

Ask Who They Like Being Around

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Sometimes, the best place to start is with a simple conversation. You might ask, “Who do you like at school?” or “Are there any kids you enjoy being around?” This opens the door without putting pressure on your child. You’re not grilling them, you’re just showing interest in their world.

You can also ask how they decide who they want to be friends with. Some children look for shared hobbies, others might be drawn to someone who’s kind or funny. Their answers can give you insight into what they’re looking for in a friendship and what might be missing right now. Maybe they haven’t found someone who feels like a good fit, or maybe they’re unsure how to take the next step.

A gentle way to guide the conversation is to ask, “Do any of your friends make you feel big in life or small?” It helps your child reflect on how others make them feel. Friends should help us feel seen, valued, and included, not less than or left out.

These kinds of chats help you understand what friendship means to your child. Once you know what they value or what’s making things tricky, it’s easier to support them in small, thoughtful ways. Sometimes, just having the chance to talk about it with someone who listens can make them feel less alone in figuring it out.

Teach Friendship Skills Early On

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Social skills don’t always come naturally, they’re something kids can learn over time, just like tying shoes or riding a bike. That’s why it helps to start early. Even during toddlerhood, children begin picking up on how to interact with others through play, sharing, and simple back-and-forth conversations. These early moments are a great opportunity to guide them gently and show them how to connect with people.

You can begin by focusing on a few simple, everyday skills. Teach your child how to greet someone new, ask questions to show interest, and manage strong feelings when things don’t go their way. These may sound like small things, but they lay the groundwork for making and keeping friends later on.

Practice together through play, pretend scenarios, or even during storytime. If a character in a book has a hard time with a friend, ask your child what they might do in that situation. These casual moments help them think about how others feel and how their actions affect people around them.

Social engagement doesn’t need to be formal. It can happen at the playground, in group activities, or even during family gatherings. The more chances your child has to practice, the more comfortable they’ll become in different settings. 

Break Skills into Small Steps

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When it comes to helping your child build friendships, small steps can go a long way. Rather than expecting your child to suddenly become outgoing or jump into a group of kids with ease, try focusing on one simple goal at a time.

Start with something manageable, like saying “Hi” to one classmate during recess. It may not seem like much, but for a child who’s feeling unsure or withdrawn, that one greeting can feel like a mountain climbed. Then maybe later in the week, they can try asking someone to play, just once or twice. Keep the goals short and specific so they feel doable.

These small actions help your child build up comfort in social situations gradually. Every time they try, even if it feels awkward or doesn’t go as planned, it’s a chance to learn. You can encourage them by noticing their efforts and being curious with them about how it went: “How did it feel to say hi today?” or “What happened when you asked to play?”

By breaking things down, you give your child room to grow at their own pace without pressure or overwhelm. Over time, those little steps can build into more natural and meaningful social connections.

Their Childhood Isn’t Your Childhood

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When you’re raising a child, it’s natural to think back on your own experiences growing up. You might remember what made you feel included or left out, who your friends were, or how you handled tough moments. A lot of us lean on those memories to try to make sense of what our kids are going through.

However, as helpful as those memories can be, it’s worth remembering that your child is growing up in a different world. The social landscape, the way kids connect, even the pace of life, it’s not the same as it was when you were their age. What felt hard or easy for you might not line up with what they’re feeling now.

Your own past can give you perspective and empathy, which is valuable. But it’s also helpful to stay curious about their world. Try not to assume their feelings match yours. Instead, ask questions and listen without jumping in with your own story right away. It’s okay to share later, but make space first for their version of the experience.

Give Them Space to Find Their People

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Friendships shape the way we see ourselves. Through spending time with others, we start to learn what we enjoy, how we want to be treated, and where we feel we fit. For kids, friendships aren’t just about fun, they’re part of figuring out who they are. Early connections give them a chance to explore what kind of people they feel drawn to and what kind of friend they want to be.

As a parent, it’s easy to want to guide those choices. You might find yourself encouraging certain friendships or feeling unsure about others. And sometimes, stepping in is the right thing to do, especially if a friend’s behavior seems concerningbut whenever possible, try to give your child space to figure things out. Learning who they click with and why is part of growing up.

That doesn’t mean stepping back completely. Stay involved by noticing how your child seems to feel around certain friends. If you’re sensing something’s off, open up a conversation. Ask questions like, “How do you feel after hanging out with them?” or “Do you feel like yourself when you’re with that friend?” Questions like these help your child think things through, without feeling judged or pushed.

Letting them make their own friendship choices with a little gentle guidance when needed helps them trust their own instincts. That trust will serve them well as their social world keeps growing.

Check out more articles: Steps to Take If Your Child Is the Bully and What to Do If You Don’t Like Your Child’s Friends

10 Best Restaurants in Singapore to Celebrate Father’s Day

Nadya Sharfina · June 7, 2025 · Leave a Comment

“He’s spent a lifetime giving his all—now it’s our turn to give back with a moment that truly matters.”

Father’s Day is just around the corner, and it’s the perfect excuse to show Dad a little extra love. He’s always been working hard, putting in long hours, and doing what he can to give the family a better life, so why not take this chance to give something back with a meaningful, memory-filled meal?

Many restaurants across Singapore are pulling out all the stops with special menus, fun perks, and warm hospitality just for the occasion. If you’re looking for ideas, we’ve rounded up 10 of the best places to celebrate and make his day a little more special.

1. RISE

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If you’re planning a Father’s Day celebration with a side of luxury, RISE at Marina Bay Sands is a solid choice. This buffet restaurant brings an impressive spread of classic European and American fare to the table, with standout dishes like Beef Wellington and Kagoshima Pork Rack. The selection is generous and thoughtfully curated, with a premium cheese and charcuterie section, and artisan breads that round out the experience.

The atmosphere at RISE adds something extra to your celebration. Located at Marina Bay Sands, you’ll have the chance to enjoy sweeping views from the SkyPark Observation Deck. 

2. Edge

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Located at Pan Pacific Singapore, Edge is pulling out all the stops for a hearty Father’s Day feast on 14 and 15 June 2025. Their buffet lineup includes favourites like snow crab legs, Boston lobster, tiger prawns, and smoky baby pork ribs. Don’t miss the garlic butter tiger prawns, they’re rich, juicy, and satisfying.

After you’ve made your rounds at the savoury stations, save room for dessert. There’s a wide variety of sweet treats to end the meal on a high note. Lunch on 14 June is priced at $128++ per adult and $64++ per child (6 and up), while brunch on 15 June goes for $158++ per adult and $79++ per child. 

3. 21 on Rajah

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Mediterr-Asian Buffet at 21 on Rajah in Aloft Singapore Novena offers a vibrant selection of Thai-inspired dishes that invite you to explore a range of flavours. The relaxed setting is ideal for sharing a meal with family in a comfortable environment.

You’ll find fresh spring rolls with prawn, marinated shrimp wrapped in egg net, and a whole seabass topped with tangy tom yum paste. You’ll also find comforting options like warm lotus and corn chicken soup.

4. RACINES

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Racines offers a generous spread of local favourites and fresh seafood. Highlights include Boston lobsters, freshly shucked oysters, and poached prawns to start things off. Live stations bring energy to the meal, serving prawn noodles and satay bee hoon on the spot, along with hearty dishes like pork chop, beef rendang, and crispy fried mantou.

Sweet treats include local favourites like Milo Dinosaur cake, pandan crème brûlée, and traditional potong ice cream. You’ll find Racines at 9 Wallich Street, Level 5. Just a short walk from Tanjong Pagar MRT.

5. Lawry’s The Prime Rib Singapore

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On 14 and 15 June 2025, Lawry’s The Prime Rib Singapore is offering a special 5-course set menu designed for a memorable family meal. Famous for its signature roasts and elegant atmosphere, the experience also includes some nice extras to make the day even better.

Start with the Smoky Harmony, a flavorful starter featuring grilled halloumi cheese, smoked duck, marinated tomatoes, and pea tendrils. The main course offers a choice of the 150g Signature Roasted USDA Prime Rib of Beef or the Heirloom Braised Short Ribs made with Angus beef. Guests who book early get 10% off by 9 June, or 15% off with an American Express Premium Card by 11 June. Every table also receives a $50 return dining voucher and a complimentary digital photo emailed to you. Service begins at 11 am, and the restaurant is located in Mandarin Gallery.

6. Mensho Tokyo Singapore

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Now let’s take you to Japanese cuisine with a visit to Mensho Tokyo Singapore, located at Raffles City. If Dad enjoys a bit of spice, the Spicy Toripaitan Ramen is a great pick. For something rich and satisfying, try the dry-style A5 Wagyu Abura Soba.

The Classic Toripaitan is a must-try; it’s inspired by Yatai street carts and features a rich, comforting chicken soup topped with smoky pork chashu, king oyster mushrooms, green onions, and house-made wavy whole wheat noodles. Be sure to order the Enoki Chips too, crispy fried enoki mushrooms served with a lemon wedge and a hint of shichimi for extra crunch and flavour. Wrap up the meal with their hojicha tiramisu, a smooth and earthy dessert that finishes things off nicely. From 6 to 15 June 2025, you can enjoy a complimentary side dish to share when you order any two mains.

7. Bedrock Origin

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Bedrock Origin brings a bold, refined take on the classic steakhouse experience, an ideal choice for celebrating Father’s Day with the whole family. The menu features an impressive range of prime beef cuts sourced from the US, Japan, Argentina, and Australia, including selections from small-scale farms. 

Highlights include the tomahawk steak, shio koji Australian wagyu, and the Bedrock pepper steak made with Japanese wagyu. For dessert, treat Dad to a decadent Bombe Alaska, classic crème brûlée, or cinnamon churros. You’ll find Bedrock Origin tucked away in Oasia Resort Sentosa.

8. KWEE ZEEN

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Kwee Zeen at Sofitel Singapore Sentosa Resort & Spa is hosting their SeafoodFest Weekend Buffet Father’s Day Special on 13 and 14 June 2025, available from 6 pm to 10 pm. The buffet features a satisfying mix of Asian and Western favourites like Singapore Laksa with Slipper Lobster, Butter Chicken, wok-fried black mussels, and Spaghetti Aglio Olio with seafood.

End the evening with desserts like their rich Signature Chocolate Royaltine Hazelnut and classic Tiramisu Cake. Prices are $140++ for two adults or $88++ per adult. Kids aged 7 to 12 dine at half price, and those aged 6 and under eat for free.

9. Min Jiang

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Tucked inside Goodwood Park Hotel, this Chinese restaurant pairs elegant design with classic Cantonese and Sichuan cooking. The warm lighting, chinoiserie details, and polished service make it a lovely setting for a special meal.

Dishes like Roasted Silver Hill Irish Duck, Double-Boiled Abalone Soup with dried scallops and cordyceps flower, and Crispy Noodles with King Prawn deliver both comfort and craft. Don’t miss the complimentary Mini Black Charcoal Salted Egg Custard Bun.

10. Food Capital

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Shucked oysters, snow crab legs, seafood stew, and Josper-grilled Wagyu beef ribeye. Food Capital is rolling out a buffet that covers both fresh seafood and hearty meats. It’s a lineup built for anyone who enjoys variety and generous servings, with plenty to explore across the spread.

The special lunch happens on 15 June 2025, from 12 pm to 3 pm, at Grand Copthorne Waterfront Hotel, 322 Havelock Road. At $128++ per adult and $64++ per child aged 6 and up, it’s a satisfying way to spend a weekend afternoon with the family and good food.

There you go, a round-up of 10 great spots in Singapore to treat Dad to a memorable meal this June. Whether you’re planning a cosy lunch, a lively buffet, or something a little more indulgent, there’s something here to suit every kind of appetite. Just don’t forget to book your seat in advance, these places can fill up fast. Most of all, enjoy the time with family, good food, and great company!

Check out more articles: Best Restaurants with Play Areas in Singapore and 10 Public Libraries and Book Cafes in Singapore

Should TikTok Be Banned?

Nadya Sharfina · January 20, 2025 · Leave a Comment

"Despite its global popularity, TikTok faces growing bans over data privacy and security concerns, leaving millions wondering if its future hangs in the balance."



TikTok, which is owned by ByteDance, has become a well-known social media platform. However, its popularity hasn’t kept it from facing rising international issues. Governments worldwide are increasingly taking decisive action against TikTok, citing concerns over data privacy and cybersecurity as key drivers behind their moves.

In 2022, Afghanistan blocked TikTok along with other social media platforms, while India banned the app in June 2020 due to national security and privacy issues. Several countries, including Australia, Belgium, Norway, New Zealand, and the U.K., have banned TikTok on government devices, fearing the app could pose security risks. Most recently, on January 18, 2025, the United States saw TikTok stop working for users, adding to the ongoing debate about its safety and influence. As of 19 January, a mere few hours after the ban, TikTok has once again become accessible to users in the U.S., with an odd declaration on the app: “As a result of President Trump’s efforts, TikTok is back in the U.S.!”

According to Trump, he will be extending the time the app will remain accessible while decisions are made as to its sale and continued use. Why is the U.S. considering banning TikTok, and who initiated this movement? Should TikTok indeed be banned, considering the implications it may have on its millions of users?

What’s Prompting the U.S. to Ban TikTok?

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TikTok potentially being banned in the United States is the result of a House bill that was enacted. It is part of an ongoing political debate over the platform. TikTok has been a huge success since its debut in 2017, surpassing Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, and YouTube in terms of downloads in 2018. However, its quick expansion has alarmed lawmakers, who are concerned about data privacy and censorship due to its Chinese roots.

Despite TikTok’s reassurances that it won’t hand over U.S. user data to the Chinese government, concerns linger. Investigations revealing China-based employees accessing non-public U.S. user data only added to the unease. TikTok claims that U.S. customer data is stored outside of China, mostly in Singapore and the United States, with the assistance of American IT giant Oracle. Many lawmakers, however, have not been happy with these guarantees. This culminated in CEO Shou Zi Chew facing a severe grilling before Congress in March 2023.

Who Initiated the U.S. TikTok Ban?

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TikTok has faced numerous bans and attempted bans in many countries in recent years. In 2020, Donald Trump proposed a ban in the U.S., but the courts quickly blocked it, citing First Amendment rights. The following year, the U.S. government restricted the app’s use on official phones, a move that was replicated by at least 34 states by 2023, indicating a broad unwillingness to engage with TikTok inside official circles.

Aside from government prohibitions, TikTok experienced opposition from educational institutions, with over 50 universities in the United States choosing to restrict its usage on campus Wi-Fi and laptops. Meanwhile, India implemented a ban in 2020 following safety concerns. This governmental decision shifted the competitive landscape in India, favouring alternatives such as YouTube Shorts and Instagram Reels.

Even within China, where TikTok is based, the app hasn’t taken centre stage. Instead, Douyin, a locally tailored platform with stricter content moderation, dominates the scene. This divergence demonstrates how TikTok’s presence and reception varied across areas, with regulatory settings impacting its trajectory in each location.

Will U.S. TikTok Shut Down Soon?

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TikTok has recently faced a significant challenge in the United States. The Supreme Court denied a final legal attempt by its Chinese parent company, ByteDance, to fight a new law banning the platform. The court ruled that the law did not violate the First Amendment rights of TikTok or its 170 million users, as the company had argued. As a result, ahead of the ban taking effect on Sunday, the app went offline in the U.S., displaying a message telling users, “You can’t use TikTok for now.”

However, President-elect Donald Trump has suggested that he could offer the platform a lifeline. He publicly stated on social media that he intends to postpone the ban through an executive order. This would give TikTok time to find a U.S.-based partner to purchase a 50% stake in the company, which he believes could address the security concerns driving the ban. Trump has also hinted that he plans to work on a solution to reinstate TikTok once he officially takes office.

Who Could Buy TikTok?

Until recently, ByteDance has been clear that it wasn’t interested in selling the app in the U.S. But with the ongoing legal challenges, there’s now growing interest from potential buyers.

Some big names have already shown interest, including the tech behemoth Perplexity AI, Elon Musk, former U.S. Treasury Secretary Steven Mnuchin, and businessman Frank McCourt. Even MrBeast, the world’s biggest YouTuber, who has over 100 million followers on TikTok, has said he might be in the running to buy the app.

With these high-profile figures involved, there’s a lot of curiosity about who will ultimately take over TikTok, and how it might impact its future and safety for users.

What Are TikTok Users Saying?

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Many influencers are crossing their fingers, hoping that lawmakers will give the matter a second thought. They argue that TikTok serves as a vital space for bringing people together and discussing important social justice issues. It’s not just about funny dances and light-hearted content; TikTok also hosts meaningful discussions and educational content.

If TikTok is banned, it could spell trouble for small businesses and social media influencers alike. Small businesses rely on TikTok for marketing and even run their e-commerce operations through TikTok Shop. For influencers who have invested years into building their follower base and securing brand deals, this could seriously impact their livelihoods.

Should Countries Ban TikTok?

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TikTok offers more than just entertainment. Alongside fun content, it provides educational, inspiring, and informative material from around the world. For today’s tech-savvy youth, TikTok is a valuable resource for learning in our fast-changing digital landscape.

Deciding whether to ban TikTok, especially for educational use, is complex. On one hand, it offers a variety of educational content, from academic subjects to practical skills. Many educators and learners have utilised TikTok as a supplementary tool for teaching and learning due to its engaging format.

However, issues about data privacy, content filtering, and inappropriate content are all worth considering. While TikTok has educational value, it also has hazards, especially for younger users who are more receptive to incorrect or misleading information.

Instead of an outright prohibition, a more nuanced approach may include setting strong safety controls and standards to limit potential risks. This could include encouraging responsible use, providing tools for digital literacy and online safety, and requiring parental supervision for younger users. Read ‘Navigating Kids Securely Online: Tips and Suggestions’

Why Are Teens Using Sadfishing to Get Attention?

Nadya Sharfina · July 29, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"Social media's drive for likes can overshadow authenticity, leading teens to trade genuine moments for attention."

Social media has become an integral part of teenage life, shaping how young people communicate, express themselves, and seek validation. Many teens view social media as a platform where the goal is to gain as many likes and engagements as possible. This drive for online approval often leads them to craft posts that are designed to stand out and attract attention.

However, this quest for engagement can sometimes overshadow the authenticity of their posts. Rather than sharing genuine experiences or feelings, some teens may resort to behaviours like sadfishing. 

What Is Sadfishing?

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Sadfishing is a term used to describe the act of posting personal pictures or stories on social media to gain attention and sympathy. It’s often seen as a cry for help or a way to seek emotional support from others online. While it can be a genuine expression of someone’s feelings, it often carries a negative connotation due to its perceived insincerity.

Originally, the term “sadfishing” was used to reference the behaviour of celebrities who shared overly emotional or dramatic posts to engage their followers. These posts were seen as a way to maintain public interest and elicit sympathy, often leading to debates about the authenticity of their emotions.

For example, sadfishing on Instagram might involve posting an exaggerated story or image. This could be a picture of someone looking particularly downcast, accompanied by a caption hinting at a vague personal struggle. On Twitter, sadfishing might take the form of an exaggerated tweet. Users might share a melodramatic or sensationalised account of their feelings or experiences, hoping to garner retweets, likes, and sympathetic replies.

While the motivations behind sadfishing can be complex, it’s clear that the behaviour taps into the need for connection and validation in the digital age. Understanding sadfishing can help us navigate our online interactions with more empathy and awareness.

Why Are Teens Sadfishing?

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People may sadfish for numerous reasons, ranging from dealing with family or relationship problems to mental health struggles or body image issues. For teens, the motivations behind sadfishing often stem from a need to seek support or sympathy from other people.

When a teen sadfishes, it is likely they are struggling with something and want to let others know. A common cause of sadfishing includes loneliness, where a teen may post emotional content to feel supported by friends. It might be a way to manage challenging emotions like depression or anxiety, especially if they are unsure of healthier coping mechanisms.

Sadfishing can also be a method for teens to receive the attention they crave or fill a need for reassurance. In some cases, it can be tied to narcissism, where they believe they are highly esteemed and liked by everyone. Conversely, low self-esteem or a sense of worthlessness can also lead to sadfishing, as these teens seek validation and support online.

Poor social support is another significant factor. Teens who don’t feel they have someone in the real world with whom they can comfortably share their struggles may turn to social media as an outlet. Sadfishing becomes a way to reach out and connect with others, even if the connection is superficial or fleeting.

How Can Parents Respond to Sadfishing?

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Communicate

When it comes to addressing sadfishing, it’s important for parents to talk to and communicate with their children about what they are thinking and feeling. Approaching the conversation with openness and gentleness can encourage teens to open up about their behaviour in a neutral and non-judgmental environment.

Children need parental support to grow and thrive, and being there for them emotionally is important. Some parents may not realise their teens are struggling until they engage in potentially dangerous or inappropriate behaviour. Recognising the signs of sadfishing early on can help parents provide the necessary support before it escalates.

Understand

Understanding that sadfishing is not abnormal teen behaviour is also essential. Many teens turn to social media to express their emotions and seek validation. It’s a common part of navigating adolescence in the digital age. By acknowledging this, parents can avoid making assumptions that might cause their teens to take offence and isolate themselves further.

Instead of jumping to conclusions, parents should strive to understand the underlying issues driving their teen’s behaviour. While posting about personal struggles might not always indicate sadfishing, it is important to recognise that these posts can reflect real emotions and challenges. Open, non-judgmental conversations can help build trust and create a safe space for teens to share their feelings. 

In conclusion, teaching teens appropriate social media use is essential for helping them navigate the complexities of online interactions. Social media can be a valuable resource for connection and information, but it also has the potential to be a negative influence if not used thoughtfully. Check out: The Importance of Talking to Your Kids About Social Media.

It’s important to explain to your teen how the internet works, emphasising that every post leaves an online footprint. This means that their online actions can have lasting effects on their reputation and emotional well-being. Encouraging them to think critically about what they share and the potential impact of their posts can foster more mindful and responsible online behaviour.

Tips for How to Talk to Kids About Race and Racism

Nadya Sharfina · June 6, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"Despite diverse perspectives, every child deserves to grow up well-informed and safe; starting conversations about racism early builds a foundation of understanding and empathy."

Conversations about racism and discrimination can vary widely from one family to another, reflecting the perspectives each family brings to the table. Despite these differences, the goal is the same: every child deserves to grow up well-informed and safe. Research indicates that the earlier parents start these conversations with their children, the better. Early discussions help children develop a strong foundation of understanding and empathy that will guide their actions and attitudes throughout their lives.

This article offers tips on how to talk to kids about race and racism. We aim to help parents have meaningful, age-appropriate conversations that encourage respect, awareness, and a sense of right and wrong.

Reflect on What You Know

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Reflecting on what you know about race and racism is an essential first step before discussing these topics with your children. Begin by acknowledging your own beliefs and understandings related to race, inequalities, class, and identity. Your personal experiences and the level of privilege you hold shape how you interpret current events and, consequently, how you talk to your kids about these sensitive issues. Check out On the Black Lives Matter Movement to read up about race perspectives in other parts of the world.

Your perspective is influenced by your lived experiences. This awareness will help you approach the conversation with humility and openness. Before you start explaining racism to your children, take some time to reflect on what you already know. Educate yourself further on the subject to ensure you’re well-informed. This preparation can help you feel more confident and provide your child with accurate information.

Equally important is acknowledging what you don’t know. It’s perfectly fine if you can’t answer every question your child asks. Admitting that you need to look up certain information demonstrates honesty and a commitment to learning. Some viral news stories on social media may be misleading, or there may be historical or political contexts about race that require deeper understanding.

When faced with a question you can’t answer, tell your child that you’ll research it and suggest that you learn together. This approach not only sets a good example of seeking knowledge but also prevents the spread of misinformation. It’s far better to admit when you don’t have all the answers than to provide incorrect information. This process fosters a collaborative learning environment and teaches your child the value of continuous education on complex issues like race and racism.

Clarify Family’s Values

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Clarifying your family’s values will help when discussing race and racism with your children. It’s important to use your words, actions, and overall behaviour to demonstrate what you believe in. Show your children that you stand for equal treatment for all, justice, and respect for every individual regardless of their skin colour, language, religion, or other differences.

Be a good role model in every aspect of your life. As children grow, they start to reflect on the views and behaviours they observe around them. They typically look to family members for guidance, but they also learn from teachers, friends, coaches, and the media they consume. Your influence, combined with these other sources, shapes their understanding of the world.

It’s essential to be mindful of the subtle and not-so-subtle messages you send. Stereotyping, jokes at the expense of others, and remarks of displeasure or disdain can negatively shape children’s views on race and other differences. Equally important is the absence of positive expressions or images; children notice when inclusivity and respect are missing.

Therefore, model thoughtful, inclusive behaviour consistently. Show through your actions and words that everyone deserves respect and fair treatment. By doing so, you help instil values of justice and equality in your children, setting a strong foundation for their understanding and actions as they grow.

Be Age-Appropriate

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Being age-appropriate is important when discussing race and racism with children. As children grow, their understanding of the world evolves, and it’s important to tailor your conversations to their developmental stage to ensure they grasp the concepts effectively.

Preschoolers:

These kids are just beginning to learn about right and wrong, discussions about fairness and justice are key. At this age, kids are naturally curious about differences, including skin colour. If your child asks about someone’s skin colour, use it as an opportunity to acknowledge that people do look different and celebrate that uniqueness. You could say, “We are all human, and we are unique just the way we are.” 

This simple yet profound statement helps them understand that while we may look different, we share a common humanity. Always be open to your children’s questions. When kids feel that they can ask anything, it prevents the topic from becoming taboo. Avoid shutting down their inquiries, as this might make them think that race and racism are off-limits subjects. Instead, encourage their curiosity and provide answers that are honest yet appropriate for their age.

School-age kids:

When discussing race and racism with school-aged children, it’s essential to use practical examples from everyday life. These examples help them understand complex issues in a relatable way. By doing this, they can better grasp how it might feel to be discriminated against, left out, or treated unfairly simply because of their race.

Encourage your child to share what they’re hearing at school, on television, and through social media. Asking them about these sources can open up a dialogue where they feel comfortable discussing their thoughts and questions. For instance, you might ask, “What have you heard about why certain people are prejudiced against certain races?” or “How would you feel if someone didn’t want to be friends with you just because of your race?”

Talking openly about these questions can lead to deeper understanding and empathy. By connecting these discussions to real-life examples of groups who have been discriminated against, you can provide context and make the conversation more impactful.

Preteens and teens: 

Older kids are better prepared to tackle tougher topics. They have a more developed sense of right and wrong and can understand the complexities of these issues more deeply.

One effective approach is to brainstorm ways they can help address racial issues. Encouraging them to think of proactive steps they can take not only helps them engage with the topic but also empowers them to make a difference. For example, you might suggest they speak up for a friend who is being bullied because of their race. This not only supports their friend but also sets an example of standing against discrimination.

By approaching these conversations in an age-appropriate manner, you can help your older children develop a nuanced understanding of race and racism. This prepares them to be thoughtful, active participants in creating a more inclusive and equitable society.

Celebrate Diversity

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Celebrating diversity is a vital part of talking to kids about race and racism. It’s important to have these conversations because they help children understand, respect, and appreciate the differences between people. When kids learn about and celebrate diversity, they build empathy and compassion for others, which can inspire them to take positive actions against injustice.

Teaching children about different racial and social groups through positive interactions can significantly decrease prejudice. When kids are exposed to the richness of various cultures, they begin to see the world from different perspectives. This exposure can be achieved in simple, enjoyable ways. For instance, you can explore foods from different cultures together, read stories that highlight diverse characters and experiences, and watch films that represent a variety of backgrounds.

Shared experiences like these not only broaden your child’s understanding but also build trust and openness. By engaging with diverse cultures, your child learns to value different viewpoints and experiences. This openness fosters a more inclusive mindset, making them more accepting and appreciative of people from all walks of life. Celebrating diversity in these ways helps create a foundation of respect and empathy that will guide your child throughout their life.

Empowering Your Child to Speak Up About Abuse

Nadya Sharfina · May 2, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"Children are vulnerable. It's our duty as parents to empower them to recognize and speak out against abuse, no matter where it occurs."

It’s a sad truth we are seeing more reports about child abuse on the news in recent times, showing how vulnerable our youngest members of society are. Children are easier to hurt because they aren’t as strong or experienced as adults, and they trust grown-ups.

In 2023, a shocking video from Kinderland @ Woodlands Mart in Singapore showed a teacher being cruel to kids. They were forced to drink water and punished. It was a reminder that abuse can happen anywhere, even at school or by people we trust.

As parents, it’s our job to help our kids understand and be brave about abuse. This article is to help parents teach their kids to know when something is wrong, trust themselves, and speak up if they feel unsafe.

Teaching Them About Their Body Parts

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When talking to kids about abuse, it’s crucial to give them the words to express themselves. Teaching them the right names for their body parts helps them communicate better. When they can talk about their bodies, it’s easier for them to ask questions or say if something feels wrong.

Kids also need to understand the idea of privacy for certain parts of their bodies. They should know that some areas are just for them and shouldn’t be touched by others. This helps them set boundaries and feel in control of their bodies. Check out our article on Emphasising Consent, Respect, and Boundaries in the ‘Powerful Talk: Parenting and Sex Education‘

Children should know that certain people, even adults like doctors, shouldn’t touch their private parts without permission or a good reason. At medical appointments, parents should always be there to make sure the child feels safe.

Boundaries aren’t just about physical touch; they apply to all kinds of relationships, like family, teachers, and older kids. Kids need to know that no one should have free access to their bodies. They have the right to say no to hugs or kisses, even from people they know well.

It’s important to help kids feel confident about setting boundaries. They should know they can choose who comes into their personal space and decide how others treat them. This gives them power over their bodies and teaches them that they deserve respect from others.

Spotting Warning Signs

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In our efforts to protect our children from abuse, it’s crucial to help them recognise warning signs. From a young age, we should teach them to trust their instincts and notice anything that makes them feel uneasy.

Children need to understand what abuse is. It’s when an adult intentionally hurts or mistreats a child, and it’s never an accident. By explaining this to children, we give them a way to identify and react to potential dangers.

Physical abuse includes hitting, touching in a way they don’t like, choking, or beating. Children should know that these things are never okay, no matter what.

Emotional abuse is also harmful and can come in many forms, like threats, insults, or yelling. These behaviours can really hurt a child’s feelings and self-esteem.

We also need to teach children how to handle situations that make them uncomfortable. If they’re around someone acting strangely, encourage them to trust their instincts and get away. Let them know they can always talk to you about anything that worries them.

Using the Media to Make it Relevant

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In today’s digital world, media plays a significant role in shaping how we understand the world. As parents, we can use this influence to empower our children to speak up about abuse by making it relevant to their lives. It’s essential to remember to stay near kids when they’re consuming media, especially if it’s something that might contain sensitive content. Some media consumption might require parents to watch alongside their children to guide them through the content and ensure they understand it properly.

One effective strategy is to initiate conversations with your child about current events or topics portrayed in the media. Whether it’s something trending on social media, a news story making headlines, a new movie release, or a popular TV show, these platforms offer valuable opportunities for discussion. Check out our article on How Movies and TV Can Address Real-life Issues for Teenagers in ‘The Impact of Movies and TV on Teenagers Today’

Start by asking your child’s opinion on the subject matter. What do they think about a particular news story? How do they feel about a character’s actions in a movie or TV show? By engaging them in dialogue, you not only gain insight into their thoughts and perspectives but also demonstrate that you value their opinions.

You could watch an episode of a TV show with your child and then ask follow-up questions about the themes or events depicted. This interactive approach not only helps your child feel more comfortable expressing their thoughts but also encourages critical thinking and analysis.

Using the media as a conversation starter allows you to transition into discussions about sensitive topics like abuse seamlessly. You can draw parallels between real-life situations and those portrayed in the media, helping your child understand the relevance and importance of speaking up about abuse.

Teaching your kids about how to differentiate between good and bad characters in media is also important. Discuss with them the actions and behaviours of the characters they see and help them understand the difference between positive and negative role models. This not only enhances their media literacy but also reinforces important values and principles.

Overcoming Fear

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When discussing abuse with children, it’s crucial to create a safe and supportive environment where they feel empowered to speak up without fear. One of the most important messages we can convey is that they should never blame themselves if they find themselves in an unsafe situation. Seeking help is not only essential but also courageous and commendable.

Children may feel afraid to speak out about abuse, especially if they’ve been manipulated or threatened by the abuser. They might worry that they won’t be believed or fear retaliation if they disclose the abuse. It’s vital to reassure children that they won’t face any consequences for speaking up about inappropriate behaviour. No matter the abuser’s status or authority, abusive behaviour must be addressed promptly.

Above all, children need to know that their safety and well-being are the top priority, and they should never hesitate to seek help if they feel uncomfortable or unsafe. By building a foundation of trust and support, we empower children to overcome their fears and speak up about abuse. Together, we can break the cycle of silence and create a world where children feel empowered to assert their rights and seek help when needed.

In conclusion, abuse knows no bounds—it can happen anytime, anywhere, and is perpetrated by anyone. Whether it’s in the classroom, within the family, or elsewhere, the impact of abuse on its victims can be profound and lasting. For children subjected to such cruelty, the experience is often fraught with confusion and fear. They may feel uncomfortable or distressed without fully comprehending the gravity of the situation they find themselves in.

In the face of adversity, children have the potential to become resilient and courageous advocates for themselves and others. It’s our duty as adults to equip them with the tools they need to navigate the complexities of the world and stand up against injustice. Together, we can create a safer and more compassionate society—one where every child feels empowered to speak out against abuse and reclaim their right to a childhood free from harm.

Should TikTok Be Banned?

Nadya Sharfina · March 22, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"As TikTok's popularity soars, governments worldwide grapple with privacy concerns, prompting bans and legislative actions."

TikTok, which is owned by ByteDance, has become a well-known social media platform. However, its popularity hasn’t kept it from facing rising international issues. Governments worldwide are increasingly taking decisive action against TikTok, citing concerns over data privacy and cybersecurity as key drivers behind their moves.

At the time of writing, TikTok is completely banned in Afghanistan, India, Nepal, and Somalia. Some other countries such as Australia, Belgium, Canada, Denmark, New Zealand, Norway and the U.K. have banned TikTok on governmental devices. 

The most recent blow to TikTok in the United States occurred on March 13, when the House of Representatives voted to forward a measure. If passed, this bill could lead to TikTok being banned in a country with one of the largest numbers of both users and creators. Why is the U.S. considering banning TikTok, and who initiated this movement? Should TikTok indeed be banned, considering the implications it may have on its millions of users?

What’s Prompting the U.S. to Ban TikTok?

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The current news about TikTok potentially being banned in the United States is the result of a House bill that was recently enacted. It is part of an ongoing political debate over the platform. TikTok has been a huge success since its debut in 2017, surpassing Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, and YouTube in terms of downloads in 2018. However, its quick expansion has alarmed lawmakers, who are concerned about data privacy and censorship due to its Chinese roots.

Despite TikTok’s reassurances that it won’t hand over U.S. user data to the Chinese government, concerns linger. Investigations revealing China-based employees accessing non-public U.S. user data only added to the unease. TikTok claims that U.S. customer data is stored outside of China, mostly in Singapore and the United States, with the assistance of American IT giant Oracle. Many lawmakers, however, have not been happy with these guarantees. This culminated in CEO Shou Zi Chew facing a severe grilling before Congress in March 2023.

Who Initiated the U.S. TikTok Ban?

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TikTok has faced numerous bans and attempted bans in many countries in recent years. In 2020, Donald Trump proposed a ban in the U.S., but the courts quickly blocked it, citing First Amendment rights. The following year, the U.S. government restricted the app’s use on official phones, a move that was replicated by at least 34 states by 2023, indicating a broad unwillingness to engage with TikTok inside official circles.

Aside from government prohibitions, TikTok experienced opposition from educational institutions, with over 50 universities in the United States choosing to restrict its usage on campus Wi-Fi and laptops. Meanwhile, India implemented a ban in 2020 following safety concerns. This governmental decision shifted the competitive landscape in India, favouring alternatives such as YouTube Shorts and Instagram Reels.

Even within China, where TikTok is based, the app hasn’t taken centre stage. Instead, Douyin, a locally tailored platform with stricter content moderation, dominates the scene. This divergence demonstrates how TikTok’s presence and reception varied across areas, with regulatory settings impacting its trajectory in each location.

Will U.S. TikTok Shut Down Soon?

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TikTok’s immediate fate has not yet been determined. The Senate must approve the proposal before it becomes law. Although the President of the United States, Joe Biden, has expressed his intention to sign it, it must first pass through the Senate. The timing of this vote remains unknown. 

What Are TikTok Users Saying?

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Many influencers are crossing their fingers, hoping that lawmakers will give the matter a second thought. They argue that TikTok serves as a vital space for bringing people together and discussing important social justice issues. It’s not just about funny dances and light-hearted content; TikTok also hosts meaningful discussions and educational content. The platform has become a powerful tool for amplifying diverse voices and raising awareness on critical issues. Its unique format allows complex topics to be shared in a digestible and engaging way, reaching millions worldwide.

If the House bill makes it into law, it could spell trouble for small businesses and social media influencers alike. Small businesses rely on TikTok for marketing and even run their e-commerce operations through TikTok Shop. For influencers. who have invested years into building their follower base and securing brand deals, this could seriously impact their livelihoods.

Should Countries Ban TikTok?

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TikTok offers more than just entertainment. Alongside fun content, it provides educational, inspiring, and informative material from around the world. For today’s tech-savvy youth, TikTok is a valuable resource for learning in our fast-changing digital landscape.

Deciding whether to ban TikTok, especially for educational use, is complex. On one hand, it offers a variety of educational content, from academic subjects to practical skills. Many educators and learners have utilised TikTok as a supplementary tool for teaching and learning due to its engaging format.

However, issues about data privacy, content filtering, and inappropriate content are all worth considering. While TikTok has educational value, it also has hazards, especially for younger users who are more receptive to incorrect or misleading information.

Instead of an outright prohibition, a more nuanced approach may include setting strong safety controls and standards to limit potential risks. This could include encouraging responsible use, providing tools for digital literacy and online safety, and requiring parental supervision for younger users. Read ‘Navigating Kids to a Secure Online: Tips and Suggestions’

Steps to Take If Your Child Is the Bully

Nadya Sharfina · June 8, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"Accepting that your child may be facing challenges and actively seeking solutions is a brave and important step towards creating a better future for them."

Imagine this scenario: Your child’s teacher gives you a call and tells you that your child has been bullying others. Or maybe other parents have approached you, complaining about your child’s behaviour. It can be difficult to accept, but there are moments when you must take a step back and admit that your child may be struggling with some problems. It’s difficult and many parents might try to downplay it or believe that people are just being cruel. It takes real courage and openness to acknowledge that your child needs help. 

So let’s dive into this article and explore some strategies and advice for parents who find themselves in this situation. It may be time to face the issue and work together with your child to create a positive change.

Recognising the Problem: Admitting the Child’s Bullying Behaviour

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It’s normal for parents to feel protective of their children and find it difficult to accept the possibility that they might be bullying other kids. To help kids develop and undergo positive change, it is essential to face reality and address the issue. To admit that your child has a problem requires strength and an open mind.

It’s important to realise that by acknowledging the problem, parents are not judging their child to be a “bad” person. Instead, parents are admitting that their child’s actions need to be changed because they are damaging to others. Denying the problem won’t help parents find the best solutions for all the parties involved.

Parents could begin by identifying the factors that have led to bullying in the first place. Bullying behaviour in children can be attributed to a variety of reasons, for example watching media content, such as TV shows, youtube channels or movies which depict violence. Children’s media consumption can affect how they perceive what is appropriate behaviour. They might watch confrontational or rude exchanges that are presented as commonplace or even humorous. These depictions may have an impact on their attitudes and behaviour toward others, and may include bullying. Parents should supervise and limit their children’s media use. They can build a critical knowledge of the media their kids consume by having open discussions about the material they see and the potential effects of certain behaviours seen on screen.

The home environment must also be examined carefully to determine if the child is being bullied by an adult or family member. Children who experience bullying at home may internalise this behaviour as a coping mechanism or a way to feel in control. While this doesn’t excuse their actions, it serves as a reminder that they need a secure and supportive environment.

Having a deep, honest conversation with your child about their emotions will help as well.  When children are feeling unhappy, angry, lonely, or insecure, they frequently participate in bullying behaviour. Significant changes in the environment at home or at school can also cause these feelings to surface. 

The Importance of Taking Bullying Seriously

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Bullying should not be dismissed as a passing phase.  Children who display aggressive behaviour may end up with long-term effects on their psyche. Bullies risk having serious issues later in life if they carry on acting in this way into maturity. It’s important to keep in mind, too, that bullying can have a long-term impact on the victim as well. 

When it comes to guiding and teaching children appropriate behaviour, talk openly and honestly with your children. Firstly, ask them why they have engaged in bullying behaviour. Discuss the need for empathy and ask them how they would feel if they were in their victim’s shoes. Inform them that their hostile behaviour has been reported to the school or other parents, and explain why this is a serious consequence. Insist on how much you care for them while making it obvious that they need to behave differently.  Go on to explain that you agree with the school’s punishment and that you do not condone bullying.

The positive discipline method is also a powerful substitute for punitive ones. It’s crucial to provide instruction and employ proactive measures that promote respect rather than depending exclusively on punishment. Setting clear boundaries is an essential part of healthy discipline. Your child needs to understand your rules and expectations so that they can behave appropriately and face the appropriate consequences. Children gain a sense of responsibility and an awareness of what is expected of them by being given structure.

Parent-Teacher Collaboration: Working Together to Address Bullying

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Set up a meeting with the teacher after having a comprehensive conversation with your child about this issue. Without making assumptions, pay attention to the teacher’s perspective. Discuss with the teacher your willingness to work with the school to resolve your child’s bullying behaviour. It’s crucial to let the teacher know if your child is acting out of character due to any household issues.

Parents may also want to consider getting more counselling if they need to. Counselling may help your child learn new behaviours, take ownership of their actions, develop empathy, and build healthier connections with others. Raising a child who is kinder and more empathetic can be accomplished through the use of cognitive-behavioural therapy, behaviour modification, and other techniques.

The following helpful counselling services are available in Singapore if your child needs counselling. They are not only there to assist children and parents in dealing with abuse and bullying but also to address a range of issues. These may include feeling overwhelmed by home or school, adjusting to life in a foreign country, sibling conflicts, self-injury, LGBTQ+ issues, and anger management.

  • Annabelle Kids
  • Little Marvels
  • International Counselling & Psychology Centre
  • Family SOS

Remember, stopping bullying behaviour involves persistence and consistency. You may assist your child in growing up to be a kind person who values other people’s rights and well-being by providing them with love, guidance, and a willingness to change. Keep in touch with your child and give them your support as they develop their interpersonal skills and learn to treat others with compassion and empathy.

Best Restaurants with Play Areas in Singapore

Nadya Sharfina · May 11, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"Restaurants with playgrounds are a lifesaver for parents looking to enjoy a meal while keeping their children entertained and happy."

Dining out with children can be challenging, especially when they become restless and fidgety at the table. Fortunately, there are several restaurants in Singapore that offer a treat to keep little ones entertained: playgrounds! These kid-friendly eateries serve delicious food and provide a fun and safe environment for children to play in. Whether you’re looking for a weekend brunch spot or a place to celebrate a special occasion, there are many options to choose from.

Some restaurants feature outdoor play areas with slides, swings, and even swimming pools, while others have indoor playrooms with soft mats, ball pits, and toys. Not only do these restaurants provide a break for parents and caregivers, but they also encourage children to be active and socialize with other kids. Here are the top five restaurants with playgrounds for children in Singapore that will surely make your dining experience with your kids more enjoyable!

1. Smile Dessert

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Smile Dessert is a dessert cafe in Singapore that offers a range of sweet treats. The cafe is located at Northpoint City, a popular shopping mall in Yishun. It is also considered a kid-friendly place due to its colourful and playful decor, which includes cartoon characters and bright colours. The cafe has a dedicated play area for kids, which features toys and games, allowing parents to relax while their children play.

Smile Dessert is a great place for families with kids who love sweets. They have lots of yummy treats like ice cream cones, chocolate waffles, cakes, and milkshakes that kids will love. The cafe even has a special menu just for kids with smaller portions and fun options like unicorn waffles and rainbow cakes. It’s the perfect spot to enjoy sweet treats and quality family time together.

2. Café Melba

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This restaurant offers a unique dining experience for families with its extensive outdoor seating area and lush greenery that surrounds the restaurant. The atmosphere is relaxing and inviting, making it the perfect place to unwind with your family while enjoying some delicious food. The restaurant offers a diverse menu with a range of options to cater to different dietary requirements and tastes, from classic brunch favorites to Asian-inspired dishes. Café Melba is a child-friendly restaurant with a dedicated play area that keeps kids entertained while parents enjoy their meals. The play area is fully equipped with toys, a playhouse, and a mini trampoline, making it an ideal spot for children of all ages to have fun.

Another unique feature of Café Melba is its location at Goodman Arts Centre, which is home to various arts and cultural organizations in Singapore. Families can explore the art galleries and exhibitions or even attend a performance or workshop before or after their meal. Additionally, the restaurant hosts family-friendly events and activities throughout the year, such as movie nights and live music performances, making it a great destination for families looking for a fun and educational outing.

3. Little Spot

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Little Spot is a casual dining restaurant located in the heart of Singapore. Known for serving a variety of local and international dishes, including burgers, pasta, and seafood. The restaurant is decorated in a fun and colourful style, with cute cartoon characters and murals on the walls that children may enjoy. It has a warm and friendly atmosphere, and the staff are very welcoming to families. The restaurant provides a kid’s menu with a variety of tasty options that are perfect for little ones. As much as kids will love the meals, they might love what comes after even more. Beyond the food, Little Spot goes the extra mile to create a truly enjoyable dining experience for families.

They also offer a variety of activities and games to keep kids entertained, including colouring books and puzzles, with a designated play area where children can play and have fun in a safe environment while parents enjoy their meals. With these kid-friendly features, parents can relax and enjoy their dining experience knowing that their children are happy and entertained.

4. Baker & Cook

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This artisanal bread and pastries cafe has several branches in Singapore, including one at Dempsey Hill, which is particularly popular amongst families with kids. Baker & Cook Cafe is a kid friendly place for a few reasons. Firstly, the cafe has a dedicated play area for kids, which is stocked with toys, books, and games. This area is located near the outdoor seating section, so parents can keep an eye on their children while enjoying their food and drinks.

Secondly, the menu at Baker & Cook Cafe includes a range of kid-friendly options, such as sandwiches, pancakes, and pastries. The cafe also serves babyccinos, frothy milk drinks that are popular with kids.

Lastly, Baker & Cook Cafe organises regular events and workshops for kids, such as baking classes and craft workshops. These events are designed to be fun and educational, and they provide kids with an opportunity to learn new skills while having fun.

5. Ola Beach Club

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Ola Beach Club is a beachfront destination located on Siloso Beach in Sentosa. The club is known for its range of water sports and activities, as well as its family-friendly facilities.

One of the main reasons why Ola Beach Club is popular with families is its range of water sports and activities that cater to all ages. These include stand-up paddleboarding, kayaking, banana boat rides, and jet skiing. They offer lessons and rentals for beginners, making it easy for families to try out new water sports together.

The club has a kids’ pool area, a playground, and a beach volleyball court, which are all perfect for kids to enjoy. In addition, the club’s restaurant serves a wide range of dishes, including kid-friendly options like burgers, pizzas, and pasta. Whether you’re looking for a fun-filled day out with your family or just want to relax by the beach, Ola Beach Club is definitely worth checking out.

Dining out with children in Singapore can be made more enjoyable and stress-free by visiting one of the many kid-friendly restaurants with playgrounds. From outdoor play areas to indoor playrooms, these eateries offer a safe and fun environment for children to play while parents and caregivers enjoy delicious food. With a range of options to choose from, families can easily find a restaurant that suits their preferences and needs. So the next time you’re looking for a family-friendly dining experience, consider checking out one of these restaurants with playgrounds in Singapore.

On the Black Lives Matter Movement

Rebecca Samuel · April 10, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"The mission behind Black Lives Matter is straightforward: To abolish discrimination, oppression and systemic racism."

#BlackLivesMatter saw its first tweet in 2013. The beginning of the movement has been credited to three Black American women, Alicia Garza, Opal Tometi and Patrisse Cullors, who started the movement after the death of Trayvon Martin, a Black teenager who was shot while walking to his friend’s house and the acquittal of the man who shot him. Since then, millions of people all over the world have contributed to the cause in a myriad of ways, from signing petitions to hashtags of #BlackLivesMatter on social media to protesting on the streets, all for equality and justice for Black people.

The mission behind Black Lives Matter is straightforward: To abolish discrimination, oppression and systemic racism. The path to getting these is less so. The protests held in the U.S. last year after the murder of George Floyd by a police officer spread to 60 countries across all 7 continents. It has been the largest Black-led protest since the 1960s.

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What can movements like #blm do to increase equality for Black people? It creates space for Black empowerment, affirms Black humanity and builds social, economic and political power for all Black people. It is an acknowledgement that Black people are disproportionately affected by systems of inequality and oppression. It works towards building impartial and unbiased systems in society.

Some specific aims of Black Lives Matter are:

  • Fighting state-sanctioned discrimination against Black communities
  • Organizing local efforts that contribute to Black empowerment
  • Changing discriminatory systems in criminal justice systems
  • Abolishing police violence and brutality

Black Lives Matter is a significant movement in the world today. It was one of the first movements to utilize social media to mobilize people all over the world. The hashtag #BlackLivesMatter became both platform and organization tool to contribute to all the action that took place offline. Since it began, the movement has influenced legislation, toppled corrupt politicians, improved housing, healthcare and education, and demanded justice for victims of police violence and discriminatory legal systems.

People all over the world and in Singapore have become a lot more sensitive to and aware of racial issues and systemic discrimination that seep into the most egalitarian societies. We all look forward to a world where racism no longer exists and men and women can live in true harmony with one another.

The Importance of Talking to Your Kids About Social Media

Nadya Sharfina · April 8, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"As parents, it is important for us to understand social media and how it works. We need to be aware of the dangers associated with using social media, as well as the benefits."

As parents, we want our kids to be smart. We want them to make good decisions, get good grades in school, and stay out of trouble. But sometimes it can be challenging to know how to support our kids to succeed. One area where parents often need help is teaching kids how to use social media safely and responsibly.

Kids today are growing up in a world where social media is an integral part of their lives. They use it to communicate with friends, share information, and stay connected. As parents, it is important for us to understand social media and how it works. We need to be aware of the dangers associated with using social media, as well as the benefits.

Thankfully, there are some things parents can do to help their kids be smart while using social media.

Introduce Kids to Social Media at a Young Age

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Parents should introduce kids to social media at a young age. This will help kids learn about it early on, and it will also help them be more aware of the dangers of using social media. Many parents don’t talk to their kids about the dangers of social media until it is too late. 

Warn Kids About the Dangers of Social Media

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Social media can be a great tool for kids, but if they are not properly informed of its dangers, it can also be a source of risk. Parents need to be aware of the dangers that come with using social media, such as cyberbullying, sexting, online predators, exposure to inappropriate content, and data privacy issues.  Parents should take the time to explain these issues and emphasize why kids need to be careful when using social media.

In addition, kids need to be aware of the potential for online scams and fraud. They should never click on links from unknown sources, and not purchase anything online without parental permission.

Set Expectations and Boundaries

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Parents should set clear expectations and boundaries for kids when it comes to social media. They should talk about the consequences of inappropriate behavior and explain why posting certain types of content is dangerous. Kids should be made aware that there are limits to what they can post, and that once something is online, it can be hard to take back.

The conversation between kids and parents should also include a discussion about respect, both on social media and in real life. Kids should know that it is not okay to say hurtful things about someone else through bullying or gossip.

In turn, parents agree to respect their kids’ privacy while making an effort to be part of the conversation and have them share their social media experiences.

Show Kids How to Use Privacy Settings Correctly

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Parents should also ensure that kids are using their privacy settings correctly. Many social media sites have options to keep certain information private and kids need to be aware of these settings. Parents should remind kids that not everything needs to be shared online and they should take the time to explain why it is important to keep some things private.

Encourage Kids to Think Before They Post

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Kids need to understand that anything they post online can be seen by others. Parents should make sure kids know not to post anything they would not want their parents or teachers to see. Kids need to be aware of the fact that what they post now can have serious consequences in the future.

It is important for kids to understand that they should think carefully before they post anything online. Parents should remind kids that if something seems too good to be true, it probably is, and they should never share personal information with strangers. They should also know that it is okay to block or ignore people who are harassing them online.

Set Rules for Using Technology and Enforce Them

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Parents should also set clear boundaries and expectations when it comes to kids using technology, including social media. Doing so will help kids understand the limits that are in place and why they are important. Parents should talk with kids about how much time is appropriate for them to spend on social media and make sure kids stick to these rules.

It is also important for kids to understand the consequences of breaking these rules. Parents should make sure kids know that there will be repercussions if they don’t follow the guidelines set by their parents, such as having their devices taken away or other disciplinary measures.

By setting clear expectations and enforcing them, kids can learn how to use social media responsibly and understand the consequences of their actions. It will also help kids stay safe when using social media, as well as instill a sense of responsibility in kids.

Why Is It Important for Parents?

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It can be difficult to talk to kids about social media and the dangers that come with it, but it is important to step in to keep them safe. Parents should take the time to discuss the risks associated with social media and they should also explain the importance of using it responsibly. By having these important conversations early on, parents can help kids to make smart choices online and ultimately keep them safe from potential harm. It is not always easy, but it is worth it in the end.

Navigating Kids Secure Online: Tips and Suggestions

Nadya Sharfina · April 6, 2023 · Leave a Comment

“It is crucial in today's world to be aware of how to use the internet safely”

It can be intimidating to navigate the internet, particularly for young people who may not have much online experience. By following some simple rules and guidelines, you can ensure that these experiences remain positive for young people. This article will explore tips on making good decisions when navigating the internet and staying safe online.

The Need for Antivirus Software in Online Security

Internet filters, monitoring tools, and antivirus software can help users to stay safe online by being protected against threats. 

  • Internet filters are an effective way to limit internet access by blocking unwanted websites and content. 
  • Monitoring tools can be used to monitor internet usage and quickly detect any suspicious activity. 
  • Antivirus software can help internet users protect their devices from malicious programs, viruses, and other internet threats. 

These tools can also assist in defending young internet users against online predators, cyberbullying, and other harmful actions. Here are some of the top antivirus programs to help safeguard yourself as well as your computer:

McAfee

It is a good pick for multiple devices because its subscriptions provide security for every device in a home at an affordable price. It comes with features like safe web browsing,  identity theft protection, a password manager, encrypted storage and full network protection.

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Norton

To counter cybersecurity risks, Norton is renowned for using machine learning, which makes use of data to enhance technological performance. It provides a wide variety of antivirus options and a sizable amount of cloud storage. A firewall, VPN, password manager, identity theft protection, and robust parental controls are available extras.

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Bitdefender

It provides a range of security-first capabilities, including ransomware prevention, monitoring of online purchases and web-based transactions as well as protection against fraud and phishing, all of which are controlled through an intuitive dashboard.

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Webroot

This antivirus program offers customers the essential security they need while browsing the internet as well as parental controls because some of the features can be customized to safeguard children.

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Avast

Even the free version of this antivirus software is quite effective at detecting and eliminating malware such as viruses and ransomware. Additionally, your Wi-Fi network is protected from being hacked and from other dangers with its built-in security. Paid versions come with further features including IP address blocking, bogus website identification, phishing protection, and security for browser-stored passwords.

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Stick to Safer Websites and Avoid Age-Restricted Content

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By limiting young people to sites that are appropriate for their age, you can protect them from inappropriate material and potential dangers on the internet. Age restrictions exist to ensure that kids do not have access to the content they may not be prepared for or may find upsetting or distressing. 

In general, it is advisable for young internet users to avoid exposure to potentially harmful content such as violence, drug usage, graphic imagery, and explicit language. Avoiding age-restricted websites also prevents kids from inadvertently accessing adult-themed conversations which could lead them astray or mislead them in some way.

To make parents’ jobs easier, there are numerous parental control programs that can help protect your children when they are online. The most recent versions of Mac OS and Windows already have parental control software, but you may also buy standalone versions that have more capabilities and flexibility. Software like Norton Family, Net Nanny, and Qustodio should do the trick.

Take Extra Caution When Using Passwords and Sharing Information Online

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To protect your personal information from unscrupulous hackers in today’s digital age, secure passwords are crucial for all of yours as well as your kids’ online accounts.

A weak password may be easy to remember but it also makes it easier for someone else to guess and gain access to your accounts. This means that anyone who obtains this password will have full access to all the sensitive information stored on these accounts, such as credit card details, banking information, or even private messages.

Creating a strong password is not difficult. A secure password should have at least 8 characters and be made up of a mix of capital and lowercase letters, numbers, and symbols that are challenging for other people to decipher. It is also necessary to avoid using words or phrases related to yourself in your passwords such as birth dates, names of family members or pets, or favourite sports teams. You can change your passwords every few months to ensure they remain secure.

A second line of defense against malevolent hackers seeking to access your information is to enable two-factor authentication on all of your online accounts in addition to using strong passwords. This requires you to enter both a password and a separate code sent to your phone or email address, making it much harder for someone to access your accounts. 

Additionally, young people should be mindful of the information they share online. Remind your kids to share any sensitive details that could potentially be used for identity theft. Sharing too much personal information on social media sites or other public forums such as message boards can put your kids’ identity at risk and leave your family vulnerable to malicious hackers or scammers. 

Although caution when sharing too much personal information online may seem like common sense advice in today’s digital environment, it is crucial for users of all ages and levels of experience to remember this to protect themselves from online attacks.

Be Courteous and Avoid Embarrassing Others on the Internet

The internet may be a fantastic and effective tool for bringing people together, but netizens should always be treated with respect by all users. Talk to your kids about online cruelty and bullying, and discuss how it could have detrimental effects on both the victim and the cyberbully.

Some talking points on cyberbullying could be about:

  • It is unethical, immoral, and wrong.
  • It significantly impacts mental health, potentially leading to depression, anxiety, and even suicide in extreme cases. 
  • It could also lead to cyberstalking and other forms of online harassment which can also have severe consequences.
  • Several nations around the world have made cyberbullying a crime.
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Inform an Adult If You Notice Strange or Negative Online Behavior

Internet safety is no joke, and young people must stay vigilant and aware of any strange or bad behavior online. Kids should be encouraged to tell their parents, guardians, or another trusted adult right away if they notice something that makes them feel uneasy or suspicious. Even if it turns out to be nothing, it is always preferable to be safe rather than sorry because online predators are notorious for preying on gullible victims.

What are some examples of suspicious behaviour online that your child can watch out for?

  • Receiving a message from someone they do not know asking for personal information such as their address or phone number.
  • If a stranger messages them multiple times and makes overly friendly comments that make them feel uncomfortable.
  • Receiving threatening messages.
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What are some examples of unethical behaviour that your child should refrain from participating in?

  • Publishing incorrect or misleading information.
  • Stealing other people’s ideas or work without giving them credit.
  • Hacking into other people’s accounts.
  • Impersonating someone else online.
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Always remember that there are internet predators as well. They are notorious for impersonating other people online, and they frequently get in touch with young people to win their trust before requesting them to meet up in person or perform inappropriate behavior. Teaching your kids about internet safety could help them identify potential risks early. 

Pick Your Online Friends Wisely

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It is crucial for kids to be selective about their online buddies and exercise additional caution while building interactions online.

The internet can be a double-edged sword, allowing us to connect easily with people all around the world, but it also exposes us to potential threats from malicious individuals. When it comes to choosing who to befriend online, it is best to teach kids to be cautious and err on the side of caution. 

When trying to make new friends online, kids usually try looking for mutual interests or similar life experiences that they share in common with them. They should ask questions and get to know them better before they decide whether they are someone they would like as an online friend.

Parents should help to make sure that their profile is authentic and that there is evidence of them being who they say they are, such as pictures or other posts that prove their identity. 

If your kids start talking with someone new online, remind them to avoid sharing personal information until after they have established a solid relationship, preferably in real life.

Kids should keep in mind that even if someone seems like an ideal friend online, this does not necessarily mean that they are trustworthy in real life. 

The online world is one filled with both excitement and temptation. Learning internet safety early on will make a huge difference in the way kids use, learn from, and enjoy the many online spaces which take up so much of our lives. By following some of this advice on internet safety, we can ensure that kids are not at risk of becoming victims of cybercrime or other malicious activities taking place across the web today.

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