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How to Discuss LGBTQ Issues With Your Child

Nadya Sharfina · April 5, 2023 · Leave a Comment

“Open conversations on sensitive topics are opportunities to teach kids about the value of empathy and respect for others.”

Young people often learn about gender identity and LGBTQAI+ issues through friends, at school, or the media before ever discussing it with their parents. Many of the terms may be confusing to understand and easy to misinterpret. Unlike in the recent past, acceptance, and inclusivity preached by other youth are becoming the norm rather than the exception. Most kids however would still benefit from open conversations with their parents on the topic. Every parent wants the best for their children. However, providing support is not always easy, particularly if you are the parent of an LGBTQ child.

Understanding LGBTQ and Sexual Orientation

The letter “LGBTQ” is generally used to describe sexual orientation. This acronym is an abbreviation for “lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (or questioning)”

The term “transgender” refers to gender identity, and not sexual orientation. Gender refers to whether a person is male or female. Transgender people may have one gender’s body but believe they are of the opposite gender.

Meanwhile, sexual orientation refers to a person’s emotional, romantic, or sexual attraction to another person. There are various types of sexual orientation, such as:

Heterosexual

Males are romantically and physically attracted to heterosexual females, and heterosexual females are romantically and physically attracted to heterosexual males. Heterosexuals are often referred to as “straight.”

Homosexual

People who are romantically and physically attracted to people of the same gender.

Bisexual

People who are romantically and physically attracted to people of both sexes.

Asexual

People who are not interested in sex, sexual feelings, or desires.

Create a Safe and Nurturing Environment

The first step towards discussing LGBTQ issues is to create a safe and nurturing environment where your children can express their opinions on the topic, free of judgment. Your child may have noticed that LGBTQ children in their school may face sexual orientation discrimination at school, or even within their own families. If your child is confused or has questions about his or her identity and orientation as well, it is incredibly important that understanding and support come from you as the parent.

The next step is to have meaningful conversations on LGBTQ issues about gender identity and sexual orientation. You could start by simply asking them how they identify or what makes them feel comfortable. You can also discuss topics such as LGBTQ history and current events, which will help kids understand the cultural aspects of being LGBTQ in today’s society.

It is essential to remind LGBTQ children that everyone is unique and that it is acceptable for people to express themselves in whatever way feels natural and comfortable to them. Remind them that exploring gender identity and sexual orientation is an ongoing journey and that they do not need to rush into any opinions or decisions.

Educate Yourself and Remain Open-Minded

Parents should also educate themselves on the subject of gender and sexual orientation. Be open-minded and willing to learn because children who identify as LGBTQ may face issues that are unique to their experience.

There are numerous excellent resources available online and offline to help you better understand LGBTQ identities and experiences. Here are a few examples:

Books

Family Pride by Michael Shelton: This book is about what LGBTQ families should know about navigating home, school, and neighbourhood safety. It is a great book emphasizing community safety for queer families and allies.

Love Comes First by Bradford Kolb, MD, FACOG & Melinda Maerker: This book is about LGBTQ families’ inspiring stories. This also includes expert advice on raising LGBTQ children, ranging from adoption to surrogacy, a tour of biology, and the latest reproductive medicine technologies from an LGBTQ perspective.

This is a Book for Parents of Gay Kids by Dannielle Owens-Reid and Kristin Russo: Written in a simple Q&A format. The authors have extensive experience answering parents’ numerous questions and providing insight and guidance on emotional and practical issues.

YouTube

Queer Kid Stuff: This channel provides LGBTQ and social justice media to children and families. They produce videos, podcasts, newsletters, and various other media.

Shame Proof Parenting: Mercedes Samudio is a best-selling author, speaker, and parent coach. In this episode, she speaks with John Sovec about how to support a child who identifies as LGBTQ and helps teens and parents navigate the process of coming out.

Powered by Rainbows: Every week, this channel offers LGBTQ videos that include highly researched classes, documentaries, interviews with experts and activists, and so many more.

Communities / Organizations (Singapore based)

The T Project: This is Singapore’s first and only social service that caters to the needs of the transgender community. The T Project runs a transgender women’s shelter, a community center, counseling services, and trans reading materials.

Sayoni: The organization was founded in 2006 by six women from diverse backgrounds to empower queer women, including lesbian, bisexual, and transgender women. The volunteer-led organization based in Singapore believes that everyone can help improve the lives of the LGBTQ+ community.

The Purple Alliance: This is a safe space that promotes the well-being of LGBTQA people. It gives them the ability to share their stories and provides them with the resources they require.

Parents should be aware of any LGBTQ-related activities that children may be interested in attending (such as LGBTQ pride festivals or LGBTQ-focused events at schools) and support participation if they feel comfortable doing so. You could also Introduce kids to movies and other forms of media that feature LGBTQ characters or themes. Doing so will give children exposure to the issues and stories surrounding the topic.

Respect Your LGBTQ Child’s Privacy

Remember that the gender identity and sexual orientation of LGBTQ children are private matters. It is critical to remind your child to respect others’ privacies as well as protect your LGBTQ child’s privacy and not reveal any personal information about them without their consent. This includes not discussing LGBTQ issues with other family members or friends without the child’s permission. Parents should be aware that their children may be reluctant to discuss their gender identity or sexual orientation in public.

Family Rejection

The rejection of LGBTQ children by their own families is a tragedy that has been going on for far too long. This heartbreaking situation can leave deep emotional scars and lead to devastating consequences, such as drug addiction, depression, and self-harming behavior, including suicide attempts.

While this problem is often attributed to the children themselves, it is rooted in society’s attitude towards LGBTQ children and how parents internalize those attitudes. In many cases, the shame caused by parental disapproval can be so great that parents will reject their children instead of embracing them.

When engaging children in dialogue, be sure to let your children know that you support them unconditionally and that you are always there for them if they ever need anything.

Are Wars Still Being Fought in the World Today?

Rebecca Samuel · April 5, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"Historians believe that the reason for this war arose most likely due to conflict over resources, as these were the times in which agriculture was taking the place of hunting and gathering."

Are Wars Still Being Fought in the World Today? Sadly, the answer to that question is yes, they have been going on ever since the first recorded war between the forces of Sumer and Elam in Mesopotamia in 2700BC. Historians believe that the reason for this war arose most likely due to conflict over resources, as these were the times in which agriculture was taking the place of hunting and gathering. This brings us to an age old question. Why do wars start in the first place?

Common reasons for war:

To effect change in a nation’s government
Disagreements over territory
Disagreements over resources
Religion
Race or Culture
Revenge

There have been conflicts amongst humans ever since, well, humans existed! Throughout history, great leaders have either been lauded for being brave and skilled at the art of war or praised for being able to keep their nations peaceful and prosperous. Millions of -mostly men- have died due to war however, and not always to a noble cause. According to the Merriam-Webster dictionary, war is the “state of usually open and declared armed hostile conflict between states or nations.”

Today, in order for a war to be termed a war, some factors have to be taken into consideration:

Fatalities are from battle related deaths as well as deaths of civilians who are intentionally targeted.
It must consist of armed force between 2 or more organized armed groups, whether governmental or non-governmental.

War in Afghanistan

After the September 11 attacks in 2001, the United States invaded Afghanistan. The Taliban government lost control. From there, they have actively revolted against the U.S.-backed government in Kabul, international forces, as well as Afghan national security forces.

To date, the Taliban carries out suicide attacks in major cities. For more than four years the war has been deadlocked. The Afghan National Defense and Security Forces (ANDSF) continue to fight but suffer heavy casualties. In 2018, 10,993 civilian casualties were recorded, with the UN documenting 3,804 deaths and 7,189 injuries. The total UN-documented civilian casualties since 2010 is now at more than 100,000.

War in Yemen

Yemen’s civil war began in 2014 when Houthi insurgents took control of Yemen’s capital, Sana’a. They demanded that fuel prices be lowered and that a new government come into power. They seized the presidential palace in January 2015, which led to the resignation of President Abd Rabbu Mansour Hadi and his government. From March 2015, Saudi Arabia and various other gulf states imposed economic isolation and air strikes against the Houthi insurgents, with the support of the U.S.

The civilian casualty toll has exceeded 15,000 killed or injured. At the time of writing, twenty-two million Yemenis remain in desperate need of urgent aid, while eight million people are at risk of famine. A cholera outbreak has affected over one million people. The conflict today continues to destroy the lives of Yemeni civilians, effectively rendering Yemen as the place with the world’s worst humanitarian crisis.

Unveiling the Magic of Art Therapy for Kids

Nadya Sharfina · March 5, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"Art therapy accommodates the creative process with psychotherapy, allowing for self-discovery and comprehension."

Expressive art therapy can be a powerful and beneficial tool for children of all ages. Through art activities, they can learn to explore their emotions and gain insight into their inner lives. Art therapy aims to provide children with an outlet for expression and to help them cope with complicated feelings. Art therapy can also be particularly helpful for children who have experienced trauma, as it allows them to process their emotions and experiences in a safe and supportive manner.

When combined with counselling, art therapy can provide children with the tools they need to improve their mental and physical health. Through art activities, children can explore their feelings in an accepting and non-judgmental environment where they can express themselves without fear of criticism or reprimand.

Introducing and Creating a Safe Space for Expressive Art Therapy

Expressive art therapy is a process that encourages children to explore their emotions and experiences through art. It is based on the idea that art activities can help children identify and express feelings, thoughts, and ideas that they may not be able to verbalise.

During art therapy sessions, the therapist will provide art materials such as paints, clay, paper, markers, and other creative tools for the child to work with. Art therapy needs to be done in a safe and comfortable environment. This means that art activities should be conducted in an area where children can feel secure and free from distractions.

The therapists should create an atmosphere free of judgment and encourage self-expression through art rather than focusing on the final product. They will also offer guidance and support to help the child understand their art better.

Different Types of Art Therapy Techniques

Expressive art therapy techniques are varied and can be tailored to meet children’s individual needs. Painting, drawing, sculpting, music, and dance are all art forms that can be used in art therapy sessions.

There is no “right” or “wrong” way to approach art therapy. Instead, art activities should be structured around a certain topic or goal. Through art activities such as creating art with clay, painting abstract art, or making collages, children can learn how to better understand themselves and their emotions.

Mental Benefits of Expressive Art Therapy for Kids

Besides helping children develop a better understanding of their emotions, art therapy can also help children understand the emotions of those around them, improve problem-solving skills, and gain confidence in themselves.

Expressive art therapy can be used to work through traumatic experiences or difficult emotions. Children can benefit from improved mental health, better communication skills, enhanced self-awareness, reduced stress levels and increased resilience.

Physical Development Using Various Art Modalities

Art can help improve motor skills and hand-eye coordination as art activities require children to use both hands and different parts of their bodies to create art. It can provide an outlet for physical expression which helps children to become more aware of how their bodies move in certain ways. This awareness often leads to an improved understanding of how their emotions manifest physically and how those feelings impact their behaviour.

This therapy is especially beneficial for children with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), attachment issues, trauma, or learning disabilities.

Encouraging Creative Exploration at Home

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Parents can also benefit from art therapy by encouraging creative exploration at home. This means providing children with art supplies or other materials that allow them to express their creativity. Parents can also take the time to sit down with their children and discuss their artwork together. Doing so helps validate the child’s feelings while allowing them to discuss whatever emotions they may have felt when creating it.

When engaging in art therapy at home, parents should remember that there is no right or wrong way for a child to express themselves through art. Creating art should be a fun and positive experience that allows children to explore their thoughts and feelings in a safe environment. With this approach, parents can help their children gain emotional self-awareness and improve communication skills.

Toxic Marvels: Human Venom Production and Its Startling Implications

Nadya Sharfina · February 28, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"Recent research into kallikreins – an enzyme in humans that is also found in snakes, scorpions, spiders and other venomous creatures."

It may sound like something out of a science fiction movie, but humans could one day be capable of producing venom. This fascinating scientific discovery has implications for both the medical and biological fields. Recent research into kallikreins – an enzyme in humans that is also found in snakes, scorpions, spiders and other venomous creatures – has opened up a new realm of possibilities when it comes to understanding how humans can produce their own unique type of venom. It is the beginning theory for potentially venomous humans.

From vampire bats with toxic saliva to platypuses with spurs on their hind legs, there are many examples of animals using venom for various purposes. But what about humans? Could we too be capable of wielding our own form of chemical weapon? The answer may surprise you! Read on to learn more about this incredible science behind humans being able to produce their venom.

Overview of Venom and Its Uses in Nature

In nature, venom serves a variety of important roles. From delivering powerful neurotoxins to immobilizing prey, venom has many uses and is incredibly effective when it comes to capturing or killing intended targets. Different species have evolved different versions of venom depending on their surroundings and what they need to do to survive. This adaptation of venom based on prey type and environment allows for increased hunting success and survival of the species.

For example, in the Sahara Desert floor where snakes hunt mostly mice, the venom acts mostly on the circulatory system as it is not difficult for a snake to track a dying mouse a short distance on flat ground. In nearby Rocky Mountains, where the snakes hunt mainly lizards, the venom is a potent neurotoxin because if the prey is not quickly immobilized, it can easily escape into a crack and be hidden away.

How Humans Might be Capable of Producing Their Own Venom

With the discovery of kallikreins in humans, scientists have found that humans are capable of producing their own unique type of venom. Kallikreins are proteins secreted by cells in many tissues and organs including skin, glands, and nerves.

The most commonly known form of human-produced venom is saliva which contains several kallikrein proteins that can have toxic effects. While humans do not have venomous fangs or claws like some animals, the toxic compounds present in our saliva are enough to cause pain or even death if ingested in large amounts.

Possible Uses for Human Venom

Scientists are not sure yet what other potential uses humans may be able to find for their venom, but they are hopeful that it could be used in the medical field. For example, researchers have theorized that venom-based drugs could potentially be used to target specific tissues or cells, such as cancer cells, and destroy them without harming other healthy tissues. It is also possible that humans may find new uses for their venom in areas such as pest control.

Ultimately, there is still much more research to be done before humans can take advantage of their venom production capabilities. However, this recent discovery certainly opens up an exciting new realm of possibilities when it comes to humans and their relationship with nature. Who knows what else we may uncover about our incredible bodies and the world around us?

Concluding Thoughts on Humans and Venom

Humans have a remarkable ability to understand and manipulate their genetic makeup, and this research into humans producing venom is certainly pushing the boundaries of science. Even though there are still many unknowns when it comes to humans producing venom, we can already see potential applications for medical treatments.

Humans may one day find themselves with an entirely new form of protection or even be able to use venom-based drugs to treat serious illnesses such as cancer. For now, all that is left to do is wait and see what will come from these groundbreaking discoveries about humans and venom.

The Dark Legacy of Pol Pot’s Terror Reign

Nadya Sharfina · February 27, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"Pol Pot and the Khmer Rouge were responsible for the deaths of an estimated 1.5 million to 3 million people in what has been referred to as The Killing Fields."

Pol Pot was one of history’s most notorious dictators, ruling Cambodia from 1975 to 1979 during the Cambodian Genocide. During his reign, Pol Pot and the Khmer Rouge were responsible for the deaths of an estimated 1.5 million to 3 million people in what has been referred to as ‘The Killing Fields’, where millions of Cambodians were forced to work in the countryside without mercy – suffering from starvation, dehydration, exhaustion and illness.

His rule ended when Vietnamese forces invaded Cambodia in 1979. He fled and lived out much of his remaining years on the Cambodian border with Thailand. In 2001, a tribunal was established by the Cambodian government to try leaders of the Khmer Rouge but Pol Pot evaded justice due to his death in 1998.

This article takes a look at Pol Pot’s rise and fall – from political beginnings until his ultimate demise – to explore how such a dark period could have ever occurred.

Pol Pot’s Early Years

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Pol Pot was born Saloth Sar on May 19th, 1925 in Prek Sbauv village near Phnom Penh, Cambodia. He was the eighth of nine children born to relatively prosperous parents. He attended a Buddhist monastery as a child and later studied radio technology. He adopted the name “Pol Pot” which means ‘brother number one’ or ‘great brother’ – an homage to his leadership role within the Communist Party of Kampuchea (CPK).

Pol Pot’s Ideology and Political Beginning

Pol Pot began his political career as a student in Paris in the late 1940s, where he was introduced to communism and Marxist–Leninist ideology. He was a fervent supporter of Marxist ideology and believed in the need for Cambodia’s economic, social, and political transformation. During this time, Pol Pot developed a vision of a utopian society based on agrarian communism, where Cambodia would be transformed into a self-sufficient, egalitarian society. Pol Pot’s commitment to Marxism would soon lead him back to Cambodia, where he aimed to put his ideas into practice.

He returned to Cambodia in 1953 and joined the communist movement that had recently formed in the country. His platform was heavily influenced by Marxist-Leninist thinking, advocating for socialist policies such as nationalization, collectivization, and an agricultural economy. In addition to implementing Marxist policies in Cambodia, Pol Pot also sought to create solidarity between neighbouring countries that shared similar communist ideals.

The Cambodian Genocide and Its Victims

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In 1960, Pol Pot and other members of CPK had become increasingly influential in Cambodian politics, eventually taking control of the government in 1975 with Pol Pot’s appointment as Prime Minister. During the Khmer Rouge’s reign of terror with Pol Pot firmly at its head, they implemented ‘Year Zero’ policies which included forced labor camps for those perceived as traitors or enemies of the regime. This led to what has become known as ‘The Killing Fields’. This was one of the darkest times in modern history with an estimated 1.5 million to 3 million people reported dead from execution, starvation, overwork, and torture.

This genocide was primarily seen as Pol Pot’s attempt at creating a pure agrarian society by forcibly removing educated city dwellers and people of different nationalities from Cambodia. Pol Pot and his Khmer Rouge forces were responsible for committing most of these atrocities. This was one of the most devastating genocides in human history.

The Fall of Pol Pot and Legacy

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Pol Pot’s rule ended abruptly when Vietnamese forces invaded Cambodia in 1979. He eventually died in 1998 under mysterious circumstances. It is widely believed that he died from natural causes. However, some historians suggest that he might have committed suicide or been poisoned since he was supposedly going to be turned over to Cambodian officials to face justice for his crimes.

The legacy of Pol Pot is one of tragedy and horror. His rule was marked by extreme violence, oppressive policies, and mass executions that killed millions. He had no remorse for his actions as evidenced by his final interview where he denied any involvement in the genocide despite overwhelming evidence to the contrary. His death ended a dark period in history but left behind countless victims who were scarred physically and emotionally from their experiences during Pol Pot’s time as a leader of Cambodia. The world should never forget what happened under Pol Pot’s regime, so we can ensure nothing like this ever happens again.

Travel Through Time to the Pyramids of Egypt

Nadya Sharfina · February 23, 2023 · Leave a Comment

"From Khufu’s Great Pyramid at Giza to Pepy II’s pyramid at Saqqara, these structures remain some of the most impressive feats of engineering ever accomplished by human hands."

For centuries, the majestic pyramid structures of ancient Egypt have captivated the imaginations of people around the world. These monumental tombs were constructed as monuments to honour pharaohs and their families, while also serving as symbols of power and stability in Egyptian society.

For thousands of years after their construction, these massive monuments were unrivalled in height and fascinated us with their astounding mass and unachievable perfection. From Khufu’s Great Pyramid at Giza to Pepy II’s pyramid at Saqqara, these structures remain some of the most impressive feats of engineering ever accomplished by human hands.

Join us on an incredible journey through time as we explore the history and mystery surrounding Egypt’s iconic pyramids.

Overview of Ancient Egyptian Pyramids

The pyramid structures of ancient Egypt were built by the great pharaohs of the Old Kingdom period. These monuments served as burial tombs for the pharaoh and their families and represented immense power and stability within pyramid-building societies.

The three pyramids of Giza – Khufu, Khafre, and Menkaure – are perhaps one of the most iconic pyramid complexes in ancient Egypt. Built during a span from roughly 2550 to 2490 B.C., these pyramids are believed to have been constructed by thousands of labourers who quarried, cut, transported, and assembled an estimated approximately 2.3 million blocks (weighing an average of 2.5 to 15 tons) of limestone and granite.

Ancient Egyptians’ Beliefs and Religion

The pyramid structures of ancient Egypt have long been associated with beliefs surrounding death, rebirth, and the afterlife – beliefs that were deeply rooted in ancient Egyptian religion. In this society, where life on Earth was often seen as a brief passage between the eternal realms of life and death, pyramid-shaped tombs were believed to be vehicles by which the deceased could ascend into the afterlife.

It is thought that pyramid structures served both religious and political purposes, offering protection for pharaohs in their journey through the afterlife while also functioning as impressive reminders of their power during their lifetime.

Pyramid Construction & Technology

The pyramid construction began in earnest during the Fourth Dynasty when King Sneferu (2575-2465 BC) first introduced a pyramid shape for royal tombs—a dramatic shift from earlier tomb designs.

Through experience gained from building pyramids at Dahshur and Meidum, pyramid builders developed better techniques to construct these massive structures, including accurately levelling the pyramid’s base, lining up its sides with true north, and creating smooth slopes that rise to meet at a single point.

While some scholars believe that the ancient Egyptians used pulleys and levers to move the stones into place, others suggest they may have employed more creative methods, such as water basins, sleds, and earthen ramps to construct the pyramid.

Mystery and Allure Surrounding the Pyramids

Although pyramid construction ended with the death of King Pepi II, the Second King of the Sixth Dynasty, these monuments remain shrouded in mystery. Some have suggested that pyramid structures were built by advanced aliens or had supernatural powers, while others believe they served some sort of religious purpose.

What secrets do they hold about ancient Egyptian society? Are they evidence of a lost civilisation or are they simply impressive architectural reminders of a great and powerful culture that rose, flourished, and ultimately declined along the banks of the Nile River? Only time will tell as we continue to unravel their mysteries.

Exploring Egypt’s Iconic Pyramids Today

Today, pyramid structures are still a major tourist attraction in Egypt, attracting millions of visitors each year. From guided tours and private excursions to camel rides and hot-air balloon trips, modern travellers have no shortage of ways to explore these iconic monuments. Additionally, many ancient Egyptian religious practices and beliefs continue to influence modern-day spirituality and culture in Egypt and worldwide.

Although tomb robbers and vandals have stripped most of these monuments of their original limestone coverings and plundered many of the interiors, they remain potent reminders of Egypt’s impressive history and engineering feats. The pyramids still stand today as a testament to a great civilization that once ruled over this part of the world, a civilization whose mysteries continue to fascinate people centuries after its golden age had passed into history.