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Mistakes You Don’t Realise You’re Making as a Parent

Nadya Sharfina · June 19, 2025 · Leave a Comment

"It's not just the big moments in parenting that matter—it's how we handle the little ones, again and again."

Parenting is full of moments where we’re just trying to do our best with the time, energy, and knowledge we have. Some days go smoothly, while others feel like a constant balancing act. Most parents genuinely want to support their children, guide them well, and raise them with care. However, even with the best intentions, it’s easy to fall into habits that might not be as helpful as we think.

Many parenting missteps aren’t loud or obvious. They often appear in small, everyday moments: how we respond to a tantrum, how we discuss school, or how we manage arguments between siblings. These patterns can have more impact than we realise over time.

Failing to Listen Truly

One of the most common parenting slip-ups is not really listening to our kids. It’s easy to jump into “fix-it” mode when they come to us with a problem, offering advice or corrections before they’ve even finished talking. When we rush to solve or dismiss what they’re saying however, we unintentionally send the message that their feelings or thoughts aren’t important. Over time, this can create emotional distance, making kids less likely to open up in the future.

Instead, try slowing down and practising active listening. This means giving your child your full attention, making eye contact, and showing real interest in what they’re saying, without immediately jumping in with advice. Even a few minutes of focused listening can go a long way. When children feel truly heard and understood, it strengthens their self-esteem and builds a deeper, more trusting connection between them and yourself. It’s not about having all the answers, it’s about being present.

Comparing Siblings or Other Children

It’s easy to fall into the habit of comparing your child to a sibling, a cousin, or even a classmate,sometimes without even realising it. Comments like “Why can’t you be more like your brother?” or “Your friend finished that faster” might seem harmless in the moment, but they can leave a lasting impression. When kids feel like they’re being measured against someone else, they may start to believe they’re not good enough just as they are. This can create tension between siblings and put distance between you and your child, even when that’s not your intention.

Comparisons can also set up a kind of invisible competition at home. Instead of working together or feeling proud of each other, kids might start to feel like they’re always trying to prove themselves, or worse, that they’ll never measure up. Every child has their own pace, interests, and strengths. Noticing and appreciating those differences without stacking them against each other helps everyone feel more seen and accepted for who they are.

Shaming Instead of Teaching

When kids act out or break the rules, it can be frustrating, especially after a long day. In those moments, it’s tempting to say things like “What’s wrong with you?” or “You never think before you act.” These kinds of comments don’t teach children how to behave differently. Instead, they make them feel like there’s something wrong about who they are, not just what they did. For example, if a child spills something after being told to be careful, saying “You’re so careless” doesn’t help them understand the mistake, it just leaves them feeling judged.

Discipline should guide, not shame. Kids need to know what behaviour is unacceptable, and why, without being made to feel like they’re the problem. A more helpful approach would be, “I asked you to put the juice away, spilling it makes a mess that we both have to clean up now.” It keeps the focus on the action, not the child. When consequences are fair, clear, and tied to what actually happened, children are more likely to learn and adjust. They also feel respected and that makes them more open to listening the next time around. Check out: Disciplining Kids: Punishment or Consequences?

Too Much Praise, Too Much Protection

Many parents naturally want to give their kids the best start in life, and that often means stepping in to help or offering constant encouragement.Sometimes, without realising it, this can go too far. When children are praised for everything they do, no matter how small or routine, it can make them dependent on approval instead of learning to value the effort itself. They might start doing things just to hear “good job,” instead of finding their motivation.

In a similar way, always jumping in to protect kids from frustration or discomfort can keep them from learning how to deal with everyday challenges. It might feel like you’re helping, but it can actually hold them back. Letting kids make small mistakes, solve their problems, and feel a little uncomfortable now and then helps them grow. They need space to try, stumble, and figure things out on their own, with you there to support, not shield every step.

Dismissing Their Feelings

When a child is upset, it can be tempting to calm them down quickly with phrases like “You’re fine” or “It’s not a big deal.” While the intention might be to soothe, these responses can make kids feel like their emotions don’t matter. Over time, brushing off their feelings, especially the difficult ones, can make it harder for them to understand and handle what they’re going through. Instead of learning how to manage strong emotions, they may start to ignore or hide them, thinking they’re not allowed to feel that way.

Children don’t always have the words to explain what they’re feeling, which makes it even more helpful when parents take the time to name emotions with them “It sounds like you’re feeling frustrated”, or “That must have been disappointing.” This kind of support gives kids a better understanding of what’s happening inside and shows them that emotions aren’t something to be afraid of or ashamed of. When we acknowledge their feelings and guide them toward calming tools, like taking deep breaths or stepping away for a moment, they begin to build healthy ways of coping that will stay with them for years.

Putting Too Much Pressure on Performance

Many parents care deeply about their child’s education and want to see them do well in school. That’s completely understandable. But when all the attention is placed on grades, test scores, or awards, kids can start to feel like their worth depends only on how they perform. This kind of pressure can take the joy out of learning and make them more anxious about making mistakes. Instead of exploring, asking questions, or enjoying the process, they may begin to chase only the outcome and fear falling short.

Children thrive when effort, curiosity, and growth are noticed and appreciated. Saying things like “I’m proud of how hard you worked on that project” or “You stuck with it even when it got tricky” can go a long way. These moments help kids feel seen for who they are, not just for what they achieve. When parents make room for both academic growth and emotional well-being, children are more likely to stay engaged and develop a healthy relationship with learning that lasts far beyond any report card.

Not Noticing When They Do Well

It’s easy to get caught up in correcting things that go wrong, missed chores, talking back, and unfinished homework. When kids are doing well, following through, or making an effort, those moments deserve just as much attention. If a child cleans their room without being reminded, turns in homework on time, or stays focused on a task, noticing it helps reinforce those choices. A simple “I noticed you stuck with that even when it got tricky” or “Thanks for putting your things away without being asked” goes a long way.

These kinds of comments let children know that their efforts matter and that you’re paying attention, even when things are going smoothly. When kids hear that their positive behaviour is being seen, they feel encouraged to keep it up. It doesn’t have to be over-the-top praise, just honest, specific recognition. Over time, this kind of feedback helps create a home environment where good habits feel natural and appreciated.

Not Saying Sorry When You Should

Parents aren’t perfect, and children don’t expect them to be. Like anyone else, parents can lose their temper, misjudge a situation, or say something they regret. When those moments happen and no apology follows, it can quietly strain the relationship over time. Some parents, especially those raised in older generations, may have grown up with the idea that authority should never be questioned or softened. In that mindset, apologising might feel like losing ground, even though it’s really about building trust.

Apologising to your child doesn’t mean giving up your role. It means showing that everyone is still learning, even grown-ups. A good apology is clear and honest: “I’m sorry I raised my voice earlier. I was frustrated, but that wasn’t fair to you.” That kind of message shows your child you understand how your actions affected them. It also shows that you’re willing to reflect, make things right, and do better next time. Children notice that. When they see a parent take responsibility with calmness and sincerity, they learn how to do the same.

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Disciplining Kids: Punishment or Consequences?

Nadya Sharfina · June 17, 2025 · Leave a Comment

"Punishment seeks control; consequence seeks to teach. The difference shapes how children grow."

When your child misbehaves, it’s normal to feel frustrated. You want them to listen, follow through, and behave in ways that make daily life smoother. In those moments, it’s easy to reach for discipline that feels immediate and firm.

That’s where the terms “punishment” and “consequence” often get mixed up. They’re commonly used as if they mean the same thing, but they don’t. One aims to teach, the other to control. How we respond can shape how our children learn to handle their own behavior.

What Are Consequences?

When we talk about consequences, we’re just talking about what happens as a result of something else. It’s the natural outcome that follows a specific action or behaviour. Think of it like this: if you touch a hot stove, your finger gets burned. If you stay up too late, you’re tired the next morning. If you forget your homework, you might get a zero. These are all examples of how actions naturally lead to outcomes. No one has to make it happen, it just does.

Natural consequences are often the best teachers. When kids experience the results of their choices on their own, they begin to understand how the world works. For example, if a child refuses to wear a jacket on a chilly day, they’ll feel cold. No lecture needed. Just a real-world lesson that sticks much better than a scolding.

That said, sometimes parents do need to step in. Not every situation allows for natural consequences to unfold safely or clearly. In those moments, consequences can be something a parent sets, like turning off the tablet after repeated warnings or having a child clean up a mess they made on purpose. The goal isn’t to punish or shame, but to guide. A well-thought-out consequence helps a child understand that their actions have outcomes and encourages them to think ahead next time.

Consequences work best when they’re connected, calm, and meant to teach, not just to get a child to do what you want in the moment. When used thoughtfully, they help build a child’s ability to make better choices, one experience at a time.

What Is Punishment?

Punishment is usually what comes to mind when we think about someone “getting in trouble.” It’s the idea that if a child does something wrong, they’ll face something unpleasant in return. Something that hurts, embarrasses, or scares them into not doing it again. The thinking behind it is: “If this feels bad enough, maybe they won’t do it next time.”

Punishment tends to focus on making a child suffer in some way, either physically, emotionally, or both. For example, a parent might yell at a child and send them to their room for hours after breaking something, or take away a favourite toy for a week without explaining why. These actions don’t really help the child understand their behaviour. Instead, they’re designed to bring discomfort or guilt, hoping that pain will bring change.

Punishment is often fueled by frustration or a need to regain control in the moment. When tempers are high, it’s easy to fall into the trap of reacting harshly, especially if a child has pushed boundaries repeatedly. However, when the focus is on making a child feel bad instead of helping them grow, it rarely leads to real learning. It just creates fear or resentment.

The Problem with Punishment

At first glance, punishment might seem effective. You might hear people say, “Timeout always shuts it down,” or “Yelling gets their attention, so it must be working.” Sure, those things might stop a behaviour in the moment. But that’s usually where the progress ends.

Punishment often comes across as payback, an emotional reaction to something a child did that upset or frustrated a parent. In some homes, it’s used when tensions are already high, which can create more stress and distance in the parent-child relationship. When kids are already feeling misunderstood or overwhelmed, adding punishment to the mix can push them even further away emotionally.

Some parents fall into a “my way or the highway” mindset. This strict, authoritarian approach may control behaviour in the short term, but it doesn’t help children grow. It doesn’t show them how to make better choices next time. Instead, they may feel ashamed or even confused, not just about what they did, but about who they are. Over time, this can chip away at a child’s sense of self-worth, which often leads to more misbehaviour, not less.

Another problem with punishment is that it doesn’t teach. It might stop a child because they’re afraid, not because they’ve learned a better way to handle the situation. They may avoid getting caught next time, rather than avoiding the behaviour itself. Children who are punished frequently may even learn to respond in kind by punishing others through yelling, blaming, or shutting down.

The goal shouldn’t just be about stopping a behaviour in the moment. It should be about helping kids understand their choices, take responsibility, and find better ways to manage their actions.

Why Consequences Work Better

Unlike punishment, consequences tend to be more effective because they focus on teaching rather than controlling. They help children see how their actions lead to real outcomes, which encourages responsibility and more thoughtful choices.

Natural consequences—things that happen on their own—can be especially helpful. When safe and appropriate, allowing these to happen helps children understand cause and effect in a way that feels fair and logical.

Consequences aren’t just about correcting negative behavior. They can be positive too. Giving rewards or positive outcomes reinforces good behavior. For example, if a child helps clean up without being asked, they might earn extra playtime or a special activity with you. This shows them that positive actions are noticed and appreciated.

While punishment often comes from frustration, consequences are meant to guide. They help children learn what went wrong, what they can do instead, and how to make better choices moving forward. Both positive and negative consequences should give children the chance to learn and try again.

What Are You Really Teaching?

Before reacting to your child’s behaviour, take a moment to pause and reflect. Ask yourself: Am I doing this to teach them something useful? Or am I doing it because I’m angry, frustrated, or overwhelmed? That split second of self-awareness can make a world of difference in how you respond and how your child experiences it.

It’s also worth thinking about what message your reaction is sending. Does your response help your child understand what went wrong and what they can do differently next time? Or are they being held to a standard they couldn’t realistically meet in the first place? Kids are still learning, and part of our job as parents is to guide them in a way that’s fair and clear, not crushing.

Your tone, body language, and choice of words all carry weight. A sharp voice, an eye roll, or a cold stare can quietly deliver messages like, “You’re a disappointment,” or “You’re not good enough.” That may not be your intention, but kids often absorb far more than the words being said.

Another question to consider: Will this teach them to avoid mistakes out of fear or help them grow into someone who learns from their actions? Responses based on fear or shame can create emotional distance. Over time, that can lead to damage that’s hard to undo both to their self-image and your relationship with them.

Lastly, think about what they’re really learning in the moment. Are they seeing a natural outcome of their choice? Or are they just learning to avoid upsetting you? Discipline should help a child understand how their actions affect the world around them, not just how to dodge punishment.

Taking a step back before reacting isn’t always easy, but it helps us respond with purpose, not just emotion, and that’s what helps kids grow in a way that feels safe, respectful, and lasting.

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What If You Don’t Get Your Teen’s Music, Slang, or Fashion?

Nadya Sharfina · June 12, 2025 · Leave a Comment

"You don’t have to understand your teen’s music, slang, or style to stay connected. Sometimes the gap is where the best conversations begin."

Have you ever walked past your teen’s room and heard music blasting that you’ve never heard before, something with a beat or lyrics that make you pause and think, Is this what they’re into now? Or maybe you’ve seen them heading out in an outfit that leaves you wondering if there was a fashion trend memo you missed. And then there’s the moment you overhear them chatting with their friends, only to realise you barely understand a word they’re saying.

It’s easy to feel a little disconnected when your teen’s interests seem so far from your own. Is it okay not to fully understand their music, slang, or style? The short answer is yes. Navigating that gap can be an opportunity, not a roadblock.

Acknowledge the Gap

It’s completely normal to feel disconnected from your teen’s evolving interests. One day they’re singing nursery rhymes in the backseat, and the next they’re blasting a song that sounds more like chaos than music. It can be jarring and feel like their world is starting to spin without you at the centre of it.,but every generation confuses the one before it.

Maybe your teen is into music that feels loud, strange, or emotional in a way that you just don’t relate to. But rewind a few decades, and the same thing was happening. When rock and roll exploded in the 1950s, many adults were horrified. They thought Elvis was inappropriate and that electric guitars were corrupting the youth. The same thing happened in the ’70s and ’80s with punk rock, which was dismissed as rebellious noise. Now, those same genres are considered classics.

The same goes for fashion. Think back to when ripped jeans, oversized shirts, or neon windbreakers were all the rage. Styles that were once called outrageous or “sloppy” by adults of that era. Today’s teens are no different. Cropped tops, baggy pants, or gender-fluid clothing might be their way of expressing identity, fitting in, or pushing back on norms. Just like your generation did in its way.

You likely did the same thing to your parents. Played music they didn’t understand, wore something they didn’t approve of, or spoke in slang that made them sigh. And now, you’re on the other side of the equation. It’s a full-circle moment that can feel strange, but it’s also a reminder that this is part of growing up for both of you.

Respect Before Understanding

You don’t have to fully understand everything your teen is interested in, and that’s completely okay. You’re not expected to know every song, slang word, or fashion trend. What really counts is respecting their choices and what those interests mean to them.

For many teens, music, style, and language are ways to express themselves and find a sense of belonging. These interests often go beyond just what’s popular, they help teens explore who they are and connect with others who feel the same way.

Instead of worrying about whether you approve or relate, try approaching these differences with genuine curiosity. Ask questions like, “What do you like about this song?” or “Where did that phrase come from?” Being open to understanding, even if you don’t completely get it, shows that you value their world.

Respecting their interests doesn’t mean you have to agree with everything. It means making room for their growth, even when it looks different from your own experiences. When teens feel accepted rather than judged, they’re more likely to open up and trust you.

Gentle Ways to Stay Involved

When your teen’s music, slang, or fashion feels unfamiliar or even a little uncomfortable, approaching the situation with gentle curiosity rather than frustration can help keep communication open.

You might ask your teen to explain a lyric you don’t understand or teach you a slang word. Saying something like, “I keep hearing this phrase, can you tell me what it means?” or “That song sounds interesting; what’s it about?” shows you’re interested in their world and encourages them to share.

With fashion, try focusing on the confidence behind their choices. Even if their style isn’t exactly what you’d pick, compliment how they wear it. For example, “I like how confident you look in that outfit.”

If you have concerns, like a dress that feels too short, offering gentle suggestions can work better than strict rules. You might say, “I like that dress on you, but I think the green one might suit you even better,” This gives your teen options and helps them make choices without feeling shut down.

By engaging with kindness and offering alternatives instead of criticism, you create space for your teen to feel supported while still making thoughtful decisions.

Bonding Over Interests and Memories

Building a connection with your teen can be as simple as sharing your own world with them. Introducing them to some of your favourite music or movies from when you were their age is a great way to start a conversation and show that you’re open to sharing experiences.

Showing your teenage photos and talking about what you wore or what was popular back then can be a fun way to bond. It helps your teen see that every generation has its own style and challenges fitting in.

Small gestures also make a difference. Learning the words to one of their favourite songs and singing along can make them feel happy and understood, like you’re stepping into their world, even just for a moment. It’s the effort that counts, not perfection.

When your teen shows interest in your favourites, let that moment bring you joy. Sharing interests isn’t just about music or fashion. It’s about creating positive moments and strengthening your relationship.

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10 Best Restaurants in Singapore to Celebrate Father’s Day

Nadya Sharfina · June 7, 2025 · Leave a Comment

“He’s spent a lifetime giving his all—now it’s our turn to give back with a moment that truly matters.”

Father’s Day is just around the corner, and it’s the perfect excuse to show Dad a little extra love. He’s always been working hard, putting in long hours, and doing what he can to give the family a better life, so why not take this chance to give something back with a meaningful, memory-filled meal?

Many restaurants across Singapore are pulling out all the stops with special menus, fun perks, and warm hospitality just for the occasion. If you’re looking for ideas, we’ve rounded up 10 of the best places to celebrate and make his day a little more special.

1. RISE

If you’re planning a Father’s Day celebration with a side of luxury, RISE at Marina Bay Sands is a solid choice. This buffet restaurant brings an impressive spread of classic European and American fare to the table, with standout dishes like Beef Wellington and Kagoshima Pork Rack. The selection is generous and thoughtfully curated, with a premium cheese and charcuterie section, and artisan breads that round out the experience.

The atmosphere at RISE adds something extra to your celebration. Located at Marina Bay Sands, you’ll have the chance to enjoy sweeping views from the SkyPark Observation Deck.

2. Edge

Located at Pan Pacific Singapore, Edge is pulling out all the stops for a hearty Father’s Day feast on 14 and 15 June 2025. Their buffet lineup includes favourites like snow crab legs, Boston lobster, tiger prawns, and smoky baby pork ribs. Don’t miss the garlic butter tiger prawns, they’re rich, juicy, and satisfying.

After you’ve made your rounds at the savoury stations, save room for dessert. There’s a wide variety of sweet treats to end the meal on a high note. Lunch on 14 June is priced at $128++ per adult and $64++ per child (6 and up), while brunch on 15 June goes for $158++ per adult and $79++ per child.

3. 21 on Rajah

Mediterr-Asian Buffet at 21 on Rajah in Aloft Singapore Novena offers a vibrant selection of Thai-inspired dishes that invite you to explore a range of flavours. The relaxed setting is ideal for sharing a meal with family in a comfortable environment.

You’ll find fresh spring rolls with prawn, marinated shrimp wrapped in egg net, and a whole seabass topped with tangy tom yum paste. You’ll also find comforting options like warm lotus and corn chicken soup.

4. RACINES

Racines offers a generous spread of local favourites and fresh seafood. Highlights include Boston lobsters, freshly shucked oysters, and poached prawns to start things off. Live stations bring energy to the meal, serving prawn noodles and satay bee hoon on the spot, along with hearty dishes like pork chop, beef rendang, and crispy fried mantou.

Sweet treats include local favourites like Milo Dinosaur cake, pandan crème brûlée, and traditional potong ice cream. You’ll find Racines at 9 Wallich Street, Level 5. Just a short walk from Tanjong Pagar MRT.

5. Lawry’s The Prime Rib Singapore

Photo by Lawry’s The Prime Rib Singapore

On 14 and 15 June 2025, Lawry’s The Prime Rib Singapore is offering a special 5-course set menu designed for a memorable family meal. Famous for its signature roasts and elegant atmosphere, the experience also includes some nice extras to make the day even better.

Start with the Smoky Harmony, a flavorful starter featuring grilled halloumi cheese, smoked duck, marinated tomatoes, and pea tendrils. The main course offers a choice of the 150g Signature Roasted USDA Prime Rib of Beef or the Heirloom Braised Short Ribs made with Angus beef. Guests who book early get 10% off by 9 June, or 15% off with an American Express Premium Card by 11 June. Every table also receives a $50 return dining voucher and a complimentary digital photo emailed to you. Service begins at 11 am, and the restaurant is located in Mandarin Gallery.

6. Mensho Tokyo Singapore

Now let’s take you to Japanese cuisine with a visit to Mensho Tokyo Singapore, located at Raffles City. If Dad enjoys a bit of spice, the Spicy Toripaitan Ramen is a great pick. For something rich and satisfying, try the dry-style A5 Wagyu Abura Soba.

The Classic Toripaitan is a must-try; it’s inspired by Yatai street carts and features a rich, comforting chicken soup topped with smoky pork chashu, king oyster mushrooms, green onions, and house-made wavy whole wheat noodles. Be sure to order the Enoki Chips too, crispy fried enoki mushrooms served with a lemon wedge and a hint of shichimi for extra crunch and flavour. Wrap up the meal with their hojicha tiramisu, a smooth and earthy dessert that finishes things off nicely. From 6 to 15 June 2025, you can enjoy a complimentary side dish to share when you order any two mains.

7. Bedrock Origin

Bedrock Origin brings a bold, refined take on the classic steakhouse experience, an ideal choice for celebrating Father’s Day with the whole family. The menu features an impressive range of prime beef cuts sourced from the US, Japan, Argentina, and Australia, including selections from small-scale farms.

Highlights include the tomahawk steak, shio koji Australian wagyu, and the Bedrock pepper steak made with Japanese wagyu. For dessert, treat Dad to a decadent Bombe Alaska, classic crème brûlée, or cinnamon churros. You’ll find Bedrock Origin tucked away in Oasia Resort Sentosa.

8. KWEE ZEEN

Photo by Sofitel Singapore Sentosa Resort & Spa

Kwee Zeen at Sofitel Singapore Sentosa Resort & Spa is hosting their SeafoodFest Weekend Buffet Father’s Day Special on 13 and 14 June 2025, available from 6 pm to 10 pm. The buffet features a satisfying mix of Asian and Western favourites like Singapore Laksa with Slipper Lobster, Butter Chicken, wok-fried black mussels, and Spaghetti Aglio Olio with seafood.

End the evening with desserts like their rich Signature Chocolate Royaltine Hazelnut and classic Tiramisu Cake. Prices are $140++ for two adults or $88++ per adult. Kids aged 7 to 12 dine at half price, and those aged 6 and under eat for free.

9. Min Jiang

Tucked inside Goodwood Park Hotel, this Chinese restaurant pairs elegant design with classic Cantonese and Sichuan cooking. The warm lighting, chinoiserie details, and polished service make it a lovely setting for a special meal.

Dishes like Roasted Silver Hill Irish Duck, Double-Boiled Abalone Soup with dried scallops and cordyceps flower, and Crispy Noodles with King Prawn deliver both comfort and craft. Don’t miss the complimentary Mini Black Charcoal Salted Egg Custard Bun.

10. Food Capital

Shucked oysters, snow crab legs, seafood stew, and Josper-grilled Wagyu beef ribeye. Food Capital is rolling out a buffet that covers both fresh seafood and hearty meats. It’s a lineup built for anyone who enjoys variety and generous servings, with plenty to explore across the spread.

The special lunch happens on 15 June 2025, from 12 pm to 3 pm, at Grand Copthorne Waterfront Hotel, 322 Havelock Road. At $128++ per adult and $64++ per child aged 6 and up, it’s a satisfying way to spend a weekend afternoon with the family and good food.

There you go, a round-up of 10 great spots in Singapore to treat Dad to a memorable meal this June. Whether you’re planning a cosy lunch, a lively buffet, or something a little more indulgent, there’s something here to suit every kind of appetite. Just don’t forget to book your seat in advance, these places can fill up fast. Most of all, enjoy the time with family, good food, and great company!

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School’s Out! Family Fun Ideas in Singapore This June 2025

Nadya Sharfina · June 6, 2025 · Leave a Comment

“The June holidays are here! Time to pause, play, and recharge for the term ahead.”

The June holidays are here, and it’s a great time for families to take a break, spend quality time together, and enjoy all the exciting things happening around Singapore. With so many fun events, hands-on activities, and playful experiences popping up across the city, planning your days can be part of the fun too.

To help you make the most of the school holidays, this guide highlights some of the most exciting and family-friendly events happening in June 2025.

i Light Singapore

Planning a magical evening out with the kids this June? i Light Singapore is lighting up Marina Bay with 17 brand-new light art installations by 20 talented artists. As Asia’s leading sustainable light festival, it offers more than just a dazzling display, each piece brings a creative take on sustainability and the environment.

Happening from 29 May to 21 June 2025, i Light Singapore runs daily from 7:30 pm to 11:00 pm. The waterfront area will be transformed into a glowing open-air gallery, perfect for evening strolls and photo ops with the little ones. Don’t forget to wear comfy shoes, you’ll want to explore every corner.

The Balloon Museum / Pop Air

Since its debut in 2021, the Balloon Museum’s global art experience has toured cities worldwide, welcoming over 7 million visitors. Celebrated for its playful and immersive approach to art, the museum has introduced four major exhibitions: Pop Air, Let’s Fly, EmotionAir, and Euphoria. This June, families in Singapore can dive into a world of imagination with Pop Air, the latest edition landing at Marina Bay Sands.

Pop Air runs from 7 June to 31 August 2025 and is open daily. The exhibition features large-scale inflatable installations, interactive artworks, and glowing displays that transform the space into a lively and engaging environment for all ages. Families can explore works by international artists such as Max Streicher, HYPERSTUDIO, Lindsay Glatz & Curious Form, and many more. With ticket prices starting at $35 for children and $45 for adults, this family-friendly outing offers a fun and refreshing way to spend time together during the school holidays.

Shakespeare’s Much Ado About Nothing

Get ready for a lively take on Shakespeare’s Much Ado About Nothing this June, with a unique Singaporean twist that brings the comedy to life in an unexpected setting. Set in post-independence 1960s Singapore, this version of the beloved play blends classic Shakespearean wit with local flair, complete with familiar tunes by The Quests, Rita Chao, Saloma, and more. Expect mistaken identities, cheeky banter, and plenty of playful chaos as characters fall in and out of love in the most entertaining ways.

Running from 12 to 22 June 2025 at the SOTA Studio Theatre, this family-friendly production is rated G and open to children aged six and up. Showtimes are available at 2:30 pm or 7:30 pm. The show runs for about 2 hours and 15 minutes, with tickets priced at $35 for general admission and $15 for children aged 6 to 12. It’s a great introduction to Shakespeare for young audiences, brought to life with local music and a playful twist on a classic tale.

K!DZ POP CON ASIA!

K!DZ POP CON ASIA! is set to bring two full days of high-energy fun to Marina Bay Sands Expo and Convention Centre on 21 and 22 June 2025. Running from 10 am to 8 pm, this event blends learning and play through a vibrant mix of hands-on workshops, creative activities, and interactive games. It’s a lively way for kids to explore new ideas while having a great time, all in one exciting venue.

A big highlight of the event is the kids’ cosplay competition, along with meet-and-greet moments featuring 14 charming Baby Shark characters sure to delight young fans. Tickets range from $8 to $62.

Harry Potter: Visions of Magic

Potterheads won’t want to miss Harry Potter: Visions of Magic, now showing at Resorts World Sentosa until 30 June 2025. This immersive experience takes visitors through 10 unique rooms and environments inspired by the magical universe, each filled with interactive elements, mysterious spaces, and spellbinding surprises. Over about 60 minutes, families can open the Chamber of Secrets, uncover hidden messages, and even try their hand at casting spells.

The experience runs daily from 11 am to 10 pm at Basement 1, Resorts World Sentosa, and is designed to bring out the curiosity and imagination in fans young and old. Tickets start at $39 for children and $49 for adults.

Children’s Festival featuring Lilo & Stitch

Supertree Grove at Gardens by the Bay turns into a tropical playground for the Children’s Festival featuring Lilo & Stitch. From 24 May to 15 June 2025, families can enjoy free-entry activities daily between 10 am and 9 pm. Inspired by the world of Lilo & Stitch, the festival brings a fun island vibe with games, creative play zones, and lively entertainment.

Kids can explore The Great ‘Ohana Wave, bounce around in the Forest of Belonging inflatable playscape, and get hands-on at Stitch’s Mischief Makers with kinetic sand. There’s also Space Adventure, workshops, stage performances, carnival rides, and retail pop-ups to keep the energy going all day long. Don’t miss the special edition of Garden Rhapsody after dark, with the Supertrees lighting up to Disney tunes.

Civic District Children’s Season 2025

Families can discover art, heritage, music, and stories together at Civic District Children’s Season 2025, happening from 30 May to 29 June. This month-long event runs daily from 10 am to 5 pm across five venues: The Arts House at The Old Parliament, Asian Civilisations Museum, Esplanade – Theatres on the Bay, National Gallery Singapore, and Victoria Theatre & Victoria Concert Hall.

Each location offers its mix of engaging activities for kids, from hands-on workshops to storytelling sessions and art experiences. As a fun bonus, children can collect a stamp at every venue they visit, and once they’ve collected three or more, they can redeem an exclusive sticker sheet.

As June comes to a close, we hope this guide has brought a little inspiration to your school holiday plans, filled with fun, discovery, and quality time as a family. There’s still time to enjoy the break, recharge, and make the most of these weeks before the new school term begins. Here’s to ending the holidays on a high note and returning to school refreshed and ready.

Check out more articles: A Playful Visit to the Museum of Ice Cream with Kids, Big Fun: Five Awesome Activities for Kids in SG, and Best Restaurants with Play Areas in Singapore.

Get Crafty! 12 Artisanal Workshops in Singapore Worth Trying

Nadya Sharfina · May 29, 2025 · Leave a Comment

“When stress builds up and life feels repetitive, slowing down to make something with your hands can be the most creative kind of therapy.”

Feeling a little stressed or stuck in the usual routine? Sometimes the best way to recharge is by picking up something with your hands and letting your mind wander creatively. Artisanal workshops are a hands-on way to explore new interests or dive deeper into hobbies you’ve always wanted to try. With so many options around Singapore, there’s plenty to discover.

This list of 12 artisanal workshops highlights experiences where you can learn a skill, craft something with your own hands, and enjoy the process along the way. Many of these sessions are open to adults, and some also welcome kids, so it can be a solo adventure or a fun activity to share.

1. Taoz Ceramics Studio

Tucked inside Orchard Gateway, Taoz Ceramics Studio is a lovely spot for families who want to try their hand at ceramics. With a range of pottery classes for all skill levels, everyone gets a chance to shape and paint something that’s truly their own.

The studio also has pottery painting sessions and trial lessons, so you can easily drop in and see what it’s all about. They even run team bonding activities, which are a great way for families or groups to connect through something creative. The space feels warm and welcoming, making it easy to settle in and enjoy the experience at your own pace.

2. Studio MU / YU

Studio MU / YU invites you into the calming and creative world of woodworking. In this three-hour workshop, you’ll get to work with traditional hand tools, learning through clear and engaging demonstrations that make the process approachable, even if it’s your first time.

During the session, you’ll design and cut your jewellery template, turning your ideas into something you can hold and take home. You’ll find the studio on Level 3 at 91B Lavender Street.

3. Crafune

If you’ve ever wanted to make your own leather accessories like a bag, coin pouch, keychain, wallet, card sleeve, or cardholder, Crafune in New Bahru is a great place to start. Their leather accessories workshop teaches you the basics of leather crafting.

You’ll get to pick from a variety of leather colours and add a personal touch with hot stamping. The workshop encourages creativity and gives you the chance to design something you can use every day or share as a thoughtful gift.

4. Perfumeplay

Located at 23 Bali Lane, Perfumeplay offers a delightful experience in the art of scent-making. The workshop introduces participants to the fascinating history of perfumery and the natural ingredients that create different fragrances. With a wide selection of essential oils and scents, everyone has the chance to explore and experiment, crafting a fragrance that feels personal.

Each participant gets their interactive workstation, complete with everything needed to blend a custom perfume or candle. It’s a lovely way to spend time being creative, and you’ll leave with a beautifully crafted keepsake or a thoughtful gift to pass along.

5. Anna Craft

Anna Craft’s Tufting Workshop is a fantastic spot for anyone interested in creating unique textile pieces. You can customise your tufting projects into rugs, mirrors, pillows, or a variety of bags, letting your creativity run free with over 60 yarn colours to choose from.

The studio at Pioneer Junction is cosy yet roomy, designed to comfortably fit up to 45 people. It’s a relaxed, welcoming place to spend a few hours getting creative. They’re open daily from 12:00 to 20:00, so it’s easy to find a time that works for you.

6. The Plant Story

Tucked away in the peaceful surroundings of Seletar Aerospace Park, this nature-based workshop space invites you to slow down and reconnect with the natural world. Through Nature Therapy sessions, you’ll take part in activities that engage the body, mind, and soul. All in a private, green setting that feels far removed from the usual pace of city life.

Participants can create their eco-sanctuary by building a miniature garden. There are several styles to choose from, including the Rainforest Garden (also known as a terrarium), Desert Garden, Air Garden, and Water Garden.

7. Tombalek

This spot is one of Singapore’s most unique and exciting creative spaces. Known as the Singapore Open Workshop, it’s where you can dive into hands-on crafts like woodworking, metalworking, and even glassblowing. If you’re curious about making a knife or designing a cheeseboard, there’s always something interesting to try here.

They also run furniture-making classes where you can build things like short stools, dining chairs, mini benches, or shoe benches. Tombalek workshop is located in the Monde Collection.

8. The Cozy Cabin

Get creative with glass decal art by decorating your own wine glass, cereal cup, or juice cup with playful and stylish designs. It’s a fun and relaxed way to explore colours, shapes, and patterns while making something uniquely yours.

Located at 35 Kallang Pudding Road, Tower A, #08-07 in the Tong Lee Building, this studio welcomes anyone aged 8 and up. Kids between 8 and 12 will need to be accompanied by a paying adult, making it a great chance for some creative family time.

9. Wildflower Studio

Cat lovers, this one’s definitely worth checking out. Wildflower Studio brings together creativity and calm with their unique Art Jamming with Cats experience, set in the cosy Enabling Village. The studio works closely with rescue cats through a fostering program that focuses on rehabilitation and finding them new homes.

You can pick a 2.5-hour semi-guided session or a 1-hour unguided one, depending on how you want to spend your time. You might spend the time painting at your own pace or simply chilling with the cats. It’s a relaxed way to enjoy some quality time with furry friends in a space that values kindness and respect between humans and animals.

10. The Sundowner

Now, let’s step into nature. Nestled near Siglap Centre at Pay2Home MTM – 7-Eleven East Coast Road, The Sundowner is a nature experience centre packed with fun activities for families. You’ll get up close with bees, ants, and earthworms during their Farm Encounters.

There’s plenty to get creative with, too, like paper marbling, terrarium building, beeswax candle making, and crafting a Mini Zen Garden or Mini Treehouse. Feeling hungry? You can brew your own coffee, mix a cocktail, or get hands-on with a handmade pasta lunch or pizza dinner, all using fresh herbs grown right on-site. With so much to explore, The Sundowner is a refreshing mix of nature, food, and craft.

11. Yixing Xuan Teahouse

Located at 78 Tanjong Pagar Road, Yixing Xuan Teahouse welcomes you to experience the calming tradition of Chinese tea making. In this one-hour workshop, you’ll dive into the rich heritage of tea culture. Learning to identify different types like White, Green, Flower, and Oolong teas, discovering classic brewing techniques, and hearing stories that link tea to Chinese art, health, and everyday life.

The session is designed for small groups, with a minimum of 2 and a maximum of 25 participants. If you’re unable to visit in person, they also have a virtual workshop option, where all the materials are delivered right to your doorstep.

12. Soap Ministry

At Soap Ministry, crafting your own skincare products is both fun and informative. The workshops focus on natural, eco-friendly ingredients like plant-based oils, ideal for anyone curious about what goes into their soap or bath bomb. Classes include Melt & Pour Soap-Making, bath bomb creation, and skincare basics, and they’re suitable for all ages.

Everything you create smells great and is gentle on the skin. Over time, using organic soap with nourishing ingredients can really improve how your skin feels. You’ll find Soap Ministry at 277 Orchard Road, Gateway, #03-04 Orchard.

Here’s the full list of 20 artisanal workshops that invite you to tap into your creative side. Regardless of age or experience, there’s always something new to explore. These sessions are a great way to slow down, try something different, and walk away with something you’ve made yourself. So go ahead, sign up for a class, bring your family and friends, and enjoy the process of creating together.

Check out more in our article on creative activities with kids: 5 Exciting DIY Projects for Children to Create at Home.

Romeo & Juliet: What Shakespeare Tried to Tell Us About Teenage Romance

Nadya Sharfina · February 13, 2025 · Leave a Comment

"Teen love may feel new, but Romeo and Juliet remind us it’s been the same for centuries—passionate, heartbreaking, and unforgettable."

If you’re the parent of a teenager, you’ve likely witnessed the intensity of young love firsthand. Whether it’s a first crush or a budding relationship, it can be both exciting and overwhelming to watch. While teen romance might seem like a modern experience, Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet reminds us that the highs and lows of young love—passion, heartbreak, and everything in between—have remained unchanged for centuries. Today’s teens still relate to the themes of love, loss, and the emotional whirlwind that comes with it, just as Romeo and Juliet did long ago.

Impulsiveness in Romance

Romeo meets Juliet at a grand ball, and the moment their eyes meet, nothing else seems to matter. Within minutes, they’re swept up in a whirlwind of emotions, declaring their love, and just a few days later, they’re secretly married. It’s passionate, dramatic, and entirely impulsive. Shakespeare gives us one of the most iconic love stories of all time, but let’s be honest—could something like this really happen in real life?

While most teens may not be running off to secretly marry someone they just met, they often experience love with the same intensity and urgency. Impulsiveness is a natural part of growing up, and while it can lead to exciting experiences, it can also bring challenges. That’s why it’s important for parents to recognise these strong emotions and help guide teens to slow down and make thoughtful decisions.

In today’s world, impulsive young love plays out in different ways. A teen might meet someone online, feel an instant connection, and want to meet in person without fully considering the risks. Or they might get caught up in the thrill of a relationship and make big commitments—like making drastic life choices based on emotions in the moment. Social media also intensifies this, with public declarations of love, dramatic breakups, and instant rebounds playing out for everyone to see.

When emotions take the lead without pausing to think things through, things can go awry. Rushing into a relationship, making promises too quickly, or acting without considering the consequences are common pitfalls. It’s not that teens shouldn’t experience love fully, but they often need gentle reminders to take a step back and reflect before making big choices. Love can be exhilarating, but helping teens balance passion with reason can prevent regrets down the line.

Parental Influence

Juliet’s parents, especially her father, Lord Capulet, seem more focused on controlling her future rather than supporting her personal passions or interests. Instead of considering what she truly wants, they make decisions for her, pushing her toward marriage with Paris without regard for her feelings. This lack of understanding only drives Juliet further away, leading to desperate choices.

As parents, it’s crucial to build a strong, open relationship with your teen. When you’re connected, they’re more likely to turn to you for guidance. Without that connection, they may make decisions without considering your input. Teens naturally crave independence, but they also need to feel supported and understood. If they sense that their thoughts and emotions don’t matter, they may rebel or seek validation elsewhere—sometimes in ways that aren’t safe or healthy. Check out: Should Parents Be Concerned About Teen Dating?

A teen who feels unheard at home might keep secrets about their relationships, avoid sharing their struggles, or even make impulsive decisions just to assert their independence. But when parents foster open communication, teens are more likely to seek advice and make thoughtful choices. Instead of just giving advice, truly listening to them can help prevent misunderstandings and offer the support they need to handle tough emotions.

One of the biggest lessons Romeo and Juliet teaches us is that rigid control and lack of communication can push teens toward risky decisions. Allowing them to express themselves and showing that you respect their feelings creates a foundation of trust, empowering them to make better choices. After all, every teen wants to be heard—sometimes, they just need a little space and encouragement to open up.

Heartbreak and Infatuation

At the start of Romeo and Juliet, Romeo is completely heartbroken—not over Juliet, but over another girl, Rosaline. He believes she’s the love of his life and that he’ll never recover from his sorrow. But the moment he meets Juliet, all thoughts of Rosaline vanish. Suddenly, he’s in love again, swept up by the excitement of new emotions. His quick shift from despair to devotion shows just how intense—and fleeting—teenage love can be.

This highlights how young love, while powerful and all-consuming in the moment, often lacks the stability and depth of more mature relationships. Teens experience emotions in extremes, swinging between heartbreak and euphoria in a way that feels overwhelming and entirely real to them. While adults may recognize these feelings as temporary, it’s important to acknowledge that, to a teen, they are deeply significant.

Heartbreak can be especially tough at this stage. A teen experiencing their first breakup may feel like their world is crumbling, much like Romeo does when Rosaline rejects him. Parents can help by validating their emotions. Simply reminding them that heartbreak is painful but temporary can go a long way in helping them process their feelings in a healthy way.

At the same time, it’s important to help teens recognize the difference between short-lived infatuation and deeper, lasting love. They may fall hard and fast, just like Romeo and Juliet, but love isn’t just about intensity—it’s about trust, understanding, and patience.

What Was Shakespeare Trying to Say?

Was Shakespeare celebrating young love, or was he warning us about its dangers? The answer is probably both. Romeo and Juliet’s passion is undeniable, and their devotion to each other is deeply moving. Shakespeare captures the magic of young romance—the excitement, the urgency, and the belief that nothing else in the world matters.

At the same time, he doesn’t ignore the risks. In just a few days, their whirlwind romance leads to secrecy, conflict, and ultimately, tragedy. Their love burns bright, but without patience, guidance, or the space to grow, it becomes destructive. Shakespeare reminds us that while young love is real and powerful, it can also be impulsive and short-sighted, leading to choices made in the heat of the moment rather than with long-term understanding.

This is an important takeaway for parents. Teens experience love with intensity and urgency, but they also need time and perspective to make thoughtful choices. Rather than dismissing their emotions as “just a phase,” offering guidance and support can help them navigate relationships in a healthy and balanced way. Open conversations about love, respect, and emotional maturity can make a huge difference in how teens approach romance.

Ultimately, Romeo and Juliet isn’t just a tragic love story—it’s a lesson in the power and pitfalls of young emotions. Shakespeare doesn’t tell us to fear teenage love, but he does show us why it needs wisdom and patience to truly flourish.

Dig Deeper into Romeo and Juliet

Want to help your teen truly connect with Romeo and Juliet and master English Literature? Our Romeo & Juliet Study Guide: Passage-Based Exam Practice Papers is designed to make Shakespeare’s timeless tragedy more accessible and meaningful. Instead of just memorizing quotes, this workbook encourages deeper thinking, helping teens uncover the emotions, conflicts, and literary brilliance behind the play.

Each practice paper is carefully crafted to guide students through Shakespeare’s language, literary devices, and dramatic techniques. By working through key passages, your teen will sharpen their analytical skills, build confidence, and develop a stronger appreciation for the play’s themes and characters. Plus, with detailed explanations and answers, they’ll gain valuable insights that make studying easier and more effective.

If your teen is preparing for exams or looking to deepen their knowledge of classic literature, this guide will help them develop the skills needed to excel in English Literature.

Order now on Amazon to help them unlock a deeper understanding of one of the greatest love stories ever written. You can also check out our Free Resources for additional study materials on Romeo and Juliet!

For even more guidance, Curio offers online tuition in English Language, English Literature and General Paper. We cover O-Level, A-Level, and the upcoming Singapore-Cambridge Secondary Education Certificate (SEC) in 2027, as well as English, Literature or Language Arts subjects in the Integrated Programme (IP).

Your Guide to Chinese New Year Shopping in Singapore

Nadya Sharfina · January 10, 2025 · Leave a Comment

"Embrace the spirit of Chinese New Year with rich traditions, family gatherings, and festive shopping delights across Singapore."

It’s time to gear up for one of the most exciting festivals—Chinese New Year. This joyous occasion, filled with family reunions, delicious feasts, and rich traditions, is a major highlight of the year for many families across the island.

During this festive season, Singapore comes alive with vibrant colours, beautiful decorations, and a buzz of activity. Shopping plays a big part in the preparations—finding the perfect new outfit, picking up gifts for loved ones, or stocking up on festive goodies to welcome the Year of the Dragon.

If you’re wondering where to start, don’t worry! We’ve rounded up some of the best spots in Singapore for all your Chinese New Year shopping needs.

Yue Hwa Chinese Products

Located at 70 Eu Tong Sen Street, Singapore 059805, Yue Hwa Chinese Products is a must-visit destination for anyone gearing up for Chinese New Year in Chinatown. Open every day from 11 AM to 9 PM, this iconic store is a treasure trove of traditional and modern Chinese goods, offering a seamless blend of culture and convenience.

Step inside, and you’ll find a variety of items to cater to every need. Yue Hwa offers a comprehensive range of traditional Chinese health and wellness products, including herbs for skin and hair care, as well as remedies for muscles, the heart, metabolism, liver, and kidneys.

Whether you’re after beauty essentials or natural health solutions, there’s plenty to choose from.

Yue Hwa offers a great selection of household goods and digital accessories for those looking to enhance their home and lifestyle. You’ll find everything from home essentials to the latest tech, making it the perfect place to discover items that bring both function and style to your space.

Art lovers and culture enthusiasts will appreciate the selection of calligraphy tools, paintings, and other traditional Chinese artworks. These items make for distinctive decorative pieces or meaningful gifts during the festive season. The store truly brings the richness of Chinese culture into your shopping experience.

If visiting the Chinatown location isn’t convenient, Yue Hwa also has outlets at Serangoon Nex and Jurong Point.

Chinatown Complex

Chinatown Complex is one of the largest and most modern shopping spots in Singapore’s Chinatown. This straightforward marketplace offers a wide variety of retailers, making it a great place to find everything from everyday essentials to special items for your Chinese New Year celebrations.

The complex features a popular wet market, known for its fresh food products. You can find vegetables, seafood, meats and herbs. The food court also offers an impressive selection of street food from various vendors.

What makes Chinatown Complex especially appealing is its affordable prices, making it a popular choice for both locals and tourists. You’ll find plenty to suit your needs without exceeding your budget.

The complex is located at 335 Smith St, Singapore 050335, and is open daily from 7 AM to 10 PM.

The Jomu Co

If you’re looking for something unique to gift this Chinese New Year, The Jomu Co is a fantastic choice. This self-taught calligrapher offers beautifully crafted products that make for meaningful presents or stunning home decorations.

Their standout offering, Abundance: Chinese New Year Collection, is designed to fill your home with warmth, grace, and blessings as you step into the new year. The collection is ideal for adding a touch of elegance to your space or sharing thoughtful gifts with loved ones.

Located in the Hudson Industrial Building, The Jomu Co is open daily from 12 PM to 9 PM, except on Sundays. If you can’t make it to their store, you can conveniently browse and shop their collection online.

OG People’s Park

OG People’s Park is a well-known department store in the heart of Chinatown. Each floor of the store caters to different shopping preferences.

Basement 1 is dedicated to men’s clothing, offering everything from casual wear to formal attire. Level 1 features a selection of cosmetics and watches, perfect for those looking to refresh their beauty routine or add a new accessory to their collection.

On Level 2, you’ll find a variety of women’s clothing and fashion jewellery, offering trendy options for the festive season. Level 3 focuses on beauty and toiletries, providing a wide range of products to help you look your best for the new year.

For families, Level 4 offers a selection of items for babies and kids, along with stationery and toys. Level 5 is dedicated to travel goods, ideal for anyone planning trips in the year ahead.

Located at 100 Upper Cross Street, Singapore 058360, OG People’s Park is easily accessible via Chinatown MRT Station (NE4 & DT19), just a minute’s walk from Exit C. The store is open daily from 11:00 AM to 8:30 PM.

Shevron

If you’re looking to elevate your Chinese New Year celebrations with luxurious decorations, Shevron is a fantastic option. Known for its exquisite craftsmanship, Shevron offers a range of Luxury Lunar New Year Decorations that bring a touch of sophistication to your home or gifts.

Their collection includes stunning Pure Gold Thread Embroidered Framed Art and Embroidery Framed Art, showcasing intricate designs crafted by talented Singaporean artists and Chinese calligraphers. These unique pieces add elegance and cultural charm to any setting, making them perfect for the festive season.

For added convenience, you can shop their collection online. Visit their website for more details, and you might even enjoy free shipping on your order.

Tanjong Pagar Plaza

Pressed for time with last-minute shopping for Chinese New Year? Don’t worry—Tanjong Pagar Plaza Shopping Mall has you covered, as it’s open 24 hours a day, making it the perfect spot for late-night or early-morning shopping.

Located at #1 Tanjong Pagar Plaza, Singapore 082001, this mall has been a beloved destination for traditional retail shopping for many years. With around 130 shops, it’s home to a variety of outlets offering unique handicrafts and artisan items, making it an excellent place to pick up traditional Chinese products and gifts.

In addition to shopping, Tanjong Pagar Plaza is a great spot to take a break and enjoy a meal. The mall is surrounded by numerous restaurants serving a variety of delicious dishes, including favourites like curry fish and Hainanese chicken rice.

Check out also: Explore the Significance of Chinese New Year Symbols.

Smart Packing Tips for Traveling with Kids

Nadya Sharfina · December 16, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"With a few thoughtful strategies, packing for a trip with kids can be simple, organised, and stress-free."

Travelling with kids can be fun, but it comes with its fair share of challenges—especially when it comes to packing. The key is to strike a balance between being prepared for the unexpected and packing light enough to avoid unnecessary stress.

With a few smart strategies and essential packing tips, you can keep your trip running smoothly. This guide will walk you through how to make packing easier and help you stay ready for whatever comes your way.

Have a List

Starting with a list can greatly simplify the packing process. Before you begin tossing items into suitcases, take a moment to write down everything you’ll need. A well-thought-out list helps keep you organised and ensures you don’t forget essential items. Including your kids in the planning can also make packing easier. Ask them what they’d like to bring, such as their favourite toys, books, or snacks.

As you pack, cross-check the items against your list to avoid doubling up or missing anything. Sometimes, you might already have some items tucked into your luggage or travel bags from previous trips, so double-check before adding duplicates. Taking the time to follow a list ensures that nothing important gets left behind, saving you from last-minute stress when you’re on the road or at the airport.

Check on Your Luggage Weight Allowance

Understanding your luggage weight allowance is a critical part of packing for a trip. Before you start, double-check the baggage policy for each stage of your journey. Different airlines often have varying weight limits, especially if you’re taking multiple flights. Ensuring you’re clear on these details ahead of time can save you from stress later on.

If you don’t stay within your baggage allowance and find yourself overweight at the airport, you may be forced to unpack and remove items on the spot. This can be an inconvenient and frustrating situation, particularly when travelling with children. To avoid this, take time to weigh your luggage before leaving for the airport and adjust as needed.

To confirm your luggage allowance, check the airline’s website or contact their customer service team directly. This extra step ensures you have accurate information and can pack appropriately. By preparing in advance, you can prevent unnecessary surprises and focus on enjoying your trip with your family.

Understanding Your Travel Needs

When packing for a trip, it’s essential to focus on what’s necessary rather than trying to bring everything. Take a moment to think practically about what your children will actually need, rather than packing for every possible scenario.

For example, if you’re travelling for ten days, does each child really need ten pairs of socks? Socks are small and easy to wash, so why not pack just four or five pairs instead? Similarly, if your trip includes a beach day and your kids will be wearing sandals, they won’t wear socks every day. By planning ahead and considering the specifics of your trip, you can reduce the number of items you bring without sacrificing comfort or convenience.

Clothing, in general, is a good place to cut back. Many parents tend to overpack “just in case,” but this can lead to bulky, heavy luggage that’s difficult to manage. Prioritise versatile, easy-to-clean outfits that can be mixed and matched throughout the trip. Being mindful of what you pack will save you time and space.

Bring Medications and First Aid

It’s always wise to prepare for the unexpected. Having the right medications and a well-stocked first aid kit can save you from minor illnesses or injuries.

Start by packing essentials like vitamins, band-aids, painkillers, wet wipes, and sun cream. These basics can cover everything from small scrapes to sun protection and general hygiene. If you’re travelling from a tropical country to a colder destination, it’s especially important to prepare for conditions your family may not be used to. For instance, pack paracetamol or similar medication in case your kids catch a cold or flu due to the temperature change.

If your children have specific medical needs, don’t forget to bring their essential medications. For example, if they have allergies or asthma, pack items like antihistamines or an inhaler. It’s always better to have these on hand rather than risk being caught unprepared in an unfamiliar location.

Bring Entertainment

Long trips, such as anything over a 6-hour flight, can be daunting for kids who may not be accustomed to long periods of sitting still. Start by explaining to your kids that the flight will be long, and they might feel bored at times. This conversation helps set realistic expectations and teaches them how to handle waiting without becoming restless. Preparing them mentally for the experience can go a long way in making the trip smoother.

To keep them engaged during the flight, pack a variety of entertainment options. Devices like a Game Boy, iPad, or tablet loaded with their favourite games, movies, or shows can provide hours of distraction. If your kids enjoy reading, consider bringing a few books, as well as drawing supplies or simple puzzles to keep their interest. Offering a range of activities allows them to switch things up and stay entertained if they start to lose interest in one thing.

These activities help keep your kids busy and can prevent boredom-related tantrums or crying, which can be disruptive to other passengers. Ensuring your children are entertained will make for a more peaceful flight and a better experience for everyone on board.

Don’t Leave Things Until the Last Minute

It’s all too easy to leave packing until the last minute, but this habit can lead to chaos. To avoid this, aim to start packing at least two weeks before your trip. Starting early gives you plenty of time to organise and ensure nothing important is overlooked.

If you’re working or have a busy schedule, try packing a little bit at a time. Set aside a few moments each day to gather items and gradually check things off your list. This way, you won’t feel rushed or overwhelmed as your departure date approaches.

Leaving packing until the last moment can leave you feeling flustered, and it increases the chances of forgetting something important. This can lead to unnecessary inconvenience once you’re on your trip.

As you finish packing for your trip, don’t forget to make some space in your suitcase for the return journey. Consider bringing an extra bag that you can fold up and pack in your suitcase. This will come in handy for carrying additional items, whether they’re souvenirs, extra clothes, or anything else you pick up along the way.

Check out: Best Kid-Friendly Travel Destinations for December Holidays

Are You a Helicopter Parent or a Free-Range Parent?

Nadya Sharfina · December 12, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"There's no universal playbook for parenting—just what works best for your family."

Parenting is never one-size-fits-all because every child is different. What works for one family might not suit another, which is why understanding parenting styles is important.

Beyond popular parenting terms like “tiger parents” or “elephant parents” there are two distinct styles often discussed: helicopter parenting and free-range parenting. Helicopter parents are highly involved, often stepping in to solve problems or prevent mistakes, while free-range parents encourage independence and allow their kids to navigate the world with less supervision.

Though these methods are opposites, both methods focus on helping children grow into confident and capable individuals. But how do you decide which approach—or combination—works best for you? Read on to find out.

1. Helicopter Parenting Signs

Feelings of Anxiety
Many parents feel anxious due to worries about the economy, job market, or general safety of the world. These concerns can lead parents to become more involved in their child’s life, wanting to protect them from potential harm or disappointment. This increased anxiety can result in a more controlling approach as parents try to create a secure environment for their children.

The desire to shield children from every possible challenge comes from a place of care, but it often leads to parents being overly involved in their child’s daily life. This level of concern can cause parents to oversee activities and decisions that the child could manage on their own.

Helping Your Child in Social Interactions
Helicopter parents often step in to manage their child’s social problems, such as conflicts with peers, teachers, or other authority figures. This involvement can include speaking directly to the adults involved or finding solutions to disputes on the child’s behalf. Parents may feel that dealing with these issues themselves is the best way to support their child’s well-being and success in social situations.

Organising Everything
Helicopter parents often take control of tasks that children could manage on their own, like organising their rooms, folding their clothes, or even completing school assignments. This behaviour usually comes from a desire to keep everything orderly and ensure things run smoothly. Some parents may go even further by contacting teachers to request better grades or even completing assignments for their children to meet deadlines.

Compensating for Past Experiences
Parents who felt neglected, unloved, or unsupported during their own childhoods may overcompensate by being highly attentive and involved with their children. This approach is often driven by a desire to provide what they missed out on during their own upbringing. It can show up as excessive monitoring, over-scheduling activities, or being constantly available to ensure their child is comfortable and happy.

While the motivation behind overcompensation is rooted in wanting to make up for past experiences, it can lead to a more involved and controlling parenting style. This often means parents feel the need to be present at all times and manage even the smallest aspects of their child’s life to prevent any negative outcomes.

Comparisons with Other Parents’ Approaches
Parents can be influenced by the actions of others, especially when they notice other parents being highly involved in their children’s lives. Seeing other parents’ constant attention and control can create pressure to match their level of involvement.

The desire to fit in or not be perceived as less committed can push parents to adopt what they view as a more involved approach. This pressure can shift a parent’s natural instincts towards helicopter parenting, leading them to take on more responsibility in their child’s life than they might otherwise choose.

2. Free-Range Parenting Signs

Giving Children Space to Explore
Free-range parents often give their children the chance to explore independently, whether it’s walking to school, playing in the neighbourhood, or spending time at a park with friends. The goal is to help children build confidence and learn to navigate their surroundings on their own.

These moments are seen as crucial for a child’s development, allowing them to gain the skills needed to deal with real-life situations as they grow. Free-range parents believe that true independence is cultivated through experiences that don’t come with constant parental oversight.

Building Practical Skills

A key aspect of free-range parenting is giving children the freedom to make their own choices, even when those choices don’t lead to ideal outcomes. This could include decisions such as choosing their own school projects, deciding what activities to participate in after school, or choosing which sport or hobby to pursue. By allowing these small choices, children learn to take ownership of their preferences and actions.

When parents make every decision for their child, it can lead to dependency on parental guidance. Free-range parenting encourages children to trust their own judgment, which builds confidence and helps them develop the skills needed to manage more significant decisions as they grow.

Allowing Children to Make Their Own Decisions
A key aspect of free-range parenting is giving children the freedom to make their own choices, even when those choices don’t lead to ideal outcomes. This could include decisions such as choosing their own school projects, deciding what activities to participate in after school, or choosing which sport or hobby to pursue. By allowing these small choices, children learn to take ownership of their preferences and actions.

Encouraging Unstructured Playtime
Children often have packed schedules filled with organised activities, leaving little time for free play. Free-range parents make an effort to give their children time to play without any set plans. This unstructured time lets kids choose how they want to play, encouraging independent thinking and creativity.

Free-range parents know that play is more than just fun—it’s essential for healthy development. Through unstructured play, children learn to solve problems, build social skills, and use their imaginations in ways that organised activities can’t always provide. This helps them grow self-confidence and a genuine sense of curiosity.

Letting Children Experience Failure
Free-range parenting values the importance of allowing children to make mistakes and learn from them. This approach recognises that real growth and learning often come from experiencing failure firsthand. When children have the freedom to make their own decisions and face the results, they build resilience and essential problem-solving skills.

Making mistakes helps children develop confidence in their ability to handle challenges. Free-range parents view these mistakes as valuable learning opportunities that help kids adapt, learn, and improve.

3. Pros and Cons of each Parenting Style

Helicopter Parenting Pros and Cons

Helicopter parenting has its advantages, particularly when it comes to addressing challenges children might face. These parents are highly involved and attentive, often stepping in to resolve issues before they escalate. This level of involvement can be beneficial for children who need extra help or reassurance, creating a sense of security that their parents are always there to support them. The prompt action taken by helicopter parents ensures potential issues are dealt with straight away, fostering an environment where children feel cared for and nurtured.

The commitment helicopter parents show can create a structured and supportive environment. They often take a proactive approach, making plans to help their children succeed, especially when academic or personal issues arise. This approach can help children feel confident in their ability to face challenges, knowing their parents are there to help them through difficult times. Such a strong support system can be reassuring and contribute positively to a child’s growth and development.

However, helicopter parenting can also have notable downsides. When parents over-impose their authority and intervene too often, children may feel as though they have little control over their own lives. Constant oversight can prevent them from developing the independence and confidence needed to solve problems on their own. The high expectations helicopter parents often set can lead to anxiety and self-criticism. Children pushed to meet strict standards may become overly focused on avoiding mistakes, fearing they will disappoint their parents. This can hinder their ability to build resilience and may impact their long-term emotional well-being.

Free-Range Parenting Pros and Cons

A major benefit of free-range parenting is that it encourages children to develop strong problem-solving skills. When parents step back and let their children face challenges on their own, kids gain valuable experience in overcoming obstacles and finding solutions. This helps them build a sense of mastery and self-reliance, boosting their confidence in their ability to handle future difficulties. Instead of waiting for an adult to intervene, children learn to assess situations, think critically, and come up with strategies to manage problems independently.

Another advantage is that free-range parenting allows children to explore the world without constant supervision, fostering confidence and autonomy. This independence helps children trust their own abilities and develop resilience. By making their own decisions, they learn to express their opinions and form a stronger sense of self.

Free-range parenting does come with challenges. One key concern is that unsupervised time can lead to increased risks, as children may encounter situations where they could get hurt or make poor choices. Although parents may see these moments as important learning opportunities, the potential for harm can be hard to accept. Additionally, free-range parents may face criticism from others who view their approach as too permissive or risky. This external judgment can create pressure and make parents question their choices. Despite these challenges, many free-range parents remain committed to nurturing independence and confidence, believing the long-term benefits outweigh the potential drawbacks.

Parents always want to give their children the best start in life, supporting and guiding them as they grow. However, in trying to protect them from negative emotions and experiences, parents can sometimes forget to prepare them for life’s challenges. The key is to adapt your parenting style to suit your child’s needs, as different situations may need different approaches. There’s no need to stick to one method only; combining elements from different styles can help children learn resilience and independence while still feeling supported and safe.

Check out our article: Are You a Tiger Parent or an Elephant Parent?

Are You a Tiger Parent or an Elephant Parent?

Nadya Sharfina · November 18, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"Parenting is a journey of knowing when to push and when to protect, always with love in mind."

When it comes to parenting styles, two distinct approaches often emerge: tiger parenting and elephant parenting. Tiger parenting is about being strict, enforcing discipline, and pushing for success. In contrast, elephant parenting leans toward a more nurturing and protective style. They prioritise open communication and understanding, helping kids feel secure in expressing their thoughts and feelings.

But what are the other signs that define these styles? What kind of parent are you? What is the best parenting style for your family? Finding the right approach may involve blending elements from both styles to meet your child’s needs.

1. Tiger Parenting Signs

Chasing Perfection

Tiger parents often hold their children to extremely high standards, where nothing less than perfection is acceptable. If a child comes home with a B on a test, it’s seen as a disappointment rather than an accomplishment. Even if the child has done their best, tiger parents believe they can still push harder and achieve more. They are convinced their child has more potential that just needs to be unlocked through continuous effort. This pursuit of perfection isn’t limited to academics. Whether it’s excelling in sports like football or mastering a musical instrument like the piano, tiger parents expect their children to be at the top of their game in every area. Settling for less is not an option, and the pressure to achieve perfection can be constant.

Rules Are a Must
In a tiger parent’s household, rules are strict and non-negotiable. These rules are created to maintain discipline and ensure the child stays on the path to success. From completing homework on time to sticking to a specific bedtime, numerous guidelines govern a child’s daily life. Tiger parents make sure their children understand that rules are meant to be followed, not broken. If a rule is violated, consequences follow swiftly and firmly. This reinforces the belief that discipline and respect for rules are essential for success in life, and any deviation from them could lead to undesirable outcomes.

You Set the Priorities
In tiger parenting, parents typically take full control over what’s important in their child’s life. Believing they know what’s best, they set the path and expectations for their children, laying out clear guidelines and determining the priorities to follow. Tiger parents often dictate career aspirations, effectively mapping out their child’s future. The pressure is on for children to meet these ambitions, often requiring them to pursue the dreams their parents envision rather than their own. In this dynamic, a child’s personal preferences and passions often take a backseat, as the parents’ decisions guide the trajectory of their future.

Every Move Counts
Parents who adopt this style are intensely engaged in nearly every facet of their child’s life, including social interactions. Nothing escapes their attention. For example, instead of allowing their child to hang out with friends after school, they’ll ensure homework is completed and extracurricular activities are prioritised. In some cases, they may even control which friends their child is allowed to spend time with, believing that surrounding them with the “right” influences will lead to better outcomes. There’s little room for laziness in this environment; productivity is key. Tiger parents consistently guide their children on what to do and how to do it, reinforcing the idea that every move counts toward achieving their goals.

Success Is Key
Success is the ultimate goal for tiger parents. They emphasise to their children the importance of being successful in every endeavour. Failure is not seen as the end, but rather as a stepping stone to try harder and push further. If their child fails at something, tiger parents will encourage, or sometimes even demand, that they try again until they succeed. The mindset is that giving up is never an option, and there’s always room for improvement. This constant push for more can help children strive for excellence, but it also means there’s little time for rest or complacency. The pressure to continuously achieve and reach new heights is ever-present in a tiger parent’s household.

2. Elephant Parenting Signs

Give Emotional Support
Elephant parents possess nurturing qualities that focus on creating a supportive environment for their children. They prioritise emotional well-being and strive to build a safe space where kids can express their feelings openly. For instance, if a child comes home upset about receiving bad grades, the elephant parent is the first to step in to cheer them up. Rather than responding with criticism, they listen attentively, validate their child’s feelings, and provide words of encouragement. By boosting their child’s confidence and reassuring them that improvement is possible, they emphasise the belief that with effort and perseverance, achieving excellent scores is within reach.

Navigating Together
These parents do not believe in making every decision or taking every action on behalf of their child. Instead, they prioritise communication and foster a collaborative decision-making process. They ask their children about their interests, desires, and feelings regarding various activities. By doing so, they empower their children to take ownership of their choices and consider their happiness and satisfaction in each decision. This approach encourages self-reflection and helps children develop critical thinking skills, as they learn to weigh options and make informed choices.

Make a Comfortable Environment
A key aspect of this parenting style is the effort to create a comfortable space where children feel at ease asking for help or discussing their challenges. By understanding the importance of building trust and rapport, parents ensure that kids know they can come to them without fear of judgement. Unlike tiger parenting styles, elephant parents teach independence differently by allowing their kids to develop at their own pace. They recognise that each child is unique and may need varying levels of support. When their children face obstacles, elephant parents remain ready to offer assistance and guidance, promoting a healthy balance between independence and support. This open atmosphere encourages children to communicate freely about their struggles and triumphs, fostering a strong parent-child bond.

Tendency to Be More Flexible
Elephant parents tend to avoid strict rules and instead prefer to be flexible with their expectations. They recognise that every situation is different, understanding that what works for one child or circumstance may not work for another. This adaptability allows them to tailor their approach based on their child’s needs, mood, or external circumstances. For example, if a child is feeling overwhelmed with schoolwork, an elephant parent may relax certain expectations or provide extra support during that time. This flexibility promotes a sense of understanding and cooperation within the family, making it easier for children to thrive.

Promote Prosocial Behavior
Encouraging children to socialise with friends is an important aspect of this parenting style, as long as they demonstrate responsibility in their interactions. There is a strong belief that developing solid friendships plays a crucial role in a child’s emotional and social development. They also emphasise the importance of acting with kindness and empathy towards others. By instilling values such as helpfulness and generosity, these parents teach their children to be considerate and compassionate individuals. They model prosocial behaviour in their actions, demonstrating how to be respectful and supportive in various situations.

3. Pros and Cons of Each Parenting Style

Tiger Parenting Pros and Cons
One of the key advantages of tiger parenting is that children often develop a wide range of skills. This approach instils a strong sense of productivity and ambition, encouraging kids to strive for excellence in various areas. The discipline fostered in a tiger-parent household can lead to children who are goal-oriented and driven, equipping them with the tools to tackle challenges head-on. This foundation of hard work and dedication can set them up for future success in both their personal and professional lives.

However, the intensity of tiger parenting comes with its downsides. Children raised in this environment may struggle with failure, as they might not have learned how to cope with setbacks constructively. This can lead to a lack of empathy towards themselves and others, making it hard for them to express their feelings openly. The pressure to achieve can create a fear of disappointing their parents, which may inhibit emotional development and make it difficult for them to form meaningful connections with peers.

Elephant Parenting Pros and Cons
On the flip side, elephant parenting offers its own set of advantages. By creating a safe space for their children, elephant parents encourage open communication and healthy human interaction. This nurturing environment helps foster strong emotional bonds between parents and children, allowing kids to feel comfortable sharing their thoughts and feelings. The emphasis on empathy and understanding can lead to well-adjusted individuals who value relationships and emotional intelligence.

Yet, there are some potential drawbacks to elephant parenting. The flexibility that defines this approach might not always meet the expectations of parents who desire more structure or accountability. Some children may take advantage of this leniency, leading to a lack of motivation or direction in their pursuits. In situations where clear guidance is needed, the absence of firm boundaries can leave kids feeling unsure of how to navigate challenges.

4. Finding the Right Approach for Your Family

So, which approach is best for you? Every child is unique and may require different parenting styles as they grow and develop. There are moments in parenting that call for tiger and elephant strategies, and balancing the two can provide the best of both worlds. It’s essential to avoid being too extreme in either direction; a mix of structure and support can create a well-rounded environment for your child.

It’s also important to foster mutual respect and understanding between parents and children. Make sure to be there for them—not just as a coach pushing for performance, but as a supportive parent who listens and guides. Always remember that mental health is crucial; don’t underestimate its importance. Regularly check in on your child to see how they’re feeling emotionally and mentally. The lessons you teach them when they’re young will have lasting effects as they grow older, shaping their values and behaviours in the long run.

Ultimately, both you and your child are on a learning journey. You are learning how to be a good parent, while they are figuring out how to be a good child. Embracing this collaborative growth can lead to a healthy, nurturing relationship that benefits everyone involved.

Top Family-Friendly Events in Singapore for November 2024

Nadya Sharfina · November 12, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"Make the most of November with fresh, fun, and exciting activities for the whole family."

Time sure flies, and it’s hard to believe it’s already November! As we move into the holiday season, there’s a lot happening around town to get everyone into the festive spirit. To help you make the most of November, we’ve put together a list of fresh, fun, and exciting things to do and places to take your kids.

Harry Potter: Visions of Magic

This immersive attraction brings the Harry Potter universe to life with stunning environments that fans will recognise and love. As you explore, you’ll find yourself walking through iconic locations such as the Knight Bus, the bustling Ministry of Magic, the mysterious Knockturn Alley, and the eerie Grimmauld Place. These are just a few of the many enchanting environments waiting for you to discover.

The tour lasts around 60 minutes, with admission starting at $39 for children ages 4 to 12 and $49 for adults ages 13 and up. “Harry Potter: Visions of Magic” opens on November 22, 2024, and will run daily from 11:00 a.m. to 10:00 p.m., giving you plenty of flexibility to visit at your convenience. You’ll find it at Forum, Level B1, in Resorts World Sentosa.

Sharity Reimagined Exhibition

Celebrate four decades of kindness and creativity at the “Sharity Reimagined” exhibition, honouring the 40th anniversary of Sharity, Singapore’s beloved symbol of compassion. This exhibition brings together the works of celebrated artists and public figures, who have each put their unique spin on Sharity figurines, transforming them into captivating works of art. You’ll find contributions from renowned figures such as Lim Tze Peng, one of Singapore’s most acclaimed painters; Iman Fandi, singer and artiste; Devika Panicker, influencer; and Fandi Ahmad, Singapore’s football icon, among others. Each piece adds a distinct perspective on Sharity’s enduring message of kindness.

The exhibition is designed to engage young visitors with interactive activities. Kids can enjoy a dedicated photo booth to capture memories, a colouring station where they can create their own colourful Sharity characters and other engaging surprises that make the experience fun and accessible for the whole family.

The “Sharity Reimagined” exhibition takes place at the B4 ION Station in ION Orchard, running from November 10th to 17th, 2024.

The Gift of Disney Cruise Line at Jewel

Located on Level 5 of Jewel Changi Airport’s Canopy Park, this event runs from November 8, 2024, to January 2, 2025, and is sure to enchant Disney fans with captivating installations featuring beloved characters.

With exciting attractions ranging from mazes to bouncing nets and picturesque garden trails, there’s something for everyone to enjoy. Admission to Canopy Park is affordable, with tickets priced at $6 for Singapore residents and $8 for standard entry. This ticket grants access not only to the Disney-themed installations but also to Canopy Park’s other family-friendly attractions. Explore the Discovery Slides, get lost in the Foggy Bowls, wander through the vibrant Petal Garden, and stroll down the Topiary Walk.

Christmas on A Great Street

Since 1984, this iconic event has transformed Orchard Road each holiday season with stunning festive decorations and sparkling lights. From November 9, 2024, to January 1, 2025, the entire stretch of Orchard Road will be alive with bright lights, cheerful music, and festive installations.

Be sure to explore the Christmas Villages, where each spot offers its own special holiday attractions. At Shaw House Urban Plaza, you’ll find a lively carnival complete with fun rides, claw machines, and festive merchandise for the family to enjoy. Plaza Singapura will delight younger visitors with a giant castle, fun slides, a craft workshop, and an enchanting balloon dome for hours of play. Over at Ngee Ann City Civic Plaza, you can relax and take in live performances by local buskers and bands while sampling treats from food trucks. Be sure to catch the magical Snowfall Shows at 8 p.m. and 9 p.m. each night.

For more of the best places to visit with family in Singapore, check out March Holidays: 5 Epic Activities in Singapore!, Big Fun: Five Awesome Activities for Kids in SG, and A Playful Visit to the Museum of Ice Cream with Kids.

Is It Selfish for Parents to Pursue Time-Consuming Goals?

Nadya Sharfina · October 16, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"Prioritizing your dreams isn't selfish—it can lead to a more fulfilling life for both you and your family."

Parents, have you ever caught yourself feeling a bit selfish for choosing to prioritise your dreams and ambitions? It’s a common thought among parents who want to pick up a new time consuming sport like golf, mountaineering or diving or perhaps fulfil their dream of travelling to every continent. With a partner and kids in the mix, the decisions you make always impact more than just yourself.

Exploring this question can shape how you balance your personal ambitions with the responsibilities of parenthood. Understanding that your dreams are valid and worth pursuing can lead to a more fulfilling life, not just for you, but for your entire family. So, let’s delve deeper into whether it’s truly selfish to put yourself first sometimes.

Find the Right Partner to Support You

Pursuing personal dreams as a parent can be a balancing act, but it all starts with finding the right partner. When seeking someone to share your life with, choose a person who aligns with your aspirations rather than someone who creates obstacles in your path. A supportive partner understands the importance of your goals and encourages you to chase them, fostering an environment where you can thrive both as an individual and a parent.

A supportive partner plays an essential role in helping you achieve your dreams. They should be someone who not only acknowledges your aspirations but also actively encourages you to pursue them. When you have a partner who believes in your goals, it creates an environment where both of you can thrive. This collaboration not only enriches your relationship but also sets a positive example for your children, showing them the importance of following their passions.

When you have children, it’s even more critical to have a partner who acts as your backup. A supportive partner understands the demands of parenthood and is willing to step in when necessary, allowing you the time and space to focus on your dreams. This mutual support fosters a strong family dynamic where both parents are working toward common goals. In this way, children learn the value of teamwork and commitment.

Make Your Strategy

If you’re genuinely passionate about pursuing your dreams as a parent, then it’s time to go for it. However, passion alone isn’t enough; you need a solid strategy to ensure you can achieve your goals while balancing your responsibilities.

Take, for example, the pursuit of a master’s degree. Before diving in, consider several key questions: How long will it take to complete the program? Where do you want to study? If studying abroad is part of your plan, do you have the resources and support to make it work? Think about whether you can handle the demands of coursework, papers, and exams alongside parenting duties. This level of self-reflection is vital; you need to understand what you’re committing to and whether it’s feasible in your current situation.

It’s also a good idea to write down your goals and set clear deadlines. Putting your aspirations on paper can give you a sense of direction and accountability. Break your larger goals into smaller, manageable steps, and assign realistic timelines to each one.

Pursuing your goals may require sacrifices, both for yourself and your family. Approach your ambitions with seriousness and dedication, recognising the impact your choices will have on those around you.

Creating Balance

Start by taking a close look at your household’s daily routines. Consider what time your children leave for school and when they return home. These insights will help you identify pockets of time that can be used productively.

If you have some time in the morning, you might want to use that to take advantage of those morning hours to engage in activities that fuel your passions or simply enjoy hobbies that bring you joy.

It’s also essential to consider your partner’s schedule. What time do they usually come home? This information can help you adjust your plans accordingly, ensuring that you’re both on the same page when it comes to household responsibilities and personal time.

At the end of the day, it’s all about balance—figuring out how to blend your personal goals with family life. With some thoughtful planning and a bit of flexibility, you can create a happy environment where both your dreams and your family can flourish together.

Kids Are Not Barriers to Your Aspirations

It’s also important to shift your mindset about pursuing your goals as a parent. Sometimes, we think our kids are the main obstacles standing in the way of our dreams, but that’s not the case. The reality is that it’s up to you to determine how much passion and commitment you’re willing to invest in achieving those dreams. If your ambitions truly matter to you, go for it! Life is short, and you only get one shot at it.

Creating a healthy environment is essential for both you and your children. Many parents have successfully pursued their dreams while juggling the demands of parenting. You can absolutely do the same! By actively working toward your goals, you not only enrich your own life but also create an inspiring atmosphere for your kids.

When your children see you pursuing your passions, they learn that it’s possible to chase dreams and be a dedicated parent at the same time. This motivation can have a lasting impact on them. They’ll grow up with the understanding that marriage or having kids doesn’t have to be a barrier to personal fulfilment. Instead, they’ll view it as a part of a balanced life where dreams and responsibilities can coexist harmoniously.

Don’t Feel Guilty About Pursuing Your Dreams

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Everybody has dreams, and a lot of them were there long before we become parents or got married. Whether it’s climbing the career ladder, working on a personal project, or seeking more education, those dreams are central to your identity. It’s important to distinguish between being selfish and simply going after what you want in life. Going after your passions doesn’t mean you’re ignoring your responsibilities; it shows you’re committed to personal growth and happiness.

Chasing your dreams doesn’t equate to neglecting your husband or kids. You’re still committed to your family and their needs. Being a parent doesn’t mean you have to sacrifice your identity or ambitions completely. It’s about striking a balance and ensuring that your personal goals are aligned with your family’s well-being. You’re not being a burden to the people in your life by seeking your own benefit; instead, you’re setting an example of how to live a fulfilling life.

That said, it’s essential to ensure that everyone around you is comfortable with your decisions. Open communication is key; let your family know what you’re working toward and how it may impact your time together. Pursuing your dreams is not only valuable for you but can also positively influence your children by teaching them the importance of following their passions.

If you want to dive deeper into parenting strategies check out this article ‘How to Balance Working from Home and Being a Parent’ and ‘Should Parents Feel Guilty for Not Volunteering at School?’

Should Parents Feel Guilty for Not Volunteering at School?

Nadya Sharfina · September 27, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"Balancing your commitments and school involvement isn’t about perfection—it’s about finding what works for you."

Schools often host a variety of events. Many of these activities rely on parents to step in and help out as volunteers.

When your child is in kindergarten, it’s often easier to get involved. At this stage, young children need more hands-on support and your presence at school events. However, as your child grows older, the number of school events tends to increase, and your own responsibilities and priorities become more complex.

If you have other important commitments, the pressure to choose between your obligations and volunteering at school can be overwhelming. It’s natural to feel guilty about not being able to participate in every event, but it’s essential to find a balance that works for you without adding unnecessary stress.

1. The Pressure to Volunteer

In many communities, there’s a significant expectation for parents to be actively involved in their child’s school events. Schools often rely on parent volunteers for a variety of activities, from fundraisers and classroom assistance to serving on school committees. This expectation can sometimes feel overwhelming, especially for parents juggling multiple responsibilities.

The pressure to volunteer can come from several sources. For one, seeing other parents who are heavily involved can create a sense of obligation. It’s easy to feel like you’re falling short when you notice peers attending every event or taking on major roles at school.

Teachers and school staff might request parental help directly, adding to the pressure. While these requests are usually made with the best intentions, they can sometimes make parents feel guilty if they’re unable to contribute as much as they’d like.

2. Valid Reasons

There are several legitimate reasons why some parents might find it difficult or impossible to participate. Understanding these reasons helps create a more empathetic view of the challenges faced by different families.

Work Commitments:

Many parents have demanding jobs that come with long hours or inflexible schedules. For these parents, meeting work deadlines and managing job responsibilities often take precedence. Juggling a career with family obligations can leave little time for school-related activities. In such cases, the pressure to volunteer may clash with their professional commitments, making it challenging to contribute to school events.

Family Responsibilities:

Parents who care for younger children, elderly relatives, or both may find their time stretched thin. Single parents, in particular, may struggle without additional support, as they often have to manage household chores and childcare on their own. The balance between these responsibilities and volunteering can be tough to achieve, especially without backup help.

Personal Health and Well-being:

Health issues, whether physical or mental, can greatly affect a parent’s ability to engage in school activities. Managing chronic health conditions or mental health challenges requires considerable time and energy. For some parents, prioritizing their own well-being means stepping back from volunteering. It’s important to recognize that not everyone has the capacity to participate in school events due to these health concerns.

Mismatch of Skills and Opportunities:

Sometimes, volunteering opportunities may not align with a parent’s skills or availability. Schools may offer roles that don’t fit every parent’s interests or expertise, making it harder for them to get involved. If the volunteer roles are not tailored to accommodate different needs and schedules, some parents might find it difficult to participate

3. Alternative Ways to Support Your Child

If you’re unable to volunteer directly at school, there are still plenty of effective ways to support your child’s education. Here are some alternative approaches that can make a significant impact:

Stay in Touch with Teachers:

This communication helps you stay updated on your child’s progress and allows you to address any concerns that might arise. Teachers often appreciate feedback from parents, and it can be beneficial for the school’s overall improvement. Discussing your child’s school report with their teacher can provide valuable insights and help you understand the steps you might need to take to support their learning.

Participate in Parent-Teacher Associations (PTAs):

If attending school events isn’t possible, consider engaging with Parent-Teacher Associations or similar organisations. Many PTAs offer remote or less time-consuming ways to contribute, such as participating in online meetings or helping with planning behind the scenes. This involvement allows you to support the school community without requiring a frequent physical presence.

Support School Fundraisers and Events:

Supporting school fundraisers and events is another way to contribute. Even if you can’t be there in person, you can make financial contributions or promote these events through your social media channels. Your support helps the school raise the necessary funds and increase participation, which can benefit various programs and activities.

Encourage Extracurricular Activities:

Supporting your child’s involvement in extracurricular activities is a meaningful way to show your encouragement. For example, if your child is participating in a sports game, attending the game to cheer them on can be very supportive. Similarly, if they are involved in art or drama, being in the audience and watching them perform shows that you value their interests. The best part is that you can attend these events without worrying about how they’re organised. Your presence and encouragement help your child thrive outside the classroom, even if you’re not directly involved in organising or managing the events.

Facilitate Peer Study Groups:

Encouraging your child to form or join study groups with classmates can also be beneficial. You can offer to host these study sessions at your home, providing a supportive and welcoming environment for their group work.

4. Embracing Different Forms of Support

It’s important to recognise that not all parents are a perfect fit for school volunteering activities, and that’s perfectly okay.

Adopting a compassionate view on parental involvement means recognising that direct volunteering isn’t the only way to show support. The key is to support your child in ways that work best for your situation and strengths.

In the end, what matters most is not the act of volunteering itself but how you engage with and support your child. Being present and supportive, both in and out of school, is what truly makes a difference.

Should Parents Be Concerned About Teen Dating?

Nadya Sharfina · September 19, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"As teens grow, friendships shift into crushes and dating, a transition that often stirs both anticipation and worry for parents."

As teens transition into adulthood, their relationships evolve significantly. It’s a time when friendships start to take on new meanings, transforming into crushes and, eventually, into potential dating relationships. For many parents, this shift can bring a mix of anticipation and anxiety.

Most parents understandably harbor some concerns about the day their child begins dating. It’s a milestone that introduces new dynamics and challenges, and navigating this phase can be daunting.

To help ease your worries, we’ve compiled essential tips and insights on how to navigate this stage of your teen’s life and what you should know about supporting them through dating.

Get to Know Their Inner Circle

Knowing who your teen spends time with is key to understanding their social circle. You should be able to name all of your teen’s closest friends, including anyone they are dating. If you suspect your teen is in a relationship but haven’t met the person, it’s important to ask for an introduction.

Being open and approachable helps with this. If you show interest without being overly strict, your teen is more likely to feel comfortable introducing their significant other to you. Building trust in these moments can create a strong foundation for open communication.

It’s also a good idea when possible to get to know the parents of your teen’s partner. Establishing a relationship with them can help keep both families on the same page, ensuring that everyone is aligned when it comes to the safety and well-being of the teens. This can make the situation feel safer for both you and your child.

Understanding and Respecting Consent

Consent is a concept your teen might already have some understanding of, but it’s crucial to have a clear conversation with them about what it truly means. Explain that consent is about giving permission or agreeing to something, and it’s essential that both people involved are on the same page. Whether it’s about physical boundaries or emotional ones, receiving and giving consent should always be clear and mutual.

Let your teen know that no one should pressure them into doing anything they’re uncomfortable with. If they feel unsure or don’t fully agree, that’s reason enough to say no. This understanding should be non-negotiable in any situation.

It’s also important to talk about how alcohol or other substances can affect consent. Even if someone says yes while under the influence, it doesn’t count as valid consent. Encourage your teen to look out for themselves and others in these situations. Check out How to Talk to Teens About Smoking, Drugs and Alcohol.

Above all, make sure they know they can always come to you for support. Empower them to speak up for themselves, and reassure them that their well-being is your priority in any situation.

Creating Ground Rules

As a parent, you still have the authority to set rules and boundaries for your teen, especially when it comes to dating. While your teen is growing more independent, your role in guiding and protecting them remains important. You have every right to establish boundaries because your goal is to ensure their safety.

One way to stay involved is by being aware of their activities. Friendships, and often relationships, are built on shared interests, so take the time to understand what activities they enjoy. Find out where they’re going for dates, who will be responsible for transportation, and what kind of environment they’ll be in. It’s also important to set curfews to ensure that there’s structure around their outings.

Make your expectations clear, especially when it comes to behavior and family values. Defining these boundaries from the start can help avoid confusion. Encouraging group dates with mutual friends can also provide a sense of security, ensuring your teen isn’t always alone with their partner.

While it’s good to allow your teen some space to negotiate and discuss boundaries fairly, make sure you clearly state the non-negotiable rules. Be upfront about what you expect and ensure that your teen understands the importance of following these guidelines. This balance of structure and open communication can help build trust while keeping them safe.

Identifying Red Flags

When monitoring your teen’s dating life, it’s crucial to watch for signs that might indicate an unhealthy relationship. These red flags can help you identify if something isn’t quite right.

One major concern is if your teen’s partner displays extreme jealousy or possessiveness. This could show up as constant checking in or controlling behavior, which can be a serious warning sign. Excessive texting or emailing from their partner can also suggest an unhealthy level of control.

Physical signs are equally important to watch for. Unexplained marks or bruises could indicate physical abuse, and should never be ignored. Emotional changes, such as your child becoming unusually depressed or anxious, might also signal problems in the relationship.

Another red flag is if your teen starts withdrawing from their usual activities and interests. If they stop participating in extracurriculars or spending time with friends and family, this shift in behavior can be a sign of an unhealthy relationship. Additionally, if their partner has a history of abusing others or animals, this is a serious concern.

Sexual pressure from a partner is another troubling sign. It’s important that your teen feels comfortable and respected in their relationship. Excessive jealousy or pressure to engage in sexual activities can indicate a toxic dynamic. Check out Powerful Talk: Parenting and Sex Education.

Being mindful of these red flags can help you protect your teen from harmful relationships and encourage them to seek help if they need it.

Exercise empathy

Remember, you were a teenager once, and you’ve navigated similar emotions and experiences. Your past can be a valuable resource for guiding your teen through their own dating journey.

Teenagers are dealing with intense feelings and new experiences that can be overwhelming. Their raging hormones and the excitement of new attractions might cloud their judgment. They’re encountering emotions they’ve never felt before, which can make relationships seem more intense and urgent.

Use your own experiences to help them understand what a healthy relationship looks like. For instance, differentiate between possessiveness and genuine protection. If you notice signs of possessiveness in your teen’s partner, it’s important to be concerned. Don’t dismiss these feelings; take them seriously.

Similarly, if you notice your teen with unexplained bruises and they seem to be covering for their partner, take this seriously. You can usually distinguish between accidental injuries and those that result from abuse. Address these signs promptly and with care.

Today’s teens are growing up in a world that’s very different from what you experienced. With social media playing a significant role in their lives, they face new pressures and risks that you might not be familiar with. Teens often share inappropriate content, like nudes or sexts, which can have serious consequences. Stay informed about these trends and basic online safety measures.

Don’t fall into the trap of thinking “it’s just teenage romance” and dismissing concerns. Some issues in teen relationships are serious and warrant your attention. Provide your teen with healthy dating tips and guidance on making wise decisions. While teenagers might make impulsive choices, remember that mistakes are part of growing up. Support them through their errors and help them learn without letting these missteps define their future.

Grand Prix 2024: Family Fun at Singapore’s Biggest Event

Nadya Sharfina · September 18, 2024 · Leave a Comment

Prepare for an incredible 10-day celebration as Singapore buzzes with the Grand Prix Season from September 13-22, 2024—featuring racing thrills, entertainment, and fun for the whole family!

Get ready for an amazing experience as Singapore prepares for one of its most exciting annual events! The Grand Prix Season Singapore (GPSS) is scheduled to take over the city from September 13 to 22, 2024. This ten-day festival offers nonstop racing-themed activities.

The Formula 1 Singapore Grand Prix 2024 is the season’s highlight, taking place at the Marina Bay Street Circuit from September 20th to 22nd. Throughout the GPSS, Singapore will be alive with activities ranging from exciting nightlife and engaging entertainment to numerous retail selections and delectable eating experiences.

Families can also join in on the excitement, as we’ve curated a range of events that are perfect for kids. Don’t miss out on the race-themed restaurants that offer a unique dining experience to complement the high-octane atmosphere of the Grand Prix.

1. Family Activities, Attractions and Tours

This year, the city is full of race-themed events and experiences that will attract both children and adults. There are plenty of interactive displays and entertaining activities for the entire family to enjoy.

POP-UP in the Museum

During the GPSS, the POP-UP at the MINT Museum of Toys is a must-see family-friendly attraction. This special event runs from August 30 to September 22 and includes thematic guided tours, engaging workshops, fascinating exhibitions, and a variety of food, beverage, and shopping experiences.

One of the standout highlights is the Vintage Racing Toy Cars Guided Tours. This exhibit showcases rare toy cars from the 1930s to the 1970s, including the eye-catching Astro Boy Ferrari Sigma Grand Prix Show Car. It’s a wonderful opportunity for your kids to explore these classic models, and best of all, the tour is free for up to two children aged 7 to 12 when accompanied by an adult.

For a hands-on experience, the Racing Car Craft Workshop is a fantastic choice. Designed to be environmentally friendly, this workshop uses recycled wood and is open to children aged 5 to 12. Kids will learn about car parts, mechanisms, and automotive history while crafting their own racing cars. Participants will get to take home their creations, and you can even get your hands on a Retro Grand Prix Board Game from 1958.

LEGO Technic Grand ‘Brix’

For a fun and interactive family experience during the GPPS, don’t miss the LEGO Technic Grand ‘Brix’ event. Running from September 13 to 22, and open daily from 11:00 am to 9:30 pm.

One of the main attractions is the life-sized LEGO replica of the Mercedes-AMG F1 W14 E Performance model. Crafted from an impressive 192,937 LEGO bricks over 2,428 hours by a team of 15 model builders, this replica measures 5.1 meters in length and 2.2 meters in width—making it eight times the size of the LEGO Technic Mercedes-AMG F1 W14 E Performance set (42171). It’s a breathtaking display that demonstrates the precise detail and workmanship of LEGO construction.

Visitors can also put their racing skills to the test at various interactive stations throughout the pop-up. For those who excel, the top three fastest players will have the chance to win the 42165 Mercedes-AMG F1 W14 E Performance Pull Back set. Fans may also experience the thrill of racing with LEGO Technic sets geared toward various age groups. The 42171 set is suited for people aged 18 and above, whereas the 42165 Pull Back set is ideal for youngsters aged 7 and up.

Build Your Own Chocolate Race Car Workshop

Enjoy a delicious family experience at the Build Your Own Chocolate Race Car Workshop, hosted by Mr. Bucket Chocolaterie, located at Dempsey Factory. This workshop, held on September 14 from 9:00 am to 11:00 am, provides a unique opportunity for children and adults to make their own chocolate race cars.

The class is an educational experience in which participants learn about the history of chocolate and how to recognize high-quality cacao beans. It’s a fun and instructive introduction to the world of chocolate production.

The workshop costs $75.00 and is recommended for children aged 7 and above. As sessions are scheduled, please attend on time to make sure an uninterrupted session for everyone!

2. Family Restaurants and Cafés

Whizz Wonderland is a must-see for families wishing to fuel up for the Grand Prix festivities, running from September 13 to 22. This exciting venue isn’t just one café but an entire group of them, all featuring a fun race car theme that kids will adore.

With its open garden and playful décor, including a kiddy cart, Whizz Wonderland is perfect for families looking to enjoy a meal in a lively setting. Check out the cafés available:

The Alkaff Mansion

Make sure to visit Wildseed Café in The Alkaff Mansion, which is located in Telok Blangah Hill Park. This beautiful café has a special GPSS-themed High Tea Set that is ideal for sharing with the family.

Enjoy a variety of dishes, including garden aglio olio, Spanish chorizo pizza, and spatchcock chicken. The children’s menu includes pancakes, macaroni & cheese, chicken burgers, and chicken nuggets. Don’t miss out on their freshly baked cakes and luscious pastries for a sweet ending to your meal.

The café also adds a touch of fun with its kid’s car race and if you visit any two Wildseed Café locations, you’ll receive a complimentary cake of the day. Wildseed Café at The Alkaff Mansion is open daily from 8 am to 5 pm, with the last order at 4:30 pm.

The Summerhouse

Wildseed Café at The Summerhouse is also a must-visit. From September 1 to 30, they’re offering a special GPSS-themed High Tea Set.

Throughout the month, the café will serve its Fish Burger & Fries Month-Long Special, as well as a tasty Tempura Fish Burger. For added entertainment, on September 22, they’ll hold the Tamiya Race Car Track, a fun event where children may participate in the racing action. Diners who present their GPSS tickets will receive a complimentary Long Black or Latte coffee.

The Garage

Bee’s Knees at The Garage is a perfect spot to unwind. The café is known for its Race Course play area, where kids can run around and have a blast while parents take a breather and enjoy some delicious food. The atmosphere is lively, with live music adding to the overall vibe.

On the menu, you’ll find favorite dishes like Laksa Prawn Pasta, Spicy Duck Loaded Fries, and the refreshing Veggie Goat Salad. For those with a sweet tooth, the Enchanted Pistachio & Pear Cake is a must-try.

Open daily from 8am to 10pm, Bee’s Knees is the perfect destination for a family outing during the Grand Prix season, which runs from September 13 to 22.

3. The Formula 1 Race

Now, let’s dive into the main event—the F1 race weekend. The Singapore Grand Prix offers a range of ticket options, from one-day to three-day passes. For those seeking a premium experience, luxe hospitality packages provide access to air-conditioned lounges such as The Vista Suite, Torque Lounge, and Sky View Pavilion. These packages elevate the F1 experience with exclusive views and top-tier amenities.

If you’re not searching for a hospitality package, you can still watch the race from some of the city’s best hotels and rooftops. Popular places include the Mandarin Oriental, InterContinental Singapore, Esplanade Roof Terrace, Marina Bay Sands, and Swissotel The Stamford, all of which provide excellent views of the activity.

Make sure to check the full F1 event schedule to plan your weekend here. Aside from the race, the entertainment lineup includes more than 100 hours of performances. OneRepublic, Kylie Minogue, Lenny Kravitz, Disclosure (DJ), The Corrs, Kool & the Gang, Tones & I, BABYMONSTER, and HONNE will perform, with new additions including American rock band Thirty Seconds to Mars, Indonesian heavy metal band Voice Of Baceprot, and Australian singer Kylie Minogue.

As for tickets, three-day general passes have already sold out, but single-day tickets are still available here. For those seeking a more exclusive experience, there are very limited hospitality tickets left in selected categories. Don’t miss your chance—grab your tickets and enjoy an unforgettable weekend!

A Playful Visit to the Museum of Ice Cream with Kids

Nadya Sharfina · July 31, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"The Museum of Ice Cream in Singapore turns a visit into a sweet adventure full of creativity and fun for kids and adults alike."

When planning a fun and educational outing for kids in Singapore, the Museum of Ice Cream stands out as an exciting destination. This vibrant museum offers a delightful blend of interactive exhibits, hands-on activities, and sweet treats that captivate children and adults alike. As you step into this whimsical world, you’ll find that it’s not just about ice cream; it’s an adventure in creativity and learning.

What’s the Museum of Ice Cream?

The Museum of Ice Cream offers a delightful blend of education and entertainment centred around everyone’s favourite frozen treat. This whimsical attraction invites visitors to explore the rich history of ice cream through interactive, ice cream-themed installations.

You’ll learn fascinating tidbits about the origins and evolution of ice cream, all while indulging in sweet treats that bring history to life. From the first ice cream recipes to modern-day innovations, every corner of the museum is designed to engage and delight visitors of all ages. The Museum of Ice Cream promises an inclusive experience that welcomes families, friends, and ice cream enthusiasts alike.

Originally based in New York City, the Museum of Ice Cream has expanded to several locations across the United States, including Chicago, Miami, Boston, and Austin. Now, in Singapore, this institution continues to captivate with its blend of history, interactive art, and, of course, plenty of opportunities to indulge your sweet tooth.

Inside the Museum of Ice Cream

Inside the Museum of Ice Cream in Singapore, you’ll find a whimsical world filled with vibrant pink hues and a dragon-themed unicorn playground

One of the highlights is the opportunity to indulge in unlimited ice cream treats, each crafted in five delightful shapes and forms, with options for gluten-free and vegan diets. After enjoying your ice cream, dive into the famous sprinkle pool. The pool is meticulously cleaned and maintained with an antibacterial sprinkler shower to ensure a fresh and safe experience.

For more active fun, bounce on a big trampoline or try your luck at the claw machine. Swing amidst giant bananas and cherries, adding a playful twist to your visit. Every corner of the museum is Instagram-worthy, perfect for capturing memorable moments.

When you need a break, you can visit the retro-themed diner, where you can savour classics like banana splits or have milkshakes and waffles with customisable ice cream blends.

How to Get There?

Located at 100 Loewen Road in the Dempsey area, this whimsical destination is easily accessible by car or public transport.

The museum is open on Monday, Wednesday, and Thursday from 10:00 am to 6:00 pm, and extends its hours until 9:00 pm on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. Note that the museum is closed on Tuesdays, so be sure to plan accordingly.

Note that tickets must be reserved online in advance. General admission tickets start from $35, while premium tickets are available from $45. The museum welcomes young visitors, with children aged 2 and under enter for free. Kids aged 13 and under must be accompanied by an adult to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience for everyone.

For more of the best places to visit with family in Singapore, check out March Holidays: 5 Epic Activities in Singapore!, Big Fun: Five Awesome Activities for Kids in SG, and Best Restaurants with Play Areas in Singapore.

Why Are Teens Using Sadfishing to Get Attention?

Nadya Sharfina · July 29, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"Social media's drive for likes can overshadow authenticity, leading teens to trade genuine moments for attention."

Social media has become an integral part of teenage life, shaping how young people communicate, express themselves, and seek validation. Many teens view social media as a platform where the goal is to gain as many likes and engagements as possible. This drive for online approval often leads them to craft posts that are designed to stand out and attract attention.

However, this quest for engagement can sometimes overshadow the authenticity of their posts. Rather than sharing genuine experiences or feelings, some teens may resort to behaviours like sadfishing.

What Is Sadfishing?

Sadfishing is a term used to describe the act of posting personal pictures or stories on social media to gain attention and sympathy. It’s often seen as a cry for help or a way to seek emotional support from others online. While it can be a genuine expression of someone’s feelings, it often carries a negative connotation due to its perceived insincerity.

Originally, the term “sadfishing” was used to reference the behaviour of celebrities who shared overly emotional or dramatic posts to engage their followers. These posts were seen as a way to maintain public interest and elicit sympathy, often leading to debates about the authenticity of their emotions.

For example, sadfishing on Instagram might involve posting an exaggerated story or image. This could be a picture of someone looking particularly downcast, accompanied by a caption hinting at a vague personal struggle. On Twitter, sadfishing might take the form of an exaggerated tweet. Users might share a melodramatic or sensationalised account of their feelings or experiences, hoping to garner retweets, likes, and sympathetic replies.

While the motivations behind sadfishing can be complex, it’s clear that the behaviour taps into the need for connection and validation in the digital age. Understanding sadfishing can help us navigate our online interactions with more empathy and awareness.

Why Are Teens Sadfishing?

People may sadfish for numerous reasons, ranging from dealing with family or relationship problems to mental health struggles or body image issues. For teens, the motivations behind sadfishing often stem from a need to seek support or sympathy from other people.

When a teen sadfishes, it is likely they are struggling with something and want to let others know. A common cause of sadfishing includes loneliness, where a teen may post emotional content to feel supported by friends. It might be a way to manage challenging emotions like depression or anxiety, especially if they are unsure of healthier coping mechanisms.

Sadfishing can also be a method for teens to receive the attention they crave or fill a need for reassurance. In some cases, it can be tied to narcissism, where they believe they are highly esteemed and liked by everyone. Conversely, low self-esteem or a sense of worthlessness can also lead to sadfishing, as these teens seek validation and support online.

Poor social support is another significant factor. Teens who don’t feel they have someone in the real world with whom they can comfortably share their struggles may turn to social media as an outlet. Sadfishing becomes a way to reach out and connect with others, even if the connection is superficial or fleeting.

How Can Parents Respond to Sadfishing?

Communicate

When it comes to addressing sadfishing, it’s important for parents to talk to and communicate with their children about what they are thinking and feeling. Approaching the conversation with openness and gentleness can encourage teens to open up about their behaviour in a neutral and non-judgmental environment.

Children need parental support to grow and thrive, and being there for them emotionally is important. Some parents may not realise their teens are struggling until they engage in potentially dangerous or inappropriate behaviour. Recognising the signs of sadfishing early on can help parents provide the necessary support before it escalates.

Understand

Understanding that sadfishing is not abnormal teen behaviour is also essential. Many teens turn to social media to express their emotions and seek validation. It’s a common part of navigating adolescence in the digital age. By acknowledging this, parents can avoid making assumptions that might cause their teens to take offence and isolate themselves further.

Instead of jumping to conclusions, parents should strive to understand the underlying issues driving their teen’s behaviour. While posting about personal struggles might not always indicate sadfishing, it is important to recognise that these posts can reflect real emotions and challenges. Open, non-judgmental conversations can help build trust and create a safe space for teens to share their feelings.

In conclusion, teaching teens appropriate social media use is essential for helping them navigate the complexities of online interactions. Social media can be a valuable resource for connection and information, but it also has the potential to be a negative influence if not used thoughtfully. Check out: The Importance of Talking to Your Kids About Social Media.

It’s important to explain to your teen how the internet works, emphasising that every post leaves an online footprint. This means that their online actions can have lasting effects on their reputation and emotional well-being. Encouraging them to think critically about what they share and the potential impact of their posts can foster more mindful and responsible online behaviour.

Gen Alpha Slang: How Much Do You Know?

Nadya Sharfina · July 19, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"How well do you understand your kids' slang? It can sometimes feel like they're speaking a different language entirely."

When your kids chat with their friends, you might notice they’re using some pretty unfamiliar words and phrases. It can sometimes feel like they’re speaking a different language entirely.

So, how well do you actually understand what your children are saying with all this new slang? Let’s dive in and see how much you know about the slang your kids are using.

Ate

Used to describe someone who did something exceptionally well, especially in a performance or fashion context. It implies that they did an outstanding job.

How to use it: “She totally ate that performance.” or “He ate with that outfit today.”

Big W (or Big L)

“Big W” stands for a significant win or victory, while “Big L” stands for a major loss or failure. It’s used to describe the outcome of a situation.

How to use it: “Scoring that goal was a Big W for the team.” or “Failing the exam was a Big L.”

Delulu

Short for delusional, it’s used to describe someone who is out of touch with reality, often in a humorous or exaggerated sense.

How to use it: “She’s so delulu if she thinks she’s getting that promotion.” or “Don’t be delulu; it’s never going to happen.”

GOAT

An acronym for “Greatest of All Time.” It’s used to praise someone who is considered the best in their field or at what they do.

How to use it: “That player is the GOAT of football.” or “He’s the GOAT when it comes to hiking.”

Rizz

Short for charisma, used to describe someone’s ability to attract or charm others.

How to use it: “She’s got mad rizz; everyone loves her.” or “His rizz is off the charts when he talks to people.”

Thirsty

Describes someone who is overly eager or desperate for attention, often used in a romantic or social context.

How to use it: “He’s so thirsty for likes on his photos.” or “Don’t be thirsty; let them come to you.”

Ratio’d

Occurs when a social media post receives more negative responses (like replies or dislikes) than positive ones (likes or retweets). It signifies that the post was unpopular.

How to use it: “That tweet got ratio’d so hard.” or “Be careful, you might get ratio’d for saying that.”

It’s Giving

Used to describe the vibe or aesthetic that something is projecting. It’s often followed by a specific descriptor.

How to use it: “It’s giving retro vibes.” or “Her outfit is giving queen energy.”

GYAT

A shorthand exclamation for “Gosh, you’re attractive!” often used to express strong admiration for someone’s appearance.

How to use it: “GYAT, you look amazing tonight!”

Sigma

Refers to someone who is successful and independent, often defying societal norms and not conforming to traditional social hierarchies.

How to use it: “He’s a sigma male, always doing his own thing.” or “She’s got that sigma energy, not caring about what others think.”

Drip

Refers to someone’s stylish or trendy appearance, particularly their clothes and accessories. It’s often used to compliment someone’s fashion sense.

How to use it: “That jacket is pure drip, where did you get it?” or “She’s got that new drip from the mall.”

Chad

Describes a confident, attractive, and popular male who is often seen as a stereotypical “alpha.” It can be used both positively and negatively.

How to use it: “All the girls at the party were talking to him, he’s a total Chad.” or “Don’t be a Chad, be humble.”

Looksmaxxing

The practice of improving one’s appearance through various means, such as grooming, fitness, fashion, or even cosmetic procedures.

How to use it: “He’s been looksmaxxing lately, and it really shows.” or “She’s all about looksmaxxing to feel more confident.”

JOMO

Stands for “Joy of Missing Out.” It’s the opposite of FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) and describes the pleasure of taking a break from social activities and enjoying personal time.

How to use it: “I’m staying in tonight and embracing the JOMO.”

Fanum tax

Describes the playful theft of food between friends. It’s often used humorously to acknowledge the inevitability of sharing food, especially when eating with others.

How to use it: “He fanum taxed me an entire bowl of fries.”

Bussin’

Used to describe something that is really good, especially food. It means that something is exceptionally tasty or enjoyable.

How to use it: “This sandwich is bussin!” or “Grandma’s homemade cookies are always bussin.”

Finna

A slang contraction of “fixing to,” meaning to be about to do something. It’s used to express a near-future intention or plan.

How to use it: “He’s finna buy a new car soon.” or “We’re finna watch a movie later.”

Skibidi

A nonsense slang term that’s popular with Gen Alpha. It has no set meaning and can refer to something good, cool, bad, or evil.

How to use it: “You’ve got that skibidi situation going on with your girl. Good luck to you!”

Ohio

The term “Ohio” is not just the name of a state in the U.S. but a synonym for all things weird and cringey, In Gen Alpha slang, “Ohio” is often used to describe something strange, weird, or chaotic, stemming from various internet memes that humorously depict Ohio as an unusual place.

How to use it: “That glitchy game we played last night was so Ohio, it kept freezing and spawning random objects!”

Now that you’re familiar with Gen Alpha slang, you’re not clueless anymore! Staying updated is key, as some slang can have inappropriate meanings or be unsuitable for certain ages. Keep an eye on new terms to ensure your kids use language that’s appropriate for them.

What Can Parents Do to Help Kids Learn from Their Mistakes?

Nadya Sharfina · July 15, 2024 · Leave a Comment

"Teaching kids to own up to their mistakes is just as important as showing them how to fix them."

Life is full of valuable lessons, many of which come from making mistakes. For kids, understanding that their actions have consequences is a part of their development. When they make mistakes, they learn about responsibility and the effects of their choices. A parent’s role is to guide them through these experiences in a supportive and constructive way.

Teaching kids to own up to their mistakes goes hand in hand with teaching them how to fix them. It’s not enough for kids to simply acknowledge what went wrong; they also need to learn how to make amends and prevent the same mistakes in the future.

Open Discussion

Start by calmly talking with your child about the mistake they made. This helps them understand the situation and recognise where things went wrong. Taking the time to discuss what happened opens the door for learning.

It’s also important to explain why it was a mistake. Kids may not always see why their actions were wrong, so it’s crucial to help them understand the reasons behind the mistake. This helps them develop better judgement and decision-making skills for the future.

Discussing how their actions affected others is another key part of this process. Kids need to understand the impact of their behaviour on those around them. Whether their mistake caused someone to feel sad or created more work for someone else, recognising these effects helps them build empathy and social awareness.

To make the conversation more impactful, give examples of mistakes you’ve made and how you learned from them. You could talk about the time you also accidentally dropped someone’s favourite bowl or vase, breaking it and upsetting the other person, or the time that you were late to an appointment and caused others to be inconvenienced. Sharing your experiences makes the discussion more relatable and shows that everyone, including adults, makes mistakes.

Avoid Shaming

“You are disgusting Shannon! How could you do that?”

“Why are you so lazy! I can’t believe you are my child!”

Sound familiar? Shaming can be counterproductive and damage a child’s self-worth. When kids are shamed for their mistakes, they may start to feel like they are not good enough or that their worth is tied to their errors. This can lead to a negative self-image and decreased confidence, making it harder for them to take risks and try new things.

Shaming can make kids hesitant to admit their mistakes in the future. If they fear being shamed or ridiculed, they might hide their errors or lie about them to avoid embarrassment. This can hinder their learning process and prevent them from taking responsibility for their actions.

For example, instead of saying, “You’re so clumsy; you keep forgetting your stationery and losing it,” try, “It’s okay that you forgot. If I buy you new stationery, can you promise me that you’ll be more careful with them?.” This approach encourages kids to acknowledge their mistakes and learn to rectify them without feeling bad about themselves.

Instead of shaming, focus on their behaviour. It’s important to separate the mistake from the person. Emphasise that making a mistake doesn’t make them a bad person. This helps kids understand that everyone makes mistakes and that it’s a normal part of learning and growing.

Step Back Sometimes

While it’s tempting to step in and prevent children from making errors, allowing them to experience the consequences of their actions can be impactful.

For instance, if your child is late to school because they stayed up playing video games, resist the urge to write the school a note lying that your child was ill and explaining it away.. Let them go to school late and face the natural consequences. They might have to explain to their teacher why they are late. These experiences can teach them more effectively than any lecture.

When children face the outcomes of their actions, they start to understand the importance of making better choices. In this case, they might learn not to play video games late at night or to set an alarm to ensure they wake up on time. This helps them develop better habits and become more responsible.

By stepping back, you’re not abandoning your child or ignoring their struggles. Instead, you’re giving them the opportunity to learn important life skills, like time management and self-discipline.

Mentor Your Kids

When helping kids learn from their mistakes, it’s important to take on the role of a mentor. Kids may lie, deny, or argue when confronted with their mistakes, often blaming others or the situation instead of owning up to their actions. As a mentor, your goal is to guide them toward honesty and accountability.

If you catch your child in a lie, let them know that you value the truth, regardless of the circumstances. Emphasise that lying only worsens the situation. This approach encourages them to be honest and open about their mistakes.

Teach your kids to approach their mistakes with both gentleness and courage. They should learn to apologise and move forward without dwelling on guilt or denial. This mentoring approach also instils a sense of responsibility in your kids. If they don’t learn to handle simple issues like honesty and accountability, they may be more likely to repeat these behaviours, leading to more significant problems in the future.

Love Your Kids Unconditionally

It’s important to not expect your children to be perfect. Setting such high standards can create a life-long barrier, making them feel as though they can never measure up and discouraging them from trying new things or owning up to their mistakes.

Instead of focusing on their shortcomings, concentrate on finding solutions together. When a problem arises, work with your child to solve it rather than just pointing out what went wrong. This collaborative approach helps them understand that mistakes are opportunities for learning and growth, not just failures to be criticised.

Love your kids unconditionally, especially when they’ve made a mistake. They are likely already feeling bad about what happened, and your support can make a significant difference. Remember, your children need you to make them feel better, not worse. Offering unconditional support and guidance helps them build resilience and confidence. It reassures them that they are valued and loved, regardless of their mistakes.